Don't Let The Old Man In

Pod O'Sullivan

DLTOMI is a podcast brought to you by Pod O’Sullivan, where he has real and candid conversations with experts, celebrities and ordinary men about navigating midlife. The ups, the downs, the surprises, the opportunities, the secrets and how to do it on your terms, gracefully or even disgracefully! Pod will explore ways to take charge of your health, to divorce well, to reinvigorate your sex life, to find ways to lift your spirit, to join new communities, to make sure you have enough money for retirement, to laugh, to cry if needed, to change perspectives, and most importantly, to ensure your second act is even better than the first. Pod O’Sullivan has been fascinated with transitions and personal reinventions for most of his life. His career has seen him in the medical industry, in sales and marketing, consulting industries, being self-employed, being an entrepreneur who successfully sold businesses, being an educator at Sydney Business School, an author, an Executive Coach to 100’s of CEO’s all over Asia, a podcaster, the owner of a "failed" tech start up and now the co-founder of The Wisdom Vault and host of this podcast. He is also a Doctoral student in Oxford research how men navigate midlife and how they (we) might do it better. Migrating from Ireland and England to Australia taught him many lessons. Divorcing with two young kids threw a few more his way. Remarrying and creating the ‘Brady Bunch’ with Carole, his two children and three new daughters, topped off many great life’s lessons. Pod knows the harsh reality of life’s ups and downs and firmly believes that mid-life, while tough on many levels, can also be lonely on others and downright confusing on yet others; it can also include the best stages in life. He is here to explore and find those! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 3 days ago

    What Men Carry (And How To Put It Down) | Why Unprocessed Grief is Costing You More Than You Know with Dan Foster

    Dan Foster is the CEO of the Centre for Men and Families, a rites of passage organisation heavily influenced by the work of Richard Rohr. After spending years in ministry and theology, Dan found himself in the middle of his own midlife deconstruction — which is exactly where his work now lives. The Centre runs two programs: one for young men navigating the first half of life, and one for men in midlife and beyond who've ticked all the boxes and still feel the ache. This conversation is for every man who's hit 40, 45, or 50 and quietly wondered — is this all there is? It's also for the man who's been carrying something for decades and hasn't yet found a safe enough place to put it down. Books mentioned: Adam's Return by Richard RohrIron John by Robert BlyFalling Upward by Richard RohrAlso referenced: Poetry of David Whyte and RumiDocumentary: The ManosphereBruce Springsteen on "trying to get home to a home he never had"Other men's work mentioned: Men's Tables — David PontinMen's Circles UK — Pascoe AshtonMongrels Men Sydney — Tim Houston Connect with Dan Foster & the Centre for Men and Families: [centreformenandfamilies.com] 00:00 — Intro & Welcome 02:35 — Richard Rohr, Adam's Return, and the 5 Hard Truths 07:14 — You're not in control — and why that's actually good news 08:27 — Mens Programs - Forged (18–30) and Men's Rite of Passage (30+) 15:05 — Why rituals work — the 3 reasons men open up 20:25 — Men communicate better side by side — fire, circles, and brotherhood 24:44 — What men actually leave with: relief, peace, self-acceptance 31:36 — The manosphere, elders, and what young men are really hungry for 41:39 — Whatever you don't process, you project Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    47 min
  2. 15 June

    One Number That Predicts Your Future with Professor Scott Fulton

    Professor Scott Fulton is a research engineer turned functional health span expert, author of the #1 bestselling book Function, and chair of the National Aging and Place Council in the US. After a career troubleshooting complex systems across industries, Scott turned his engineering mind to the one system nobody was looking at properly: the aging human body. His work draws on over 700,000 participants and 10 million person-years of data to answer a question most men don't think to ask until it's too late: what will actually determine how well you function in the second half of your life? This conversation is for every man over 40 who thinks being fit means being healthy. It's also for the man who's never tested his balance, flexibility, or reaction time, and doesn't yet know that one of those is quietly becoming his weak link. Book mentioned: Function by Scott Fulton — available now, currently #1 bestseller Connect with Scott Fulton: scottfulton.ca 00:30 — Why You Should Listen 04:28 — Why Runners Can't Walk: The Biomechanics Explained 09:34 — The Statistic That Will Change How You Walk Today 13:10 — Falls Aren't a Strength Problem — They're a Reaction Time Problem 16:39 — The 5 Domains of Functional Health Span 21:42 — If You Don't Demand It, You'll Lose It 26:12 — The Top 4 Self-Assessments to Do This Week 35:28 — Why Disease Is Not Your Biggest Threat — Function Is (2:1) 40:04 — Why Men Lose Their Social Network the Day They Retire 48:18 — What Your 80-Year-Old Self Is Asking of You Right Now Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    51 min
  3. 8 June

    She’s Not Angry At You! What Men NEED to Know About Menopause with Thea O’Connor

    Thea O'Connor is a menopause educator, workplace consultant, and researcher who has spent years doing what almost nobody else was doing — talking to men about their experience of menopause. After her own disorienting perimenopause journey derailed what she'd planned as her "power decade," she went public on national radio in 2018 at considerable professional risk. What followed was a body of work that now reaches boardrooms, Senate inquiries, and international standards organisations. This conversation is for every man who has ever felt confused, rejected, helpless, or like he was spending a lot of time in the doghouse without knowing why. It's also for the women in their lives who want them to understand. Resources Mentioned Australasian Menopause Society — directory of menopause-informed doctorsThe Orca Effect — Thea's program for women navigating menopause in the workplaceThea's men and menopause survey — link in show notes and newsletterElizabeth Cady Stanton — American suffragist quoted by Thea: "We shall not be in our prime before 50, and after that we shall be good for 20 years at least." Connect with Thea O'Connor 🌐 Website /survey: https://www.thea.com.au/ Timestamped Overview 00:26 — Why Every Man Needs to Hear This 02:03 — Thea's Own Menopause Derailed Her Power Decade 03:12 — Why She Went Public at Professional Risk 05:06 — What Menopause Actually Is — The Basics 07:27 — The Symptoms Men Miss or Misread 09:28 — Dishwasher Rage — And What It Really Means 10:30 — How a Man's Attitude Affects Her Symptoms 14:39 — What Men Misinterpret as Personal Rejection 18:07 — What Men Actually Said in Thea's Interviews 19:53 — You're Still Allowed to Set Standards 22:47 — Menopause in the Workplace — The Manager's Role 29:13 — Orca Whales & Why Menopause Is a Promotion 35:16 — Fixing Hormones Won't Fix a Bad Marriage 38:34 — How Thea Feels as a Post-Menopausal Woman 40:48 — Final Words: Embrace the Change Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min
  4. 1 June

    Your Most Important Relationship Is With Yourself | Dating in midlife with Kerri Sackville

    In this episode of Don't Let the Old Man In, we sit down with Kerri Sackville, author of Out There: A Survival Guide to Dating In Midlife, to unpack the truth about navigating relationships and dating in the next stage of life. We discuss the power of solitude, why people return to dating before they're ready, how to manage your own baggage, and the challenges men in particular face. Suggest a topic for us to cover: https://dontlettheoldmanin.com/suggestions/ Subscribe to our newsletter: https://dontlettheoldmanin.com/subscribe/ In this episode, we cover: Why dating after divorce demands emotional robustnessThe difference between loneliness and solitude (and why it matters)Why men so often lack emotional support networks post-separationRed flags that reveal themselves on the very first dateHow to build a relationship with yourself before seeking one with someone elseThe honesty test: why it solves 90% of dating problemsWhat midlife dating actually looks like ... without the sugar-coating CHAPTERS: 00:00 Navigating Emotional Needs Post-Separation 05:47 The Dynamics of Dating in Midlife 11:55 Honesty and Boundaries in Dating 17:45 Lessons Learned from the Dating Scene 25:18 The Essence of Relationships 27:12 The Fear of Solitude 30:29 Transformative Alone Time 32:30 Self-Discovery Through Solitude 36:29 The Impact of Social Media 38:10 Understanding Solitude vs. Loneliness 39:59 Practical Steps to Embrace Solitude 42:11 The Role of Purpose in Life 45:01 Navigating Loneliness and Grief 48:08 Accepting Aging and Life's Cycles 50:27 Finding Meaning in Good Moments Listen to this episode as a podcast: https://linktr.ee/dontllettheoldmanin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min

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DLTOMI is a podcast brought to you by Pod O’Sullivan, where he has real and candid conversations with experts, celebrities and ordinary men about navigating midlife. The ups, the downs, the surprises, the opportunities, the secrets and how to do it on your terms, gracefully or even disgracefully! Pod will explore ways to take charge of your health, to divorce well, to reinvigorate your sex life, to find ways to lift your spirit, to join new communities, to make sure you have enough money for retirement, to laugh, to cry if needed, to change perspectives, and most importantly, to ensure your second act is even better than the first. Pod O’Sullivan has been fascinated with transitions and personal reinventions for most of his life. His career has seen him in the medical industry, in sales and marketing, consulting industries, being self-employed, being an entrepreneur who successfully sold businesses, being an educator at Sydney Business School, an author, an Executive Coach to 100’s of CEO’s all over Asia, a podcaster, the owner of a "failed" tech start up and now the co-founder of The Wisdom Vault and host of this podcast. He is also a Doctoral student in Oxford research how men navigate midlife and how they (we) might do it better. Migrating from Ireland and England to Australia taught him many lessons. Divorcing with two young kids threw a few more his way. Remarrying and creating the ‘Brady Bunch’ with Carole, his two children and three new daughters, topped off many great life’s lessons. Pod knows the harsh reality of life’s ups and downs and firmly believes that mid-life, while tough on many levels, can also be lonely on others and downright confusing on yet others; it can also include the best stages in life. He is here to explore and find those! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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