Selling the Couch

Melvin Varghese, PhD

With 1.81 million+ downloads, Selling the Couch is an Apple Top Career podcast for current and future mental health private practitioners who think differently. Psychologist Melvin Varghese interviews successful therapists in private practice about how they built their businesses as well as top entrepreneurs, business/marketing, and social media experts.* You'll learn how therapists get referrals, grow their practices, work through fears, find their enough, and stop "trading time for income." Melvin also shares the lessons as he grows his impact + income beyond the therapy room (podcasting, YouTube, writing, online courses, masterminds, investing, etc) and the tips and tools he uses to grow STC from a single-person business to the CEO of a 6-figure business.* Featured in Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and Psych Central ****Get show notes and even more good stuff at sellingthecouch.com/stcpodcast*

  1. 19 MAR

    ENCORE: How to Show Up Imperfect In Your Marketing

    If there is one thing I’ve learned as a small business owner, it’s that it takes courage to show up imperfect. We want so badly to be perfect and put together in front of our audience, but perfectionism makes us less authentic and connected. Join us to learn more about being OK with being imperfect. Samara Stone is a return guest to the podcast, and I’m thrilled to welcome her back! In addition to her work as a therapist, Samara is a branding expert who has a curated community, Be Full Grown, for black women over 40 who are ready to imagine, create, and live a life of their own design. Samara is in the process of launching a podcast, and she has already proven her courage in showing up imperfect through some major life difficulties. We will discuss how we, as clinicians, can show up imperfect when perfectionism always has a pull on us. Samara also shares helpful guidelines for sharing appropriately on social media, which is something we all need to keep in mind. Be Full Grown You’ll Learn: How things have changed in our field in beautiful ways; “Your Saturday self CAN show up on Monday morning.”Why many therapists struggle with perfectionism and are afraid to show up as 100% humanWhy clients appreciate transparency because it conveys a non-judgmental attitudeWhy there is a huge shift happening in how we understand marketing and our personal brandHow therapists need to share enough about the real dynamic of themselves so clients can see the healing possibilitiesHow Samara decided to share on social media the experience of her divorce a few years agoWhy we have to be polarizing at times in order to find our true audience–and that’s OKThe importance of realizing that you can’t and won’t appeal to everyoneHow to use your clear purpose and intention to determine how much of your life to share on social media -- Want to launch your online course? Our new membership is open for enrollment! Find out more and join Haven here.

    33 min
  2. 5 MAR

    ENCORE: How I’m Thinking About YouTube as a Podcaster (and Dad)

    Since the beginning of this podcast in 2015, I’ve thought a lot about how I can use YouTube to maximize the impact of STC. I’ve pondered many questions about the sustainability of this endeavor and whether I should be creating separate content on YouTube or simply repurposing these podcast episodes on YouTube. As a result of coaching, taking courses, and obsessively (nerdily) studying YouTube, I have decided to finally leap into YouTube in 2024. In today’s session, I’ll share what went into this decision for me and what you should consider as a current or aspiring therapist podcaster. You’ll Learn: How our fears are usually rooted in some sort of trauma or feeling unseen or unheardTop considerations for me in starting out on YouTube:YouTube is intentionally appealing to podcasters and is becoming an ever more popular podcast platform.Putting a video editing team in place makes the jump to YouTube much easier.YouTube (owned by Google) is very beneficial for discoverability and SEO.I plan to use the best of both playlists (podcasts, YouTube) and feed platforms (Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn).I plan to use “Walden months” to prioritize self-care and big projects. (My inspiration is the commitment to be a fully present family man and what I learned from Tim Ferris’ 2020 blog, 11 Reasons Not To Become Famous.)How I plan to keep you updated and document my YouTube journey in the weekly STC Newsletter Why I’m grateful for the support of STC listeners on this new path that has me feeling vulnerable, nervous, and fearful -- Want to launch your online course or YouTube channel? Save your spot for our free live webinar: The Calm YouTube Flywheel here! Or check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.

    32 min
  3. 26 FEB

    414: Why Most Online Courses Fail (Even If the Content Is Good)

    “If you build a great course, they’ll come.” I wish that were true. Over the past decade, both as a course creator (since 2015) and as a teacher helping therapists launch their own courses, I’ve seen something surprising: Great content alone is rarely enough. In this episode, we talk about why most online courses fail, even when the material inside is research-backed, thoughtful, and genuinely helpful. Because the truth is: Content is only one part of the equation. Completion, clarity, and connection build a real course business. Inside this video, I break down: Why the most important video in your course isn’t what you thinkThe 80/20 mistake most course creators makeWhy your course is competing with everything (not just other courses)The hidden anxiety that leads to overstuffed, overwhelming modulesHow to simplify your curriculum without losing depthA practical way to map and refine your modules (using tools like Miro)How gentle gamification (completion badges, progress nudges) increases completion ratesWhy the clearest courses—not the deepest ones—tend to win If you’re a therapist or clinician thinking about creating an online course (or wondering why yours isn’t gaining traction), this episode will help you shift your focus from perfection → to promotion → to sustainable momentum. -- Resources: Building and managing the practice you truly want can feel overwhelming. That’s why Alma is here—to help you create not just any practice, but your private practice. With Alma, you’ll get the tools and resources you need to navigate insurance with ease, connect with referrals that are the right fit for your style, and streamline those time-consuming administrative tasks. That means less time buried in the details and more time focused on delivering exceptional care to your clients. You support your clients. Alma supports you. Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE–an exclusive offer for STC listeners. -- Want to launch your online course? Save your spot for our free live webinar: The Calm YouTube Flywheel here! Or check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.

    20 min
  4. 19 FEB

    413: What They Don’t Tell Therapists About Owning a Small Business

    Most conversations about private practice are highlight reels. But what about the parts no one posts about? In today’s episode of Selling the Couch, I’m joined by my friend Dr. Justin Dodson, a group practice owner in Memphis, Tennessee, for an honest, real-world conversation about what it actually takes to run (and sustain) a small business as a therapist. Justin is heading into year 6 of private practice, and I’m in year 11 with STC—so we wanted to pull back the curtain on the things therapists often learn the hard way: pricing, confidence, leadership, loneliness, burnout, and what success really looks like after the early hustle phase. In this conversation, we cover: Why most therapists start with zero business training (and what to do anyway)The “version 1 vs version 10” trap therapists fall intoHow Justin set his first fee (and why he’ll never haggle again)A realistic approach to raising rates without spiralingWhy “don’t base your business on someone else’s secret” matters more than everThe hidden loneliness of entrepreneurship (no-shows, cancellations, declined cards, overhead)How becoming a business owner changes you—emotionally, mentally, and relationallyManaging burnout + anxiety while still showing up for clientsThe leadership challenges that come with scaling and relinquishing controlHow to build trust in yourself by keeping your word to yourself If you’re in private practice, thinking about starting one, or navigating the messy middle of business ownership... this episode will feel like a deep exhale. -- Resources: Building and managing the practice you truly want can feel overwhelming. That’s why Alma is here—to help you create not just any practice, but your private practice. With Alma, you’ll get the tools and resources you need to navigate insurance with ease, connect with referrals that are the right fit for your style, and streamline those time-consuming administrative tasks. That means less time buried in the details and more time focused on delivering exceptional care to your clients. You support your clients. Alma supports you. Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE–an exclusive offer for STC listeners. -- Want to launch your online course? Check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.

    46 min
  5. 12 FEB

    412: How to Create a Podcast That Actually Pays Off

    Most podcasts never make a dollar. Not because the host isn’t talented. Not because their strategy is bad. But because they quit too soon, or they measure ROI the wrong way. In this episode, I break down what 11 years of podcasting (and nearly 2 million downloads) have taught me about building a podcast that actually pays off. The 3 Forms of Podcast ROI1️⃣ Trust – Deep relational credibility that compounds quietly over time 2️⃣ Longevity – Most quit early; sustainable rhythm wins 3️⃣ Assets – Turn episodes into evergreen SEO infrastructure Podcasting is not about going viral. It’s about building something that compounds. If you’re a therapist building a podcast (or considering it), this episode will help you think beyond downloads, and design something sustainable, profitable, and aligned. Resources: Building and managing the practice you truly want can feel overwhelming. That’s why Alma is here—to help you create not just any practice, but your private practice. With Alma, you’ll get the tools and resources you need to navigate insurance with ease, connect with referrals that are the right fit for your style, and streamline those time-consuming administrative tasks. That means less time buried in the details and more time focused on delivering exceptional care to your clients. You support your clients. Alma supports you. Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE–an exclusive offer for STC listeners. -- Want to launch your online course? Check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.

    19 min
  6. 5 FEB

    411: Making Peace with Your Becoming: Navigating Brand Evolution as a Therapist

    In this deeply honest and practical conversation, I’m joined by fellow clinician and creative coach TJ Walsh as we explore what it means to evolve your brand in real time — especially when your identity as a therapist is shifting. TJ introduces a simple but powerful framework: Push. Pull. Propel. It’s a guide for navigating professional discomfort, emerging desires, and the momentum that comes from integrating both. We talk about: * Why branding is worked out in real time * Letting go of perfectionism and overthinking * The emotional cost of being “the product” in therapy work * How to know when it’s time to pivot * Building Quiet Builder and navigating multiple identities * Intuitive practices for clarity and alignment * Why slow growth is often the greatest gift If you're in a season of change — whether it's launching a new offer, exploring a new part of yourself, or simply wondering “what’s next?” — this one is for you. Resources: Building and managing the practice you truly want can feel overwhelming. That’s why Alma is here—to help you create not just any practice, but your private practice. With Alma, you’ll get the tools and resources you need to navigate insurance with ease, connect with referrals that are the right fit for your style, and streamline those time-consuming administrative tasks. That means less time buried in the details and more time focused on delivering exceptional care to your clients. You support your clients. Alma supports you. Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE–an exclusive offer for STC listeners. -- Want to launch your online course? Check out our new membership site! Find out more and get on the Haven Waitlist here.

    41 min

About

With 1.81 million+ downloads, Selling the Couch is an Apple Top Career podcast for current and future mental health private practitioners who think differently. Psychologist Melvin Varghese interviews successful therapists in private practice about how they built their businesses as well as top entrepreneurs, business/marketing, and social media experts.* You'll learn how therapists get referrals, grow their practices, work through fears, find their enough, and stop "trading time for income." Melvin also shares the lessons as he grows his impact + income beyond the therapy room (podcasting, YouTube, writing, online courses, masterminds, investing, etc) and the tips and tools he uses to grow STC from a single-person business to the CEO of a 6-figure business.* Featured in Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and Psych Central ****Get show notes and even more good stuff at sellingthecouch.com/stcpodcast*

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