Her first salary was bigger than his after six years of work. Most men would feel threatened. But PG Sebastian made a decision that saved his marriage and built his wealth. In this raw, deeply personal episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with PG Sebastian, relationship coach, certified family counselor, published author, and corporate professional with over 2,700 clients under his belt, for a conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about provision, ego, and what it really takes to survive a long distance marriage. PG opens up about the trade-offs he had to make when his wife earned more than him from day one, the 30 days apart and 12 days together routine that tested their covenant, raising three kids alone while his wife worked miles away, and the one statement his wife made in the kitchen that changed his entire approach to marriage. This isn't theory. This is a counselor who lived what he preaches, and the results speak for themselves: two houses by age 40, a thriving family, and a marriage that gets stronger every year. If you're in a long distance relationship, struggling with ego, or wondering whether provision is really just the man's job, this conversation will give you a roadmap you won't find anywhere else. Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting PG Sebastian - Counselor, Author, and Corporate Professional 00:01:00 Her First Salary Was Bigger Than Mine After Six Years 00:03:45 The Business Decision: Choosing Long Distance Marriage 00:09:39 Killing Ego Before It Kills Your Marriage 00:11:32 Why Men Force Women to Quit Their Careers 00:12:15 The Morning Glory Problem: Surviving Physical Distance 00:13:48 Everything Is Possible When You Make Up Your Mind 00:17:10 The Day She Got the Job: Timing and Divine Intervention 00:18:15 Being the Head Without Being the Provider 00:21:19 When Your Income Catches Up: The Reversal 00:28:08 The Solo Father: Eight Months Alone With the Kids 00:29:00 If Your Wife Was Dead, You Would Do It 00:38:42 Two Houses By 40: The Payoff of Sacrifice 00:39:36 Communication: The Real Foundation of Long Distance 00:51:03 You Are My Only Friend: When Your Spouse Is Your Best Friend 00:55:15 Learning to Love Her: The Daily Journey 00:55:55 The Comment That Changed Everything 00:56:42 If Nobody Is Dying, Let It Slide 01:02:52 Final Thoughts: The 20 Percent That Gives 80 Percent Value Guest: PG Sebastian ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this before they say "I do"
