Turned On With Sue And John

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Sue McGarvie is best known as "Sex With Sue!" A sex therapist, relationship expert, coach, author and speaker. Her Sunday night call-in radio show took Canada by storm in 1993. John is a freelance radio host heard across North America, and a champion for mental health, knowing all too well how fears about revealing our sexual kinks, desires and orientations can affect us. He has normalized conversations about sex on his show for years! Together, these longtime friends now bring you an outrageously fun, weekly, immersive, grown up sex education course that is unique in the world of podcast. This is Turned On With Sue & John. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. How Many Sex Partners Is Too Many?

    2d ago

    How Many Sex Partners Is Too Many?

    1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard. Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count." Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again. And in sex in the news: The "wholesome" creator with more than 2,500 partners, and our friend Bonnie Blue is back in the news! Always pushing boundaries, always making headlines, and always fun to talk about! And Raven from the Adult Fun Superstore introduces you to her sex toy pick of the week - The Stroker / Main Squeeze from Doc Johnson! (www.adultfun dot ca) To connect with us: Website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Email Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com To subscribe to Sue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    48 min
  2. The Sex Advice That’s Secretly Making Your Sex Life Worse - And What Actually Works

    Jun 30

    The Sex Advice That’s Secretly Making Your Sex Life Worse - And What Actually Works

    There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job! We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction. For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome! This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman who not only pulled car with his dick, he did it while his dick was on fire. And, a question about face sitting from someone worried that her partner may suffocate. Finally, our friends from the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada (adultfun dot ca) introduce us to the new Delightful Vulva And Breast Pump from Shots! We're online @ www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Email Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min
  3. Lust

    Jun 23

    Lust

    Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly? Today's conversation is all about lust. Merrium-Webster defines it as: usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousnessan intense longing : cravingto have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urge We'll also reveal what sex workers have to say about the subject. Sue's experienced lust. John too. Have you? Tell us your story of lust at our links below! Also today... We dispel some swinger myths - and there are a lot of them! We talk to the team at Lelo about some of their incredible toys, and Raven from The Adult Fun Superstor (adultfun.ca) introduces you to her toy of the week - the Aluna Femme Fun! Plus - The three secrets that will make your sex life better immediately, sex in the news this week and loads more of the sex education you wish someone would have given you years ago! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com (subscribe to Sue's newsletter, send your questions, rate our podcast and more) Turned On on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Sue's email: sue@sexwithsue.com John's email: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com Cover Photo: Photo by Klara Kulikova on Unsplash https://unsplash.com/@kkalerry?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min
  4. It's The End For Sexy Men

    Jun 16

    It's The End For Sexy Men

    The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation. Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode. Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out? We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now. And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the latest a fun, new toy for couples from WeVibe! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min
  5. Oral Sex

    Jun 9

    Oral Sex

    Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex!  As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick!  This sounds SOOOO fun! For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more! Some incredible questions from YOU again this week.  One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal.  We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try!  Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success.  They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please.  Sue happily shares that today. Finally, we address some comments found on Reddit on the topic of oral sex and also what research has to say on the matter! Sue’s Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Our website: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com Us on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/Megahurts And our friends at the Adult Fun Superstore: www.adultfun.ca Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    54 min
  6. Has Swinging Become Too Mainstream?

    Jun 3

    Has Swinging Become Too Mainstream?

    Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today. Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout. Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up! Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick! Subscribe to Sue's newsletter and hear every episode of Turned On at www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr
  7. What Makes You Feel Desired?

    May 26

    What Makes You Feel Desired?

    What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy! On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected. Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language. On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.com This is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week! Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast (show) | @ Megahurts (John) Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com John: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    47 min
  8. Weird Things Humans Are Doing To Their Junk

    May 19

    Weird Things Humans Are Doing To Their Junk

    Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about. For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better. We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really! For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle. Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life.  Online: www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com John: turnedonpodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min
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Ratings & Reviews

4.7
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About

Sue McGarvie is best known as "Sex With Sue!" A sex therapist, relationship expert, coach, author and speaker. Her Sunday night call-in radio show took Canada by storm in 1993. John is a freelance radio host heard across North America, and a champion for mental health, knowing all too well how fears about revealing our sexual kinks, desires and orientations can affect us. He has normalized conversations about sex on his show for years! Together, these longtime friends now bring you an outrageously fun, weekly, immersive, grown up sex education course that is unique in the world of podcast. This is Turned On With Sue & John. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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