The Mango Times

Fletch

The Mango Times Podcast is where midlife curiosity meets adventure, humor, and human stories. Hosted by Fletch, the show features thoughtful conversations, great banter, and stories from the porch to the open road. In Season 6, each episode explores what it looks like to wake up in the second half of life and decide there’s still plenty of adventure left...through interviews, personal reflections, recurring segments, and a little bit of well-earned shtick. New episodes drop every other week and stay under 45 minutes. Pull up a chair, hop on the back of the bike and join the conversation.

  1. Open An Indie Bookstore? Sounds Like A Story!

    APR 27

    Open An Indie Bookstore? Sounds Like A Story!

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! Most people say they want more community. Will and Paula DeBoard actually built it...one shelf at a time...by opening Bookish Modesto, an independent bookstore in Modesto, California, at a time when most people think bookstores are disappearing. During this interview, I kept coming back to the same idea: books don’t just sell stories. They create an environment where people start recognizing and reconnecting with each other. We talk about the moment their bookstore idea stopped being a fun dinner conversation and became a real plan, along with the practical reality of starting a small business without a traditional retail background. Paula shares how she learned the behind-the-scenes work—inventory, systems, all of it—while Will gets candid about what it felt like to take a leap after a lifetime of steady work. From there, we go straight at the Amazon question: What does a local bookstore provides that online shopping never will? The answer might surprise you. Events, story times, local authors, and a store with an actual point of view. If you’ve been thinking about a midlife pivot, building something local, or investing in community, this one will resonate. If you enjoy the conversation, send me a voicemail/text, subscribe to The Mango Times, share it with a friend who loves books, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show. ⸻ Guest Information Paula and Will DeBoard  are the founders of Bookish Modesto, an independent bookstore in Modesto’s college area. Leaving more traditional career paths, they built a space centered on books, community, and connection—now a gathering place for readers, writers, and neighbors looking for something more than just a transaction. Resources and Links Facebook: Bookish Modesto Website: Bookish Modesto Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a voicemail/text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. Support the show

    38 min
  2. The Mango Times Origin Story

    APR 13

    The Mango Times Origin Story

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! This bonus episode of The Mango Times Podcast comes from an interview I recently had with Kevin Delaney. During the interview, he asked about the origin of The Mango Times. I kept it simple and pulled that audio to make a simple episode for my listeners. This bonus drop is the raw origin story, pulled straight from a conversation and left unpolished on purpose. From early blogging days to a homeschool podcast where we chose the hard topics instead of the safe ones, I walk through the pivots that brought me here, including the long pursuit of a conversation with Josh Harris (I Kissed Dating Goodbye) and what that moment taught me about harm, apology, and honesty. If you care about storytelling, starting a podcast, or building community without pretending you have it all figured out, you’ll hear how one small creative habit can compound into something bigger than you planned. We also dig into the heart of the show: adventure at midlife. I push back on the shallow “midlife crisis” label, talk about motorcycles as just one expression of a lifelong pattern of exploring, and share what grief, 2020, and disillusionment with broken institutions did to my sense of direction. The thread that keeps me grounded is what my wife calls a “ministry of conversation” making space for people who are hungry for real connection. New feature: You can now text me or leave a one-minute voicemail, and I can drop your voice into a future episode. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s reinventing themselves, and leave a review then tell me: what project are you finally ready to start? ⸻ Guest Information No Guests This Episode Resources and Links A Brief History of The Mango Times Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text/voicemail and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    11 min
  3. Canoeing The Mississippi Was The Easy Part

    MAR 30

    Canoeing The Mississippi Was The Easy Part

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! A 2,200-mile canoe trip sounds like the wild part, until you hear what Dave Conway walked away from to get on the water. After nearly 40 years in the same role at the same church, Dave hits the midlife moment a lot of people quietly fear: the life you built no longer fits, and staying comfortable starts to feel like losing yourself. What follows is not a tidy “reinvention story” but a real one, full of faith, doubt, and the kind of courage that shows up before you have a plan. We talk through what it actually takes to canoe the full length of the Mississippi River from Lake Itasca to the Gulf of Mexico: dragging through shallow headwaters, portaging around dams, calling in to locks, sharing water with barges, and paddling nine to twelve hours a day. Dave also names the gritty realities that don’t make highlight reels, like brutal wind, mosquitoes, and the unnerving chaos of jumping Asian carp. Along the way, he notices the human side of America too, from “Minnesota nice” distance to the warmth of Southern hospitality. But the heart of the conversation is a spiritual and emotional turning point. A book, a story about a sunk canoe, and one clear inner message reshape how Dave sees his work, his calling, and what it means to “let go.” We also dig into his Pacific Crest Trail experience, motorcycles, racing, and why adventure can become a vehicle for clarity in the second half of life. If you’re searching for midlife adventure, career change at 60, faith and uncertainty, or the courage to start over, this one will stay with you. ⸻ Guest Information Dave Conway lives in Modesto, California with his wife, Tanya, and they have two grown sons. He spent nearly 40 years working at a local church before stepping into a new season of life. At heart, Dave is an adventurer, with experiences that include canoeing the Mississippi River, riding a motorcycle to the Arctic Ocean, hiking the Pacific Crest Trail, and racing cars. When he’s not on the road or trail, he’s often building something in his shop or serving at his church. If you ask Dave what’s next, he’ll tell you: “Who knows, but I’m sure something interesting is about to come up. Resources and Links Instagram: Dave Conway Instagram: Dead Horse Riders YouTube: Go Waldo Go - Pacific Crest Trail Book Mentioned: The Last Arrow Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    57 min
  4. Doctors Said He Had 24 Hours to Live

    MAR 16

    Doctors Said He Had 24 Hours to Live

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! Kevin Delaney on Living Life Intentionally He was once given 24 hours to live. Eighteen years later, Kevin Delaney is still using that moment as fuel, not fear and his story will make you rethink what “prime” really means in midlife. Kevin and I go back to the Bay Area in the 1980s, long before he chased rock-and-roll dreams, worked in nonprofit ministry, and eventually rose through high tech to become a LinkedIn VP. But the turning point isn’t a promotion or a title. It’s a coma, a liver transplant, and the clarity that life is fragile and life is precious. We talk about how to stop shriveling in the daily grind, how to build a life with meaning even inside corporate work, and why relationships are the only real scoreboard. Now “retired,” Kevin is focused on health span, not just lifespan. You’ll hear about his family’s hilarious and brilliant 50-before-50 list, the quest to see all 50 states, and the unexpected choice to buy John Steinbeck’s house and then finally read Steinbeck. We also get real about fear, aging, loss, and the simple mantra that cuts through excuses: now is life. If you’ve been waiting for “someday” to travel, create, reconnect, or take the leap, let this be the nudge. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs encouragement, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts so more listeners can find these stories. ⸻ Guest Information Kevin Delaney is a former technology executive, leadership strategist, and author who spent decades helping shape culture and leadership inside the high-tech world, including serving as Vice President of Learning and Development at LinkedIn. Earlier in his career, he spent six years with Young Life mentoring students and developing the relational leadership philosophy that would influence his work in business. After surviving a life-threatening liver failure that left doctors giving him just 24 hours to live, Kevin began rethinking how he wanted to spend his time and energy. Today he writes and speaks about intentional living and meaningful second acts through his books A Life Worth Living, Cracking the Career Code, and Words to Wonder, as well as his Take Two newsletter. Resources and Links Website: KevinJohnDelaney.com - Books, Contact, Newsletter Book: A Life Worth Living Book: Cracking the Career Code Book: Words To Wonder Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    33 min
  5. When Craft Becomes Calling: A Pipe Carver’s Story

    MAR 2

    When Craft Becomes Calling: A Pipe Carver’s Story

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! Some dreams don’t explode into your life—they sneak in, click by click, until you realize they’ve become part of who you are. On this episode, I sit down with artisan pipe carver Kraig Sederquist to explore the exact moment a hobby stops being “harmless” and starts shaping your identity.  From a first lumpy pipe in 2012 to a disciplined, detail-driven craft built on precision drilling, airflow engineering, and graceful lines, Kraig shows how slowing down can transform both the work and the worker. We trace his path to a small workshop in the Sierra Nevada where functional art takes form. Kraig shares why two simple words...slow down...altered his process, why he favors everyday buyers over luxury-only collectors, and how he balances stability with a calling that won’t stay small.  Beneath the sawdust and stains lives a universal story: midlife choices, fear mapped into steps, and the refusal to chase regret.  If you’ve felt that quiet nudge...a camera, a lathe, a notebook, an oven...this conversation offers a clear, steady encouragement: you don’t have to blow up your life to honor your calling. Start by taking your craft seriously and let it make you better. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a nudge, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts—your words help more people find these stories. ⸻ Guest Information Kraig Sederquist is a web developer and artisan pipe maker living in the Sierra Nevada foothills above Sonora, California. A former Marine and co-owner of Level One Web Design, Kraig blends years of digital craftsmanship with a growing passion for handcrafted tobacco pipes through his studio, SederCraft. Working primarily with briar and drawing inspiration from Danish and freehand styles, he creates functional pieces rooted in patience, precision, and tradition. When he’s not at the bench or behind a screen, he enjoys mountain life with his wife Kay — gardening, hiking, and exploring the outdoors. Resources and Links SederCraft - Handcrafted Tobacco Pipes and Accessories Kraig Sederquist on Instagram Venn Diagram - Purpose Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    41 min
  6. From Classroom To Couch: A Midlife Reinvention

    FEB 16

    From Classroom To Couch: A Midlife Reinvention

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! Sometimes the door you’d never choose is the one that finally opens. Today I sit down with marriage and family therapist Chris Oneth to unpack a gritty pivot: from high school dropout to beloved history teacher… to therapist after a career-ending reset. The move into therapy came with both fear and strange confirmation. An old wedding announcement resurfaced where he’d once said he wanted to become a therapist. The counseling office he visited at nineteen would later become his own. On his first day in mental health, he was handed the very laptop he’d use to finish his master’s degree. He built on his teacher’s toolkit...the whiteboards, curriculum, presence...and developed a tri-relational model exploring our relationship with self, others, and environment. This isn’t a glossy reinvention story. It’s an honest look at identity, owning mistakes, and choosing action when the plan dissolves. If this episode nudges you, follow the show, share it with someone who needs courage for a pivot, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find these conversations. What’s the next brave step you’re ready to take? If you’re feeling stuck — listen to that feeling. Ask why. Then send it. ⸻ Guest Information Chris Oneth is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Modesto, California, and the Executive Director of Downey Park Counseling Associates. With a background in education and years of counseling experience, Chris works with individuals, couples, and families navigating identity, relationships, and life transitions — especially the questions that surface at midlife. Outside the therapy room, Chris is a fellow adventurer, overlander, and motorcycle rider. Like Fletch, he’s partial to his Triumph motorcycle, spending time on the road and trail where reflection, perspective, and renewal tend to show up naturally. Resources and Links Downey Park Counseling Chris Oneth - Personal Website Venn Diagram - Purpose Our Next Question - Podcast with Chris Oneth and Melanie Jones Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    38 min
  7. Living In Crescendo - Why Life Should Keep Getting Bigger.

    FEB 2

    Living In Crescendo - Why Life Should Keep Getting Bigger.

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! What if the second half of life could be louder, braver, and more generous than the first? We sit down with longtime friend and educator Pete Swanberg to trace a path from elementary classrooms and adapted PE to founding an international special needs sports collective that brings inclusion to life through play.  This is a story about living in crescendo...choosing purpose, relationship, and flow...while turning grief and transition into fuel for service. Pete shares the moments that shaped him: the joy of working with students with multiple disabilities, the freedom he found in adapted PE, and the research that reframed his plans for retirement. Then we get practical. Adaptive Play Collective runs five-day camps with buddies for every child, sensory-rich stations, take-home equipment, and a collective of specialists who train and consult so local teams can keep the work going long after the trip ends. Board member and educator Aubrey Colton joins us from Jordan to paint a vivid picture of the need and the hope. She shares what families face—stigma, scarce resources, and kids who rarely leave home—and the transformation that happens when a room is designed for access and joy.  If you’re curious about midlife pivots, this conversation delivers heart and how-to.  Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs courage for their next chapter, and leave a review so more people can find these stories. Then tell us: what small step will help your live in crescendo today? ⸻ Guest Information Pete Swanberg is a husband of 40 years to Beth, and a father of 5 young adults.  He retired in 2025 after a 37-year career in education.  He’s the chief dreamer behind PlayAbility Camps, bringing movement, laughter, and belonging to kids with disabilities around the world.  When he’s not planning adapted sports camps, you can find him taking long walks with Beth, browsing the shelves at a local library, or having coffee with interesting people. Like Fletch! Aubree Colton has been married for 17 years to Ben, her high school crush. She Is a mother of 3 amazing girls who have been her greatest joy and also greatest opportunity of growth to trust in God. She has a special education degree and has had the privilege of working with the special needs community in Jordan for 11 years.  Aubree’s definition of fun is playing card games at any opportunity, hanging at a coffee shop with a friend, hiking canyons in Jordan, and finding any excuse to wear a dumb looking costume. Resources and Links Adapted Play Collective Venn Diagram - Purpose Play Ability Camps Pete's Daily Resolution: Resolved. By the power of the Holy Spirit, I will live in crescendo. I will value relationship, pursue meaning, and maximize flow. I will let go, live fully, and move on. Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. Support the show

    43 min
  8. From Cancer To Camino: A Mother Who Refused to Stay Down

    JAN 19

    From Cancer To Camino: A Mother Who Refused to Stay Down

    Send Fletch a Voicemail or Text! If resilience had a passport, it would look a lot like Dr. Erica Conway’s. In this episode, we sit with a dentist, mother of three, breast cancer survivor, and unapologetic advocate to explore how midlife can become a launchpad for meaningful adventure. From trekking Peru’s Salcantay Pass at 15,300 feet to the blisters of the Camino de Santiago, Erica shows how adventure can be both safe and soul-stretching...especially for solo women navigating fear and logistics. Erica shares how raising a daughter with Down syndrome raised expectations rather than lowered them. She unpacks common misconceptions about disability and offers practical insight into building real independence through meaningful support. What ties it all together is a simple philosophy: don’t wait for retirement to start living. Book the trip. Walk to work. Choose the big yes and the daily small ones that add up to a life well lived. If this conversation lit something up in you: Subscribe, Share, Review and let us know more stories we should cover. ⸻ Guest Information Dr. Erica Conway is a dentist, mother of three, and lifelong adventurer. A breast cancer survivor and passionate advocate for individuals with Down syndrome, she believes resilience is built by choosing forward motion and living fully—at work, at home, and on the road. Resources and Links Backroads Travel Booking Erica Conway, DDS Redwood Seeds Scholar Program Napa Valley Is Better Together - Donate Here Venn Diagram - Purpose Music used in this episode: All music in this episode is licensed for use through Epidemic Sound. ⸻ IF YOU LIKE WHAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THE MANGO TIMES, PLEASE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY... ✅ Send me a text and let me know what you think. ✅ Share this episode with a friend RIGHT NOW! ✅ PLEASE LEAVE ME A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS HERE. ✅ Buy Me A Taco (LINK HERE) Support the show

    38 min
5
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16 Ratings

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The Mango Times Podcast is where midlife curiosity meets adventure, humor, and human stories. Hosted by Fletch, the show features thoughtful conversations, great banter, and stories from the porch to the open road. In Season 6, each episode explores what it looks like to wake up in the second half of life and decide there’s still plenty of adventure left...through interviews, personal reflections, recurring segments, and a little bit of well-earned shtick. New episodes drop every other week and stay under 45 minutes. Pull up a chair, hop on the back of the bike and join the conversation.

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