We Just Got Here

We Just Got Here Podcast

We Just Got Here is your friendly reminder that you're not alone in the chaotic adventure that is adulthood. Join Steph and Tia every Monday & Thursday as they share their experiences and insights with a generous sprinkling of humour, ensuring that you'll feel right at home with this dynamic duo. Whether you're looking for a laugh, the tea on what’s got the internet’s knickers in a twist, some sage advice, or just a fun escape from the daily grind, this podcast is your perfect go-to.

  1. 2D AGO ·  BONUS

    His Wife Found Me. Then She Found My Mum. 😳 | Reddit Realness

    This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most unhinged and heartbreaking ones we've ever covered 😭🎙️ She met him at a conference. He was charming, charismatic, easy to talk to. Within weeks they were dating. Within months she was in what felt like the best relationship of her life 💕 He understood her demanding career. He never pushed to move in. Everything worked perfectly. For 18 months. And then his wife called. 😳 Not only did she find out he had been married for 15 years with two children the entire time… He didn't even live where he said he did. He lived in a completely different state. 💀 And just when she thought it couldn't get worse — the wife found her mother. And contacted her too. 😭 Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts on the man, the wife and every single red flag that was hiding in plain sight 🎙️ Drop your thoughts below 👇Was there anything she could have done differently or was this completely impossible to see coming? ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    35 min
  2. 6D AGO

    The Conversation About Eating Ass Nobody Planned But Everybody Needed 😳 | EP. 115

    Episode 115 is here and we did not come to play 😭🎙️ From a bush meat scandal in Dalston that we are still not over, to the conversation about eating ass that started casually and went further than anyone planned 💀 Then there's our wildest fantasies 👀 (some wilder than others, we'll let you decide) And then the Reddit post that had us fully invested — she's catching feelings for him, everything is going well… but he's balding.  And she doesn't know how to feel about it. And honestly? Neither do we 😭 📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro 09:39 – The Dalston Bush Meat Scandal & Eating Prawn Poo?! 16:17 – So Everyone Is Out Here Eating Ass?! 😳 42:00 – Our Wildest (Or Not So Wild) Fantasies 👀 01:14:14 – Reddit Realness: "I'm Falling For Him But He's Balding…" 01:16:21 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week 01:37:27 – Adult Finds of the Week If you've ever had a feeling you were too embarrassed to admit out loud…  Steph & Tia said it for you this week 💕 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for weekly bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    1h 42m
  3. MAR 23 ·  BONUS

    "He Flirted With His Type Right In Front Of Me & Called It An Ego Boost" 😳 | Reddit Realness

    This week's Reddit Realness hit different 😭🎙️ A Black woman living abroad finally found someone who felt like home in a foreign country. A man who shared her background, her culture, her world. And then she watched him flirt with another woman. Right in front of her. Repeatedly. Gleefully. 💀  When she confronted him he laughed it off. When she went through his phone she found exactly what her gut already knew. His explanation? It was just a joke. Just an ego boost. He was never really interested. 😳 But here's the part Steph & Tia cannot move past — the compliments, the excitement, the energy he showed this woman… Was she the punchline the whole time? 👀 And is this just about flirting or is there a much bigger pattern here that needs to be talked about?  Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and this one got deep 🎙️  Drop your thoughts below 👇Have you ever felt like you were the stable choice while someone else got his best self? ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    30 min
  4. MAR 19

    "I Just Caught My Man Cheating On Me… With Other Men" 😳 | EP. 113

    This week the girls are getting into the Ls, the Ws, the vents AND the things we should have never — not even for one second — accepted in our lives 💀 Because apparently we have ALL stayed somewhere we had absolutely no business being 😭 And then we get a jaw-dropping dilemma from a fellow got here baby that you do not want to miss! 👀 📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro 1:00 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week 24:55 – Vent of the Week 28:30 – Craziest Thing You've Accepted That You Should Have Never Been There For 57:17 – Reddit Realness: "I Just Caught My Man Cheating On Me With Other Men" 01:07:55 – Adult Finds of the Week If you've ever stayed in a situation way longer than you should have… this episode will make you feel very seen 💕 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    1h 10m
  5. MAR 16 ·  BONUS

    "He Dumped Me By LETTER Before My Surgery" & The Cheater Who Got Instant Karma 😳 | Reddit Realness

    Two Reddit dilemmas. Zero chill. Absolutely no holding back from Steph & Tia 😭🎙️ This week on Reddit Realness : 💔 Dilemma 1: She's been with her partner for 3 years. She has major surgery coming up in 10 days. He breaks up with her… via letter. Is she overreacting or is this genuinely one of the worst things a partner can do? 👀 😈 Dilemma 2: He cheated on his girlfriend. Then karma came for him immediately and did NOT hold back 💀 Was he a victim of his own decisions or did he genuinely get what he deserved? Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and we are NOT sorry 😭 Drop your verdict in the comments 👇 Who has it worse — the woman dumped before surgery or the cheater who got karma'd? ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    25 min
  6. MAR 12

    "I Just Moved In With My Boyfriend and I Already Resent Him" 😳 | EP.111

    Episode 111 is giving EVERYTHING and we are not holding back 😭🎙️  This week Steph & Tia are back on their nonsense — from gym couple drama, to the very real pressure of marriage and kids, to the Reddit reader whose relationship started crumbling the second she moved in with her boyfriend 💀 Plus… are we really out here EATING our skincare? We need to talk 👀  📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro / Gym Woes & The Downside of Training With Your Partner  16:49 – Steph & Tia's Ls and Wins of the Week  40:24 – Prison Guard Baddies  51:10 – Fighting Against the Pressure of Getting Married and Having Children  01:04:26 – 'Eating Your Skincare' / Are We All Too Desperate to Be Beautiful?  01:20:58 – Reddit Realness: "My Boyfriend and I Just Moved In Together and I'm Starting to Resent Him"  01:31:25 – Adult Find of the Week If you've ever felt pressured to hit life milestones on someone else's timeline… this episode is for you 💕 ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    1h 46m
  7. MAR 5

    "How Do I Reject My Colleague Without It Being Weird?!" 😳 | EP 110

    Episode 110 is HERE and we are NOT holding back 😭🎙️ This week Steph & Tia are back with another chaotic, honest and hilarious episode covering EVERYTHING — from the week's biggest Ls and Ws, to the countries we'd actually pack up and move to, to the thrush chat nobody asked for but everybody needed 👀 📌 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Intro 01:40 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week + Countries We'd Actually Visit 26:31 – When Not Replying to Texts Becomes Your Whole Personality 😭 45:03 – When That Thrush Comes to Get You 💀 51:53 – Reddit Realness: "How do I tell my colleague I'm not interested without making it awkward?" 59:30 – Adult Find of the WeekIf you've ever left someone on read for 3 days and felt nothing… this episode is for you. ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    1h 2m
  8. MAR 2

    Should I Leave My 5-Year Relationship Over This? 😭 | Reddit Realness

    In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma. A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted. Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled. She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing. Is she selfish for wanting to leave? Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship? We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain. Drop your thoughts in the comments: Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point? Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 05:25 - Dilemma ➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere ☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere 💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere 📥 Got a dilemma? Send to wejustgotherepod@gmail.com 🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io 📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcast Follow us on socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcast Twitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcast Steph’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbu Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbu Tia’s socials:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

    31 min
4.4
out of 5
8 Ratings

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We Just Got Here is your friendly reminder that you're not alone in the chaotic adventure that is adulthood. Join Steph and Tia every Monday & Thursday as they share their experiences and insights with a generous sprinkling of humour, ensuring that you'll feel right at home with this dynamic duo. Whether you're looking for a laugh, the tea on what’s got the internet’s knickers in a twist, some sage advice, or just a fun escape from the daily grind, this podcast is your perfect go-to.

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