Sharing My Truth

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Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

  1. 2D AGO

    I’m 32, A Successful Woman, And Exhausted By Dating. Am I The Problem?

    Dating in your 30s can feel exhausting, especially when you’re a successful woman who has done the work, built a full life, and still keeps ending up in the same dating patterns. This episode is inspired by a write-in from a 32-year-old woman who is financially stable, emotionally aware, and completely burned out by dating and is quietly wondering if she’s the problem. We read her message and talk openly about dating burnout for women in their 30s, why modern dating feels harder for successful women, and how repeated disappointments can start to feel personal. We unpack the pressure to stay positive, question your standards, or wonder if being too independent is working against you. This is not an episode about self-blame or surface-level dating advice. It’s an honest conversation about dating fatigue, self-reflection without self-criticism, and what actually needs to shift when you’re doing everything “right” but dating keeps going the same way. If you’re a woman in your 30s who feels tired, frustrated, or stuck in dating, this write-in will feel uncomfortably familiar. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, and the real Meet our partner guybrator.com Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod FSign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    34 min
  2. JAN 28

    What You Should Never Say On A Date: Shocking Truths From Our Listeners

    We asked our listeners one simple question: what is the one thing someone said on a date that instantly killed the vibe? The answers were brutal. From oversharing ex drama and financial confessions no one asked for, to “jokes” that were anything but funny, this episode dives into the real-life comments that turned promising dates into absolute no’s. Some were awkward, some were shocking, and a few were so bad we had to pause and ask, did they really say that out loud? We break down why certain phrases are instant dealbreakers, what these comments actually signal underneath, and how to avoid sabotaging a date before the appetizers even arrive. If you’re dating, thinking about dating, or just love secondhand cringe, this one will make you laugh, wince, and rethink your go-to date stories. Listen before your next date.  Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    39 min
  3. JAN 21

    AITA For Wanting My Girlfriend To Quit Her Job Because I Can Afford it

    He hasn’t asked her. He’s just thinking about it and wondering if even thinking this makes him the asshole. In this episode, we break down a relationship dilemma that’s more internal than confrontational. A man earns enough to comfortably support both himself and his girlfriend, and he’s debating whether it’s wrong to want her to quit her job. Not because she asked. Not because there’s a problem. Simply because he can afford it, and believes it might make their life easier. We unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface: money, power, intention, and fear of how this question might land. Is wanting to provide a loving instinct, or does the thought itself cross into control before the conversation even starts? This episode dives into financial roles in modern relationships, independence versus partnership, and why money conversations can feel so loaded before a single word is spoken. If you’ve ever hesitated to bring up a sensitive topic because you were worried about how it would sound, this one’s for you. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    31 min
  4. 2025-12-31

    The Relentless Pressure Men Face To Perform: What Men Are Really Struggling

    Men are expected to have it all together. Make the money. Stay strong. Lead the relationship. Never complain. Never crack. But what actually happens when the pressure to perform never lets up? In this episode, we read out a listener write-in and unpack the silent expectations placed on men, from success and sex to confidence and emotional control, and why so many men feel like they’re failing even when they’re doing everything “right.” We discuss the stress no one sees, the burnout no one asks about, and the internal battles men rarely feel safe admitting out loud. This discussion isn’t a blame game, and it’s not a pity party. It’s an honest conversation about modern masculinity, emotional isolation, performance anxiety, and what men are really struggling with behind closed doors. If you’ve ever felt like you had to carry it all without dropping the ball, this one will hit home. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    28 min
  5. 2025-12-24

    What Women Say They Want Vs What Masculine Men Actually Are

    What women say they want in a man often sounds clear on paper: emotionally available, confident, strong, kind, and secure. But in real life, attraction doesn’t always follow the script. In this episode, we unpack the growing gap between what women say they want and how they actually respond to masculine men in dating and relationships. This isn’t about blaming anyone; it’s about getting real about desire, polarity, and the confusion a lot of men feel when they do “everything right” and still get rejected. We talk about why masculine energy is often misunderstood, how modern dating culture has softened or distorted what masculinity actually looks like, and why some men feel pressured to tone themselves down to be chosen. If you’ve ever felt like the advice doesn’t match the outcomes or wondered why confidence and leadership are praised but punished in practice, this conversation will hit close to home. Honest, uncomfortable at times, and long overdue. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    43 min
  6. 2025-12-17

    Settling For The Nice Guy Or Waiting For The Dream Man: The Truth Women Don’t Say Out Loud

    Is it smarter to settle for the nice guy who treats you well or hold out for the dream man who gives you butterflies but no guarantees? In this episode, we unpack the quiet thoughts many women have but rarely say out loud. The pressure to choose safety over chemistry, fear over desire, and timing over truth. We talk honestly about what “nice” really means, why attraction can’t be negotiated, and how guilt plays a bigger role in dating decisions than most people admit. This conversation goes beyond surface-level dating advice. We explore emotional safety vs sexual spark, the fear of ending up alone, and how social expectations push women to stay in relationships that look good on paper but feel empty in real life. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re being unrealistic, too picky, or quietly settling, this episode will hit close to home. It’s raw, honest, and exactly the conversation people avoid having about modern relationships. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    32 min
4.4
out of 5
14 Ratings

About

Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

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