From Borderline to Beautiful: Hope and Help for BPD with Rose Skeeters, MA, LPC, PN2

Finding Rose Skeeters years ago began my path in recovery, there is tremendous stigma and hopelessness surrounding BPD. Rose tackles the intricacies of this condition and gives practical guidance and tools in a straightforward, no nonsense yet compassionate manner .

Rose presents so much truth with such deep compassion and understanding , she leaves me in tears.

I worked with Rose for approximately three years and found her through her podcast. Our sessions were recorded and transcribed. Initially, the support felt helpful and validating. However, over time, the coaching shifted in a direction that became concerning. I was encouraged to “submit” to relationship dynamics framed as Christian teachings of honoring a husband, despite the fact that we were not married. During this period, I was in a relationship that involved controlling behaviors, including restrictions around clothing, social interactions, publishing written work for my company and time with friends. When I attempted to assert boundaries, I was repeatedly encouraged to remain in the relationship for the sake of my healing. When I held firm boundaries, I was told my behavior was abusive rather than protective. In multiple instances, the focus of sessions shifted toward supporting my partner’s perspective rather than helping me assess or exit a psychologically harmful situation. I ultimately found the coaching relationship unsafe and misaligned with trauma-informed care. When I later shared that I had begun Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy — which significantly improved my emotional regulation and overall wellbeing — this approach was strongly discouraged during sessions. Based on my experience, while the podcast may feel helpful initially, I would urge anyone seeking support around abuse or trauma to proceed with caution and consider working with credentialed mental health professionals.

Thank you! This is such a great listen and resource. I particularly like how you format the episodes using reinforcement and action steps. 🙌