This is ADHD!

Chris Johnson
This is ADHD!

This is ADHD! is about being a totally normal ADHDer, it's not in our heads, it's really hard, and we want to be listened to, not ignored or felt sorry for. In this slapped together apology of a podcast, I talk to much more eloquent people about what it means to have ADHD for them and show that we all have ADHD and all of us are different.

  1. 13 What's eating ADHD?

    JAN 25

    13 What's eating ADHD?

    Summary In this conversation, Chris and Kendra Koch discuss various aspects of living with ADHD. Kendra shares her journey of accepting her ADHD diagnosis and how it has impacted her life. They explore the preconceptions and misconceptions surrounding ADHD, as well as the utility of labels and diagnoses. The conversation also delves into the challenges of setting boundaries with ADHD and the emotional impact of doing so. Kendra and Chris discuss the messiness of ADHD and the internal confusion that can arise. They also touch on the no-win situations that individuals with ADHD often face. In this conversation, Kendra Koch and Chris discuss the frustration and perception of crushing ADHD. They delve into the concept of happiness and how it is often misunderstood and misrepresented. They explore the beauty of experiencing a range of emotions and the dangers of toxic positivity. They also touch on the importance of self-compassion and finding individual systems and solutions that work for ADHD individuals. The conversation concludes with a reminder that self-care is an ongoing journey that requires maintenance and self-awareness. Takeaways Accepting an ADHD diagnosis can be a journey, but it can also provide a sense of clarity and understanding. Labels and diagnoses can be useful tools for accessing the right treatment and support. Setting boundaries with ADHD can be challenging, but it is important for self-care and well-being. Living with ADHD can feel messy and confusing, but it is important to remember that everyone's journey is unique. Comparing oneself to others and feeling inadequate is a common experience for individuals with ADHD. The perception of crushing ADHD can vary, but it is important to remember that it is not about living a neurotypical life or being perfectly organized. Happiness is not a constant state, and striving for constant happiness can be unhealthy and dissociative. Emotions are a natural part of the human experience, and it is important to embrace and learn from all of them. Small wins and progress are important, and it is crucial to celebrate and own them. Self-compassion and finding individual systems and solutions are key to navigating ADHD. Contact info Instagram: instagram.com/thekochfidential LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kendrarkoch/ Personal booking link: https://tidycal.com/kendrakoch/free-strategy-session Resources Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD Arrival Fallacy (Pursuit of happiness) DBT Opposite Action Treatment Transcript

    1h 7m
  2. 12 - Au-DHD-ible

    JAN 18

    12 - Au-DHD-ible

    In this conversation, Chris and Matt discuss Matt's unique approach to DJing, his experiences with ADHD and autism, and the challenges he faces. They explore the clash between autism and ADHD, coping strategies, and life before diagnosis. Matt shares his varied career experiences and how he has found success by embracing his neurodivergent traits. In this conversation, Matthew discusses his natural traits and abilities, including his visual processing skills and numerical aptitude. He also shares his experiences with ADHD and burnout, highlighting the challenges of masking and the impact on his professional life. The conversation delves into Matthew's passion for acapella and beatboxing, as well as the distinction between hyperfocus and special interests. The discussion also touches on mood regulation and anger management, emphasizing the importance of seeking help and diagnosis. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the presence of ADHD and autism in artistic communities and information about upcoming events and Matthew's online presence. Takeaways Matt has developed a unique approach to DJing by combining storytelling, music, and character performances. The clash between autism and ADHD can create challenges in organizing and managing daily life. Coping with ADHD and autism requires finding strategies that work for each individual. Matt's experiences highlight the importance of understanding and embracing neurodivergent traits in order to find success and fulfillment. Natural traits and abilities can be valuable assets, such as visual processing skills and numerical aptitude. ADHD and burnout can significantly impact one's professional life, and masking skills may contribute to the challenges faced. Hyperfocus and special interests are distinct phenomena, with hyperfocus being short-lived and special interests enduring over time. Mood regulation and anger management can be difficult for individuals with ADHD, and seeking help and diagnosis is crucial. ADHD and autism are often prevalent in artistic communities, and understanding one's neurodivergence can lead to self-acceptance and support. Matthew has upcoming events and can be followed on Instagram and YouTube. Matt Frequencies on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@MattFrequencies?si=jvY1kEIF_eiv0NSa Matt Frequencies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattfrequencies?igsh=Y2Y1M3JjMWp5NGcx Tales From The Deck: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tales-from-the-deck-vol-3-summer-tales-tickets-784242078167 The Book of Divergence at Chillout: https://events.humanitix.com/the-book-of-divergence-chillout-festival-2024

    59 min

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This is ADHD! is about being a totally normal ADHDer, it's not in our heads, it's really hard, and we want to be listened to, not ignored or felt sorry for. In this slapped together apology of a podcast, I talk to much more eloquent people about what it means to have ADHD for them and show that we all have ADHD and all of us are different.

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