Sharing My Truth

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Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

  1. 2 HRS AGO

    She Gave Me Her Number… Then Ghosted Me? Here’s Why

    You meet in real life. There’s a vibe. She gives you her number. So why does everything fall apart the moment you text her to set up a date? In this episode, we break down a listener voice note from a man who keeps hitting the same frustrating pattern: great in-person connection, number exchanged, one follow-up text… and then silence. This isn’t random, and it’s happening to more men than you think. We get into: Why women give their number but don’t follow through The biggest mistake men make when texting after meeting What your message might actually be communicating (without you realizing) Timing, tone, and how quickly things can lose momentum What to do differently so this stops happening again Mel and Suzie don’t completely agree on this one, which makes it even more interesting. One leans into giving it more space, the other calls out where men are unintentionally killing attraction. If you’ve ever thought, “I did everything right, so what happened?” then this episode is for you. Want more honest dating advice from women who actually tell you the truth? Check out our free guide: Female Brain Decoded  Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    32 min
  2. APR 29

    How Do I Know If My Wife Is Cheating? Signs and What to Look For

    “How do I know if my wife is cheating?” That’s the question a listener sent in, and in this episode, we unpack it honestly, without jumping to conclusions. Mel and Suzie don’t fully agree on this one, which makes it even more real. One leans into trusting your instincts; the other challenges how easy it is to misread normal relationship shifts as something more. We talk through: The signs people think mean cheating… and which ones actually matter Changes in behaviour, communication, and emotional distance When your gut is picking up on something… vs when you might be overthinking What to do before you accuse, assume, or spiral Mel also makes a point that hits hard: once you say the words out loud and accuse your partner, you can’t take that back. Even if you’re wrong, it changes everything. This episode is less about catching someone out… and more about handling a situation that can easily go sideways if you get it wrong. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    38 min
  3. APR 22

    Red Flags and Green Flags in Dating and Relationships, Are You Missing the Signs?

    You sent them in… and we’re reading them out. In this episode, we go through real red flags and green flags our listeners have experienced in dating and relationships and give our honest take on each one. Some are obvious, some are questionable, and some might surprise you. We react to: Red flags people weren’t sure about, but probably should have been Green flags that actually signal something real (and not just “nice on the surface”) Situations that fall somewhere in the middle: Is it a warning sign or just human? The patterns we keep seeing again and again from both men and women Mel and Suzie don’t hold back, calling out what matters, what doesn’t, and where people tend to get it wrong. If you’ve ever second-guessed a situation or wondered “is this a red flag or am I overthinking?”, this one’s for you. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    31 min
  4. APR 15

    Smart, Successful Women… But Boring to Date? One Man’s Experience

    In this episode, we unpack a write-in from a man in his 30s who keeps dating women who, on paper, have everything, great careers, stability, intelligence, and their lives together. And yet, something isn’t clicking. The dates feel polite. Predictable. Low energy. So what’s going on? Is it modern dating dynamics? Are people playing it too safe? Or is there a disconnect between what looks good on paper and what actually creates attraction? We get into: Why some dates feel flat, even when everything seems “right” The difference between being accomplished and being engaging Whether modern dating is making people more passive How routine and playing it safe can kill chemistry What both men and women might be missing early on This isn’t about putting women down, it’s about exploring a pattern that more people are noticing but not always saying out loud. If you’ve ever left a date thinking, “I should be into this… but I’m just not”, this conversation will feel very familiar. 🎧 Real conversations. Honest perspectives. No filters. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    31 min
  5. APR 8

    Are Men Trying Too Hard in Dating… And Getting Nothing Back?

    More and more men are starting to feel like dating has become one-sided. You plan, you lead, you pay, you follow up, and still, it goes nowhere. So what’s actually going on? In this episode, we break down the real question: how much effort is too much? And do women even see it the same way? We get into: Why dating can feel one-sided for men right now The effort men put in that often goes unnoticed Whether women actually think about this How over-investing can quietly work against you What the right level of effort really looks like This isn’t about blaming either side. It’s about understanding the gap that’s making modern dating frustrating for both men and women. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right and still not getting the result you want, this one will hit. 🎧 New episodes weekly. Real conversations, no filters. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    47 min
  6. APR 1

    Do Women Expect To Come First ? A Man’s Dating Dilemma About His Priorities

    A male listener writes in with a question a lot of men quietly struggle with, how much should you prioritize a woman early on… especially before date two? He’s busy, focused on work, and not interested in dropping everything for someone he barely knows. But he’s noticing something; things seem to fizzle if he doesn’t step up quickly. So what’s really going on? Do women expect to come first right away, or is that just modern dating pressure? And where’s the line between showing interest and losing your own priorities? Mel and Suzie break down: Why early dating can fall apart before it even starts The difference between effort and over-investing Whether women actually expect to be prioritized, or just want consistency How men can show interest without abandoning their own life This episode gets into the real tension men feel, trying to build something with a woman while still holding onto their time, focus, and sense of self. If you’ve ever wondered why things fade after a great first date or felt like dating is competing with your real life, this one will hit. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    31 min
  7. MAR 25

    The First Night At His Place: What Women Actually Expect, And What Most Men Get Wrong

    What really happens the first night you go back to his place? For a lot of couples, that moment can feel exciting, awkward, confusing, and full of unspoken expectations. Men often think they know what women want in that situation… but many get it completely wrong. In this episode of the Sharing My Truth podcast, Mel and Suzie break down the reality of the first night at his place. What women are actually looking for, the subtle signals men often miss, and the small mistakes that can instantly change the mood. From effort and atmosphere to confidence, communication, and respect, we talk about the things that make a woman feel comfortable, attracted, and open to where the night might go… and the behaviors that quietly kill the connection. We also get honest about the pressures both men and women feel in modern dating, and why the first night together can reveal more about a relationship than most people realize. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and some brutally honest insights that might change how you think about that moment when the door closes behind you. If you’re dating, thinking about dating, or just curious about the psychology between men and women, this conversation is for you. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    38 min
  8. MAR 18

    My Fiancée Makes Me Feel Like I’m Not Good Enough. Should I Still Marry Her?

    A listener writes in with a question many men are afraid to admit out loud. He’s about to get married, but instead of feeling excited, he feels insecure. He says his fiancée often makes him feel like he’s not good enough for her, whether it’s comments about money, ambition, or the kind of man she thinks he should be. Now he’s wondering if these are normal pre-wedding doubts… or a sign he should rethink the relationship entirely. In this episode, Mel and Suzie unpack a tough but important question: what happens when one partner feels constantly judged or “not enough”? Is this just nerves before marriage, or a deeper compatibility issue? We talk about insecurity in relationships, pressure before the wedding, and how men and women sometimes push their partners without realizing the damage it can do. We also get into the bigger conversation around doubts before marriage, feeling inadequate in a relationship, and whether love should make you feel secure or constantly trying to prove yourself. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    30 min
4.4
out of 5
14 Ratings

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Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

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