The Thais Gibson Podcast

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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!

1 DAY AGO

Do THESE Things to Heal Anxiety in Relationships!

Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-25-24&el=podcast In this episode, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio explore the journey of healing an anxious attachment style. They break down six crucial pillars of transformation, including self-soothing, meeting your own needs, regulating the nervous system, and fostering healthy communication and boundaries. Packed with tangible tools and relatable analogies, this deep dive empowers listeners to move from anxiety to secure attachment. Whether you’re navigating relationships, self-growth, or emotional balance, this episode offers actionable strategies to rewrite your subconscious patterns and embrace meaningful connections. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:59 - 6 Pillars to Become Secure 04:21 - Healing Anxious Attachment: Spend Time With Yourself 13:33 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Mike) 19:39 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Thais) 25:54 - Putting Others on Pedestals 30:22 - AquaTru 32:37 - 6 Human Needs 41:59 - Opening Up About Needs & Imbalances 43:10 - Reactive Communication 49:13 - When You Have an Unmet Need 57:58 - Conclusion Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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2 DAYS AGO

Introducing Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Check out Heather Monahan's Creating Confidence Podcast. Each week, Heather shares techniques and strategies to create your confidence, pursue your dreams and leapfrog the villains you’ll meet along the way. Take your life to the next level and tune into Creating Confidence!

1 min
3 DAYS AGO

These Things Reveal if an Avoidant is Healing

Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-23-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-23-24&el=podcast In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and her co-host, Mike Di Zio dive into the healing journey of avoidant attachment styles, focusing on how to recognize if a dismissive or fearful avoidant is making progress in their emotional growth. Join Thais and Mike as they break down the key signs of healing, such as the avoidant's gradual reconnection with their emotions and body. They discuss practical tools and strategies for avoidants, like journaling, meditation, and mindfulness practices, to help them process suppressed feelings and reduce their instinct to avoid vulnerability. The episode also explores the common misconception that avoidants are emotionless, revealing how they often numb themselves rather than confront their inner experiences. The hosts share personal stories and provide real-life examples, including a powerful analogy comparing emotions to a "check engine light," signaling unmet needs. They offer insights on how avoidants can begin to recognize these signals and respond with self-care rather than avoidance. The conversation highlights the importance of routines, physical activity, and reducing technology use to help avoidants stay grounded and connected with their emotions. Listeners will gain actionable advice on how to support a partner with avoidant tendencies, including how to create a safe space for open communication and ways to encourage vulnerability without pressure. This episode is essential for anyone looking to better understand avoidant attachment patterns and support loved ones on their path to healing. Timestamps: 00:00:00 – Introduction: Healing Dismissive Avoidant Attachment 00:01:00 – Why Discomfort Leads to Growth 00:02:15 – Core Wounds and Rewiring Negative Beliefs 00:04:00 – Meditation and Emotional Awareness 00:06:00 – Emotional Feedback and Recognizing Needs 00:08:30 – Self-Soothing vs. Self-Numbing Explained 00:11:00 – Setting Boundaries: Survival vs. Nuanced Approaches 00:13:15 – The Six Pillars of Secure Attachment 00:15:30 – How to Rewire Negative Patterns Through Practice 00:18:00 – Communicating Needs Effectively in Relationships 00:20:15 – Building Emotional Resilience and Vulnerability 00:23:00 – Key Triggers for Dismissive Avoidants in Relationships 00:26:00 – Importance of Emotional Safety and Trust 00:29:30 – Understanding Loneliness and Quality Connections 00:33:00 – Rewiring Beliefs About Independence and Dependence 00:36:30 – Responding to Feedback Without Defensive Behaviors 00:40:00 – Shifting from Avoidant to Secure Attachment Dynamics 00:45:00 – Developing Deeper Emotional Awareness Over Time 00:50:00 – Practical Tools for Breaking Avoidant Patterns 00:55:00 – Final Steps for Healing and Building Secure Relationships Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 8m
5 DAYS AGO

THIS IS Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant People

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-21-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-21-24&el=podcast Are you stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable or avoidant partners? In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, dives deep into the subconscious patterns that draw us to these dynamics. Learn the three critical reasons behind this pattern and discover actionable steps to break free and create meaningful, fulfilling relationships. Thais combines her expertise in attachment theory, the subconscious mind, and neuroplasticity to uncover the hidden comfort zones that shape our connections. She also shares a transformative exercise to help you rewire these patterns and shift your attraction to healthier dynamics. Whether you're seeking emotional closeness, clarity in your standards, or better boundary-setting strategies, this episode offers valuable tools and fresh perspectives. Tune in to start your journey toward lasting connection and personal growth. Subscribe, rate, and share to support your personal development journey! Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 min
19 NOV

THIS Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Having a Phantom Ex

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-19-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-19-24&el=podcast "THIS Is How a Secure Person Responds to Someone Having a Phantom Ex!" is your guide to navigating the tricky dynamics of dating someone who can't seem to let go of their past. Hosted by Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, this episode dives deep into the strategies securely attached individuals use to address challenges when their partner frequently brings up an ex. Learn how to openly communicate, address unmet needs, and set healthy boundaries while staying true to your values. Discover tools to foster emotional availability, improve relationships, and maintain self-respect. Whether you're building a connection or navigating complex dynamics, this podcast equips you with insights for a healthier, more secure approach to relationships. Subscribe, rate, and share to transform your subconscious patterns and empower your personal growth journey! Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 min
16 NOV

Foundations of Longevity: Sleep, Nutrition, and Wellness Strategies with Nathalie Niddam

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-16-24&el=podcast In this episode, we dive into the key elements of promoting longevity and a better quality of life. Our guest, Nathalie Niddam, a holistic nutritionist and wellness advocate, discusses the foundational pillars of health—sleep, nutrition, movement, and stress management. Learn actionable strategies for improving sleep hygiene, incorporating whole foods, and building sustainable habits that support physical and mental well-being. Discover how small, intentional changes today can lead to long-term vitality and joy. Perfect for anyone seeking realistic and impactful health tips. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:09 - Nathalie Niddam’s Backstory 06:52 - Getting Started on Longevity 10:36 - Inflammaging 16:11 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 17:02 - Pillar 1: Sleep 24:34 - Individuation 27:01 - Pillar 2: Nutrition 36:35 - Measuring What Does and Doesn't Work 40:14 - Where to Start 42:59 - Pillar 3: Exercise & Movement 46:39 - Pillar 4: Managing Stress 50:58 - Find More Nathalie Niddam Content 51:38 - Conclusion Find Nathalie Online: Website: https://www.natniddam.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathalieniddam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nathalie.niddam/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

54 min
14 NOV

This Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Flaw-Finding in Relationships

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast When a partner starts focusing on flaws and pulling away, it can feel confusing and hurtful. In this episode, Thais Gibson explores how a securely attached person would handle an avoidant partner’s flaw-finding behavior. Learn the key steps—like not personalizing criticism, addressing the pattern directly, and maintaining healthy boundaries—that foster open communication and prevent misunderstandings. Thais also shares strategies to build secure attachment and resilience in relationships. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 min
12 NOV

THIS Is How To Heal Fearful Avoidant Triggers FAST & Improve Relationships

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Are you feeling the ups and downs of a relationship that seems like an emotional rollercoaster? In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, dives into the root of this instability by exploring the fearful avoidant attachment style and its common triggers. Learn how unresolved core wounds, like fear of betrayal or rejection, resurface in relationships, creating intense, often overwhelming emotions. Thais shares actionable steps for rewiring these subconscious patterns to foster secure, healthy attachments. Tune in to discover transformative exercises that help you break free from the cycle of fear and instability, leading to more fulfilling relationships and inner peace. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Never felt so seen

6 Sept

Ririluvz

I listen to a lot of Podcasts on relationships and dating etc but never has my attachment style fearful avoidant been explained so well ever before. Most have just spoken about anxious or avoidant. It feels good to know and understand the why’s and how’s of my attachment style and why I feel like I feel in all relationships in life. Thank you so much 🫶🏻
Thais Gibson is amazing

16 Mar

amtaufahema

Great listen very relatable & educational