Therapy Brothers

Thanks to the courageous callers and phenomenal hosts for another incredibly relevant and real episode. Your honestly and forthrightness make this one of the very best out there. So appreciative!!

The guy in episode #546 is the perfect example of an entitled man who grew up in a patriarchy and is still completely self absorbed. I’m guessing his work is under “coaching” because so many things he said were pretty unethical and coddling of the men he works with who are “high achievers” and are never told no. Pure grift here people but I’m sure the high achievers can pay his fees. Does he actually see women as people? The callousness as to which he speaks about someone potentially having 5 affairs in 10 years not making you an addict- I can totally agree with that- you aren’t a sex addict but chances are you are addicted to validation and you are a completely self-serving person with no regard as to how you impact your wife/partner and children and others. This episode was awful and the misogyny runs so deep in this one. He is not onto any new ideas when it comes to men’s sexuality and women’s sexuality as he pushes the trope that men go into marriage not really wanting monogamy and the women want it and the men just don’t take that serious. This session is something I would expect to hear in the red pilled community, the words are just a little bit different with high value men instead of high achievers. He’s the “wellness” influencer who disparages Drs while selling snake oil. There are plenty of solid and voices in the infidelity space, Ester Perel, the Gottmans, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and Dr Snarch to name a few. I was expecting more pushback on his immature masculinity and it’s scary to know that these type of men are working in the “healing” space.

Very glad to have opportunity to call in. These guys ask great questions , have a wisdom about them and the experience behind their words. They’re full of compassion and care. Hopefully they are as big of a blessing to others as they are to me. Keep up the good work T&B!

I love the live call-ins and how raw and real so many conversations are. Hearing how others are applying their own healing and recovery, with live feedback and help from two dudes who are focused on getting to the root of things, has been really helpful in my personal life. I don’t agree 100% with everything they say, but the format gets me thinking in new ways that have come to be very insightful and helpful. Thanks for all the work you do.