Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 1d ago

    Why Dating Never Gets You The Relationship

    You can meet men. You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential… But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship. So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong. Do you need to choose better men? Be less available? Play it cooler? Change your profile? Be more in your feminine energy? Finally fix whatever it is that keeps making men disappear? Because after years of dating, it starts to feel like dating is this thing you have to finally get "right" before you get the relationship. And that’s exactly where the problem is. In this episode, I show you why trying to get dating "right" can actually keep the relationship feeling permanently out of reach. And why if you want to finally have the relationship, we have to entirely change the way that you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship.  Because the relationship doesn’t have to be this huge thing you’re trying so hard to finally get. It gets to become easy. A no-brainer. The natural next step. If you’re sick of another man, another talking stage, another couple of dates and then somehow ending up right back where you started, hit play and listen to this episode now. 🎧 Episode to listen to next: How To Break The "3rd Date Curse" 👉 AND if this is exactly where you're stuck, be sure to join us inside Attract YOUR Man... Our next 5-day Loved Up Week: FROM DATING TO THE REAL RELATIONSHIP starts the 24th August 2026. Where I'll help you completely change your approach to dating, so you can get off the endless dating merry-go-round and finally (and easily) get the relationship you wanted all along. Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  2. 3d ago

    The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You

    If you've been trying to find love for YEARS... You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want... You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible. It's still worth holding onto hope for. When finding love hasn't happening yet, it's easy to assume that NOTHING is happening. ...but that's where so many single women over 30 get love all wrong. Because the signs that love IS already happening for you are there. They just don't look the way you expect them to. So you completely miss them. And finding love becomes a whole lot harder than it needs to be. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognised the signs that love IS happening for you (even when it feels like the opposite is true).Why the earliest signs love is happening are so easy to completely misreadHow to turn those first signs into something that grows into more, into love. So instead of stumbling around blindly, wondering "is any of this getting me any closer to love?!?!" 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now. And finally see how love has been happening for you this whole time. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  3. 6d ago

    How To Find Love When You're Burnt Out By Trying To Find Love

    Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love? Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps. You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere. Tried of disappointing dates. Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't. It feels like you've tried everything already to find love. All the dating strategies, manifestation techniques, anxious attachment advice, how to be more in your "feminine energy" tips... Yet you're still single, finding love feels more hopeless than ever and you're just so burnt out by trying so hard for so long. If that's you, this episode will bring you a whole lot of relief... Because the very thing that will heal your burnt out is the same thing that makes love infinitely easier to find. In this episode, you'll discover: Why taking a break from dating never makes dating any easierWhat your dating burnout is really trying to tell youThe shift that helps you stop working against love so finding love becomes something that (actually!) leaves you feeling better than you do now. If you're getting closer and closer to the point where giving up on love would feel better than continuing how you have been... 🎧 Press play and listen to this episode now. Because finding love isn't supposed to leave you feeling burnt out, soul destroyed and exhausted. And how you find love from here, is the very thing you most need 😘 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  4. Aug 2

    He's Nice… But There's No Physical Attraction

    Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for... ✅ He's kind ✅ Emotionally available ✅ You feel safe around him ✅ He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet. But there's just no spark? No chemisty. 0 physical attraction 😐 So now what??! Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows? Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person? This exact question came up inside Attract YOUR Man recently. And it sparked a fascinating conversation that revealed the truth about dating and physical attraction when what you want is a long term, lasting, loving relationship. Inside this episode, you'll discover: Whether physical attraction can actually growWhat to do when a man has everything you're looking for... except the sparkThe dating mistake that could be causing you to walk away from the right menWhat women who've found lasting love had to say about attraction, chemistry and first datesA completely different way to think about physical attraction that makes finding the whole package man a whole lot easier! If you've ever worried about settling... Walked away from a genuinely good man because something felt "missing"... Or wondered whether you're expecting the wrong things in the early stages of dating... 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  5. Aug 1

    Why Healing Your Anxious Attachment Doesn't Work

    If you've ever called yourself anxiously attached, chances are you've also spent MANY months trying to heal it. You’ve read the books. Followed all the experts. Tried distracting yourself. Keeping yourself busy with new hobbies and friends. Hid your phone. Worked on becoming more “secure”. And yet somehow… You’re still caught up in the same exhausting cycle of overthinking, waiting, worrying, constantly checking your phone and ending up with emotionally unavailable men who only your anxious attachment worse. What if the problem isn't actually that you haven't healed your anxious attachment? In this episode, I'm sharing why your anxious attachment isn’t the thing you need to focus on if you want to find love. Because I was the woman compulsively checking my phone, obsessing over mixed signals and wondering why I kept attracting avoidant men. I know exactly what it’s like to be anxiously attached… And I also know what makes becoming securely attached so much easier. Inside this episode, you'll hear: • Why calling yourself "anxiously attached" makes it harder to overcome it and find love. • The hidden trap that keeps so many women over 30 stuck trying to fix themselves instead of finding love. • Why chasing every new piece of dating advice only delays the relationship you actually want. • The one shift that changed everything for me (FINALLY!) • How it transformed the way I dated • How I went from years of being anxiously attached to meet my husband after just 4 weeks of dating. If you're exhausted from trying to overcome your anxious attachment so that love can happen for you to, this episode will completely change the way you’ve been going about it. 🎧 Hit play to listen now. This is an episode every anxiously attached woman needs to listen to, so be sure to share it with all your anxiously attached friends! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  6. Jul 26

    Dating Hasn't Worked? Don't Make This Mistake...

    If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance… You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. It’s a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why they’re not a sign to give up on love and what the women who go on to find love do differently when this happens. You'll learn: Why dating setbacks aren’t a sign you won’t find love What to do when anxiety and overthinking come flooding backWhy trying to control dating only keeps you stuckHow to stop slipping back into old dating patternsThe simple course corrections that keep you moving towards loveWhy finding love isn't about getting everything right, it's about what you do when life and dating knocks you off course. If it feels like dating just hasn’t and won’t work for you, then this episode will give you an entirely new perspective on what’s happening and what this means you do from here to find love. Just because you’ve had a moment where dating hasn’t worked, it doesn’t mean love isn’t. 💖 Episode to listen to next: "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  7. Jul 25

    How To Break The "3rd Date Curse"

    What doesn’t dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship you’ve always wanted? Why does it always end at date 2 or 3… if that?! If you’re stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential. The first date goes well. The second date feels even better. You get kinda excited! 🥳 And then… He pulls away. Says he isn’t looking for anything serious. Ghosts you. Or things simply fizzle out before they ever become a real relationship 💔 🎧 Hit play on this episode now! Because inside, I’ll let you in on how to break what one of the women inside AYM calls the “3rd Date Curse”. That frustrating pattern where dating goes well… until it doesn’t. You’ll see why this pattern keeps repeating no matter what you do or how hard you try. And how it has NOTHING to do with a lack of decent, available men who want love or you being someone that the men you want, just don’t “choose”. I also share a story you’ll love from one of the women inside Attract Your man who couldn’t get past a 3rd date for years. …until one simple question I asked her changed everything. Seriously. She’s now getting married to the man she once believed she’d never meet (and on their son’s first birthday too!). In this episode you'll learn: Why it’s so hard to get past a 2nd or 3rd dateThe hidden belief that means dating never leads to an actual relationshipWhy this has nothing to do with menHow your expectations shape your dating experiencesWhy trying harder, texting differently or playing hard to get won't fix the problemHow to stop expecting relationships to fall apart before they've even begunThe real reason some women naturally move from dating into committed relationships. If you're exhausted by getting excited about someone only to find yourself back at square one a few weeks later, this episode will help you understand why that keeps happening and how to finally break the cycle. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

  8. Jul 22

    3 Things That Determine Whether (Or Not) You Find Love

    I’ve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly? Not every woman who joins finds love 🫣 I’ve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers. But this doesn't happen for everyone. And so I’ve spent the last year asking… WHY?   It's not because what I teach in AYM doesn’t work. It's not because there’s a lack of the right men. It's not because dating’s changed in a way that makes finding love harder. There are 3 clear reasons some women find love (and fast!) inside AYM and others simply don't. Inside this episode, I share those 3 reasons. And how I’ve now completely changed the structure of Attract Your Man, so no one who wants love gets left behind. In this episode you'll learn: Why some women find love through Attract Your Man while others don'tThe three things that actually determine whether or not you find loveHow Attract Your Man is now structured in a way that makes easier to find love (and easier to join!)How consistency creates lasting change (not perfection)Why dating “setback” aren’t setbacks at allWhat you need around you to stay on track until love happens for you too. If you've ever bought a course, started strong and then slowly drifted away from it… Or wondered why nothing seems to help you actually find love… Then this episode will clear up all of this for you. 🎧 Hit play to listen now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    64
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
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    Find Love With Emily

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