School of Self-Image

Tonya Leigh
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School of Self-Image is the go-to podcast for women who desire to transform their self-image so that they can create mind-blowing results in their lives. Join Master Life Coach, Tonya Leigh, as she shares tips, ideas, and inspiring conversations around elevating your mindset, style, and surroundings to create an extraordinary self-image. Episodes are released each Wednesday. Download the School of Self-Image Manifesto at schoolofselfimage.com/podcastmanifesto

  1. 1D AGO ·  VIDEO

    492: Put Down the Journal. Put On the Outfit.

    You've been writing about her for years. You know the way she carries herself. You know the outfits she'd wear, the dinners she'd attend, the way she says her opinion at the table without softening it first. You have written about her so many times you could find her blindfolded. And she is still standing on the wrong side of the page. Today I'm questioning something I love – and that I know you love, too. Journaling is beautiful. It's sacred. But somewhere along the way, writing about the woman you want to become started to feel like the same thing as becoming her. It's not. In this episode, we talk about the gap between the woman on the page and the woman in the mirror – why getting dressed might be the most underused tool in your transformation, and the science that proves what you wear is literally giving your brain instructions about who you are right now. The page is where she was hypothetical. The dress is where she becomes real. You don't have to think your way into her. You can dress your way into her. Here's what we cover: Why journaling, as beautiful as it is, can quietly become the thing keeping you stuck The Self-Image Cycle and its most underused entry point The Northwestern University study on enclothed cognition and what it means for your daily routine The little black dress that changed everything, and why it had nothing to do with the dress The difference between living from your desires versus living from your mood A micro-action to take this week that will bring her forward, no journaling required Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl #selfimage #personaldevelopment #tonyaleigh

    12 min

  2. APR 29

    491: The 30-Day Reset That Changes How You See Yourself

    Join me for The Spring Edit, a month-long experience inside the School of Self-Image that I'm doing right alongside you. One room, one honest look, and one woman deciding who she is now – and creating a space that says so. https://www.schoolofselfimage.com/go  There's a room in my house that I've called my studio for nearly two years. I've never once recorded a podcast in it. Two walls painted black, two white. Not a decision. A series of half-starts that never became anything. Every time I walk past it, it whispers: "You're a woman with beautiful ideas who doesn't follow through." But I know who does follow through. I've been her. The one who sailed through St. Barts in silk, spent a summer in the South of France, walked into rooms and felt like herself. Alive. Creative. Unapologetic. I set her down somewhere along the way. And maybe you did, too. You don't lose that version of yourself all at once. Life fills in around her, and one day you realize the door has been closed for a long time. In this episode, I'm making it public: I'm building that studio. And I want you to do this with me – because your environment is your identity made visible, and the woman you're becoming doesn't live in someday. She lives right now. Here's what we cover: The room in my house I've been avoiding, and the self-image conversation it's been having with me for years Why an empty room is still a mirror, and what yours might be saying about you The woman I've been outgrowing and the one I'm returning to What space you've been walking past every day (and what it's costing you) Why a weekend blitz can clean a room but cannot shift your self-image How 30 days of intentional choices build unmistakable evidence for who you're becoming My public commitment – and the invitation to join me Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    17 min

  3. APR 22

    490: Reinvent Your Life One Room at a Time

    Your environment tells a story about who you are. Inside the School of Self-Image, we're editing it – one room at a time. Join us for The Spring Edit. https://schoolofselfimage.com/join I used to live in a cabin in the woods. Not a charming stone cottage with wildflowers by the mailbox –  a cabin off a dirt road where your social circle is basically whoever delivers your packages. I loved that cabin. But it matched a version of me I was outgrowing. When I moved to a new city and signed the lease on a penthouse I was terrified of being able to afford, I didn't start with a Pinterest board. I started with a question: Who is the woman who lives here? That question changed how I designed my space, how I showed up in my life, and ultimately, who I became. In this episode, I'm sharing how your environment is your identity made visible – and how editing just one room can create a ripple effect across your entire life. From my bookshelf purge to the dinner parties that deepened every friendship I had, this is the story of how I stopped decorating and started designing for the woman I was becoming. Here's what we cover: Why your environment is your identity made visible – and how it's shaping you whether you realize it or not The one question I asked before designing my penthouse that changed my self-image How a single bookshelf kept me stuck in "perpetual repair mode" – and what happened when I cleared it Why starting with "who" instead of "what" is the secret to transforming any room The unexpected ripple effect of redesigning just one room What it means to edit your environment with intention, not just decorate or organize it Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    15 min

  4. APR 15

    489: You Don't Have a Clutter Problem – You Have a Self-Image

    If you see yourself in this story, the School of Self-Image is where this work lives. Step inside at https://www.schoolofselfimage.com/go I need to tell you something that I've never said on this podcast before. My home is beautiful. My closet is curated. My kitchen is organized to within an inch of its life.  But my bathroom cabinets? Chaos. Beautiful, expensive chaos. Standing in front of those open doors, 17 serums deep, I didn't have a big epiphany. I got embarrassed. The real kind. The kind where your stuff holds up a mirror, and you don't love what you see.  Because that mess wasn't a storage problem. It was a self-image problem wearing an organizing disguise. In this episode, I'm getting into what your stuff is telling you about yourself, why the bins and labels and the weekend purges never stick, and what really shifts when you stop trying to organize your things and start reorganizing how you see yourself. Here's what we cover: What your closet says about you – and why it might be an identity crisis hanging on a rack Why the organizing industry sells you systems for a problem that isn't about systems How every single thing you own is a decision filtered through how you see yourself The real reason you're exhausted at two o'clock (it's not because you're doing too much) What happened when I sorted my bathroom cabinet by "who bought this" instead of keep or toss Why the old stuff becomes unbearable once you change at the self-image level One thing you can do today to start choosing the woman you're becoming Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    13 min

  5. APR 8

    488: The Space You Keep Avoiding – and What It's Trying to Tell You

    If this episode stirred something in you, The Edit – my weekly newsletter – delivers more of these shifts straight to your inbox. Subscribe free at: schoolofselfimage.com/edit. What if the thing you've been avoiding isn't the problem… but the portal? In today's episode, I'm taking you inside a deeply personal story – one that started with a box in my garage but led somewhere I didn't expect. Because we all have something we've been walking past. A space. A conversation. A version of ourselves we quietly packed away. And what most of us don't realize is that avoidance isn't neutral. It's quietly draining the energy, clarity, and connection we need to become who we're here to be. This episode is about what happens when you finally stop walking past it – and start listening to what it's trying to tell you. Here's what we cover: • Why avoidance isn't laziness – but a fear of the emotions waiting on the other side • The hidden emotional layers behind what we avoid: disappointment, regret, fear, nostalgia, and grief • How "quiet avoidance" creates an ongoing drain on your energy, focus, and momentum • What it really means to grieve a former version of yourself – and why that matters • The realization that you haven't lost who you were – you've just lost the connection to her • Why the feelings you've been avoiding are never as heavy as the avoidance itself Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    22 min

  6. APR 1

    487: The Secret to Creating Vibrant Well-Being (Part 2)

    If this conversation is speaking to something in you, April inside the School of Self-Image is devoted to The Vibrant Well-Being Framework – and there's no better time to step inside. https://schoolofselfimage.com/go What if the reason you don't feel as vibrant as you'd like isn't your schedule, your body, or your circumstances – but something far more subtle? In the second part of our conversation, Laura Hinton and I explore one of the biggest hidden drains on your energy, and what you can do instead. From shifting how you reflect on your day to retraining your brain to look for awe to rediscovering joy through simple pleasures – this episode invites you into a completely different way of living. Here's what we cover: • Why complaining often hides in "just telling the story" and how it quietly shapes your daily experience • The simple shift from reporting problems to sharing wins and how it retrains your brain over time • How awareness of your emotional state reveals when you've slipped into complaint mode • The "and" technique that redirects complaints into solutions, acceptance, or empowered action • Why journaling evolves from processing problems to training your mind to notice awe and amazement • The overlooked key to vibrant well-being: choosing joy, play, and hobbies that make you feel fully alive Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    20 min

  7. MAR 25

    486: The Secret to Creating Vibrant Well-Being (Part 1)

    If this conversation is calling to you, April inside the School of Self-Image is devoted to The Vibrant Well-Being Framework – and there's never been a better moment to join us. https://schoolofselfimage.com/go What if vibrant well-being has nothing to do with how you look – and everything to do with how you feel inside your life? In this conversation with Laura Hinton, we explore the subtle ways high-achieving women unknowingly drain their own energy – from perfectionism to internal complaining – and what it really takes to feel alive again. If you've been successful on paper but are privately feeling heavy, this episode invites you into a new way of living. One rooted in joy, awe, and a deep appreciation for what you already have. True vibrancy isn't found in doing more. It's found in seeing differently. Key Points: What does a vibrant well-being mean to you? Identify what's weighing you down The challenge of letting things go Being meticulous as a success strategy Complaining is the thief of vibrancy How awe is a step above gratitude Notice the astonishing things in your life Take your foot off the gas Know what season you're in Make life more joyful again Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the channel, tap the notification bell, and leave a comment! You can also listen to the show on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl #vibrantliving #becomeunrecognizable #selfimagetransformation

    24 min

  8. MAR 18

    485: How to Enjoy Your Life More

    For a weekly dose of small but powerful shifts that elevate your self-image and your life, subscribe to my newsletter, The Edit. https://schoolofselfimage.com/edit Twenty years ago, in my former life as a critical care nurse, I was standing at the nurses' station at 5AM thinking, "Is this it? Is this what my life is going to feel like?" My life wasn't terrible. I had people I loved, a roof over my head, and a career that mattered. But I wasn't enjoying any of it. I was enduring it. Looking back, I realized I was in a completely conditional relationship with my own life. And that's what we're talking about today – because I think so many women are doing exactly what I was doing: postponing the enjoyment of their own lives. Here's what we cover: • Why so many women are in a conditional relationship with their lives – and what it quietly costs them • Why challenges aren't proof that life is off track, but part of the texture of a meaningful life • The shift from chasing "there" to making here the destination • How small daily choices can take you from enduring your life to actively engaging with it • The self-image shift that helps you become the woman who enjoys her life now, not someday Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review! You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms. How to Connect with Tonya Leigh Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/ Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/ Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    16 min
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School of Self-Image is the go-to podcast for women who desire to transform their self-image so that they can create mind-blowing results in their lives. Join Master Life Coach, Tonya Leigh, as she shares tips, ideas, and inspiring conversations around elevating your mindset, style, and surroundings to create an extraordinary self-image. Episodes are released each Wednesday. Download the School of Self-Image Manifesto at schoolofselfimage.com/podcastmanifesto

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  • Creator
    Tonya Leigh
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    507
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © COPYRIGHT 2024 SCHOOL OF SELF-IMAGE. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED
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