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  • Purpose doesn't follow your Timeline | Ps Martin Mgiba

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    Purpose doesn't follow your Timeline | Ps Martin Mgiba

    How Did We Get Here? is Mpoomy Ledwaba's best-selling coming-of-age story. Looking back on her upbringing, major milestones and the challenges she’s faced, Mpoomy takes us on her journey of self-discovery. Order your copy here👉:https://www.amazon.co.za/How-Did-We-G... Sign up for the Wisdom & Wellness Private Membership: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/si… … In today’s episode, you’re going to hear a deeply honest and refreshing conversation about calling, timing, family, purity, purpose, and what it really looks like to walk with God over the long haul. Joining Mpoomy is Pastor Martin, founder of Eternal Glory Church, a pastor, husband, and father whose journey reminds us that success doesn’t have to be fast to be faithful. Timestamps 05:25 Meet Pastor Martin: Nervous, faithful, and walking into a dream 06:50 Mpoomy’s childhood moment that shaped her love for preaching 07:32 Icebreaker: Childhood dreams and getting to know Pastor Martin 10:25 First jobs, early responsibility, and learning to work young 11:40 Being intentionally planted early in life and faith 12:15 Did he ever imagine another career? (Including dreams of singing) 14:00 Bonding over a shared love for R&B music 15:00 Family, siblings, accents, and growing up together 17:40 Navigating church, culture, and belonging 18:35 Building a church that bridges township faith and urban spaces 20:34 Growing up with daily prayer, Bible study, and present parents 23:10 Nature vs nurture: Shaping a child’s path with intention 23:22 Speaking God’s truth over your children 24:50 “Let them be” vs being intentional as a parent 25:17 How seeing parents pray together shaped leadership and life 30:20 When and where Pastor Martin got saved 31:14 What made him want to become a preacher 34:00 Love story: Meeting his wife and knowing she was “the one” 43:05 An honest reflection about purity, struggle, and growth 45:00 Why a guarded life comes from presence, not strictness 46:56 Standing boldly for truth, even when it makes you an outcast 50:20 Being a late bloomer: First car at 32 and trusting the process 51:20 Watching peers climb while choosing a different path 51:50 You don’t need the whole plan, just the first step 59:22 When someone believes in you before it makes sense (David & Adullam) 1:04:38 Why pastoral success didn’t happen immediately 1:06:00 How to hear God when you don’t recognize His voice 1:08:53 Lessons from friendship, marriage, and fatherhood Follow Mpoomy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mpoomy_ledw... TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba... Follow Wisdom & Wellness: Instagram: / wisdomwellness_   Facebook: Wisdom & Wellness Website: www.wisdomwellness.co.za Sign up for Mpoomy’s newsletter: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/sunday-nuggets-opt-in   Listen to Wisdom & Wellness Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop Tuesday! Spotify: Apple Podcasts: Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.

    1 day ago

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    1h 22m
  • Jaspreet Singh: Why Most People Stay Broke (Follow THIS 7-Step System to FINALLY Stop Living Paycheck-to-Paycheck!)

    19 JAN

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    Jaspreet Singh: Why Most People Stay Broke (Follow THIS 7-Step System to FINALLY Stop Living Paycheck-to-Paycheck!)

    Money doesn’t define you, it reveals what you value, what you understand, and whether your choices are leading to freedom or confinement.   Jay sits down once again with entrepreneur and financial educator Jaspreet Singh for a comprehensive conversation about money, mindset, and the systems that quietly shape our financial realities. Jay opens up about how success, comparison, and social pressure distort our relationship with wealth, while Jaspreet challenges the idea that financial struggle is purely personal failure. Together, they unpack why so many people work hard yet feel stuck, caught in a cycle they were never taught how to escape, and why the first step to financial freedom isn’t earning more, but really understanding the rules of money.   Jay and Jaspreet lay out a clear, practical framework for building financial stability, from redefining money as a tool rather than a measure of self-worth, to understanding debt, investing, and the habits that keep people broke. Jaspreet breaks down complex ideas into simple, actionable steps, emphasizing the importance of having emergency savings, intentional spending, and long-term ownership over short-term appearances.   Together, they explore how artificial intelligence is accelerating inequality between those who understand it and those who ignore it, and why learning to use AI is becoming essential across every industry. Rather than chasing fast money or quick wins, they encourage listeners to focus on education, adaptability, and patience, building systems that serve their values, protect their families, and create lasting impact.   In this interview, you'll learn: How to Break the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle How to Treat Money as a Tool, Not Your Identity How to Build a $2,000 Safety Net Fast How to Separate Spending, Saving, and Investing How to Use AI to Get Ahead at Work and in Business How to Build Wealth Without Chasing Fast Money   If money has ever felt overwhelming, confusing, or out of reach, this is your reminder that nothing is “wrong” with you, you were simply never taught the rules. Small decisions, repeated consistently, have the power to change not just your finances, but the way you see your future. Want smarter money insights without the noise? Sign up for Jaspreet’s free Market Briefs newsletter and get bonus access to his investing masterclass here: https://briefs.finance/c2ebdb   With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty   Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.    Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast    What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:25 Are You Stuck Living Paycheck to Paycheck? 07:26 The Illusion of Looking Rich While Being in Debt 18:37 What is the First Thing You Should Cut to Start Saving Money? 27:13 The Fastest, Most Realistic Way to Make More Money 32:47 How to Become Revenue-Generating at Work or in Business 34:31 Start by Solving a Problem You Already Understand 39:03 How to Start Investing (Even With Little Money) 45:13 Begin With the Easiest Investing Option Available 46:43 How the Stock Market Really Works 51:17 Why Quick Money Never Lasts 53:59 Where the Real Financial Opportunities in AI Are 01:01:48 What Market Briefs Is and Why It Matters 01:03:46 How to Prepare for an AI-Driven Economy 01:09:52 The Best Places to Learn About AI Right Now 01:12:20 Why Financial Education Matters More in the AI Age 01:14:02 Spend More on Investments That Increase Your Freedom   Episode Resources: Website | https://theminoritymindset.com/  Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/minoritymindset  YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/minoritymindset  TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@minoritymindset   X | https://x.com/MinorityM1ndset  LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/company/minoritymindset  Facebook |  https://www.facebook.com/MinorityMindset/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    19 Jan

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  • Sales Expert Shelby Sapp: The Simple Sales Framework You Can Use in Work, Money, and Relationships (Follow THIS Method to FINALLY Get The Life You Deserve)

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    Sales Expert Shelby Sapp: The Simple Sales Framework You Can Use in Work, Money, and Relationships (Follow THIS Method to FINALLY Get The Life You Deserve)

    We’re not failing at life. We were just never taught how to speak up, handle rejection, and confidently ask for what we want. Today, Jay sits down with sales leader and entrepreneur Shelby Sapp to unpack why sales isn’t about convincing others, but about understanding people, building trust, and believing in yourself. Shelby shares how the skills that helped her go from door-to-door sales to building a thriving business are the same skills we use every day: advocating for ourselves, navigating rejection, and communicating our value. She reframes sales as a mindset shift, from seeing “no” as failure to seeing it as feedback, explaining why learning how to sell is really about learning how to think, speak, and lead with confidence. Jay and Shelby break down the core principles that make sales applicable to every area of life: identifying leverage, creating real value, keeping things simple, and having the courage to ask for what you want. Shelby explains why people don’t buy products, they buy solutions, outcomes, and relief and how rejection becomes easier when you stop taking it personally. They also dive into the deeper mindset shifts that separate those who stay stuck from those who grow. Shelby challenges the idea that confidence comes before action, revealing instead that confidence is built by doing uncomfortable things repeatedly and overcoming rejection. Jay reflects on how sales skills teach resilience, the ability to keep showing up with belief even after setbacks, and why handling rejection well can unlock opportunities in every part of life. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Sell Without Feeling Manipulative How to Communicate Your Value Clearly How to Handle “No” Without Taking It Personally How to Ask for What You Want (and Get It) How to Identify What Truly Motivates People How to Stop Overexplaining and Keep It Simple How to Create Momentum When You Feel Stuck Progress isn’t about perfection, it’s about momentum. Trust yourself enough to ask, to act, and to keep going. The skills you build today will shape the confidence, freedom, and purpose you step into tomorrow.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:23 You’re Already Using Sales in Your Every Day Life  02:53 The Power of the Reframe  04:42 The Core Sales Skills Everyone Needs 08:03 Sales Isn’t Manipulation, It’s Emotional Leadership 12:59 One Connection Can Change Everything 17:41 Building a High-Income Skill is Essential  19:51 Why Mindset Is the Real Advantage 21:35 A Simple Sales Process That Actually Works 27:31 The Most Memorable Thing You’ve Ever Been Sold 30:55 How to Spend Money More Mindfully 34:44 How to Get Started in Sales (Even If You’re Scared) 35:42 Are Networking Events Worth Your Time? 39:39 There’s No Limit to What You Can Earn 43:15 How to Create a Major Salary Jump 46:19 Jobs That Sharpen Your Sales Skills 47:49 The Mindset That Keeps People Stuck 49:35 The Power of Believing in Yourself  51:59 How to Sell Any Product Effectively 56:44 Sell Me This Pen 01:02:41 Why Assumptions Kill Sales 01:04:09 How to Handle Rejection Without Losing Momentum 01:07:27 How to Reframe Any Objection 01:12:07 The Right Way to Ask for a Raise 01:15:44 What Employers Are Really Looking For 01:20:06 It’s Not a No, It’s a Lesson 01:21:22 How to Talk About Your Wins Without Ego 01:23:24 The Most Challenging Deal of All 01:25:29 Why the Best Sellers Preempt Objections 01:27:12 Why We Struggle to Invest in Ourselves 01:30:57 Shelby on Final Five  Episode Resources: Shelby Sapp | https://shelbysapp.com/  Shelby Sapp | https://www.instagram.com/shelby.sapp/  Shelby Sapp | https://www.youtube.com/@Shelbysappyt  She Sells | https://shesellsremote.com/  She Sells | https://www.instagram.com/shesellsacademy See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2 days ago

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    1h 42m
  • Stop Saying Yes When You Want to Say No! (Follow THESE Clear Boundaries to Protect Your Energy)

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    Stop Saying Yes When You Want to Say No! (Follow THESE Clear Boundaries to Protect Your Energy)

    Today, Jay breaks down why so many of us feel drained, overwhelmed, and burned out, and what it really means to protect your energy. He begins by unpacking the quiet habits that drain us without us realizing it: overgiving, overcommitting, mistaking busyness for worth, and confusing being agreeable with being kind. Jay reminds us that our energy is our currency, and whether we notice it or not, we’re spending it with every text, every thought, and every interaction. The people in our lives either expand us or exhaust us, and often, our bodies recognize the truth long before our minds catch up. Jay then breaks down the subtle relationship dynamics that quietly drain our energy. From emotional dumping and boundary testing to one-sided support and situational friendships, he explains how these patterns, often unintentional, slowly wear us down. He also turns the focus inward, revealing how we drain ourselves by seeking approval, avoiding discomfort, and trying to earn love through overextending. Protecting your peace isn’t about cutting people off, it’s about ending the cycle of self-betrayal that keeps you exhausted. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Protect Your Energy Daily How to Stop Overextending Yourself How to Respond When Someone Drains Your Energy How to Run a Weekly Energy Audit How to Build Physical, Emotional, and Energetic Boundaries Take a moment today to breathe, recalibrate, and return to yourself. You deserve to feel grounded, clear, and whole. The more you honor your own capacity, the more you’ll show up in the world with the warmth, clarity, and presence you’ve been searching for. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  What We Discuss: 00:00 Why Protecting Your Energy Matters 01:45 Your Energy Is Your True Currency 04:07 Energy Givers vs. Energy Takers 05:37 #1: The Emotional Dumper 06:48 #2: The Chronic Taker 07:36 #3: The Boundary Tester 09:04 #4: The Compliment Parasite 10:19 #5: The Situational Friend 11:39 The Hidden Inner Energy Leaks 14:01 Protecting Your Energy Without Becoming Cold 17:00 Three Practical Ways to Safeguard Your Energy 19:23 Reclaim Your Light See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    23 min
  • Abundance Isn’t What You Think

    27 JAN

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    Abundance Isn’t What You Think

    Welcome to Season 8 of the Wisdom & Wellness Podcast  We’re opening the year with a powerful, honest conversation about abundance, responsibility, rest, and becoming the person who can carry what they’re praying for. In this episode, Mpoomy and Brenden unpack God’s timing versus personal delay, the difference between kindness and niceness, why root work matters more than visible success, and how character, not personality, determines longevity. This conversation is the foundation for the start of the year, one that invites you to slow down, go deeper, and build well. Join the Wisdom & Wellness Membership, a monthly community for women seeking belonging, accountability, and spiritual growth. Sign up here: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/signup Get Mpoomy’s Book Continue the journey beyond the episode with Mpoomy’s book, a practical and faith-rooted guide to intentional living and wellness. Purchase the book here: https://www.takealot.com/how-did-we-get-here/PLID95906815?srsltid=AfmBOoqgMCf1IPhgxjSZShPxPy6M8o-07Usw8NTVe70c65YiiFgfiD7L Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.

    27 Jan

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  • NICK JONAS: The REAL Story Behind a Lifetime of Fame, His Inner Critic, and How Fatherhood Changed Everything

    19 HR AGO

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    NICK JONAS: The REAL Story Behind a Lifetime of Fame, His Inner Critic, and How Fatherhood Changed Everything

    What happens when success arrives before you truly know who you are. How do you learn to quiet the inner critic while becoming a better partner, parent, and person in the process? Today, Jay sits down with Nick Jonas for an intimate conversation about identity, purpose, and the inner work that comes with growing up in the spotlight. Nick opens up about what it was really like starting his career so young, dealing with rejection early on and growing up with the pressure of being labeled “the shy, creative one.” As the conversation unfolds, Nick shares how fatherhood, marriage, and health challenges have profoundly redefined his priorities. He reflects on the vulnerability of becoming a parent, the anxiety that comes with loving someone so deeply, and the grounding practices, movement, routine, and therapy that help him stay present. Through stories of his daughter’s early days, his evolving relationship with faith, and the inspiration behind his new music, Nick reveals how creativity became both a refuge and a mirror, allowing him to heal, grow, and speak more honestly than ever before. Jay and Nick discuss what it truly means to be a good partner, a present parent, and a kinder version of yourself, especially when life feels overwhelming. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Turn Life’s Hardest Seasons Into Creative Fuel How to Stay Grounded When You’ve Lived Life in the Spotlight How to Be a Present Partner Instead of a Defensive One How to Navigate Anxiety Without Letting It Define You How to Reconnect With the Fearless Version of Yourself How to Build Emotional Resilience Through Routine and Movement How to Show Up as a Better Parent by Healing Yourself First Wherever you are in your journey, know that it’s okay to slow down, ask better questions, and choose compassion over criticism. You’re allowed to evolve, outgrow old labels, and rewrite the way you speak to yourself.  Nick Jonas’ new album, Sunday Best, out February 6th: https://nickjonas.lnk.to/SundayBest With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:13 Who Is Nick Jonas Today? 05:02 Stepping Onto Broadway at Eight Years Old 07:00 What was It Really Like Growing Up in the Disney Spotlight? 08:40 Facing Financial Uncertainty as a Kid 11:08 Turning Deep Struggle Into Music 14:53 Finding Your Identity Beyond Labels 16:42 The Ongoing Journey of Self-Discovery 19:20 Why Early Exposure Became the Best Training Ground 22:16 Everyone Makes Mistakes 25:34 Recognizing and Quieting Your Inner Critic 31:53 Understanding the Unconditional Love of a Father 36:05 Staying Emotionally Strong for Your Family 40:18 The Moment He Fell for Priyanka Chopra 42:33 The Blending of Two Cultures  45:45 What His Wife Really Thinks 51:45 What Does it Mean to be a Good Husband? 54:50 Seeing the World Through a Child’s Eyes 58:06 The Fears That Come With Fatherhood 01:01:34 How Movement Helps Clear the Mind 01:03:53 Navigating Stressful Moments With Grace 01:08:04 Nick on Final Five Episode Resources: Nick Jonas | https://nickjonas.com/  Nick Jonas | https://www.instagram.com/nickjonas  Nick Jonas | https://www.tiktok.com/@nickjonas  Nick Jonas | https://www.youtube.com/user/NickJonasVEVO  Nick Jonas | https://x.com/nickjonas  Nick Jonas | https://www.facebook.com/nickjonas  Nick Jonas | https://nickjonas.tumblr.com/  Nick Jonas | https://www.snapchat.com/@jicknonas See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    19 hr ago

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    1h 11m
  • Why Most People Will Never Build Wealth (And How to Be Different) | Vivian Tu

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    Why Most People Will Never Build Wealth (And How to Be Different) | Vivian Tu

    Vivian Tu reveals the brutal truth about prediction markets that are really just gambling in disguise, and why most people will stay stuck in a comfortable but unfulfilling B+ life. She shares the powerful mindset shift that separates people who build wealth from those who stay trapped in scarcity, explaining why getting comfortable with discomfort is essential for growth. Vivian breaks down the buy borrow die strategy wealthy people use to never pay taxes, and why generational wealth is really about generational knowledge. She opens up about being the generation in her family tree who had to plant the seeds even though she may never taste all the fruit, and how her immigrant parents' sacrifices shaped her relentless work ethic and unshakeable belief that only good things happen to girls like her. The Greatness Playbook: The Financial Freedom Edition Vivian’s books: Rich AFWell EndowedIn this episode you will: Understand how wealthy people use the buy borrow die strategy to build assets instead of buying stuff and why this knowledge gap keeps generational wealth in the hands of the fewBreak free from the myth that you're bad with money and reframe your relationship as being on a money journey that you controlTransform your approach to relationships by recognizing that your partner is the single most important financial decision you'll ever make and why love alone will never be enoughDiscover why embracing discomfort is the only way to escape the dangerous trap of a B+ life where you tread water for years without ever reaching your full potentialMaster the three step plan that separates people who create financial abundance from those who stay stuck in the same place for decadesFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1884 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 More SOG episodes we think you’ll love: Lewis Howes [SOLO] Daniel Priestley Brendon Burchard Get more from Lewis!  Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on Spotify Text Lewis AI YouTube Instagram Website Tiktok Facebook X Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    2 days ago

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    1h 29m
  • The #1 Financial Freedom SECRET Rich People WON’T Tell You!

    12/09/2025

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    The #1 Financial Freedom SECRET Rich People WON’T Tell You!

    Codie Sanchez drops truth bombs about why everything you've been taught about building wealth is backwards. From her awakening moment in college when she refused to let anyone control her through money, to building a multi-million dollar empire by buying "boring" businesses, Codie reveals the mindset shifts that separate the wealthy from the broke. She breaks down why saving your way to riches is a myth, how to buy your first business with little money down, and the relationship dynamics that either fuel or destroy your success. This conversation will make you question every assumption you have about money, ambition, and what it really takes to build the life you want. Codie’s book Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses Codie’s podcast The BigDeal Podcast with Codie Sanchez In this episode you will: Discover why saving money will never make you rich and what wealthy people do instead to multiply their wealthLearn the exact 10-step framework for buying your first cash-flowing business without massive capital or experienceTransform your relationship with money from scarcity to abundance by understanding the psychology of wealth buildingBreak free from energy vampires and toxic relationships that sabotage your success and financial growthMaster the art of building a partnership that amplifies both people's potential rather than limiting itFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1823 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 More SOG episodes we think you’ll love: Daniel Priestley – greatness.lnk.to/1795SC Rory Vaden  – greatness.lnk.to/1792SC Chris Camillo – greatness.lnk.to/1771SC Get more from Lewis!  Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on Spotify Text Lewis AI YouTube Instagram Website Tiktok Facebook X Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    12/09/2025

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    1h 49m
  • MEL ROBBINS: How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty (Follow THIS Simple Rule to Set Boundaries and Stop Putting Yourself Last!)

    14 JAN

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    MEL ROBBINS: How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty (Follow THIS Simple Rule to Set Boundaries and Stop Putting Yourself Last!)

    Jay is joined on stage at Boston’s Wang Theatre by his longtime friend Mel Robbins, in front of a packed live audience. Their shared history allows them to speak openly and honestly about the pressure to be liked, the fear of being misunderstood, and how easily we lose ourselves trying to meet other people’s expectations. Mel’s superpower is her ability to choose herself in moments when giving up or staying small feels safer. Mel shares the hard truths she’s learned about self-criticism, people-pleasing, and why waiting to feel “ready” keeps us stuck. Jay reflects on how constantly judging and fixing ourselves pulls us away from our inner life, and why real growth starts with awareness and self-respect. Mel also talks about how many of her biggest changes came from desperation, not confidence, and Jay reframes jealousy, fear, and failure as signs that something meaningful is trying to emerge. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Stop Letting Other People’s Opinions Run Your Life How to Quiet Your Inner Critic When Stress Takes Over How to Unlearn the Self-Criticism You Were Taught Growing Up How to Stop Waiting to Feel “Ready” to Start Living Your Life How to Break the Habit of People-Pleasing Without Guilt How to Use Jealousy as a Clue Instead of a Curse How to Keep Going When Desperation, Not Confidence, Is Driving You Life doesn’t change all at once. It changes when you choose to speak to yourself with kindness, honor your needs, and take the next step even when you’re afraid. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:17 What Do We Really Worry About Most? 02:12 How to Quiet the Inner Critic 15:50 Stop Obsessing Over the Physical  18:17 How People-Pleasing Is Actually a Form of Control 25:02 Start Listening to Your Own Needs 29:54 Finding the Strength to Let Go and Move Forward 41:15 Is it a Vibe or Not a Vibe? 46:18 Creating Safety by Letting Go of Judgment 50:04 The Power of Outlasting Yourself 58:50 Making Space for Hurt While Choosing Compassion 01:05:14 Turning What You Love Into a Business Episode Resources: Website | https://www.melrobbins.com/  Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/  YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/melrobbins  TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins  The Mel Robbins Podcast The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    14 Jan

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    1h 16m
  • How to Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself This Year (5 Rules to Avoid Getting Stuck in the Wrong Relationship)

    23 JAN

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    How to Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself This Year (5 Rules to Avoid Getting Stuck in the Wrong Relationship)

    Falling in love can be one of the most beautiful experiences in the world, but it can also be the place where we lose ourselves. Today, Jay invites us to pause and reflect on how we fall in love, and what it’s costing us when we do. Love, he explains, isn’t meant to complete us or rescue us from our pain; it’s meant to add to a life that already feels rooted and whole. Too often, we mistake intensity for intimacy and attachment for alignment, ignoring the subtle signals that tell us whether a relationship is helping us grow or quietly pulling us away from who we are. Jay unpacks the biggest mistakes we make in love, beginning with the habit of outsourcing our emotional healing. When we rely on a partner to regulate our emotions, fix our wounds, or validate our worth, love becomes a burden rather than a blessing. He encourages us to tune into the signals that matter most, how you feel after conversations, whether your energy expands or contracts, and if your values are being respected. These signals aren’t signs of failure; they’re invitations to deeper self-awareness and healthier connection.  In this episode, you'll learn: How to Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself How to Stop Making Love Your Identity How to Let Love Add to Your Life, Not Replace It How to Heal Yourself Without Relying on a Partner How to Recognize Emotional Red Flags Early How to Choose Someone Who Respects Your Life How to Build Love That Supports Your Growth Love doesn’t have to feel like losing yourself, proving your worth, or shrinking to be chosen. It can be calm, supportive, and deeply affirming when it’s built from self-respect and clarity. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:11 How to Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself 02:10 The Biggest Mistake We Make in Love 03:42 #1: Love Should Bring More Join In  08:12 #2: Don't Outsource Your Emotional Healing 09:57 #3: Don't Ignore the Signals 13:14 #4: The Three Love Boundaries You Mustn't Cross 16:05 #5: Fall in Love with Someone Who Loves Your Life See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    23 Jan

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    22 min

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