Wild & Sublime

Karen Yates
  • 5.0 (22)
  • SEXUALITY
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A podcast about sex for everyone, no matter your preferences, orientation, or relationship style — based on the popular live Chicago talk show, hosted by sex educator Karen Yates. Panelists, interviews, stories, Q and A, and more reflect a dynamic and all-encompassing view of sexuality. Join the juicy party!

  1. 4D AGO

    Kink 101: What is a munch? Plus Alan Colorado needs our pervy help!

    Kink 101: What is a munch? Plus Alan Colorado needs our pervy help! Newbie kinksters can learn all about the kinky social event known as the munch. And storyteller Alan Colorado needs the wisdom of the audience to expand his sexual repertoire. From our Seventh Anniversary show October 12, 2025.  The October live show’s main show sponsor was Rowan Tree Counseling.  On the episode: FetLife  Galleria Domain 2 (GD2)  LRA  Host Karen Yates  karen-yates.com Our Valentine’s Kick Off Show is in Chicago, February 8, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge. Get tickets!  Want more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies!  Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50. Do you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning. Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil’ tip! Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    24 min

  2. 12/18/2025

    2025 most downloaded! Relationship Anarchy with Nicole Thompson

    Relationship Anarchy rejects rules and expectations in how we relate to each other. It’s mentioned more and more in the media, but what is it exactly? In this lively conversation, therapist Nicole Thompson explains that while RA can turn our relationships on their heads, it can also bring freedom.  Don't miss our next live show: Valentine’s Kick-Off – Sunday, Feb. 8, 2026, 6-7:30pm at Lincoln Lodge Chicago Our sexperts will chat about “Living Out Your Fantasies–solo or partnered.” Burlesque and more. Biggest polycule of the night gets a prize! Use Code: IRL3 for $3 off till Jan 10 GET TIX In this episode: Therapist and podcaster Nicole Thompson Host, sex educator, and energy worker Karen Yates Relationship Anarchy ManifestoRelationship Smorgasbord Get Say It Better in Bed, Karen’s free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here! Show your love for Wild & Sublime: Leave a tip! The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and discounts to live shows!  Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our new tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free…  Prefer to read the convo? Full episode transcripts are available on our website. Support the show Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    50 min

  3. 11/20/2025

    Autism, puberty, and young romantic relationships - with Robyn Steward

    Autism consultant and author Robyn Steward discusses the state of being young and autistic, and how clear neutral guidance that helps tweens and teens with periods and relationships is crucial. Karen talks with Steward, herself autistic, about her insightful books. Robyn Steward - Autism author and consultant  Karen Yates - certified sex educator, writer, energy worker Books by Robyn Steward The Autism-Friendly Guide to Periods  The Independent Woman’s Handbook for Super Safe Living on the Autistic Spectrum  The Autism-Friendly Guide to Self-Employment Sign up for our twice-monthly newsletter to get sex and relationship tips, and show announcements. Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil’ tip! Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50. Want more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies!  They said what? Full episode transcripts are available on our website Do you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    35 min

  4. 11/06/2025

    Sex, Relationships, and OCD with Laura Federico

    How does obsessive compulsive disorder manifest in sex and relationships? In so many ways, but treatment is possible and effective. Karen talks with sex therapist Laura Federico about the root issue in OCD, ramifications, and solutions. The shame of minor attraction and getting help is included. They also discuss Laura’s new book The Cycle Book, about the effect of menstrual hormones on the body and mind. On this episode: Psychologist and sex therapist Laura Federico  Host Karen Yates   The Cycle Book and related events - Buy on Bookshop or Amazon Buy on Bookshop and support Wild & Sublime!  “Sexual Intrusive Thoughts” on the SMSNA site Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    56 min

  5. 10/09/2025

    ADHD + sex + intimacy with Dr. Lyne Piché

    Therapist and author Dr Lyne Piché talks with Karen about ADHD and tools individuals and couples can use to promote more intimacy and better sex lives. They discuss her new ADHD workbook in this far-ranging and lively conversation. Our seventh anniversary show is in Chicago, October 12, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge. Get tickets! Main show sponsor Rowan Tree Counseling. On the show: Psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Lyne Piché Host and certified sex educator Karen Yates  ADHD and Sex: A Workbook for Exploring Sexuality and Increasing Intimacy Buy the workbook on Bookshop and support Wild & Sublime! Available on Amazon too. Sign up for podcast announcements and show announcements on our website. Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    51 min

  6. 09/26/2025

    Autism + sex, kink, and polyamory

    Season 9 on neurodiversity and sex begins with a deep dive into autism. Therapist Elmo Painter-Edington, herself autistic, gives us a primer on this unique brain difference and its interplay with sex, kink, and polyamory. Plus! Don't miss our Sunday, Oct. 12, 2025, 6pm, SEVENTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW in Chicago. Get tix and more info here! Main show sponsor: Rowan Tree Counseling. In this episode: Neurodiversity-affirming therapist and coach Elmo Painter-Edington, LPC, SEP, ASDI Host Karen Yates NeuroTribes by Steve Silberman  Unmasking Autism by Devon Price  I’m looking for… Episodes on specific topics - There's a list! The Afterglow, our Patreon membership club, brings you regular bonus content, early show alerts, discounts to live shows, and more goodies! Join now to help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity. Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip! Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our new tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free…  Support the show Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    58 min

  7. 09/17/2025

    "Please dominate us!"--Newbie tips for power exchange [rebroadcast]

    Want to try some kinky stuff with your partner, but have no idea where to begin? Panelists offer tips for those curious about experimenting with power play, sensation play, and beyond. Plus! Don't miss our Sunday, Oct. 12, 2025, 6pm, SEVENTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW in Chicago. Get tix and more info here! In this episode: Cassie Porter - Somatic sex educator & sexological bodyworkerJason Best - Kink-aware therapist & founder of Best TherapiesPeter Navarro - Sex-positive and somatic-oriented therapistI’m looking for… The rest of this panel convo - S3E6: Fat ShameEpisodes on specific topics - There's a list! This episode’s transcript - Read it here.A book on relationships/sexuality - Check out our recs on Bookshop!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership club, brings you regular bonus content, early show alerts, discounts to live shows, and more goodies! Join now to help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity. Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip! Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our new tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free…  Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook! Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    17 min

  8. 08/28/2025

    Summer (Sex-Positive) Comedy Show

    From our June 2025 live Chicago show, Archy Jamjun, R.C. Riley, Amy Sumpter and Joe Mellen bring the laughs. Plus audiences answer the q, "What's your go-to fantasy?" Joe Mellen, storyteller  Amy Sumpter, comic and rapper  R.C. Riley, writer and performer  Archy Jamjun, storyteller and comic  Karen Yates, certified somatic sex educator and energy worker Show Sponsor: Rowan Tree Counseling Leave a tip for our work--we'd love $5 or $10 (or more!) to support the monthly costs of our podcast!  Or join our monthly Patreon members’ club, the Afterglow, for discounts and other goodies! Join now to help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity. Free download! Get the guide Say It Better in Bed! 3 Proven Ways to Improve Intimate Communicationby host Karen Yates by going to the Wild & Sublime website. Are you looking for…? Wild & Sublime merchEpisodes on specific topicsThis episode’s transcriptBooks on sex and relationshipsBuzzsprout bonus! Thinking of starting your own podcast? Buzzsprout can help you create, host and promote it! Plus lots of useful tools and resources to streamline the process and level up your pod game. Use our affiliate link for $20 off! Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here! Support the show Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

    51 min
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A podcast about sex for everyone, no matter your preferences, orientation, or relationship style — based on the popular live Chicago talk show, hosted by sex educator Karen Yates. Panelists, interviews, stories, Q and A, and more reflect a dynamic and all-encompassing view of sexuality. Join the juicy party!

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  • Creator
    Karen Yates
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    161
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Wild & Sublime
  • Show Website
    Wild & Sublime