Around the Circle | An Enneagram Channel

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The Enneagram is a map of the human personality. It’s a tool for navigating relationships. It creates language for what motivates us and helps us look at the way we look at everything else. Most importantly the enneagram is a mirror; because sometimes you need help seeing yourself.

3d ago

Friends | Enneagram 2 & 4 * BJ & Remy

Two return guests! Today, I chat with Remy and BJ, two long-time friends who have helped each other heal from past hurts and traumas. We chat about what it means to be a friend, and how 4s and 2s can have a mutually beneficial relationship due to their stress & security lines. Find BJ's initial episode here Find Remy's episodes here: Part 1, Part 2 Cohort Applications are now LIVE!!!!! Find the application and a list of FAQs on my website Follow me on Instagram for updates and more class opportunities
4d ago

Confusion and Curiosity | Chapter 4 of "Atlas of the Heart"

Join the Reading Room: HERE Around the Circle members are invited to our live Tuesday evening discussions as we work through books that deepen our understanding of the Enneagram and the inner life. ___ What happens when we stop trying to have all the answers? In this episode of Reading Room, Jeff Cook continues through Chapter Four of Brené Brown's Atlas of the Heart, exploring the emotions that arise when life stretches beyond our understanding: awe, wonder, confusion, curiosity, interest, and surprise. The conversation examines why awe reconnects us to the natural world, why confusion may be one of the most important conditions for learning, and why curiosity is not simply a feeling but perhaps one of the great human virtues. Along the way, Jeff reflects on philosophy, science, education, weight training, Einstein, Oppenheimer, and the Enneagram to ask a deeper question: What if growth begins not with better answers, but with better questions? This episode also marks a personal shift. After years of teaching, writing, and producing content built around providing answers, Jeff shares why he believes the next season of his work will be centered on curiosity, conversation, and learning alongside others rather than speaking from certainty. Join us as we continue working through Chapter 4 of Atlas of the Heart and consider what it means to become people who embrace wonder, welcome confusion, and cultivate the courage to remain curious.
Jul 9

Saturday Workshop | How do 3s, 6s, and 9s Connect?

Become a Member : HERE Sign up for Second Saturday : HERE How do Threes, Sixes, and Nines build relationships—and why do they sometimes suddenly detach from them? In this month's Second Saturday workshop, members of the Around the Circle community explore the unique relational strategies of the Enneagram's attachment types. Together we discuss how Threes create environments of success and affirmation, Sixes cultivate safety and trust, and Nines foster peace and understanding—not only for others, but as a way of experiencing those same realities themselves. The conversation then turns toward the more difficult questions: What leads these types to "cut and run"? How do failure, uncertainty, dismissal, validation, trust, agency, and emotional discomfort shape their relationships? Along the way, participants share remarkably honest personal stories about conflict, belonging, detachment, repair, and growth. One of the richest conversations we've had in this series, this discussion offers a thoughtful look at the ways attachment types connect, disconnect, and learn to stay present when relationships become difficult.
Jul 8

"Early Access" | Sisters | Enneagram 1 & 6 * Lindsay & Leah

We continue our journey into different types of relationships with a SIBLING podcast today. Lindsay and Leah are two sisters who also work together, and we talk about the type of trust that they have built with each other in doing so. We also get into the core differences between 1 & 6 with an interesting discussion on what it means to want autonomy and the differences in how we trust ourselves. Find Leah and Lindsay's counseling work on their Instagram, website, or Facebook ALSO - the cohort application is still open! Visit my website for FAQs or to apply Message me on Instagram with any questions, and follow me to get updated info on future classes and cohorts!
Jul 6

"Inside Story" | The Work for Twos | Candice Michelle Enneagram Coach

What does the real work of the Enneagram look like for Type Twos? In this episode of Inside Story, Kristin sits down with coach Candice Michelle for a rich conversation about shame, pride, anxiety, and the lifelong practice of self-awareness. Along the way, they explore why Twos often struggle to receive help, how TV characters can illuminate our personality patterns, and why doing "the work" isn't about becoming perfect—it's about learning new practices that help us stay connected to ourselves. From Ted Lasso and The Office to conversations about emotional ownership, chronic pain, relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves, this episode is an honest look at what growth really feels like. Whether you're a Two or simply trying to understand the people you love, you'll find practical insight, laughter, and plenty of moments that invite deeper reflection. You can connect with Candice Michelle here: https://www.instagram.com/candicemichelleenneagram/
Jul 3

"Heroes" | Type Nines | Spielberg's "Lincoln"

In celebration of the nation's 250th Anniversary, we do a deep dive into one of our favorite movies highlighting the best of America : Steven Spielberg's "Lincoln." This is the full 7 hour discussion. If you prefer to listen to it in parts go to : THE MOVIE TYPING PODCAST
Jul 1

The Schewee Family | Enneagram 9, 4 & 7 * Billy, Will, and Sam (plus a big announcement!)

Big things are happening!!! I'm so excited to announce the launch of my new cohort program in Cincinnati. Joey Schewee and I will be working together to teach a dedicated group of people all about the Enneagram and how to apply it to your life. We will also be joined by Andrew Kohr, a dear friend of mine who is well-versed in the intersection between Enneagram and story work. Applications are now live on my website. Cohort dates (2027): January 29-30 April 16-17 September 24-25 November 12-13 Apply Now Message me on Instagram with any questions or send me an email at katie@9fold.life
Jun 30

"Sacred Frames" | Four Movies That Explain America

Subscribe. iTunes | Youtube | Spotify What four films best capture the story of America? In this Fourth of July edition of Sacred Frames, Jeff Cook, Sean Palmer, and Mike Yager each build their own cinematic "Mount Rushmore," selecting four films they believe reveal the promises, contradictions, triumphs, and tragedies that have shaped the American experiment. From Far and Away, Do the Right Thing, Wall Street, and The Right Stuff to Lincoln, Killers of the Flower Moon, Saving Private Ryan, Malcolm X, and beyond, the conversation explores immigration, race, capitalism, war, religion, identity, and the enduring tension between America's highest ideals and its deepest failures. Rather than asking which films are the greatest, this episode asks a different question: Which stories help us understand who America has been—and who it might still become?

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Jun 23

MT-MOH

This podcast has so many episodes that I enjoy. The interview with your child Augie was phenomenal and should be required listening for all. I am a 50 year old mother to an autistic individual as well. This episodes dive into gender and sexuality was so well articulated and explained by both of you. Thank you does not feel like enough to say.
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11/07/2025

Afstrick2013

I searched on a long shot when husband exclaimed he wanted to hear more ‘1s’, but it was easier listening to a man’s voice. As the one, I feel like Jeff did a great job “laying us out”. I look forward to checking out his number shows, 5. Thank you!
Enneagram as it’s meant to be!

08/01/2025

LGT33

Jeff and TJ take enneagram to the depths it was intended to go! They also provide a platform for so many enneagram voices and facilitate such rich conversations!
Best enneagram podcast available.

03/31/2025

sueub

Thanks guys for all the hard work. I do love this podcast.

The Enneagram is a map of the human personality. It’s a tool for navigating relationships. It creates language for what motivates us and helps us look at the way we look at everything else. Most importantly the enneagram is a mirror; because sometimes you need help seeing yourself.