Daddy Got Custody: Helping Good Parents Win Custody of their Kids

Fred Campos

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad on Twitter, shares his unique experience of winning a paternity suit and being full custody, of his then 4-year-old daughter. As a non-attorney but a male parent, he shares unique ideas on how to be a better parent and ultimately win a child custody suit. Fred's goal is to help good parents caught in the complicated process of divorce or child custody. This show has parenting and custody tips as well as attorney interviews from state to state.

  1. 5d ago

    DGC 051 - Interview with Chel Cartmill, Author of "Spider on My Neck"

    In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I sit down with Chel Cartmill, Next Chapter Transition Specialist and author of Spider on My Neck, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of divorce, custody, grief, and rebuilding your life after everything changes. Please contact Chel Cartmill at https://www.chelcartmill.com/  For my listeners, Chel is offering a complimentary consulting call here... https://bit.ly/469j06E  Chel explains why divorce can feel like a kind of death, how parents can continue showing up for their children while they are emotionally exhausted, and how to recognize the difference between normal grief and something deeper. We also talk about the overuse of labels like "narcissist," what emotional abuse can really look like, and why healing after divorce is not always a straight line. In the final part of the conversation, Chel shares the story behind her new book, Spider on My Neck, and how her own experiences with divorce, loss, fear, healing, and starting over shaped the message she hopes to give others. If you are a parent going through divorce, fighting for custody, grieving the loss of the family life you expected, or simply trying to figure out what comes next, this conversation is a reminder that the legal battle is only one part of the journey. Custody cases may be fought in courtrooms, but a lot of the real battle happens inside your own head and heart.

  2. Jul 5

    DGC 050 - The 10 Most Important Custody Lessons I've Learned in 27 Years

    After 27 years of dealing with custody battles, courtrooms, attorneys, judges, CPS, evidence, and the realities of raising kids after divorce, I've learned a few things—some of them the hard way. In this milestone 50th episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, I share the 10 most important custody lessons I've learned over the past 27 years. These aren't theories from a textbook. They come from my own custody battle, dozens of trips to court, years of raising my kids, and helping other fathers understand what it actually takes to fight for their children. We talk about why being a good dad isn't enough—you have to be able to prove it, why documentation and preparation matter, why temporary decisions can have long-term consequences, and why controlling your emotions may be one of the most important courtroom strategies you ever learn. Most importantly, this episode is about keeping the focus where it belongs: your kids. If you're a father facing divorce, custody litigation, or simply trying to become a stronger and more involved dad, these are the lessons I wish someone had given me when my custody journey began. 27 years. 50 episodes. A lot of mistakes, a lot of lessons—and four kids who made every bit of it worthwhile.

  3. Jul 3

    DGC 049 - What Fathers Should Never Say in Court

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why the words fathers choose in family court can have a lasting impact on their custody case. In this episode, Fred breaks down some of the most common courtroom phrases that can damage a father's credibility—even when they're true—and explains why judges listen for far more than just the facts. They are evaluating attitude, maturity, judgment, self-control, and whether a parent demonstrates a healthy co-parenting mindset. Fred walks through the statements fathers should never make in court, including phrases like "She's crazy," "I deserve custody," "My child wants to live with me," and "I did nothing wrong." He explains why these emotional or exaggerated statements often backfire and offers stronger, child-focused alternatives that present fathers as calm, credible, and prepared. Throughout the episode, he emphasizes the importance of replacing accusations with evidence, emotion with strategy, and self-focused language with a clear commitment to the child's best interests. If you're preparing for a custody case or simply want to avoid costly courtroom mistakes, this episode will help you understand how to communicate in a way that strengthens your credibility and keeps the focus where it belongs—on your child. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com.

  4. May 31

    DGC 048 - Why Temporary Orders Can Decide Your Entire Custody Case

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, explains why temporary orders in a custody case can matter far more than most fathers realize. In this episode, Fred breaks down how "temporary" arrangements often create the first court-approved routine for a child, shape the judge's first impression, and can give one parent the advantage of becoming the default parent while the case is still unfolding. He also explains why dads who treat temporary orders like a warm-up round may spend the rest of the case trying to climb uphill. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand why you need to take temporary orders seriously, prepare early, and show the court a stable, child-focused plan from the very beginning. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com

    DGC 048 - Why Temporary Orders Can Decide Your Entire Custody Case

  5. Apr 26

    DGC 047 - The Difference Between Being a Good Dad and Proving It in Court

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares a hard truth many fathers learn too late: being a good dad and proving it in court are not always the same thing. In this episode, Fred explains why love, sacrifice, and private fatherhood matter deeply in real life — but why family court often looks instead for documentation, patterns, credibility, and proof of daily involvement. He breaks down the gap between what a father knows he does, what his child knows he does, and what a judge can actually verify. If you are fighting for custody, this episode will help you understand how to make your fatherhood visible in a system that rewards preparation. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com

    DGC 047 - The Difference Between Being a Good Dad and Proving It in Court

  6. Apr 19

    DGC 046 — 5 Ways Parental Alienation Cost My Ex Full Custody of Our Daughter

    Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 23-year custody consultant, shares five real behaviors from his own custody case that contributed to his Ex losing full custody of their daughter Caitlyn. In this deeply personal episode, Fred walks through how failing to follow the court order, excluding him from medical decisions, involving Caitlyn in adult conflict, speaking negatively about Fred in front of their daughter, and being unable to say anything positive about him to anyone — including the judge — all added up to a pattern of parental alienation that the court could not ignore. If your Ex is doing any of these five things right now, this episode will help you recognize it, document it, and handle it the right way. More details and resources can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com

    DGC 046 — 5 Ways Parental Alienation Cost My Ex Full Custody of Our Daughter

  7. Apr 12

    DGC 045 — Interview with Dallas Criminal Attorney Nicole Knox

    In this episode of Daddy Got Custody, we sit down with Dallas trial attorney Nicole Knox to talk about the courtroom perspective of jury trials. From high-stakes courtroom strategy to the emotional realities parents face, Nicole shares what separates those who win from those who fall short. We dive into the difference between judge trials and jury and why a jury trial may be a better solution.  Nicole also breaks down how to handle interactions with law enforcement, what judges are really looking for, and how to position yourself as the stable, reliable parent your child needs. If you're in the middle of a custody fight—or want to be prepared before one starts—this episode gives you real-world insight from someone who's spent years defending clients when everything is on the line. Visit https://DaddyGotCustody.com Visit https://nicoleknoxlaw.com 214-740-9955

    DGC 045 — Interview with Dallas Criminal Attorney Nicole Knox

  8. Apr 5

    DGC 044 — What Caseworkers and Judges Look For in a Home Study

    Fred Campos breaks down exactly what caseworkers and judges are looking for during a home study—and why most Dads fail it simply because they don't prepare. Drawing from his experience and insights from his book, Fred explains that success starts long before the visit, with well-prepared paperwork, positive language about the Ex, and attorney-reviewed responses. He emphasizes that your home should immediately tell a story of stability, cleanliness, and intentional parenting—from a decluttered, well-maintained space to visible signs of a child-focused life like schedules, artwork, and family photos. Safety is critical, with proactive childproofing and organization playing a major role. Fred also highlights how everyday details—like what's in your fridge, how your child's room is set up, and even displaying a respectful photo of your ex—signal to caseworkers whether you foster a healthy environment. He wraps up with practical preparation strategies, reminding fathers that the home study can make or break their case, and that thoughtful, consistent preparation is the difference between passing and failing. Visit https://DaddyGotCustody.com

    DGC 044 — What Caseworkers and Judges Look For in a Home Study
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Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad on Twitter, shares his unique experience of winning a paternity suit and being full custody, of his then 4-year-old daughter. As a non-attorney but a male parent, he shares unique ideas on how to be a better parent and ultimately win a child custody suit. Fred's goal is to help good parents caught in the complicated process of divorce or child custody. This show has parenting and custody tips as well as attorney interviews from state to state.

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