What We Said

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Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.

1d ago

AI HAS GONE TOO FAR

We’re officially back to regularly scheduled programming with this month’s installment of advice! Creepy comments about a toddler’s hair coming in, an overbearing mom leaving footprints all over her daughter’s social media, and a very taboo workplace crush — all dilemmas submitted by you, the listeners. Jaci and Chelsey are here to talk through it all and give their best Valley girl advice. Have a burning question of your own? Submit it today for a chance to be featured next month! // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Old Navy: Shop jeans at oldnavy.com Lola Blankets: Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at Lolablankets.com by using code WHATWESAID at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Salt & Stone: Try Salt and Stone’s discovery set to find your signature scent — Go to saltandstone.com/WHATWESAID and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 15% off your first order. IQBAR: Text WWS to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply. Thrive Market: Use our link ThriveMarket.com/whatwesaid to get $30 off your first two orders. You cannot get this deal on the website—it’s only through our link. That right there covers your membership fee, so sign up now before this exclusive offer ends. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
3d ago

WE'RE READY FOR FALL

This week’s episode of the What We Said Podcast is a chatty one, covering everything from Jaci’s latest collaboration with the aloe vera based, good for you soda brand Hot Girl Soda to Chelsey’s trip to Julian and her battle with fall fashion in this season’s lingering heat. The girls also share some fall movie recommendations, their thoughts on their latest TV obsession, Widow’s Bay, and Chelsey’s current page turner, East of Eden. This is your official invitation to pretend it’s sweater weather, cozy up with a show or a book, and enjoy a nice beverage, even if the forecast says otherwise. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 50% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Old Navy: Shop jeans at oldnavy.com Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for fall and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. göt2be: Be slick with the göt2b Wax Stick! Visit got2b.us for more information. Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/livjpll3 #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Cash App Green features, Savings, Direct deposit, Round ups, Overdraft coverage and Discounts provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 29

HOT GIRLS MAKE MISTAKES, TOO

Jaci and Chelsey are kicking things off this week with their annual discussion about summer fading into fall, Chelsey joining the bricked up community, and Jaci’s watchlist of top rated films. Things wrap up with the story of a hilariously unplanned road trip. Double check your maps before heading out, ladies! // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID. Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for fall and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. göt2be: Be slick with the göt2b Wax Stick! Visit got2b.us for more information. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 22

In Memory of Jude

Trigger warning: this episode discusses pregnancy loss, baby loss, and Trisomy 18. We’re back after a much needed break. Chelsey opens up about the reason for their time away: the loss of her precious baby, Jude River. She shares her experience, from planning for their third child to navigating grief in the weeks following his passing. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 50% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Thrive Market: Use my link ThriveMarket.com/whatwesaid to get $30 off your first two orders. You cannot get this deal on the website—it’s only through our link. That right there covers your membership fee, so sign up now before this exclusive offer ends. Ladder: Remove the guesswork with Ladder, and get a real coach in your ear telling you exactly what to do for every workout - no thinking, everything planned for you. If you have an iPhone, head to ladder.fit/WHATWESAID and take a quick quiz to find your perfect Ladder plan. Use our link and get a free 7-day trial with NO credit card, and $10 off your first month if you join. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 15

OUR BEST VALLEY GIRL ADVICE

If there’s anything that deserves a return to the What We Said spotlight, it’s some of Jaci and Chelsey’s glorious advice. You all know it, love it, and keep coming back with burning questions that need answers from your hosts. This “Best Of” episode revisits your biggest dilemmas, from navigating different religious views to dealing with picky eaters. Is it ever okay to date a friend’s ex? Should you be concerned if your man refuses to wear his wedding ring? The girls also discuss catching your husband on Reddit, dealing with immature in-laws, and surviving snarky family group chats. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at www.skims.com/whatwesaid. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between chicken breast or top sirloin for a year OR ground beef for life, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid. Salt & Stone: Try Salt and Stone’s discovery set to find your signature scent — Go to saltandstone.com/WHATWESAID and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 15% off your first order. Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/livjpll3 #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Cash App Green features, Savings, Direct deposit, Round ups, Overdraft coverage and Discounts provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Lola Blankets: Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at Lolablankets.com by using code WHATWESAID at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 8

MY MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT

Prepare to cringe, because this “Best Of” episode is bringing back some of the most embarrassing moments from What We Said! We’ve got a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father in law that absolutely did not need to be said, and plenty more stories guaranteed to give you secondhand embarrassment. None of these moments happened to you, but your body will still react like they did. Feel free to pause the episode, take a breather and remind yourself this isn’t happening to you. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 50% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/WHATWESAID. Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Opill: You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online. Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. Read all label information. Use as directed. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Thrive Market: Use my link ThriveMarket.com/whatwesaid to get $30 off your first two orders. You cannot get this deal on the website—it’s only through our link. That right there covers your membership fee, so sign up now before this exclusive offer ends. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 1

SIGNS HE’S CONTROLLING YOU

Back again with another hit compilation, Jaci and Chelsey are getting into your WORST dating and relationship stories! From Tinder to Hinge and Mutual, no dating app is safe. They’re reading about scary tantrums, sneaky thieves, hometown romances, and how to make sure you don’t get stuck with the bill. Then things get spooky with stories about ghosting, the scariest dating phenomenon of all. Whether you’ve been robbed on a first date or left on read by someone you thought was the love of your life, this “Best Of” episode might make being single feel like the only option. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID. Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Mom Cozy: Right now you can get 10% off the Night Pro Bottle Warmer and 10% when you preorder the DeepClean Bottle Washer D8 at momcozy.com with code WHATWESAID. Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID. Lola Blankets: Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at Lolablankets.com by using code WHATWESAID at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Aug 25

MOST SHOCKING CONFESSIONS

This week, Jaci and Chelsey are revisiting some of the most shocking anonymous confessions ever shared on What We Said! They’re reading secrets about hooking up with the wrong person and bathroom moments that should have stayed private. There are bad habits to confess, plus a story that demands justice for grandma. Then things get petty with roommate revenge, harmless pranks, and listeners finding creative ways to get back at their exes. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Salt & Stone: Try Salt and Stone’s discovery set to find your signature scent — Go to saltandstone.com/WHATWESAID and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 15% off your first order. Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Cort: Rent today at cort.com/podcast. Labcorp: Visit OnDemand.Labcorp.com/whatwesaid and use code “whatwesaid” to save up to 15% on select tests. Opill: You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online. Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. Read all label information. Use as directed. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Chelsey Jade

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Jaci Marie

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4.7

out of 5

9,784 Ratings

Speaking Through Tears

Sep 25

KelseaE123

I have been thinking of you, Chelsea. I was wondering how you could ever come back and speak about Jude on the podcast without crying but you didn’t. You talked about him while crying, which is so admirable and honestly impressive. I am so sorry for your loss and am praying for you, Jude, and your family. Of course love the pod!
Chels 💕

Sep 22

hannahbcarp

Chels I am so proud and grateful that you shared your story of Jude. As a fellow pregnancy loss mama I cried through the whole episode and felt your pain. Praying for you in the days and years to come as you learn to walk with a limp.
easily the best podcast out there

Sep 15

theothetjaycee

I listen to so many podcasts and What we Said is always the one I look forward to the most. Im currently trying to get through all the episodes from the beginning so I know the old stories and jokes and it was good at the beginning but its so SO good now! Seriously look forward to the episodes every week! also as a postpartum mom i'm going to make a parasocial comment but I love listening to all the updates because it feels like im hanging out with friends when thats not really my life right now with 2 under 2🤍 love you girls🤍
Literally the best podcast ever

Sep 8

Caitlin S. Deer

I’ve been a listener from day one and I love this podcast so much. It’s like being on the phone with good friends at this point. Love them so much.