Why Do We Do That?

Dr. Ryan Moyer

Are you CURIOUS about why we think, feel, and behave the way that we do? Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work.

  1. 3d ago

    #080 - Parenting & ADHD with Ryan Wexelblatt

    In this episode, Ryan Wexelblatt shares insights on behavioral interventions for children with ADHD, focusing on practical strategies for parents to support emotional regulation, motivation, and behavior management both at home and outside. Discover how understanding the ADHD brain can transform parenting approaches and foster better outcomes for kids. keywords ADHD, parenting, behavioral interventions, emotional regulation, executive functioning, motivation, child development, ADHD strategies key topics ADHD and executive functioning delays Cognitive flexibility and emotional regulation Behavioral interventions and scaffolding Managing disrespectful language and meltdowns Creating structure and expectations for ADHD kids Chapters 00:00 Introduction to ADHD Parenting Strategies 02:59 Meet Ryan Wexelblatt and his expertise 04:29 Understanding how ADHD brains differ from neurotypical brains 06:40 The role of cognitive flexibility in ADHD behavior 08:34 Emotional regulation challenges and solutions 09:25 Living in the moment and its impact on therapy 12:37 Internal dialogue and impulsivity in ADHD 13:39 Triggers of emotional outbursts in ADHD children 15:58 Negative attention and reinforcement of behaviors 18:31 Calmness and response strategies during meltdowns 20:10 Setting expectations and opportunities for self-correction 22:21 Disrespectful language and how to address it 32:26 Teaching accountability and repair after hurtful words 36:45 Managing emotional blackmail and severe behaviors 40:03 Impulsivity and behavior outside the home 43:32 Supporting motivation and routine at home 53:30 Key takeaways for parents of ADHD children guest links Website - https://adhddude.com YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/ADHDDudeRyanWexelblattLCSW

  2. Jul 2

    Happy 4th of July!

    Happy 4th of July! I am pleased to announce that I am in the process of migrating to a new podcast platform. While there may be some technical issues along the way, this change will allow me to focus more on VIDEO CONTENT. Stay tuned for more updated!

  3. Jun 15

    #079 - Sex in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Rebecca Eudy

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with clinical sexologist & licensed mental health counselor Dr. Rebecca Eudy to discuss sex in long-term relationships. They discuss how sexual desire evolves as relationships grow, how past experiences shape our expectations, the importance of open communication, how to navigate differences in desire, the dynamics of pursue–withdrawal cycles, and practical ways to repair connection and rekindle attraction. Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

  4. Jun 1

    #078 - Building Intimacy with Dr. Isabelle Morley

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with clinical psychologist and couples coach Dr. Isabelle Morley about building relationship intimacy. They discuss the complexities of building intimacy in relationships, why intimacy is something to be cultivated rather than rushed, the role of safety and vulnerability in creating real connection, how our past experiences shape the way we relate to others, and practical ways to deepen intimacy in long-term relationships. Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

  5. Apr 28

    #077 - The Psychology of Martial Arts with Stephan Kesting

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with martial arts expert Stephan Kesting about the psychology of martial arts. They discuss the evolution of the martial arts, the surprising relationship between martial arts and aggression, the psychological benefits that come from training, the lessons learned on the mat that can carry over into everyday life, and mindset tips for anyone considering stepping into a martial arts gym for the first time. For more on Stephan, visit Grapplearts.com. Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

  6. Mar 30

    #076 - Love Addiction with Dr. Cortney Warren

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Cortney Warren about her new book, Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction. They discuss why breakups can feel so destabilizing, how longing for an ex can begin to resemble an addiction, the past experiences and thinking patterns that increase vulnerability to love addiction, and practical strategies for healing after the end of a serious relationship. Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

  7. Mar 2

    #075 - Mattering with Rebecca Newberger Goldstein

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with philosopher and writer Rebecca Newberger Goldstein about her new book, The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Longing Drives Us and Divides Us They discuss why mattering is essential to human flourishing, what makes the mattering instinct uniquely human, the many ways people seek to matter, how the drive to matter can sometimes lead us to darker places, and the key elements that turn a mattering project into a fulfilling one.    Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

  8. Feb 2

    #074 - Listening with Christian van Nieuwerburgh

    In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with executive coach and author Christian Van Nieuwerburgh to discuss his new book Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. They discuss the importance of listening intentions, how to quiet internal chatter so we can fully focus on others, what situational cues we should pay attention to in order to communicate effectively, the role of curiosity and intellectual humility in meaningful dialogue, and how to use thoughtful observations and questions to help people feel comfortable and understood. For more on Christian, visit https://coachonamotorcycle.com Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs human behavior from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

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Are you CURIOUS about why we think, feel, and behave the way that we do? Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Ryan Moyer
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    80
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Dr. Ryan Moyer
  • Show Website
    Why Do We Do That?

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