Wild Sobriety

Mary Wagstaff
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Wild Sobriety is a podcast about clear seeing and feminine freedom beyond alcohol. Hosted by expert holistic alcohol coach Mary Wagstaff, creator of the proven 5 Shifts of Feminine Sobriety, this show guides women who are ready to go beyond alcohol, reclaim their full, authentic feminine expression with sobriety made simple. Through grounded spirituality, mindset shifts, and transformational tools, Wild Sobriety offers inspiration and clarity for women ready to live fully awake—beyond alcohol, beyond the script, and back into their power. Watch the podcast on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@marywagstaffholisticwellness Want to find relief in less time than it takes to pour a drink? 60 Seconds To Calm Is How you do it. Grab the free guid here: https://marywagstaffcoach.com/urgetracking Work with Mary: https://marywagstaffcoach.com/ ⚠️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical treatment, therapy, or professional healthcare advice. I am not a doctor. If you are at risk of harming yourself or your health, please call your doctor, 911, or a local emergency line right away. In the U.S., you can also dial or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

  1. 5 天前

    Blindspot #1: Why Avoiding Alcohol Keeps You Stuck (5-Part Series)🌹

    This is Part 1 of a 5 part series: The 5 Blindspots Secretly Sabotaging Your Sobriety.  I share  the three key reasons why distraction and replacement don’t lead to lasting change. Discover how to confront your beliefs, meet your real needs, and break free from the exhaustion of avoidance. Join me for a feminine-based approach to sustainable sobriety and start living your wildest, alcohol-free life! • why avoidance keeps you attached to alcohol • the belief ladder and confirmation bias • planning mindset and body state for events • case study of a date night that disproves a story • the relaxation myth vs real nervous system shifts • exhaustion from controlling environments • replacing rumination with evaluation and skills • focusing on thoughts, emotions, and actions you control 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back  🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    16 分鐘

  2. 10月22日

    Stop Asking 'Am I An Alcoholic?' - Ask THIS Instead

    If you're a woman over wondering "Am I an alcoholic?" - you're not alone. This is the question that keeps so many of us stuck in shame, confusion, and endless Google searches at 2am. In this video, I'm sharing the truth about labels, the spectrum of alcohol use, and why the question itself might be keeping you from the freedom you're seeking. 🌹 IN TODAY'S VIDEO: • Why the label "alcoholic" doesn't serve women  • The real question you should be asking instead   • How to know if alcohol is enhancing or diminishing your life • The grey area drinking spectrum (and where you might be) • Your next steps toward clarity without shame or rock bottom This isn't about diagnosis or labels. It's about giving yourself permission to explore your relationship with alcohol - wherever you are on the journey. You don't need to hit rock bottom to decide alcohol isn't working for you anymore. You can choose sobriety as personal evolution, not punishment. 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    14 分鐘

  3. 10月15日

    Why Anxious Attachment Makes You Drink More (And How to Break the Cycle)

    Hey beautiful Warriors of Love, it’s Mary — and this week’s episode goes deep into something so many of us experience but rarely name out loud. Have you ever noticed that even when you’re usually grounded, there are certain relationships or moments that throw you off balance — where you start overthinking, over-explaining, or trying to control what you can’t? That’s what we’re talking about today. I’m opening up about a recent personal experience that cracked my heart open in new ways — and how even through uncertainty, alcohol never once crossed my mind. I share how my sobriety and the Five Shifts I teach gave me the tools to meet that moment with softness, not shame. You’ll hear how anxious attachment and drinking can feed off each other… and why the real path to peace isn’t about “fixing” anyone else, but coming back to your values, your boundaries, and your truth. This episode is about resilience, emotional maturity, and learning to be with yourself — even when everything feels uncertain. Takeaways: The surprising link between anxious attachment and drinkingHow over-explaining keeps you disconnected from your powerWhy saying “no” can be the most loving thing you doWhat it means to find safety in silence instead of distractionHow to start trusting yourself again — no matter what’s happening around you💬 I’d love to know what resonates most for you — leave a comment or message me on YouTube so we can keep this conversation going. 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts, or watch the full episode on YouTube: 👉 Wild Sobriety — Feminine Freedom Beyond Alcohol 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    22 分鐘

  4. 10月8日

    Your Future Is Riding On It , New Chapter, Life Update

    To all my Warriors of Love — this is for you. After a break for integration and creation, I’m back with a brand-new title, a new direction, and a new way for us to connect. Wild Sobriety is expanding to YouTube — not as a performance, but as a deeper conversation. In this episode, I share why I made the shift, what “wild sobriety” truly means, and how I’m integrating everything I’ve learned through my own healing, partnership, and growth.  This is a love letter to everyone who’s been on the journey with me — those who’ve listened, drifted, returned, and kept the flame of curiosity alive. In this episode: Why I’m taking Wild Sobriety to YouTube for real-time connection and communityWhat “wild sobriety” means beyond not drinking — clear seeing, emotional maturity, and radical responsibilityHow silence became my greatest teacher during a season of uncertainty and healingThe truth about transformation, patience, and trusting divine timingA personal update about love, addiction, and choosing dignity over over-explaining🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    31 分鐘

  5. 8月27日

    How to Support a Loved One Through Addiction (Without Losing Yourself) with Amber Hollingsworth

    What happens when your sobriety collides with a loved one’s addiction? In this episode, I talk with addiction specialist Amber Hollingsworth about how to support someone struggling without enabling, the truth about boundaries, and how to protect your own wellbeing in the process. What happens when I’m navigating my own sobriety while someone I love is still caught in addiction’s grip? In this episode, I sit down with addiction specialist Amber Hollingsworth, founder of Put the Shovel Down, to talk about what it really looks like to support a loved one through addiction without losing yourself in the process. Amber shares why the belief that “you can’t help until they want it” keeps families stuck, the powerful difference between boundaries and rules, and how anger and control can actually fuel addiction. With 20+ years of experience, she brings a compassionate, strength-based approach that focuses on what is working instead of only on the problems. I also open up about my own experience discovering a partner’s hidden addiction—the betrayal, confusion, and self-doubt it created—and Amber breaks down the psychology behind denial and delusion so you can finally understand what’s really happening in your loved one’s mind. ✨ You’ll hear: How to support loved ones without enablingWhy boundaries protect you (and why they’re not rules)The sneaky ways anger and control can actually backfireWhy women in over-functioning roles often turn to substances as an escape valveHow reclaiming your feminine energy shifts the entire dynamicIf you’ve ever felt responsible for carrying the weight of someone else’s addiction, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to protect your own wellbeing. ✨ Don’t miss the free resource in the show notes: 60 Seconds to Calm — the same quick practice I use to ground myself in moments of overwhelm. About Amber Hollingsworth Amber Hollingsworth is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Master Addiction Counselor, and the founder of the popular YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down. With over 20 years of experience, she specializes in helping families understand addiction, create effective boundaries, and support recovery without falling into enabling patterns. Her strength-based, practical approach empowers families to stop feeling helpless and start creating meaningful change. Connect with Amber: 🌐 Website: hopeforefamiliesrecoverycenter.com📺 YouTube: The Sobriety Starter Kit is 40% off through November 7th. It’s the final chapter of this era and the beginning of The Permission Era — where you stop waiting for the right time and start giving yourself permission to feel good now. Sobriety is simple when you have the right tools — and this is where it begins. START HERE 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    59 分鐘

  6. 8月20日

    Why You Should Stop Chasing Solutions

    Calm isn’t just a mood—it’s the baseline your body must return to if you want to break free from the cycle of drinking. When you’re stuck in overwhelm—overthinking, overworking, and over-giving—your nervous system never resets. That constant stress is exactly what makes pouring a glass of wine at the end of the day feel so tempting. Here’s the truth most sobriety methods miss: alcohol was never the problem. It was just your body’s quick fix for a frazzled nervous system. The deeper issue is self-abandonment—constantly outsourcing your energy, trying to hold everything together with willpower, and disconnecting from your feminine wisdom. That’s what fuels the decision fatigue, the mental load, and the endless responsibilities that make you want to check out. The feminine way flips the script. Instead of piling on more rules, tools, and self-improvement hacks, what if you simply learned to generate calm from within? A few small shifts—like softening your breath, feeling the support of your back body, and asking, “How would my Calm Queen respond here?”—create the safety your brain has been chasing in a bottle. ✨ Key Takeaways from this episode: Calm is your true superpower—it dissolves the urge to numb.Alcohol is not the root problem—it’s a nervous system coping mechanism.The feminine way isn’t about doing more, it’s about feeling safe enough to do less.Simple daily practices can rewire your body to choose calm over craving.When you feel safe in your own skin, you don’t need a drink to take the edge off—you have a the CALM codes with in you.  👉 Ready to test this out in real life? Download my free guide “60 Seconds to Calm” in the show notes. It works faster than a drink—and it actually gives you your power back. The Sobriety Starter Kit is 40% off through November 7th. It’s the final chapter of this era and the beginning of The Permission Era — where you stop waiting for the right time and start giving yourself permission to feel good now. Sobriety is simple when you have the right tools — and this is where it begins. START HERE 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    19 分鐘

  7. 8月13日

    Your Basic Needs Have Changed-Releasing the Need to Belong

    Ever wonder why quitting alcohol feels like a full-on identity shift? It’s because sobriety isn’t just about abstaining—it’s about reclaiming the parts of you that got buried under performance, people-pleasing, and perfectionism. In this episode, we explore why alcohol is often just a placeholder for authenticity, and how perimenopause marks a powerful rite of passage—not a crisis, but a coronation. You’ll walk away with: A deeper understanding of why your nervous system craves authenticity over belongingHow midlife and sobriety unlock your next level of leadership, pleasure, and personal powerThe sneaky ways achievement can become the “new numbing”What it actually means to access your feminine essence—without a drink in your handThis is your sacred invitation to come home to yourself. ✨ Your next evolution of awakened empowerment starts now. The Sobriety Starter Kit is 40% off through November 7th. It’s the final chapter of this era and the beginning of The Permission Era — where you stop waiting for the right time and start giving yourself permission to feel good now. Sobriety is simple when you have the right tools — and this is where it begins. START HERE 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    21 分鐘

  8. 8月6日

    How You Know You Don't Have A Drinking Problem

    What if nothing’s actually “wrong”—you’re just seeing it from an outdated perspective? In this episode, you'll learn how to interrupt spirals of stress, resentment, or drinking urges without needing to fix anyone else or wait for the perfect conditions. We’ll explore: The mindset shift that instantly diffuses urges to numbWhy “it’s just a thought” can be the most liberating realizationHow to take radical responsibility without bypassing your emotionsThe Sacred Pause process that rewires your nervous system from reactivity to trustThis isn’t about giving up alcohol—it’s about giving up the need to abandon yourself. 🔗 Tap the show notes to grab your free urge guide or book a consultation to learn how the Sacred Pause Method can change your relationship with alcohol—and everything else. The Sobriety Starter Kit is 40% off through November 7th. It’s the final chapter of this era and the beginning of The Permission Era — where you stop waiting for the right time and start giving yourself permission to feel good now. Sobriety is simple when you have the right tools — and this is where it begins. START HERE 🌹Schedule A Free Private Strategy Session With Mary Today and Take Your Power Back Wild Sobriety Is Now On YOUTUBE! Please come over and subscribe! Find Relief In Less Time Than It Takes To Pour A Drink: Get the Free Guide Here. DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

    22 分鐘
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Wild Sobriety is a podcast about clear seeing and feminine freedom beyond alcohol. Hosted by expert holistic alcohol coach Mary Wagstaff, creator of the proven 5 Shifts of Feminine Sobriety, this show guides women who are ready to go beyond alcohol, reclaim their full, authentic feminine expression with sobriety made simple. Through grounded spirituality, mindset shifts, and transformational tools, Wild Sobriety offers inspiration and clarity for women ready to live fully awake—beyond alcohol, beyond the script, and back into their power. Watch the podcast on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@marywagstaffholisticwellness Want to find relief in less time than it takes to pour a drink? 60 Seconds To Calm Is How you do it. Grab the free guid here: https://marywagstaffcoach.com/urgetracking Work with Mary: https://marywagstaffcoach.com/ ⚠️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical treatment, therapy, or professional healthcare advice. I am not a doctor. If you are at risk of harming yourself or your health, please call your doctor, 911, or a local emergency line right away. In the U.S., you can also dial or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

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  • 創作者
    Mary Wagstaff
  • 活躍年代
    2020年 - 2025年
  • 集數
    330
  • 年齡分級
    兒少適宜
  • 版權
    © 2025 Wild Sobriety
  • 節目網站
    Wild Sobriety

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