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Erika Alsborn
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This podcast is for you if you are dying to experience your most satisfying and mind-blowing sex, pleasure and orgasms – which inevitably means exploring and embodying your sexual confidence, sensual power, and learning the art of eroticism and feminine delight! If you want to embody a deep sense of “Yes, Please… I want MORE and BETTER sex, pleasure and orgasms!” – then you’re gonna love my podcast. The things you’ll learn here will expand and elevate your theoretical knowledge about your body, sexuality and pleasure AND birth… it will inspire you to explore all this knowledge in your life in a practical way and prioritize pleasure and sex as something for YOU – which obviously will change your whole life in the most amazing ways! Pleasure Rebels Fb group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn/ Website: www.erikaalsborn

  1. OCT 8

    110: Coming home to your sexuality

    This short episode is a love note to your sexuality, and an invitation to come home to it. I share one of my favorite analogies to help you understand what it means to truly inhabit your sexual self, to stop treating your sexuality like an abandoned house and start tending to it like the warm, beautiful home it’s meant to be. In this episode, I share: The difference between being disconnected from your sexuality and feeling fully at home in it How neglecting your pleasure shows up in your body and relationships What it means to take ownership of your sexual energy and desires How you can start reclaiming your sexuality through simple, embodied practices An invitation to join Pleasure Treats - my mini course to help you do exactly that   Links and resources:  Join Pleasure treats: https://www.erika-alsborn.com/p-treats Related episodes: 32: PLEASURE TREATS → Let’s connect! Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

    11 min

  2. SEP 18

    109: Q&A: Sex questions we’re afraid to ask (but should)

    This episode is another Q&A, and I love doing these because the questions always open up such real and juicy conversations. Today, I answer three big ones. They’re not quick yes or no questions, they’re the kind that touch on shame, fear, pleasure, kids, relationships, healing after trauma — all the stuff that makes sex and intimacy feel complicated and human. I share some of my own tools and perspectives that you can actually try in your own life, whether you relate directly to the questions or not. Questions answered in this episode: 1.How do I get over my insecurity with pleasuring a man? I explain how to shift from embarrassment to curiosity, work with the fears underneath, and allow yourself to learn step by step. 2. How can I feel sexual and free when I am also a mom and my kids are in the house? I talk about starting honest sex education early, creating boundaries like locking the door, and doing your own inner work so kids see sex as normal and positive. 3. Can I ever truly enjoy sex after experiencing sexual trauma? I share that deeper healing is possible by working with the subconscious and body, aiming first for emotional neutrality and then for joy and connection.   Related episodes: 93: Amazing sex = amazing life. Sexual growth is at the center of all personal growth → Let’s connect! Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

    39 min

  3. SEP 4

    108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living

    In this episode, I talk about desire as a sacred path back to yourself—how wanting (not just needing) is deeply empowering in life and in the bedroom. I share how to recognize true desires, rekindle turn-on with simple practices like fantasy and play, and meet any inner resistance with compassion. We finish with a gentle guided visualization to help you connect with your own desire and take one small, aligned step forward.   In this episode, I talk about: How your desires can guide you toward an authentic life Needs vs. desires — why the difference matters Building self-worth and daring to want more Desire as the gateway to your erotic self Why fantasizing is good for your sex life Owning your turn-ons (and turn-offs) without shame Why desire doesn’t have an expiration date A guided practice to connect with what you truly crave   This is a recording from a live online event I taught. Enjoy!   Join my mastermind SHAMELESS https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless   Related episodes: 94: Kink as a healing and self-discovery tool with Faith Laux → 93: Amazing sex = amazing life. Sexual growth is at the center of all personal growth →   Let’s connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

    57 min

  4. AUG 26

    107: Q&A – rebuilding desire, expressing needs, unhealthy fantasies, overcoming shame and MORE

    This Q&A is overflowing with bold, vulnerable, and relatable questions from my FREE GROUP COACHING gathering. It’s playful, honest, and deeply empowering. Zero shame, zero filter — only truth, guidance, and pussy wisdom. In this episode, I answer: How to rebuild intimacy and desire after heartbreak in a long-term relationship Keeping the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships How to communicate likes and dislikes in bed without offending my husband How to express wanting a highly sexual partner while dating, without attracting men only seeking casual sex Are any sexual fantasies “unhealthy”? Struggling with arousal after having a child and feeling unsatisfied with quick, non-nourishing orgasms How to tell my partner I want deeper sexual growth and fulfillment when I feel too shy Overcoming shame around quick masturbation after trauma and learning to enjoy “quickies” with myself Why did my body shut down sexually after breakthrough orgasmic experiences at age 57?   You can still join the FREE GROUP COACHING with me - it's free!! You the recording from the first session and are invited to the final session on Wednesday, August 27th. https://www.erika-alsborn.com/free-group-coaching   Join my mastermind SHAMELESS https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless   Related episodes: 91: The language of touch and using sensual massage as a path to deeper relationship intimacy 98: Unleash and embody the Slut Archetype for the best sex and pleasure! → 90: Perfectionism is blocking you from intimacy, pleasure and partnered sex →   Let’s connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

    40 min

  5. AUG 9

    106: Q&A: brain in the game, pleasure blocks & cervix curiosities

    This Q&A episode is packed with real, raw, and relatable questions from my FLOWER POWER event last week. Listen and learn lots! It's fun, honest, and empowering. No shame, no filter – just truth, insight, and lots of p***y wisdom. In this episode, I answer: What does it mean that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone? Why do I feel shame or lack of fulfillment after orgasming quickly? What is de-armoring and how does it help with sexual healing? Can I explore cervical stimulation if I have an IUD? Why can’t I locate my cervix – where is it really? How do I know if a penis is touching the cervix? Is it normal to have structures inside my vagina that feel like tubes? Why do clitoral orgasms feel too intense or make me cramp? What’s the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation? What can I do when I can’t orgasm with a partner due to pressure?   You can still join FLOWER POWER - it's free!! You get all the recordings and are invited to the final session on Thursday, August 14th. https://www.erika-alsborn.com/flower-power-blossom-edition   Join my mastermind SHAMELESS https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless   Related episodes: 98: Unleash and embody the Slut Archetype for the best sex and pleasure! → 90: Perfectionism is blocking you from intimacy, pleasure and partnered sex →   Let’s connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

    33 min

  6. JUL 13

    105: From girl to woman – Johanna’s SHAMELESS journey of self-source, power & pleasure

    In this episode, I’m joined by Johanna, a graduate of my SHAMELESS program, just a few months after she completed the year-long journey. This conversation is full of depth, nuance, and honesty as we explore what it really means to move from codependency and self-doubt to a place of grounded, embodied power. Johanna shares how she went from longing for something she couldn’t name to fully claiming her pleasure, her voice, and her womanhood. In this episode: Johanna’s transformation from insecurity and people-pleasing to grounded self-trust What it means to “choose yourself” and move from girl to woman Releasing the fantasy of a “life script” and embracing self-authored sexuality Rewiring pleasure through consistent self-practice Investing in herself: time, energy, and money, and why it was worth it The beauty of a multi-generational women’s group and being deeply witnessed   This one is rich. Johanna’s story is a beautiful example of what happens when we say yes to ourselves and allow transformation to unfold in the body, on our terms.   Related episodes: 40: Reclaiming your sexuality as a personal growth journey - Interview with Carolina → 39: SHAMELESS - Magnify your capacity to feel pleasure and be powerful and orgasmic →   Let’s connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn    Links and resources:  Join the waitlist for Shameless: https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless

    37 min

  7. JUL 13

    104: "It changed me forever": MC's year spent in SHAMELESS with pleasure, practice & coming home to one

    In this episode, I sit down with a 2023 graduate of my program, SHAMELESS - MC - to reflect on her journey, months after completing the year-long container. We talk about what led her to say yes to the program, how it changed her relationship with her body and sexuality, and the lasting impact it’s had on her life. This is a tender, honest, and often funny conversation about the real work of healing and remembering who we are. In this episode: What made her join SHAMELESS and why it felt like a full-body yes Her struggles with pleasure, intimacy, and old emotional patterns The shifts she experienced through consistent practice and group support How my voice and guidance helped her feel safe enough to soften and open What she’d say to a woman thinking of joining: “If I can do this, so can you” This conversation is for anyone craving more connection to their sensuality, softness, and self-expression. I'm so honored to share her story with you. Related episodes: 76: SHAMELESS - Exploring the Depths of Sexual Empowerment with Faith→ 73: Marcella's Journey Through SHAMELESS and the Story of Surrendering to Self→ Let’s connect! Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn  Links and resources: Join the waitlist for Shameless: https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless-waitlist

    33 min

  8. JUL 11

    103: I'm back – BTS summary of what's been going on

    Hey, dear friend, It’s been a while. This episode is me catching you up on where I’ve been, what I’ve been moving through, and why I took a 5-month break from the podcast. No script, just me showing up raw, real, and ready to be seen. I share about the deep inner work I’ve been doing behind the scenes—what cracked me open, some old painful beliefs that surfaced, and what it’s been like to really face myself. It’s been humbling, healing, and wild. And honestly, I feel like I’m coming back to life. Slowly. Gently. But truly.   In this episode, I share: Why I hit pause on everything and what brought me to my knees The spiral of “I’m not good enough” that took over last winter How I decided to finally face the roots, not just the symptoms What it means to feel safe, loved, and enough in my body again How this deep inner work has made me a better coach, partner, and human A little peek at what’s coming next (👀 Shameless is returning soon!)   This isn’t just a “back online” announcement—it’s a love letter to my own healing and an invitation for you to feel a little less alone in yours. I’m still integrating, still unwinding old stories, still walking the walk. But I’m here. And I’m so glad you are too. Thanks for listening. Thanks for being here. Talk soon, Erika   Links and recourses: Shameless mastermind opening soon: https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless-waitlist   Related Episode: 39. SHAMELESS – Magnify your capacity to feel pleasure and be powerful and orgasmic https://open.spotify.com/episode/26A7X2Blk40S9bddSpyEWQ?si=0c93984d06d4490e

    17 min
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This podcast is for you if you are dying to experience your most satisfying and mind-blowing sex, pleasure and orgasms – which inevitably means exploring and embodying your sexual confidence, sensual power, and learning the art of eroticism and feminine delight! If you want to embody a deep sense of “Yes, Please… I want MORE and BETTER sex, pleasure and orgasms!” – then you’re gonna love my podcast. The things you’ll learn here will expand and elevate your theoretical knowledge about your body, sexuality and pleasure AND birth… it will inspire you to explore all this knowledge in your life in a practical way and prioritize pleasure and sex as something for YOU – which obviously will change your whole life in the most amazing ways! Pleasure Rebels Fb group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn/ Website: www.erikaalsborn

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  • Creator
    Erika Alsborn
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    111
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
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