Fatherhood Field Notes

Ned Schaut
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Fatherhood Field Notes is where we hear real stories from real men living real lives every week. Fatherhood is not only about being a dad, it incorporates providing and serving a home, loving and serving a spouse, engaging and serving in a community, as well as intentionally serving your children. Fatherhood is an adventure, one full of fun, wild, and messy stories. In this podcast, we will hear stories from real men who have found themselves living the Adventure of Fatherhood. The Craft of Fatherhood episodes are 5-10 minute episodes where your guide Ned Schaut shares stories on his own fatherhood journey.

  1. Ep. 555: Dan Chang - How to Overcome Abuse & Hardship to Become the Steady Leader in the Home

    19H AGO

    Ep. 555: Dan Chang - How to Overcome Abuse & Hardship to Become the Steady Leader in the Home

    What if the secret to truly impactful fatherhood isn’t about being perfect but about being present, vulnerable, and intentional? In this episode, Ned's friend, dad and entrepreneur "Hype Man Dan" Chang shares how his own painful childhood fuels his deep commitment to his kids, to revealing the subtle but powerful shifts that transformed his marriage and parenting. His story is a reminder: your legacy can be rewritten, starting today. Timestamps:00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Dan’s journey 02:10 - Feeling young at heart despite age 03:11 - Highlights from pickleball rivalries & lessons in resilience 04:05 - The importance of carving out time with family and friends 05:23 - The value of real, honest conversations in male relationships 06:39 - What Dan does for a living: Collectibles, art, and entrepreneurship 08:15 - From corporate sales to high-end collectibles - Dan’s hustle 09:33 - The art and value of Magic: The Gathering and rare trading cards 10:24 - The significance of original artwork and grading in collectibles 11:56 - Wisdom for entrepreneurs and dads: Perseverance & authenticity 12:29 - Overcoming childhood poverty and rejection to build a legacy 14:43 - The impact of absent fathers and the importance of presence 16:01 - Appreciation and lessons learned from Dan’s dad 18:12 - Healing from past abuse and breaking the cycle of generational trauma 20:00 - The power of empathy, forgiveness, and choosing a positive legacy 22:13 - How Dan’s family history influences his parenting style 24:55 - The importance of forgiving past hurts for healing and growth 27:01 - Building trust and meaningful bonds with stepchildren 28:51 - Embracing imperfect fatherhood and intentional presence 31:29 - The significance of instinct, action, and calm leadership 34:24 - Self-awareness, humility, and growth as a dad 37:00 - Navigating marriage challenges and personal development 40:23 - Supporting children’s unique spiritual journeys 43:53 - The character traits and skills Dan hopes for his sons 45:11 - Honesty, trustworthiness, and the importance of authenticity 46:32 - Cultivating human connection and critical thinking in children 48:57 - Rebel and create: Disrupting selfishness and promoting service 51:04 - Practicing gratitude, presence, and small acts of kindness 55:05 - Investing early in legacy and financial wisdom 58:47 - Teaching kids about money, consumption, and delayed gratification 60:17 - Practical advice for fathers on vulnerability and being present 61:37 - The ultimate reward of family connection and authentic love --------- This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.com Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    1h 4m

  2. 4D AGO

    Ep. 554: A Question a Day Changes Everything

    In this episode of Craft a Fatherhood, Ned talks about how powerful he's found it to be intentional about asking his kids a question every day. Big things happen. How are you inquiring about the thoughts, hopes, dreams, challenges your kids are having? Ned has a challenge for all of us on how we can change the very trajectory of our kids' lives just through intentional curiosity. He also shares some thoughts about how to envision the future you want your kids to live, work backwards with a plan for how to get there, and to really live it. --------- Got a son ready to enter manhood? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's books hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

    14 min
  3. Ep. 553: Mike Yarbrough - Do the Work to Heal & Live for the Family You'd Die For

    FEB 24

    Ep. 553: Mike Yarbrough - Do the Work to Heal & Live for the Family You'd Die For

    In this episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, host Ned engages in a deep conversation with Mike Yarbrough, co-founder and co-owner of Rustic & Main and Wolf & Iron. They explore the complexities of fatherhood, marriage, and personal growth. They also discuss the importance of connection, communication, and the role of spirituality in parenting. Mike shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges like his marriage and his relationship with his own father. He also talks about getting help with attachment issues. He offers quite a few nuggest on the significance of creating meaningful moments with children, and the impact of homeschooling on family life. The conversation emphasizes the need for fathers to embrace vulnerability, set aspirations for their role, and actively participate in their children's lives. Mike's insights and experiences provide valuable lessons for fathers seeking to navigate the journey of parenthood with intention and purpose. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Backgrounds 04:17 Reflections on Age and Personal Growth 07:28 Marriage Challenges and Growth 10:22 Parenting and Raising Young Adults 13:26 Business Ventures and Entrepreneurship 16:27 Creating Meaningful Connections through Rings 19:15 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics 20:21 Navigating Teenage Years and Independence 21:45 Building a Foundation of Thoughtful Christianity 24:57 The Importance of Engaging with Church Messages 25:24 Homeschooling Insights and Educational Choices 32:21 Making Life Decisions as a Family 36:50 Elevating the Role of Motherhood 37:52 Creating a Brotherhood for Men 40:20 Reflecting on 12 Years of Creation 42:00 The Impact of Writing and Connection 43:17 Building Community Through Guilds 44:45 Fatherhood and Personal Connections 47:28 Embracing Fatherhood: Lessons Learned 50:15 Advice for Young Dads 55:19 Healing Through Connection and Vulnerability --------- This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.com Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    1h 5m

  4. FEB 21

    Ep. 552: Golf, Dates & Sabbath - Friday Craft of Fatherhood

    In this episode of Craft a Fatherhood, Ned talks about finally getting into golf, being surprised to still to get to know his wife more and the importance of dating your wife. He shares about the significance of rest through the concept of Sabbath. He encourages fathers to actively engage in their families' interests and to create meaningful connections with their partners and children. --------- This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    13 min
  5. Ep. 551: Patton Dodd - Redeeming Absence for Presence and the Subtle Art of Windshield Time

    FEB 17

    Ep. 551: Patton Dodd - Redeeming Absence for Presence and the Subtle Art of Windshield Time

    In this engaging conversation, Patton Dodd, author of the recent book The Father You Get: And the Ones You Make, Believe In, and Become, shares his insights on fatherhood, personal growth, and the power of windshield time with your kids. Dodd reflects on his journey through the challenges of growing up with a removed and isolated father who created hurt and pain in most of his relationships and growing up to turn that into resolve. He emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and mere presence in building connections with his children, while also addressing his own insecurities. The discussion highlights the need for fathers to create safe spaces for open conversations and to rebel against the insecurities that can hinder their relationships with their kids. Order your copy of Patton's book here and be sure to leave a review: https://amzn.to/3ZvTrtk --------- This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.com Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    1h 2m

  6. FEB 14

    Ep. 550 The Death Hike - Friday Craft of Fatherhood

    In this Craft of Father episode of the Fatherhood Field Notes podcast, Ned tells about his "death hike" adventure led by his teenage daughter. He reflects on the evolving journey of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of legacy, family values, and the transition of children into independence. He shares his thoughts about his children's adventures and the challenges of homeschooling, while also discussing the significance of intentional fatherhood and mentorship. Takeaways: Adventures with our kids foster independence.Navigating independence is a key part of parenting.Intentional fatherhood requires active engagement.Rites of passage are ongoing throughout life.Teaching dependence on God is crucial.Building relationships with our children is essential.Fatherhood is a journey of personal growth and mentorship. --------- This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    14 min
  7. Ep. 549: Hosting an Epic Annual Family Meeting - Friday Craft of Fatherhood

    FEB 6

    Ep. 549: Hosting an Epic Annual Family Meeting - Friday Craft of Fatherhood

    In this episode of the Craft of Fatherhood Podcast, host Ned Schaut reflects on his journey as a father, sharing insights from his experiences and conversations over the past year. He emphasizes the importance of observation in parenting, how impactful it can be to have annual family meetings for reflection on the year and connection, and the sheer power of setting goals and dreams as a family. --------- Is your son coming of age as a man? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis. www.riseupkings.com/ffn --------- Liked this episode? The Craft of Fatherhood is a weekly short reflection by Ned. For the full Fatherhood Field Notes podcast, check out the weekly releases on Tuesdays! --------- Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

    14 min
  8. Ep. 548 Jim Morrison: Why This Father Never Stops Showing Up and Refuses to Be "Off the Hook" at 18

    JAN 30

    Ep. 548 Jim Morrison: Why This Father Never Stops Showing Up and Refuses to Be "Off the Hook" at 18

    Jim Morrison, a 26-year veteran of marriage and father of three (ages 24, 22, and 19), shares his unconventional approach to fatherhood that rebels against the idea that parenting ends at 18. As an insurance broker with 36 years of experience, Jim has learned to prioritize presence over perfection, building a family culture around travel, embracing failure as a gift, and maintaining deep relationships with his adult children. From coaching losing baseball seasons to picking his son up from LAX at 9 PM just to be the first face he sees, Jim demonstrates that fatherhood is a marathon requiring consistent showing up. He discusses the power of experiences over possessions, the importance of teaching financial literacy, how he and his wife navigated a five-year break before marriage, and why he believes surrounding your kids with the right community matters more than constant advice-giving. Jim's philosophy centers on making his children feel valued and important—not just loved—while preparing them for independence through international travel, mission trips, and letting them experience failure. This conversation will challenge fathers to think differently about their role beyond the teenage years and inspire them to create a family legacy built on experiences, presence, and unconditional relationship. Chapters:(00:00:00) - Introduction: Three Key Nuggets on Fatherhood (00:17:00) - The Role of a Father: Being Present (00:21:00) - When Did Fatherhood Click? (00:24:00) - The Gift of Failure: Book That Changed Everything (00:30:00) - Supporting Adult Kids Without Enabling Them (00:36:00) - Learning from His Own Father's Story (00:42:00) - Choosing Relationship Over Being Right (00:46:00) - Why Family Travel Became Their Foundation (00:50:00) - Favorite Family Vacations: Croatia and Africa (00:55:00) - Work Will Always Be There—Your Kids Won't (00:56:00) - Legacy: Making People Feel Valued and Important --------- Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

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Fatherhood Field Notes is where we hear real stories from real men living real lives every week. Fatherhood is not only about being a dad, it incorporates providing and serving a home, loving and serving a spouse, engaging and serving in a community, as well as intentionally serving your children. Fatherhood is an adventure, one full of fun, wild, and messy stories. In this podcast, we will hear stories from real men who have found themselves living the Adventure of Fatherhood. The Craft of Fatherhood episodes are 5-10 minute episodes where your guide Ned Schaut shares stories on his own fatherhood journey.

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  • Creator
    Ned Schaut
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    556
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