Free & Well: Break Free From Anxiety & Overthinking & Feel More Confident With Mental Health Habits, Nervous System Healing &

Devoney Kodad, Anxiety Therapist, Self Confidence Coach & Christian Yoga Teacher
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Hey sweet twenty-something, welcome to the Free & Well Podcast. Do you want to feel more peace & more confidence? Are you tired of second guessing yourself and overthinking everything?  Are you ready to stop filtering yourself, start speaking up, being more outgoing, saying yes to the adventures & putting yourself out there more?! Yeah?! You are in the right place, friend! I’m Devoney & I'm so glad you're here. I've served over 5,000 hours as a therapist, I'm a faith based yoga teacher & a dog mom. Growing up, I remember replaying conversations in my head, comparing myself to the girls around me & constantly worrying about what other people were thinking about me. Everything changed for me when I started blending mental health, faith & the nervous system together. In this show, you’ll learn tools to feel more calm, rewire your brain & own who you are so that you can start being more outgoing & saying YES to more fun, more adventures, being more YOU. Each episode I share nuggets from my 10 +years in the mental health field and my own raw, imperfect & real lessons life as a recovering people pleaser & Christian who experiences anxiety & ADHD. I'm here to share with you all the things I've learned so you can start being the woman God created you to be, unapologetically! If you're ready to enter into your most peace-filled, confident era, this is the show for you! Grab your iced coffee & your journal, let's dive in! Find more at freeandwell.org!

  1. 1d ago

    324 | how to stop caring what other people think: the freedom that comes when you feel secure in your true identity & worth

    In this episode, we're talking about anxiety, self-worth, people-pleasing, faith, and what happens when you finally begin to feel deeply rooted in who you are. I share a personal story from my own healing journey in my 20s, when I struggled with anxiety, insecurity, and constantly questioning how I was showing up in the world. A deeper relationship with God—and learning to see myself through His perspective—changed everything for me. We'll explore: Why feeling safe can make it easier to take risks and pursue your dreamsHow anxiety can keep you filtering, hiding, and second-guessing yourselfThe connection between feeling loved and feeling confidentHow faith can become a source of security rather than another source of pressureWhy you don't need everyone else's approval to know you're enoughHow to shift whose opinion of you carries the most weightWhat it looks like to move through life with more freedom, play, confidence, and purpose If you're an anxious, high-achieving woman who is tired of overthinking, shrinking yourself, and feeling like you have to get everything "right," this episode is for you. You don't need to become someone else to become confident. You get to become more rooted in who you already are. HIGHLIGHTS | 00:00 — What a healthy relationship can give you 01:35 — When anxiety makes you question everything 02:10 — The beginning of a deeper healing journey 03:02 — “Who do you say I am?” 04:00 — Becoming rooted instead of reactive 04:44 — The realization that changed everything 05:14 — What if God is already walking with you? 06:00 — Feeling safe enough to actually live 07:18 — “God's got me.” 08:09 — Stop hiding. Stop filtering. Stop trying to say the perfect thing. 09:44 — The wake-surfing story 10:18 — What happens when you're no longer afraid to fail? 11:09 — You were created to let your gifts shine 12:30 — The God who created beauty also created you 13:07 — You don't have to live according to everyone else's opinion 13:16 — Whose opinion gets the most weight? 14:21 — “I am enough.” 14:51 — The freedom of letting yourself be yourself START HERE |  🎧 Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice to get out of your head 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing MENTIONED |  https://www.instagram.com/mattgottesman/ ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women start fully living their lives. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, faith & nervous system based tools to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is  supporting you! DISCLAIMER | Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  2. 4d ago

    323 | how I handled a mildly embarrassing & awkward moment the other day

    The other day at my favorite coffee shop, I had a fun awkward moment that would've sent younger Dev spiraling. I would've replayed it 100 x in my head, I would've come up with 37 better responses... and it reminded me of the power of growth, so I want to share it with you. I share what happened, how I moved through it & the power of intentionally growing erry dang day because one day you end up in a situation and just naturally respond so differently. If you want some inspo on how to handle an embarrassing / awkward moment and permission to just take yourself less seriously, this episode is for you! START HERE |  🎧 Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for peace & calm 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing MENTIONED |  ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is  supporting you! DISCLAIMER | Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  3. Aug 27

    322 | if you don't feel like you fully fit in: becoming unwilling to hide who you are

    Have you ever felt like parts of you just don't match or fit together? For example... I'm sober AND I love to go out, dance, have fun I'm a therapist who is obsessed with mental health AND I believe faith is wildly important in healing I'm a Christian AND I deeply believe yoga / breathwork / nervous system based practices are essential to healing I'm very crunchy & natural minded AND love me some Reeses Oreos You see what I'm saying? Have you felt this?! If yes, today's episode is for you. Today’s episode is a deep permission slip to: -not fit into every box-be okay not fully feeling like you fit into spaces-own and accept all the parts of you, the weird & the different-become unwilling to quiet and hide parts of yourself to fit in-ditch all the boxes you’ve been trying to fit into START HERE |  🎧 Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for peace & calm 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is supporting you! DISCLAIMER | Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  4. Aug 24

    321 | feeling behind? your permission slip to let go of the timelines & start trusting yourself w/ katy saltsman

    Hey friend, do you feel like you "should" be further along or like life "should" look a certain way by now? Today's episode is an interview with Katie Saltsman, women's health coach & host of the Crying Burns Calories Podcast, for a conversation that will hit different if you've felt like you're behind. Katie talks about how she left a life behind that looked good on paper, but deep down she knew wasn't for her. She packed up and moved across the US to a new city where she didn't know anyone. We talk about: the difference between a life that makes sense and one that actually is FOR youhow to break free from timelines that were never actually ours to begin withhow to find yourself again after years of people pleasing If you're in a season of feeling behind or lots of question marks, this one's for you, love. Grab your bev & join us! HIGHLIGHTS | ~00:05The decision to end a 10 yr relationship at 35 ~00:07When that inner voice turns into a scream because we have to listen ~00:17When the fear of staying the same gets bigger than the fear of the unknown ~00:25Letting go of an old timeline and meeting her husband organically over coffee ~00:28Katy's go to reframe for fear of the unknown & uncertainty ~00:33The self-discovery question that changed everything ~00:36Closing challenge for you START HERE |  🎧Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for more peace 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing GUEST |  Katy's Instagram ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is  supporting you! DISCLAIMER |  Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  5. Aug 22

    320 | we've lost the plot: why we need to start having more fun

    Stuck in the same routines and wondering why you feel so underwhelmed & uninspired? I've been there — same city, same coffee shop, same hiking trail, same CFA order, same days on repeat — until a move to Idaho turned life into this blank canvas / playground. In this episode, I'm sharing why fun isn't extra, it's essential to your mental health and nervous system, and how trying new things (even the ones that scare you a little) can pull you out of anxious autopilot and back into feeling like yourself. If you're an overthinker who's ready to get out there, this is your sign to say yes to something new. HIGHLIGHTS | Why fun is a nervous-system need, not a nice-to-haveHow monotony fuels overthinking and anxietyWhy trying something once beats overanalyzing itSimple ways to break out of a rut and reconnect with yourself START HERE |  🎧Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for peace & calm 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is  supporting you! DISCLAIMER |  Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  6. Aug 17

    319 | body image, emotional eating & identity: a christian woman's guide to fitness for true confidence & healing w/ briana arteaga

    What if the way you move your body could actually grow your faith and help you live out the calling on your life instead of creating comparison and self judgment? In this episode, I sit down with Briana Arteaga, creator of Fit and On Fire, a Holy Spirit-led functional training approach that rejects diet culture and body-image pressure in favor of training for purpose. Centered around Proverbs 31. Yes, I know, it's amazing. We unpack why so many high-achieving women struggle with comparison, body image, unhealthy exercise habits & a worldly focus on aesthetics. Briana shares her own testimony, the science behind functional fitness, and how realigning movement with identity in Christ & using a Proverbs 31 approach shifts training into a way to live out your calling and grow your connection with God. If you've ever tied your self-worth to your body, struggled with emotional eating, or felt like your workouts were just another way to earn approval, this conversation offers a different path — one rooted in strength, purpose, and nervous-system peace instead of performance. In this episode: Why fitness culture keeps women stuck in anxiety and comparisonThe link between emotional eating, body image, and identityWhat "functional fitness" actually means (and why it's different)How training in partnership with the Holy Spirit builds real confidenceBriana's personal testimony and journey to Fit and On Fire START HERE |  🧘‍♀️Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice to go from spiraling to peace 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. GUEST | Briana Arteaga a is a Christian speaker and Kingdom-first life and fitness coach devoted to helping women get free in their minds so they can fully walk in their calling. Shaped by her own journey of striving, backsliding, and surrender, she delivers Biblical truth that pierces deep, restores identity, and leads women into lasting freedom. With a background in Kinesiology, certifications in personal training and wellness coaching, and training in deliverance ministry, Briana bridges the physical and spiritual equipping women to pursue their purpose with confidence, boldness, and fire. Website Instagram CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is supporting you! DISCLAIMER |  Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  7. Aug 14

    318 | use this 1 question to confidently make decisions & do things you don't WANT to do but you know you NEED to do

    What if the question “Do I want to do this?” isn’t the best question to ask? Spoiler - it's not. When you’re anxious, overwhelmed, tired, people-pleasing, or simply not in the mood, your emotions can make the easiest choice feel like the right choice. But the choice that feels good right now isn’t always the choice that will help you genuinely become the woman you're here to be. In this episode, we’re talking about a simple filtering question for making better decisions: “What will help me show up as my best self today?” Instead of allowing your emotions, comfort, fear, or avoidance to automatically determine your choices, this question helps you pause, reconnect with your values, priorities, goals, and long-term wellbeing, and make a decision from the person you want to be. We’ll explore the difference between honoring your emotions and being led by your emotions, how to make values-based decisions when you don’t feel like doing something, and why choosing what is genuinely helpful for you may sometimes look different from choosing what feels easiest. If you’re an anxious or high-achieving 20-something who tends to overthink decisions, people-please, procrastinate, avoid discomfort, or constantly ask yourself “What do I feel like doing?”, this episode will give you a simple mindset shift you can start using today. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “Do I want to do this?” can sometimes keep you stuckHow to separate your emotions from your decisionsThe difference between emotional awareness and emotional leadershipHow to make values-based decisions that support your long-term goalsA simple question to use when you’re tempted to choose comfort or avoidanceHow small daily decisions shape the person you’re becoming You don’t have to ignore your feelings. You just don’t have to let them be in the driver's seat & make the decision for you. START HERE |  🧘‍♀️Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for peace & calm 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is supporting you! DISCLAIMER |  Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

  8. Aug 12

    317 | you don't need to be productive all the time: how to start letting yourself actually rest without feeling guilty

    What if you stopped measuring your worth by how productive you are? In this episode, we’re talking about how to stop feeling like you always need to be productive, give yourself permission to rest, and trust that rest isn’t laziness—it’s necessary. We’ll explore the biblical foundation of rest, why slowing down can actually help you pursue your calling with deeper clarity and purpose, and how to break free from productivity guilt. If you’re a high-achieving, anxious 20-something who struggles to slow down, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to earn rest. START HERE |  🎧Download the Free 4 Minute Calm Reset: my go to breathing practice for peace & calm 🎙Tune in to other listener favorite episodes: 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Anxiety & Confidence Journey over4 Steps to Go From Nervous to Doing the Dang Thing ABOUT FREE & WELL |  Free & Well is a mental wellness movement helping women break free from anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can become calm and confident through psychology, nervous system regulation, and faith. Hosted by anxiety therapist & yoga teacher & therapeutic workshop facilitator, Devoney, each episode blends practical mental health tools, encouragement, and biblical wisdom to help you step into your most peace filled, confident era. MENTIONED | 7 Types of Rest CONNECT | Website Instagram IF YOU ENJOYED THIS EPISODE |  Leave a rating and review, I read each one and it means so much to me to hear how the podcast is supporting you! DISCLAIMER | Recommendations shared in this episode are based on my own personal opinion. No content provided by Free & Well and/or on this show is a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. It is all purely for educational purposes and is not a replacement for medical, legal, or mental health advice. Please call 911 if you are in an emergency, the Access & Crisis Line if you are in a crisis at 888-724-7240, 988 for urgent mental health support or contact a licensed mental health provider for mental health support. See full disclaimer here.

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Hey sweet twenty-something, welcome to the Free & Well Podcast. Do you want to feel more peace & more confidence? Are you tired of second guessing yourself and overthinking everything?  Are you ready to stop filtering yourself, start speaking up, being more outgoing, saying yes to the adventures & putting yourself out there more?! Yeah?! You are in the right place, friend! I’m Devoney & I'm so glad you're here. I've served over 5,000 hours as a therapist, I'm a faith based yoga teacher & a dog mom. Growing up, I remember replaying conversations in my head, comparing myself to the girls around me & constantly worrying about what other people were thinking about me. Everything changed for me when I started blending mental health, faith & the nervous system together. In this show, you’ll learn tools to feel more calm, rewire your brain & own who you are so that you can start being more outgoing & saying YES to more fun, more adventures, being more YOU. Each episode I share nuggets from my 10 +years in the mental health field and my own raw, imperfect & real lessons life as a recovering people pleaser & Christian who experiences anxiety & ADHD. I'm here to share with you all the things I've learned so you can start being the woman God created you to be, unapologetically! If you're ready to enter into your most peace-filled, confident era, this is the show for you! Grab your iced coffee & your journal, let's dive in! Find more at freeandwell.org!

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