Don't Cut Your Own Bangs

Danielle Ireland
  • 4.9 (31)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE
  • UPDATED WEEKLY

Don't Cut Your Own Bangs is a cozy corner of the internet for high-functioning humans with big feelings — the capable ones who get things done but quietly wonder if something's missing. If you're the unicorn in a power suit (or a perfectly neutral sweater), building a life that looks "right" on paper but still craving something freer and more alive — you're in the right place. Hosted by therapist and author Danielle Ireland, this show feels like sitting on the couch with your best friend — if your best friend happened to be a therapist. Together, we untangle burnout, anxiety, pressure, and comparison, and learn how to turn emotions into allies instead of obstacles. This is a space for comfort, community, clarity — and a few laughs along the way. Because you deserve calm without having to earn it.

  1. Why Your Hair Isn't the Problem

    6D AGO

    Why Your Hair Isn't the Problem

    Have you ever left a hair appointment thinking… "Wait, do I like this?" Same stylist. Same haircut. Same color. But somehow… a completely different feeling. In this solo episode of Don't Cut Your Own Bangs, I'm unpacking why a "good hair day" has very little to do with your hair—and everything to do with your expectations, your nervous system, and the invisible stories running in the background of your mind. Because sometimes it's not the haircut. It's the pressure we didn't realize we were carrying into the chair. What This Episode Is Really About This episode is a gentle, honest look at the expectation gap—the space between what we hope something will make us feel and what it actually delivers. From salon chairs… to online shopping… to a very real Disney cruise moment that didn't feel quite as magical as expected—this conversation explores how we attach meaning to experiences and why that shapes how we feel about them. It's not always the experience—it's the expectation When we attach big emotional hopes to something (a haircut, a trip, a purchase), our brain is waiting for transformation. If it's just "good," it can feel like a letdown. You're not chasing the thing—you're chasing the feeling It's rarely about the hair, the sweater, or even the vacation. It's about wanting to feel confident, grounded, radiant, or like yourself again. Your nervous system is the filter Same outcome, different internal state = completely different experience. Calm, rested, present → "I love this" Overstimulated, stressed, self-critical → "Something feels off" "I don't like this yet" might just mean "this is new" Your brain has a mental snapshot of you. When something changes—even in a good way—it takes time to catch up. Confidence isn't created in the mirror The moments you feel most like yourself usually have less to do with how you look—and more to do with how safe, supported, and regulated you feel. Mentioned in This Episode If this conversation resonated and you're wanting a deeper way to connect with yourself: The Treasured Journal A guided journal designed to help you process your thoughts, slow down, and hear yourself more clearly https://danielleireland.com/journal Wrestling a Walrus: For Little People with Big Feelings A children's book (that adults love too) about understanding and sitting with big emotions https://danielleireland.com Listener Invitation If you've ever sat in your car after an appointment thinking, "Be honest… do I like this?" Send this episode to that friend you text in those moments. And if you're someone navigating big feelings inside a very full life— you're exactly who this space is for. Follow the show so you don't miss what's next.

    11 min
  2. If You've Been Feeling Overwhelmed, This Will Help You Feel Less Alone

    MAR 23

    If You've Been Feeling Overwhelmed, This Will Help You Feel Less Alone

    What if the thing you need most right now isn't more information, more productivity, or a better system — but community? In this episode of Don't Cut Your Own Bangs, I sit down with Sarah Harker, Chief Growth Officer of The City Moms, for a conversation about motherhood, mental load, burnout, risk-taking, friendship, and the kind of support that makes life feel a little lighter. Sarah's story begins in a place I think a lot of women will recognize: a season where life isn't exactly wrong, but it also doesn't feel quite right anymore. Before helping grow a national community for moms, Sarah spent 10 years working as a cardiac nurse and hospital administrator. Over time, she realized she was becoming just as invested in the well-being of the people she worked alongside as she was in the patients she cared for. That curiosity led her toward entrepreneurship, leadership coaching, and eventually to a dinner party where she met City Moms founder Janine Bobmeyer over a shared Anthropologie dress and an honest conversation about isolation. What followed was the beginning of a friendship, a business partnership, and a bigger vision for helping moms feel more connected, supported, and less alone. This conversation is honest, funny, and practical. It also has a very real-life-mom-energy feel in video form — including an interruption from Sarah's son's school and a quick pivot before another broadcast interview. In other words: it's polished and delightfully real. Be sure to follow along on YouTube too. In this episode, we talk about: Burnout, motherhood, and the mental load women carry Sarah's path from cardiac nursing to entrepreneurship The origin story of her partnership with The City Moms Why community matters more than perfection How growth gets easier when you stop trying to do it all alone A few standout lines from this episode: "Anytime I think someone is too busy, it's like God's laughing." "Motherhood wasn't meant to be done alone." "I just have to work a little harder — I think that's such a lie, especially for women and moms." "There's plenty of room for everybody." "What's draining you? What can be delegated?" Why this conversation matters What I love about Sarah — and about The City Moms — is that the mission doesn't feel performative. It feels practical, generous, and deeply rooted in real life. This isn't about being the perfect mom, doing more, or finding the one magical system that fixes everything. It's about making life more supported and more connected. And honestly? I think we need a lot more of that. Connect with The City Moms The City Moms: https://thecitymoms.org/ Mentioned in the Episode Fair Play Card Deck / Fair Play system: https://www.fairplaylife.com/ Who Not How: https://whonothow.com/ The Treasured Journal: https://danielleireland.com/journal Connect with Danielle Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-cut-your-own-bangs/id1427579922 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0VFZulonTvaa2HIPyJa4Tq?si=JyAzazfISPWyg6I11hAylg Watch and follow on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DontCutYourOwnBangs Website: https://danielleireland.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontcutyourownbangs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielleireland.LCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dontcutyourownbangspod Substack: https://danielleireland.substack.com Rate, Review, Subscribe + Share If this episode resonated with you, please take a minute to rate, review, and subscribe to Don't Cut Your Own Bangs. It helps more people find the show, and it really does make a difference. And if you know a mom, entrepreneur, helper, or high-functioning friend who needs this message right now, share this episode with them. This one is especially fun in video form too, so make sure you're following along on YouTube.

    49 min
  3. The Dance Lesson That Quietly Changed My Life

    MAR 16

    The Dance Lesson That Quietly Changed My Life

    What was supposed to be a 30-minute indroductory wedding dance lesson turned into something completely different. Picture this: A ballroom dance studio. Michael Bublé playing on a loop. A bride to be in white satin heels trying to learn the foxtrot — whlie slowly losing confidence with every step. The steps weren't the real problem. What was happening underneath the choreography was something deeper: emotion, vulnerability, and the desire to feel like she truly belonged on her wedding day. That moment — and several others like it — sparked a question that would eventually change the entire trajectory of my life. In this shorter solocast episode of Don't Cut Your Own Bangs, I share the one of the stories that lead me from working as a ballroom dance instructor to becoming a therapist, and the simple questions I return to when life feels overwhelming or unclear. This episode also marks a new storytelling format I'm experimenting with on the show — similar in many ways to my other solo episodes but more story driven with some reflections, and practical mental health tools alongside my guest interviews.  Seven Questions I Use When I Feel Overwhelmed Over the years, I've learned that clarity often starts with a better question. These are seven simple check-in questions I return to when I feel stuck, overwhelmed, or emotionally foggy. Where can I be more honest right now? What am I avoiding? Where am I holding tension? If I were more gentle here, what could change? HALT: Am I Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired? Who am I jealous of right now — and what might that be telling me about something I want to create? Sweet or savory? Sometimes clarity begins with a very small decision. A Few Lines From This Episode "Emotions aren't problems. They're information." "The moments that change our lives often start with a better question." "You don't always need the answer — sometimes you just need the next right step." Key Takeaways • Emotional awareness begins with curiosity, not criticism • A better question can unlock clarity when you feel stuck • Emotions are signals that guide us, not obstacles to eliminate • You don't have to solve everything — sometimes the goal is simply the next right step Resources Mentioned Treasured: A Guided Journal https://danielleireland.com/journal Wrestling a Walrus: For Little People with Big Feelings https://danielleireland.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@DontCutYourOwnBangs If This Episode Resonated With You Please rate, review, and subscribe to Don't Cut Your Own Bangs. Reviews help more people discover the show, and if someone in your life might need this message today, share this episode with them. Your time and attention mean the world to me. Until next time, Take good care of yourself. And remember… Don't cut your own bangs.

    9 min
  4. The Myth of Normal and the Pressure to Fix Yourself, with Ashlyn Thompson

    MAR 9

    The Myth of Normal and the Pressure to Fix Yourself, with Ashlyn Thompson

    What if the problem isn't that you're broken… but that you've been handed a measuring stick that was never made for you in the first place? In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Ashlyn Thompson for a deeply honest conversation about the pressure to keep fixing yourself, the myth of "normal," and how easy it is to confuse self-growth with self-rejection. Ashlyn opens up about life as a medical mom with ADHD and the layered complexity of trying to function in a world that constantly suggests there's a better, more optimized, more "together" version of you just waiting on the other side of the right routine, system, planner, diagnosis, or breakthrough. Together, we explore what happens when the pursuit of becoming "better" starts to feel exhausting instead of supportive. We talk about the difference between self-renovation and self-reclamation, why "normal" is often a flawed and painful benchmark, and how to start listening for what actually fits you instead of forcing yourself into what looks right from the outside. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt like a project. Anyone who has ever thought, Why does this feel so hard for me? Anyone who is tired of chasing the version of themselves they think they're supposed to become. There's a lot of truth in this one. And also a lot of relief. In this episode, we talk about: The myth of normal and why "average" is not the same thing as healthy The pressure to constantly improve, optimize, and reinvent yourself How self-help can quietly become another form of self-criticism The difference between seeking growth from love versus from shame Why "within range" doesn't always mean well The emotional toll of feeling like you don't fit the world around you How to notice what actually feels good, safe, warm, and true for you Why creativity, play, and small moments of delight matter more than we think The difference between problem-solving and solution-seeking A gentler way to ask: What would make this feel a little easier? Resources Mentioned Ashlyn Thompson's podcast — Empowered by Hope https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/empowered-by-hope/id1658629344 Parent Empowerment Network https://parentempowermentnetwork.org/ Good follow-up listens from Don't Cut Your Own Bangs Bridge to Believed: A Mindful Rant and Release (https://youtu.be/uzXuD-xvyyc)  A solo episode on what to do when everything feels like too much, how to stop fighting your feelings, and how to come back to yourself in real time. Pain as a Professor (https://youtu.be/QrZg4lKwxSg)  A previous conversation with Ashlyn about pain, perspective, and how hard things can shape us without defining us.   Help the show grow If this episode resonated with you, it would mean the world if you: Follow or subscribe to Don't Cut Your Own Bangs Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Share this episode with a friend who might need this message today Word of mouth is how this community grows, and I'm so grateful you're here.

    1h 11m
  5. Bridge to Believed: What I Do When Everything Feels Like Too Much

    MAR 2

    Bridge to Believed: What I Do When Everything Feels Like Too Much

    Today's solo episode is coming straight from my real life and into our cozy little corner of the internet. You know those days where everything hits at once… and you're like, "Cool cool cool, love this for me"… except you still have to show up, be a person, and function? That was me. And instead of offering you a perfectly polished "stress management in theory" conversation, I'm sharing what I actually do when the shit hits the fan: a visualization I call the Bridge Meditation, some very therapeutic rage journaling, and the moment that helped me loosen my grip on the deeper fear underneath it all—this old story that gets loud when life piles on: "I'm not believed." This episode is honest, meant to feel like a deep breath and to help us explore the question - What do you actually do when everything feels like too much—and you still have to be a person in the world? IN THIS EPISODE: What I do when everything feels like too much (and I can't just "take a break") Why toxic positivity makes me want to throw my phone into the sea The difference between capital-T Truth vs. lowercase-t truth (moment-truth) My Bridge Meditation (basket + river stones + letting water do the work) Why emotions don't last forever… unless my thoughts keep reloading them How I use rage journaling as healthy anger (not aggression) The root pattern I spotted underneath my spiral: "If I'm not believed, I'm not safe." A small practice that's simple but weirdly powerful: looking in the mirror and saying, "I believe you." How doing this work first changed a conversation I had later RESOURCES I MENTION: The Treasured Journal (A Journal for Unearthing You) https://danielleireland.com/journal  Wrestling a Walrus (For Little People with Big Feelings) https://danielleireland.com/wrestling-a-walrus  My Bridge Meditation (I describe it in this episode — and I'm planning to record a standalone version soon) CONNECT WITH ME (Danielle): YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DontCutYourOwnBangs Website: https://danielleireland.com The Treasured Journal: https://danielleireland.com/journal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontcutyourownbangs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielleireland.LCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dontcutyourownbangspod Listen on Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-cut-your-own-bangs/id1427579922 Listen on Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/0VFZulonTvaa2HIPyJa4Tq?si=JyAzazfISPWyg6I11hAylg Substack: https://danielleireland.substack.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: If this episode felt like a nervous system hug, you can help the show grow by: Subscribing / following Leaving a rating + review Sharing it with a friend who's also holding a lot Sending me a note: danielle@danielleireland.com ABOUT THE SHOW: Don't Cut Your Own Bangs is a cozy corner of the internet for high-functioning humans with big feelings — the capable ones who get things done but quietly wonder if something's missing. If you're the unicorn in a power suit (or a perfectly neutral sweater), building a life that looks "right" on paper but still craving something freer and more alive — you're in the right place. I'm Danielle Ireland — therapist, author, and your guide for turning emotions into allies instead of obstacles. This space is for comfort, community, clarity — and a few laughs along the way. Because you deserve calm without having to earn it.

    31 min
  6. Pauses Don't Mean You're Failing (They Mean You're Listening) | Repost Remix with Ashlyn Thompson

    FEB 23

    Pauses Don't Mean You're Failing (They Mean You're Listening) | Repost Remix with Ashlyn Thompson

    Life keeps lifeing—and sometimes you need a reminder that pauses don't mean you're failing, and hard seasons don't get to decide your worth. This week I'm sharing one of my favorite conversations with Ashlyn Thompson, co-founder of Parent Empowerment Network. Ashlyn is one of those rare humans who can hold heavy things without making them heavier—and somehow still make you laugh, breathe deeper, and feel less alone. We talk about: Why asking "why me?" keeps you stuck (and what to ask instead) The expansion and contraction of life—and why rest isn't something you have to earn Why the opposite of anxiety isn't calm... it's creativity How to stop shrinking your world when life feels overwhelming The difference between being victimized and victim mentality Why your emotions deserve space before your logic gets a turn If you're in a season where you're just trying to keep your head above water, this one's for you. And if you needed permission to breathe, consider it granted. Resources mentioned: The Treasured Journal: Treasured: Self Discovery Journal for Women - Guided Journal Mental Health Wrestling a Walrus (Children's Book): Wrestling a Walrus | Emotional Regulation Book for Big Feelings Parent Empowerment Network: https://parentempowermentnetwork.org/ Ashlyn's Original Interview: Pain Is a Professor Coming soon: Ashlyn and I are doing a pod swap! If you have a question you want us to answer together—about navigating hard seasons, building hope, parenting through the messy middle, burnout, or big feelings—email me at danielle@danielleireland.com. - subject line BANGS KEY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE "Pain is not personal. Your story is personal, but pain is not personal." "Doubt doesn't mean you're done. Taking a pause doesn't mean you're stopping forever. You can't just exhale forever—you eventually have to breathe in." "The opposite of anxiety is not calm. It's creativity." "If you ask yourself 'why does this feel painful?'—consider pain as a potential teacher, as a professor, rather than pain as an enemy or destroyer." "Your emotions never lie to you. Logic is not loud—our emotions are loud, and they get louder the more we push them back." "Every emotion your child experiences is not a direct reflection of who you are as a parent." REFLECTION QUESTIONS Take these with you this week: What's one "why" question you keep circling that isn't giving you anything back? What would happen if you swapped it for a "how" or "what" question instead? Where are you asking yourself to "expand" right now when you actually need to "inhale"? What's one tiny creative action you could take this week that would help your body feel like it has somewhere to put the feeling? CONNECT WITH DANIELLE Listen on Spotify: Don't Cut Your Own Bangs Listen on Apple Podcasts: Don't Cut Your Own Bangs Website: Indianapolis Mental Health Educator, Speaker & Therapist for Women Wrestling a Walrus (Children's Book): Wrestling a Walrus | Emotional Regulation Book for Big Feelings The Treasured Journal: Treasured: Self Discovery Journal - Guided Journal Mental Health Substack: Danielle's Substack | Danielle Ireland | Substack Instagram: Danielle Ireland | Therapist (@dontcutyourownbangs) • Instagram profile TikTok: DontCutYourOwnBangs on TikTok ABOUT THE SHOW Don't Cut Your Own Bangs is a cozy corner of the internet for high-functioning humans with big feelings — the capable ones who get things done but quietly wonder if something's missing. If you're the unicorn in a power suit (or a perfectly neutral sweater), building a life that looks "right" on paper but still craving something freer and more alive — you're in the right place. Hosted by therapist and author Danielle Ireland, this show feels like sitting on the couch with your best friend — if your best friend happened to be a therapist. Together, we untangle burnout, anxiety, pressure, and comparison, and learn how to turn emotions into allies instead of obstacles. This is a space for comfort, community, clarity — and a few laughs along the way.

    45 min
  7. Cat Greenleaf on Sobriety, Shame, and Going Where The Water is Warm

    FEB 16

    Cat Greenleaf on Sobriety, Shame, and Going Where The Water is Warm

    What happens when sobriety stops being your whole identity—but honesty still matters? In this episode, I sit down with journalist, creator, and host Cat Greenleaf for a wide-ranging conversation about sobriety without performative seriousness, the exhaustion of high-functioning addiction, and the courage it takes to walk away from something—even when you're good at it. Cat is the creator and former host of Talk Stoop, a groundbreaking celebrity interview show that paved the way for digital content before platforms like TikTok even existed. Now she hosts the Soberness podcast, where she brings her signature warmth and realness to conversations about recovery with celebrities and public figures navigating sobriety in the spotlight. We talk about shame, ambition, therapy skepticism, creative identity, aging, and why "go where the water's warm"—a piece of advice from Brooke Shields that Cat received 16 years ago—might be the most trustworthy life guidance there is. If you've ever looked successful on the outside while quietly unraveling on the inside, or if you've felt that nudge that something in your life is done, this episode is for you. In This Episode: What high-functioning addiction actually looks like and how Cat knew it wouldn't go well from the start Why she spent 10 years sober without attending AA meetings The moment at a wedding that changed everything "I hate therapy" (and why that's perfectly okay) Why Cat is shifting her Soberness podcast from recorded interviews to live storytelling events The "be kind" tattoo story—and why she's having it removed How to know when it's time to walk away from something that's no longer working People's commitment to their own joy (and what that means for the rest of us) Guest: Cat Greenleaf is a journalist, creator, and host of the Soberness podcast. She's the creator of Talk Stoop, where she interviewed celebrities on her Brooklyn stoop before digital content became what we know it as today. She's currently pursuing her master's in forensic mental health counseling and has been working with incarcerated individuals for the past two years. Cat has been sober for 12 years. Connect with Cat: The Soberness Podcast: Soberness Podcast | Celebrity Interviews with Cat Greenleaf on Recovery and Sobriety Instagram: Soberness (@sobernesspodcast) • Instagram profile YouTube: Soberness Podcast with Cat Greenleaf Resources Mentioned: Talk Stoop (Cat's groundbreaking celebrity interview show) Brooke Shields' advice: "Go where the water's warm" The Algonquin Hotel (Cat's base for live Soberness events in NYC) Subscribe to Don't Cut Your Own Bangs: New episodes drop regularly with interviews, solo casts, and all the hope you need to keep going. Connect with Danielle: Website: Indianapolis Mental Health Educator, Speaker & Therapist for Women Instagram: Danielle Ireland | Therapist (@dontcutyourownbangs) • Instagram profile The Treasured Journal: Treasured: Self Discovery Journal for Women - Guided Journal Mental Health Wrestling a Walrus (Children's Book): Wrestling a Walrus | Emotional Regulation Book for Big Feelings Don't Cut Your Own Bangs is a cozy corner of the internet for high-functioning humans with big feelings — the capable ones who get things done but quietly wonder if something's missing. If you're the unicorn in a power suit (or a perfectly neutral sweater), building a life that looks "right" on paper but still craving something freer and more alive — you're in the right place. Hosted by therapist and author Danielle Ireland, this show feels like sitting on the couch with your best friend — if your best friend happened to be a therapist. Together, we untangle burnout, anxiety, pressure, and comparison, and learn how to turn emotions into allies instead of obstacles. This is a space for comfort, community, clarity — and a few laughs along the way. Because you deserve calm without having to earn it.

    51 min
  8. What You Repeat Is What You Reinforce (And Why That Matters Right Now)

    FEB 9

    What You Repeat Is What You Reinforce (And Why That Matters Right Now)

    If you've been feeling like you need someone to flip on a light switch in a dark room right about now, this episode is for you. And listen, I get it—February can be rough. All that January enthusiasm starts to fade, the Midwest winter is doing its thing (where did the sun go?), and suddenly that phone in your hand feels less like a tool and more like a stain you can't get out of your clothes (or out of your hand). So today, I'm offering what we all need: a little bit of hope. This is a cozy solo cast that's a deep dive into what I'm learning in real-time about habits and what they reinforce. The truth: I've been doom-scrolling between client sessions like it's my job, and my nervous system has some thoughts about that. We're talking about: How to gently take inventory of what you're consuming (media, food, habits, all of it) The homework my therapist gave me that changed how I show up in every relationship What you're actually responsible for (hint: it's less than you think) Why knowing your philosophy matters—whether you're a therapist, a parent, or just a human trying to navigate this wild world Plus, I'm giving you a sneak peek at two incredible interviews coming up this month with Cat Greenleaf (host of the Soberness podcast) and the one and only Ashlyn Thompson from the Parent Empowerment Network. If you need someone who makes heavy topics feel like a warm hug, Ashlyn is your person. She's basically the Ted Lasso of emotional work. KEY TAKEAWAYS "The things you repeat are what you reinforce." —James Clear, Atomic Habits This quote is the backbone of the episode. What are you repeating? Is it serving you? If not, what's one small shift you can make? You can't function for the responsibilities of your life if your nervous system is constantly firing. If you're feeling less Cinderella-with-birds-making-your-bed and more like you need to hide under the covers, it might be time to look at what you're consuming. Boundaries aren't just for other people—they're for what you let into your own mind and body. This is the work. What's yours to own? What's not? Getting clear on that changes everything. QUOTES THAT HIT "When you turn on a light in a dark space, the darkness isn't gone. But the darkness can't deny the light." "I wasn't clear on what I was actually responsible for. If I was responsible for their breakthroughs, then was I also responsible for what they didn't understand?" "Happiness can also look like having a lollipop for breakfast, lunch, and dinner—and then that creates a whole other issue." COMING UP THIS MONTH Cat Greenleaf from the Soberness podcast—talking celebrity sobriety, digital content, and constantly evolving Ashlyn Thompson from the Parent Empowerment Network—bringing the heart-centered wisdom with humor and warmth YOUR HOMEWORK (IF YOU WANT IT) Grab a journal, go for a walk, or just sit with these questions: What am I repeating? What is that reinforcing for me? Do I like what I'm reinforcing? If not, what's one subtle adjustment I can make? And if you need a place to process all of this? The Treasured Journal was made for exactly these moments. It's got prompts, sentence stems, and space for you to dig a little deeper with a little more safety and context. Link's in the show notes. THINGS THAT WILL MAKE MY WHOLE WEEK Rate and review the podcast wherever you're listening—it helps more people find this cozy corner of the internet Subscribe so you never miss an episode (we've got some good ones coming up!) Share this episode with someone who needs a little bit of hope right now Your time and attention mean everything to me. Thank you for being here. Now go have an incredible day. You've got this. —Danielle   RESOURCES MENTIONED Atomic Habits by James Clear Wrestling a Walrus for Little People with Big Feelings (my children's book!) The Treasured Journal (for all your processing needs) CONNECT WITH DANIELLE (links) Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0VFZulonTvaa2HIPyJa4Tq?si=JyAzazfISPWyg6I11hAylg Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-cut-your-own-bangs/id1427579922 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DontCutYourOwnBangs Website: https://danielleireland.com/ Children's Book: https://danielleireland.com/wrestling-a-walrus The Treasured Journal: https://danielleireland.com/journal Substack: https://danielleireland.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontcutyourownbangs/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielleireland.LCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dontcutyourownbangspod?_t=ZP-8yFHmVNPKtq&_r=1

    15 min
See All (104)

Trailer

4.9
out of 5
31 Ratings

About

Don't Cut Your Own Bangs is a cozy corner of the internet for high-functioning humans with big feelings — the capable ones who get things done but quietly wonder if something's missing. If you're the unicorn in a power suit (or a perfectly neutral sweater), building a life that looks "right" on paper but still craving something freer and more alive — you're in the right place. Hosted by therapist and author Danielle Ireland, this show feels like sitting on the couch with your best friend — if your best friend happened to be a therapist. Together, we untangle burnout, anxiety, pressure, and comparison, and learn how to turn emotions into allies instead of obstacles. This is a space for comfort, community, clarity — and a few laughs along the way. Because you deserve calm without having to earn it.

Information

  • Creator
    Danielle Ireland
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    104
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Don't Cut Your Own Bangs

You Might Also Like