57 episodes

Welcome to 'The Tea'—your hilarious rendezvous with Joe Betance, Jay Ellis, and Lauri Roggenkamp, where queer comedy reigns supreme! Join this dynamic trio from sunny LA as they spill the tea on their lives, dissect the hottest pop culture moments, and serve up sassy commentary with a side of laughter. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or just love a good laugh, get ready for a podcast that's bold, witty, and fabulously entertaining.

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    • Comedy
    • 5.0 • 8 Ratings

Welcome to 'The Tea'—your hilarious rendezvous with Joe Betance, Jay Ellis, and Lauri Roggenkamp, where queer comedy reigns supreme! Join this dynamic trio from sunny LA as they spill the tea on their lives, dissect the hottest pop culture moments, and serve up sassy commentary with a side of laughter. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or just love a good laugh, get ready for a podcast that's bold, witty, and fabulously entertaining.

    Season 5. Episode 10.

    Season 5. Episode 10.

    In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss attending a concert and their impressions of the performers. They also talk about their preferences in physical appearance and jokingly discuss sleeping with Kelly Clarkson. The conversation then shifts to their experiences at comedy schools and their thoughts on the Groundlings and UCB. They also experiment with an AI text-to-sound effects program. The hosts briefly discuss Lauri's upcoming surgery and the possibility of having children. The conversation covers various topics, including the possibility of removing Lauri's uterus, adoption, artificial insemination, and personal grooming habits. Lauri discusses her concerns about potential health risks and the adoption process. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of their relationship and the acts of service they do for each other. The conversation covers various topics, including personal health issues, genetic testing, and the process of getting a colonoscopy. The hosts share their experiences and opinions on these subjects. In this final part of the conversation, the hosts discuss various topics, including a potential bachelorette party, attending a retirement party, and the book 'Atomic Habits.' The conversation ends with plans for the upcoming weeks.
    Chapters
    00:00 Live Concert Experiences and Performer Impressions
    02:54 Comparing Comedy Schools: Groundlings vs. UCB
    04:39 Experimenting with AI Text-to-Sound Effects
    14:22 Lauri's Upcoming Surgery and the Decision to Have Children
    23:47 The Complexities of the Adoption Process
    29:35 Acts of Service: Expressions of Love and Care
    38:11 Personal Health Issues
    40:23 Genetic Testing
    44:58 The Process of Getting a Colonoscopy
    53:53 Dealing with Bodily Fluids and Messes
    01:01:29 Planning a Memorable Bachelorette Party
    01:04:13 Navigating Family Events and Preferences
    01:11:03 The Power of Atomic Habits
    01:19:48 Upcoming Plans and Events
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    • 1 hr 10 min
    Season 5. Episode 9.

    Season 5. Episode 9.

    In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss various topics including the Vanderpump Rules restaurant, personal safety measures, and Jay's recent trip to Japan. They also touch on Lauri's past experiences with tasers and her broken pinky toes. In this part of the conversation, Jay discusses his experience in Japan and his ongoing court case. He mentions that he didn't wear tank tops in Japan because tattoos are associated with the Yakuza and are frowned upon. He also talks about his stay at a fancy hotel called Ryokan and the strict rules regarding tattoos and clothing. Jay then transitions to discussing his court case, where the defendant didn't show up and he won by default. However, there was a technicality regarding the ownership of the chairs, so he has to refile the case with his boss as the plaintiff. In this final part of the conversation, the hosts discuss various random topics, including Lauri's interactions with Star, her dad's medical procedure, and Joe's recent trip to Disneyland. They also share funny stories and jokes, showcasing their playful banter.
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Nostalgia
    02:26 Discussion about Vanderpump Rules Restaurant
    09:10 Personal Safety Measures
    12:38 Jay's Adventures in Japan
    16:07 Lauri's Taser Tales and Broken Pinky Toes
    38:12 The Court Case
    45:45 Blaming Jay for the Chairs
    48:00 Lauri's Interactions with Star and Dad's Medical Procedure
    53:20 Joe's Trip to Disneyland and Inappropriate Behavior
    57:05 Funny Stories and Jokes
    01:03:07 Relaxed and Casual Dynamic

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    • 1 hr 14 min
    Season 5. Episode 8.

    Season 5. Episode 8.

    In this episode of The Tea, Joe, Jay, and Laurian discuss their recent experiences, including Joe's father cutting off his finger and Jay's apartment being broken into. They share the details of these events and the aftermath, including the police investigation and the steps they took to handle the situations. Despite the challenges, they find moments of humor and resilience. The conversation covers various topics, including the aftermath of a break-in, the loss of a family member, and a feud between family members. The principal themes include the emotional impact of traumatic events, the importance of boundaries and communication in relationships, and the complexities of family dynamics. In this final part of the conversation, Lauri discusses her experiences during her trip to Chicago for her brother's funeral. She shares anecdotes about her flight, her interactions with family and friends, and the eulogy given by Lauri's father. They also touch on the topic of grief and how people react to it differently. The conversation ends with some lighthearted moments and compliments from Jeremy.
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction
    12:10 Joe's Father's Finger Incident
    39:05 Police Investigation and Resilience
    40:52 The Aftermath of a Break-In
    48:14 Dealing with Loss and Grief
    01:09:26 A Feud Between Family Members
    01:19:38 The Funeral and Family Dynamics
    01:22:34 Trip to Chicago and Flight Anecdotes
    01:24:21 Interactions with Family and Friends
    01:26:07 Eulogy and Unusual Requests
    01:33:11 Coping with Humor and Lighthearted Moments
    01:49:45 Support and Compliments from Jeremy

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    • 2 hr 2 min
    Season 5. Episode 7.

    Season 5. Episode 7.

    Jay shares the ongoing saga of trying to retrieve vintage chairs that were sent for cleaning but have not been returned. He recounts the lack of communication and unfulfilled promises from the cleaner, leading him to file a small claims court case. In this conversation, Jay discusses his ongoing dispute with a furniture seller who has failed to deliver the chairs he purchased. He shares the frustrating communication he has had with the seller, including broken promises and lack of response. Jay expresses his desire to take the seller to court and highlights the importance of documenting all interactions for evidence. He also discusses other unrelated topics, such as a customer service issue with an online order and microaggressions experienced in social settings.
    Chapters
    00:00 The Chairs Go Missing
    26:41 Legal Action and Frustration
    33:00 Filing a Small Claims Court Case
    35:40 Demanding the Return of the Chairs
    36:36 Awaiting Inspection and Resolution
    36:44 The Frustrating Dispute
    53:07 Experiencing Microaggressions
    58:13 Furious After Recording
    01:02:05 Microaggressions from White Liberals
    01:09:49 Language and Pronunciation
    01:12:05 Being a Union Representative
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    • 1 hr 16 min
    Season 5. Episode 6.

    Season 5. Episode 6.

    In this conversation, Joe, Lauri, and Jay discuss various topics, including neti pots, sinus relief, movie experiences, tipping etiquette, and TikTok hate towards JLo. They also share personal stories about encounters with strangers and ordering mishaps. The conversation is light-hearted and filled with humor. In this conversation, Joe and his guests discuss various topics, including car classifications, family stories, wedding costs, and tax breaks. They also touch on the challenges of being a server and the importance of tipping. Joe shares a story about John Paul considering marriage for tax benefits, and Lauri teases a story that she refuses to share. The conversation ends with a discussion about Aidan and Joe's decision to reconnect.
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction
    01:57 Neti Pots and Sinus Relief
    06:07 Movie Experiences and Celebrity Encounters
    13:04 Tipping Etiquette and Ordering Mishaps
    38:51 Car Classifications
    41:38 Money and Weddings
    44:22 Wedding Costs
    50:08 Mysterious Story
    55:06 Tax Breaks and Marriage
    01:05:58 Reconnecting with Aidan
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    • 1 hr 18 min
    Season 5. Episode 5.

    Season 5. Episode 5.

    In this conversation, the hosts discuss various topics including personal anecdotes, celebrity news, and the departure of a friend. They also touch on the Willy Wonka experience and RuPaul's bookstore controversy. In this conversation, Joe, Jay, and Lauri share funny anecdotes and stories. They discuss a failed podcast recording, the challenges of maintaining friendships, family drama, and miscommunications. The conversation is light-hearted and filled with laughter.
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes
    05:03 Celebrity News: Jonathan Van Ness and Queer Eye
    09:43 The Willy Wonka Experience
    34:47 The Departure of a Friend
    38:44 The Bummer of a Failed Podcast Recording
    39:13 The Challenges of Maintaining Friendships
    40:12 Family Drama and Miscommunications
    49:16 The Hilarious Dentist Story
    52:22 When Miscommunications Lead to Funny Situations
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    • 1 hr 21 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
8 Ratings

8 Ratings

tavo_rbls ,

Great chemistry

Joe, Lauri, and Jay are the perfect combo for irreverent and hilarious conversations. I encourage everyone to go back and listen to every episode. It’s an embarrassment of riches!

TravvyCosmos ,

Great fun!

Love love LOVE listening to the conversations the three hosts have. Terrific chemistry amongst the entire group. It’s like eavesdropping on really interesting and entertaining strangers but with a bit of personal investment involved. The perfect “fly on the wall” podcast experience. Highest recommendation!

Jaxrome930 ,

Best podcast around!

This podcast is so consistently funny! They have the best hosts 🤩

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