YouKnowHowWeTalk

You Know How We Talk
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🎙️ YouKnowHowWeTalk with Chanel & Dorian is where real talk meets real life. Born from daily Instagram conversations, this podcast goes deep with honest chats, zero boundaries, and no secrets. We say what others won’t — so you don’t have to hold back. Subscribe for real talk and raw conversations

Episodes

  1. FEB 25

    Red Flags, Zodiacs, & Broken Trust 

    In this episode of You Know How We Talk, we dive into post-breakup pettiness, phone privacy in relationships, family money expectations, and the “worst” zodiac sign to date. Is calling a man gay after a breakup hurt or hate?Is going through phones intuition or insecurity?If you make it, does your family automatically come with you? It’s honest. It’s uncomfortable. It’s real. You know how we talk.

    34 min

  2. FEB 18

    The Double Standard of Forgiveness

    In this episode of You Know How We Talk, we’re breaking down The Double Standard of Forgiveness. Why is it that we can forgive a friend for crossing the line… but when it comes to someone we loved, it feels impossible? Is it ego? Is it pride? Or is it the deeper emotional investment that makes romantic betrayal hit different? We’re talking expectations, emotional attachment, resentment, and why the same offense can feel heavier depending on who it came from. Do we hold our partners to a higher standard? Or do we just love differently? This one gets real, layered, and a little uncomfortable. You know how we talk. 🎙️

    50 min

  3. FEB 11

    Dating with kids isn’t equal

    Dating with kids isn’t equal — and this episode breaks down why. As a woman with no kids, Chanel shares what she's witnessed from family and friends, while my co-host — a father of three — speaks from lived experience. Together, we debate whether it’s easier for men or women to keep new partners away from their kids. From judgment placed on mothers to the grace often given to fathers, this conversation dives into the double standards that show up in dating, parenting, and relationships. Honest, real, and definitely debatable.

    55 min

  4. FEB 4

    Two Perspectives, One Truth

    Two perspectives. One honest conversation. In this episode, we talk openly about topics that often feel off-limits. Chanel discusses growing up gay and questions people are sometimes afraid to ask — including how we talk about the LGBTQ+ community without being cancelled, how young is too young to understand sexuality, and the conversation around gender-neutral bathrooms. We also shift into relationships and explore why so many couples struggle after a baby is born, based on what we see, hear, and experience around us. This episode isn’t about labels or judgment — it’s about dialogue, curiosity, and understanding different perspectives.

    1h 48m

  5. JAN 19

    Grief

    In our very first episode, we talk about grief in its realest form. I’m joined by my childhood friends, Deron and Khalil, two people I’ve known for over 25 years. We grew up together, shared families, and watched each other navigate life. Both of them have experienced one of the deepest losses imaginable—the loss of their mothers. This conversation isn’t about having the “right words” or offering advice. It’s about what grief actually looks like over time: how it shows up unexpectedly, how it changes relationships, and how you learn to carry it while still moving forward. We talk about memory, anger, love, guilt, and the quiet moments that don’t get spoken about enough. If you’ve lost a parent, especially a mother, or if you’re trying to understand your own grief—or someone else’s—this episode is for you. This is a safe, honest conversation between friends who are still figuring it out. You’re not alone.

    1h 23m

  6. 02/10/2021

    Back Space, Delete That!

    Is Kissing A No Go During Morning Sex? At What Point Do You Feel Comfortable Taking A Dump In Front Of Your Significant Other? Is Your Moan Ugly? How Much Content From Old Relationships Do You Have In Your Phone? What Would Prompt You To Go Through Your Spouses Phone? Episode 8 Is Filled With It ALL!!!!

    1h 36m

  7. 01/28/2021

    Why Can't We All Just Get Along?

    Is Fabolous’s Public Attention Forced? What Time Is An Appropriate Time To Be Come Home After A Long Night? Does your significant have a curfew? Is It mandatory that your family and friends have a relationship with your significant other? This weeks episode was all over the place! It Literally got more intense with every sip of henny we took smh. LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE

    1h 44m
  8. Condoms over Abortions

    01/21/2021

    Condoms over Abortions

    In recent years having Raw Sex has become an upward trend, babies haven't. We sat down to discuss WHY and HOW Heterosexual couples are cool with one and not the other.

    1h 20m
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🎙️ YouKnowHowWeTalk with Chanel & Dorian is where real talk meets real life. Born from daily Instagram conversations, this podcast goes deep with honest chats, zero boundaries, and no secrets. We say what others won’t — so you don’t have to hold back. Subscribe for real talk and raw conversations

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  • Creator
    You Know How We Talk
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © You Know How We Talk
  • Show Website
    YouKnowHowWeTalk

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