This episode follows a conversation with Roar, an F3 AOQ in Crawley, about how he found F3 through football, what kept him coming back, and how Forge has grown from a brand new AO into a strong local community. The discussion also touches on how F3’s mission of fitness, fellowship, and faith shows up in real life through leadership, consistency, support, and showing up for other men. Timestamps 00:00 - Retake chaos, live energy, and settling into the episode 00:21 - Welcome to In Cadence and guest introductions 01:50 - Quickfire warm-up: Coke vs Pepsi, Christmas vs birthdays, cats vs dogs 04:27 - Catwoman debate and shifting into would-you-rathers 05:34 - Hill sprints, bear crawls, crab walks, and the murder mile 07:06 - Organising events, comfort zones, and showing up for the work 08:51 - Strength vs speed and the bench press versus the four-minute mile 09:16 - Bringing people back into F3 and re-engaging missed pax 10:53 - The name game begins and Roar’s name guesses 12:53 - The real story behind the name Roar and the surname Lions 13:30 - How naming ceremonies vary across AOs 16:13 - Foruming about Forge, site naming, and why Gateway nearly won 19:11 - Why Tilgate Park feels like a gateway into something better 20:58 - Bulldog’s role, the first FNG wave, and the early Forge story 22:24 - Ten FNGs on day one and the chaos of the first naming ceremony 25:43 - Roar’s origin story: football, a poster, and a 5:30 a.m. surprise 27:15 - Feeling slow at first, then learning that slowing for the six matters 28:15 - Unexpectedly becoming a Q and loving the leadership journey 31:30 - The geography of expansion, beaches, and potential future AOs 33:33 - Advertising Forge, Facebook groups, and getting the word out 35:47 - Walk and talks, running club, and alternative on-ramps into F3 37:13 - Ruckabout, rucking culture, and the value of movement with purpose 38:55 - The deeper needs F3 met: fitness, sobriety, community, and support 42:06 - Why small struggles feel bigger in isolation, and why F3 helps 44:04 - Advice, recovery, and the joy of watching an AO mature 45:59 - Forge’s identity, core pax, and the importance of ownership 48:30 - Shed’s influence, fun beatdowns, and music as a signature 49:29 - Kids music, Spotify chaos, and the first 2.0 session 51:10 - Typical Roar beatdowns: warm-ups, bridge work, and cinder blocks 53:21 - Crab walks, incline crawls, and the weirdness of public bear crawls 56:26 - Consolidating the AO before chasing more FNGs 57:51 - Recent growth, 2.0 sessions, and first 30-30s 60:09 - Weird beatdowns, themed music rounds, and keeping sessions memorable 61:21 - Leadership at work versus leadership in F3 63:31 - Transferable skills: better communication, clearer expectations, stronger leadership 64:39 - Family life, kids at F3, and becoming a better role model 67:14 - Perfect sandwich build and the hot sauce debate 68:42 - The million-pound potato question and mashed potato winning out 71:43 - Superpowers, flying, and the trade-offs of being able to soar 73:11 - Crawley geography for global pax and the Watford line of demarcation 75:47 - IronPax Challenge, roster talk, and seasonal fitness plans 78:01 - Newlands Corner convergence, dragon boat racing, and community events 79:34 - Pop culture detours, movie references, and karaoke joy 82:28 - Welcome homes to recent pax across the network 83:47 - Roar’s closing message: gratitude, consistency, and why men should come try F3 85:25 - Closing thanks, mission recap, and sign-off F3 Nation’s mission is to plant, grow, and serve small workout groups for men for the invigoration of male community leadership. That mission shows up throughout this episode in a very practical way: a new AO is being built by local men, the workouts are only part of the value, and leadership keeps emerging from the pack rather than being imposed from above. The credo and core principles are also all over this conversation. The first principle, free of charge, appears in the way beatdowns, coffee, and community are offered without fanfare. The second and third principles show up in men leading by example and carrying responsibility for other men, whether that means going back for the six, helping a new pax feel included, or building an AO that reflects its own people instead of looking stamped and generic. The result is a clear example of fitness, fellowship, and faith working together in the everyday life of an AO. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices