The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast Jamie Scrimgeour
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- Kids & Family
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When Jamie couldn't find the stepmom support and conversations she was looking for, she decided to create her own. Each week, Jamie Scrimgeour brings you real life conversations about blended family, relationships, personal development and more. With tips, strategies, mindset shifts and KICK-ASS Guests, Jamie’s goal is to inspire you to live your own version of a KICK-ASS Life while bringing you along as she creates her own.
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Domestic + Emotional Load Of The Mom/Stepmom: Negotiating Fairplay with Eve Rodsky
This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, I am chatting with New York Times Bestselling Author and the founder of Fairplay, Eve Rodsky about the unfair distribution of unpaid labour in marriages and how it comes into play for stepmoms.
We cover:
The importance of communication Creating shifts in how you're running your home Fairplay being a gender issue, not a money issue Negotiating the domestic workload The emotional labour of women (and stepmoms) Fairplay in the stepfamily dynamic Why Jamie was resentful of Darren in the beginning and more!
Want more from Jamie?
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Instagram: @everodsky
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The Invisible Load, Why Marriages Fail + Overstepping Stepmoms with Kate Anthony
Divorce Coach and Author Kate Anthony is back on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast for a candid conversation about the mental load and division of responsibilities between husbands and wives.
In this episode:
Why Kate believes the institution of marriage is set up to serve and benefit men The unfair mental load in marriages Understanding that just because it's not done the way you want, doesn't mean its wrong Why wives have had enough The overstepping stepmom and more!
Plus, Kate and Jamie get raw and real about their different perspectives.
Want more from Jamie?
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When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See
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Grab a copy of her new book, The D Word here.
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Build Strong Intimacy With Masculine + Feminine Polarity with Jake Woodard
In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie Interviews Relationship and Intimacy Coach Jake Woodard. Jake shares about the power of polarity in relationships and how men embracing their masculine and women embracing their feminine energy, can lead to more intimacy and satisfaction in life.
In this episode:
Masculine and feminine energy The man’s role in protecting his wife How Jake thinks boundaries should be set His thoughts on the husband’s responsibility to protect their partner from the ex Why you can't lead a healthy family until you become emotionally healthy yourself Where women's desire for control is coming from Protecting stepmoms from issues with the ex Healing from childhood trauma Grief and forgiveness ...and so much more!
Want more from Jamie?
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Resources for stepmoms:
Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community
Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience
When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See
For more from Jake Woodard:
Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cri2ceyg3uD/?hl=en
Watch them on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0B_eQCJOM6k
Listen to their Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-awake-with-jake-show/id1390684172
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Stepmoms Constantly In Fight Or Flight + Why You're Feeling Like An Outsider with Amber Trejo
This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews Amber Trejo. Amber is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified clinical trauma professional who specializes in complex childhood trauma and the family system. She is the founder and CEO of Holding Hearts Counseling in Indianapolis. She is also a wife and mama to 3 wild boys on her own journey to heal from childhood trauma and break generational cycles of trauma and abuse.
Jamie and Amber discuss
How our childhood trauma affects us as adult Learning to regulate emotions when you grew up in chaos Why stepmoms may feel like an outsider Challenging the stories and narratives in our head Strategies for regulating our nervous system
Want more from Jamie?
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Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community
Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience
When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.
For More From Amber Trejo:
Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ambertrejo_/
Check out her Website: www.holdingheartscounselingindy.com
Get her Nervous System Guide: https://www.holdingheartscounselingindy.com/nervous-system-guide
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Perfectionism, Anxiety, Jealousy + When Being a Stepmom Doesn't Feel How You Thought It Would with Jennifer Teplin
In this episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews Jennifer Teplin. Jennifer is the founder and clinical director of Manhattan Wellness, a boutique psychotherapy practice in New York.
With mentions in Cosmopolitan and Oprah magazine, along with her master’s degree from Columbia University, Jennifer has not only created a space for therapeutic healing - she has created a movement that changes the landscape of therapy and counselling.
In this episode, we dive into...
Stepmom/Mom guilt for not feeling the way they think they should about motherhood.
Navigating jealousy and comparison to the ex.
Perfectionism, anxiety and our need for control.
And so much more!
WANT MORE FROM JAMIE?
Check out the website
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Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community:
Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience
When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See.
For More From Jennifer Teplin:
Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/manhattan.wellness/
Check out her website: https://manhattanwellness.org/jennifer
Thanks to Our Sponsors:
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223: SOLO: Adult Stepkids, Finances + Stop Looking At The Exes Social Media
In this solo episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie sits down to the mic and answers questions submitted by her community over on Instagram.
She's talking about:
What to do if you don't agree with the financial support for your stepkids
How to repair when there is a fight in front of the kids
Self care routines
Her go-to make-up
Wellness routines
Challenges that come with having adult stepkids
Tips for moving into the house your husband lived in with the ex
and more...
Let's get social:
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Want more from Jamie?
Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community
Download 12 Ways To Redefine Your Stepmom Experience
When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See
1:1 Coaching & Mentorship: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching
Thanks to Our Sponsors:
Jen the RHN | Metabolic Reset program: https://www.jentherhn.com save $100 with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM
LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with purchase.
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Customer Reviews
Step mom to step mom
You help see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for being a positive outreach through challenging moments.
Mini Wife Episode
I wish I would have heard this episode 6 years ago when I started my stepmom journey. Thank you for bringing light to a serious topic that can effect the entire family so much. I love this podcast!
Finally, a podcast for us!
Jaime really has cultivated a space for stepmoms to grow!