Reasonably Happy with Paul Ollinger

Paul Ollinger

Reasonably Happy is a podcast hosted by comedian and former tech executive Paul Ollinger who explores the intersection of money, meaning, and happiness through candid conversations with authors, thinkers, and creatives. With wit and depth, each episode offers insights into how we can lead more fulfilling lives—without chasing perfection. words.paulollinger.com

  1. Sep 30

    Jared Dillian on ‘The Awesome Portfolio’

    My guest today is Jared Dillian, a former Wall Street trader, DJ, and the best-selling author of Street Freak, No Worries, and his new book, The Awesome Portfolio. Let me ask you a question: Can you let your investments ride without losing sleep or checking your portfolio every eleven minutes? I have trouble with this. Even though I feel really good about what I own, I still peek at my balances a couple of times a day—just to make sure the world isn’t exploding. In The Awesome Portfolio, Jared explains why owning one fund with 500 different stocks doesn’t necessarily make you diversified or safe from violent market fluctuations. He argues that a portfolio balanced across five different asset classes—equities, bonds, commodities (like gold), real estate, and cash—will produce very good returns and drastically reduce volatility. While nothing I say in this discussion should be considered professional financial advice, I think his idea is interesting and worth your consideration. We also talk about trouble in the bond market, political risk, financial advisor incentives, and investor psychology, including how our emotions can wreck even the smartest investment plan. Please check out my new article in The Hill: Nikole Hannah Jones Just Ran Head-first Into the Great Dumbing Down To get invites to live streams with great guests like Jared, Dave Barry, and many more, subscribe to my Substack HERE. Follow Jared HERE and get the book HERE. Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

  2. Sep 25

    Dave Winfield, Baseball Legend

    If MLB first-ballot Hall-of-Famer Dave Winfield’s story tells us anything, it’s that you can’t judge a person by how things appear on the surface. What we saw from the outside: a formidable 6’6”, 220 lb athlete who had just signed a 10-year, $23 million contract. (about $85 million in today’s money) What was happening on the inside: self-doubt, anxiety, imposter syndrome, and the stress of a boss intentionally sabotaging him in the press and among his peers. In 1980, Dave signed the biggest contract in baseball history with the New York Yankees, who had won two of the previous four World Series. From the minute he arrived in the Bronx, Dave became an object of derision to George Steinbrenner, the Yankees’ mercurial owner. Seemingly for no reason, Steinbrenner insulted him in public, smeared him in private, and reneged on multiple contract obligations. He seemed to make the star player’s life miserable just because he could. It seems counter-intuitive that a rich and famous athlete at the height of his physical and commercial prowess—someone who appeared to have everything—would describe those years as “the worst period of my life.” And yet, that’s exactly the story Dave tells in his new memoir Touching All the Bases: A Story of Power, Purpose, and Surviving the Bronx and what he told me on this week’s episode of Reasonably Happy. The 12-time All-Star, seven-time Gold Glove winner, and World Series champion lays out his side of the decade-long feud with Steinbrenner, and how he kept making All-Star teams despite the toxic work environment. We cover his getting drafted by three professional sports leagues, Hank Aaron’s warning about playing in Atlanta, signing the first 10-year contract in sports, finally getting his World Series ring in 1992, and, of course, the Canadian seagull that got him arrested. Dave also shares what it was like to finally make peace with Steinbrenner before The Boss’s death in 2010. Follow Dave: Instagram: @davewinfieldhof X: @DaveWinfieldHOF Follow Me: Instagram: @Paul-Ollinger X: @Paul-Ollinger Timestamps 00:00:00 Trailer 00:00:50 Intro 00:01:56 Pro baseball in 1973, when nobody played to get rich 00:04:40 His first bank went bankrupt, his second bank burned down 00:06:25 Growing up in Saint Paul 00:07:40 Drafted by the NFL without playing a down of college football 00:11:37 The yellow legal pad and studying the veterans 00:14:51 50 years of the Winfield Foundation 00:17:31 Free agency and the first 10-year contract in sports 00:20:05 Dinner with Ted Turner and Hank Aaron’s warning 00:23:13 Steinbrenner throws his lunch across the boardroom 00:26:22 “If you don’t like it, sue me” 00:29:58 How he kept performing through a toxic workplace 00:31:46 “The worst 15 years of my life” 00:33:19 Honorary doctorate in Syracuse, first pitch in the Bronx 00:35:09 The seagull incident in Toronto 00:37:39 Winning the 1992 World Series with the Blue Jays 00:39:25 Lightning round: toughest pitcher, best teammate, worst fans 00:42:53 Making peace with George Steinbrenner 00:46:22 Outro Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

  3. Sep 3

    ‘Young Money’ with Jack Raines

    This week, I’m talking to Jack Raines, the guy behind the mega-popular Substack Young Money and author of a great new book called Young Money: A Field Guide to Wealth and Purpose in Your Twenties. After graduating from college and landing a finance job at UPS, Jack turned $6,000 in retirement funds into $400,000 trading SPACs in his spare time. Then, by continuing to trade SPACS, he turned that $400k into $200k! This experience was expensive but vital. Jack started publishing his thoughts about careers and finances on Young Money, and has built a following of over 60,000 “anxious but ambitious” readers. Morgan Housel, author of The Psychology of Money, called him “one of the best money writers around.” Perhaps that’s why he got a call from Penguin Random House and an eventual book deal. Like Jack himself, it’s a book of unbridled enthusiasm and optimism. It’s a trip to read about money through the eyes of a 29-year-old who’s had just enough interesting life experience but has lost zero of his youthful energy. If you have a young adult in your life who has found her way into adulthood, or one who is trying to figure himself out, Young Money might be the perfect read for them. In the meantime, check out my conversation with the pride of Tifton, GA, Jack Raines! We talk about travel, Macon, GA, billboards along I-75 (“Repent or die!”), working at UPS, the Allman Brothers Band, playing Call of Duty in his pajamas during COVID, Wall Street Bets, and the Wall Street Journal’s Spencer Jakab. Stay gold! Follow Paul on Instagram here and Twitter here. Get Jack’s book here. Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

  4. Aug 27

    The Secret Economics Behind Only Fans, Tarrifs, and Government Grocery Stores

    What’s that you say – you want an interview with an economist who has both a great sense of humor and movie star good looks? Well look no further, friends. Matt Hill teaches economics at the University of Southern California, and is the creator and host of Econ Nerds, a project devoted to finding the economics hiding in everyday life. It’s like Freakonomics for the YouTube and Substack age. Matt has the rare ability to take economic ideas that normally require a textbook, a slide rule, and three hits of Adderall to get your head around and turns them into entertaining stories about things like Ozempic, the lottery, OnlyFans, gentrification, and why it took humanity so damn long to put wheels on suitcases. In other words, he can help you learn about economics without making you feel like you’re studying economics! More importantly, Matt uses story-telling techniques to shed light on important issues where the data and the prevailing public rhetoric diverge. Examples include the true nature of inequality, what’s really happening with climate change, and the actual number of alleged police violence incidents. (HINT: it’s much lower than you might think.) He’s using his great mind, a sense of humor and the power of economics to help spread understanding. Follow Paul on Instagram and Twitter here. Find Econ Nerds here. Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

  5. Aug 20

    Can You Fake Happiness? w/Beth Cabrera

    “People do not decide their futures: they decide their habits and their habits decide their future.” – F.M. Alexander If you want to improve, be kind to yourself. That’s the message from this week’s guest, Dr. Beth Cabrera, a positive psychologist, professor, and author of the new book Being Well: A Positive Path to a Healthier, Happier You. Beth is also an old college friend who's now the first lady of Georgia Tech. In her new book, Beth argues that willpower and guilt are the wrong tools for lasting change (sorry, Catholic and Jewish moms). Because our brains are wired to survive, not thrive, and default to scanning for threats instead of good things, feeling good is actually the more effective fuel for building habits that stick. We cover the chicken-and-egg question of whether happiness causes success or success causes happiness, why optimistic salespeople at MetLife outsold others by 88%, how much of optimism is genetic versus learned, the brain's negativity bias and why social rejection registers like a broken arm. (So, please don’t reject me. Please!) Beth and I talk gratitude, hedonic adaptation, the basics of diet, sleep, exercise, and meditation, what it's actually like being the first lady of a major American university. And how the way to cheat death is to have a Purpose (capitalized intentionally). Get Beth’s book here. See her website here. Follow Me (Paul Ollinger) on Instagram here or on X (fka, Twitter) here. Timestamps 00:00:00 Trailer 00:00:35 Intro 00:01:21 Beth Cabrera and her new book, Being Well 00:04:53 How Beth got hooked on the happiness game at Arizona State 00:07:07 The chicken and egg question: does happiness cause success, or the reverse 00:08:31 Is optimism genetic, and how much of it we can actually change 00:09:56 The brain's negativity bias, and why it kept us alive 00:11:18 Gratitude assessments and noticing the good moments you'd otherwise miss 00:14:06 Why social rejection registers in the brain like a broken arm 00:19:04 Hedonic adaptation and why happiness set points reset 00:21:07 The basics: diet, sleep, exercise, and meditation 00:26:35 Life as the first lady of Georgia Tech, and putting on the game face 00:30:45 Why want to beats have to as a driver of behavior 00:35:03 Finding purpose, big P and little p 00:36:47 A positive attitude about aging can add years to your life 00:38:30 Why beating yourself up doesn't create positive change 00:41:16 The three parts of self-compassion: mindfulness, common humanity, kindness 00:42:35 The caddie metaphor: what would you say to a friend instead? 00:43:46 Where to find Being Well and connect with Beth 00:43:50 Outro Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

    Can You Fake Happiness? w/Beth Cabrera
  6. Aug 6

    Freeze the Rent! And Other Silly Policies ( w/ Paula Pant)

    Last week, I received a bill from New York City for $71,1783.16. It was the balance due for my Non-primary residence surcharge, aka the pied-à-terre tax that is a premium on top of the $55k or so we pay in regular, old fashioned property tax. We got pinged because our home is owned by our trusts, which are not New York entities. The good news is that, since we are legit full-time residents, we will get out of this. Still, it’s pretty scary to get this kind of unexpected invoice. Suffice to say, it’s a wild time in New York city real estate. In addition to this new second—or third or fourth—home tax, there are a ton of policy changes in the works, including but not limited to: * The mayor and the Rent Guidelines Board just implemented a two-to-three year rent freeze for all the city’s rent stabilized units, comprising 41% of the supply of rental housing in the city. * Pending in the City Council is the Community Opportunity to Purchase Act (COPA) that, when it passes, will impose major restrictions on a multi-family unit owners’ freedom to sell their building. * Potential “Mansion” Tax reform could lower the threshold from $1 million to $500,000 transactions, increase rates by 40%, and switch the liability from the buyer to the seller. In short, there’s a massive amount of uncertainty about the future, but all trends point to an increasingly hostile and expensive environment for property owners. To try to make sense of how it works, I interviewed Paula Pant, founder and host of the Afford Anything podcast, a former newspaper reporter, and Knight-Bagehot Fellow at Columbia University. Paula is a NYC-based landlord who has developed an expertise on the city’s rent stabilization system, where it came from, and how it works. Most people assume that rent stabilization exists to help poor people, but that’s not the priority. It operates more like a lottery system where random, lucky “winners” lock in below-market prices regardless of how much money they make. In fact, a recent Wall Street Journal analysis indicated that more than 86,000 rent stabilized households earn over $200,000 a year! The system and its adjacent policies protect bad tenants, disincentivize capital investment and construction, and have led to 57,000 apartments being left vacant because it’s less expensive to leave them empty than to participate in the city’s rigged game. The whole thing is wacky and totally non-obvious. I learned a ton talking to Paula and I know you will too. Check it out. Follow Paula on Instagram here, or X (aka, Twitter) here. Get your free download: 7 Expensive Rental Property Mistakes to Avoid Follow Me (Paul) on Instagram here, or X (aka, Twitter) here. Get tickets to see me live in Sarasota 8/13-16 here. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Trailer 00:00:59 Intro 00:03:03 Hyper frugal in her twenties, for all the wrong reasons 00:05:31 A $27,000 down payment on an Atlanta triplex 00:08:21 Never be a landlord in New York City 00:08:33 The price to rent ratio, and how to run it on any apartment 00:14:10 Nobody has a right to 12% returns, and what a 9.9% cap would actually do 00:16:24 Rent control versus rent stabilization: 16,000 units against a million 00:20:16 If it were designed to help poor people, there would be means testing 00:23:36 True working class people are subsidizing the rich 00:24:23 How the units actually get handed out, and the friend earning over $300,000 00:30:32 The Rent Guidelines Board, the 7 to 1 freeze, and the resignation in protest 00:37:07 Check credit or verify income, but not both 00:41:21 The 2019 law and the $100,000 turnover no bank will finance 00:49:25 57,000 vacant units and the Community Opportunity to Purchase Act 00:54:22 Austin as the model, and where Paula puts her own capital 00:57:13 Analyst, not advocate. Data over dogma 00:58:36 Outro Get full access to Reasonably Happy at words.paulollinger.com/subscribe

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Reasonably Happy is a podcast hosted by comedian and former tech executive Paul Ollinger who explores the intersection of money, meaning, and happiness through candid conversations with authors, thinkers, and creatives. With wit and depth, each episode offers insights into how we can lead more fulfilling lives—without chasing perfection. words.paulollinger.com

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