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We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

Birds and Bees Don't Fck Arielle Zadok

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 26 Ratings

We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

    Sex Positive Moms (w/ Dr. Alix Agar)

    Sex Positive Moms (w/ Dr. Alix Agar)

    Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.
    In this episode we talk about:
    02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases! 26:23 Harm Reduction!! 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist! 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined! 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity 59:40 Find Your Community and Get Support You can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
     
    LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
     
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Strip Your Shame Away (w/ Miss Spent Youth)

    Strip Your Shame Away (w/ Miss Spent Youth)

    Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods!
    In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more!
    You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losangelesburlesque.com/
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    Los Angeles! If you’re a femme looking to build confidence, heal your relationship to your body and tap into your sensuality, join me THIS Sunday April 28th for an Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance workshop in Downtown LA. Details & registration:
    https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
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    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 16 min
    The Boob Episode (w/ Amanda G. Savage)

    The Boob Episode (w/ Amanda G. Savage)

    Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan.
    Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom, their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand.
    In this episode we talk about:
    The great G Savage Yelling at men on stage Boobs! Imagine having a different pair every day?! Respecting pussy gets you EVERYWHERE Decision fatigue in dating Growing up wanting to pee standing up (relatable) Prioritizing pleasure Society’s perception of sexual expression Refractory periods… what are they? You can find Amanda on Instagram at @amandagsavage on TikTok at @gsavagetalks and her website www.AmandaGSavage.com
    LA you can see Amanda live on April 25th at Holy Water in WeHo for the G Savage Talks premier! Get tickets here!
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
    4/28 Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance Workshop Registration: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
    Check out other upcoming Sensuality workshops at www.ariellezadok.com/workshops
    Join the mailing list for weekly Sex(y) Education sent straight to your inbox! www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
     
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie (or a Daddy, whatever).
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 3 min
    The Truth About Sex Work (w/ ShelBee)

    The Truth About Sex Work (w/ ShelBee)

    ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity!
    In this episode we talk about:
    03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!! 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors! 25:31 First Sexual Experiences 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work Community You can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you’re lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
     
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
     
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Planting Sexy Seeds (W/ Dr. Nazanin Moali)

    Planting Sexy Seeds (W/ Dr. Nazanin Moali)

    Dr. Nazanin Moali is a Clinical Psychologist, Sex Therapist and Host of the Sexology podcast originally from Iran where sex education was TRULY non-existent.
    In this episode we talk about:
    00:00 The Importance of Different Perspectives 03:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships 07:15 The Impact of Nonverbal Communication 10:06 Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy and Mental Health 12:04 The Influence of Trauma on Sexual Health 15:47 Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education 26:41 Transitioning to Sex Therapy 28:20 Healing from Eating Disorders and Rediscovering Pleasure 31:17 The Importance of Pleasure 36:31 Cultivating Pleasure in Different Areas of Life 41:21 Creating Sensual Spaces 44:57 The Menu of Options 50:12 The Importance of Communication and Planning in Sex 55:44 Cultivating Desire and Erotic Mind You can find Dr. Nazanin on Instagram at @sexologypodcast, her website https://sexologypodcast.com/ and wherever you get your podcasts.
     
    The Yes / No / Maybe list we talk about can be found at:  www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
    And the erotic menu can be found at https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/
     
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
     
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
     
    And if you want to say “thanks babe” you can buy me a coffee! 

    • 58 min
    Sex Ed Video Star (w/ Christine Medrano)

    Sex Ed Video Star (w/ Christine Medrano)

    Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it!
    In this episode we talk about:
    03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video! 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it’s an STI clinic! 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality 10:03 There wasn’t any sex ed at her Catholic school, but there WAS an abortion video! 11:27 Lack of Knowledge about Tampons 13:08 The Importance of Openness and Humor in Sex Education 13:28 The TV Show 'Big Mouth' 14:27 Why you need to consider using Organic Tampons 19:14 Give us pain killers during IUD Insertion! 21:09 Arielle’s alcohol allergy and birth control 23:23 The Neglect of Female Pleasure in Medicine 26:35 The Impact of Shame and Lack of Masturbation Education 29:47 Coercion and Manipulation in Sexual Experiences 35:27 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility 38:21 Openness and Communication in Relationships 47:06 Generational Differences in Views on Sex and Romance 52:09 The Evolution of Romance and Communication 57:37 Reflecting on Traumatic Events 58:06 The ending you were all hoping for.. Ruby the cat Brings us an Avocado You can find Christine on Instagram at @chrissymeds and her website http://www.christinemedrano.com/
     
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
     
    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
     
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
     
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
     
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 58 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
26 Ratings

26 Ratings

TrueLove16 ,

Save the Bees!

As someone who never got the birds and bees talk from their parents, so jazzed to have Arielle and company in my life.

stevenfage ,

On a mission!

Arielle is on a mission to change the world and has a keen sense for the creative space with her many years in the producing. Key for anyone in this space. 🙌🏼

That's cool lol ,

Amazing podcast!!!

Arielle is on a mission to help people grow in all ways of life. She is passionate, funny, extremely fun to listen to, and deeply dedicated to passing on the wisdom she has picked up along her journey through life. I’m excited to see this podcast grow so her message and amazing interviews can touch more lives!

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