Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Write your hottest fantasies into existence! In this episode, Carly, creator of Aurore, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore the power of smart, sexy erotica for women. Carly shares why women often crave erotica over visual porn, how it fuels imagination, celebrates real bodies, and helps expand your personal “sex bucket list.” Together they dive into the power of writing your own erotica, from reliving hot memories and healing past encounters to straight-up manifesting the sex you want. Along the way, they explore how this practice not only boosts creativity and sexual confidence, but also makes communicating your desires feel easier, more natural, and a lot more fun. Jump to the Good Stuff: 03:47 – Why Women Love Erotica More Than Porn 06:05 – Healing Through Erotica 08:20 – Writing & Manifesting Sex Stories 12:15 – Plane Hookups, Gym Pick-Ups & DM Sliding Done Right 22:41 – Toxic Situationships vs. Clear Communication 25:38 – Erotica in the Bedroom 33:15 – Solo Pleasure & Slowing Down 37:30 – Defining Pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Erotica is powerful because it’s customizable. You control the fantasy, insert real bodies, and stay fully in your imagination without visual porn’s limitations or insecurities. Writing your own sex stories is both arousing and healing. Relive the good, rewrite the disappointing, and even manifest future encounters. Manifestation through writing works. Jordan’s spicy stories have literally come true; putting desires on paper (or sharing them) gives clear permission and builds consent. Good sex fuels creativity. When you’re having satisfying sex or feeling desired, your creative energy skyrockets. Communication is everything. Whether negotiating desires, setting expectations in dating, or introducing new moves inspired by erotica, be upfront about what you want (and what you don’t). Everyday pleasure matters. Slowing down and eroticizing routine moments (coffee, skincare, walking) deepens overall sexual pleasure and life satisfaction. Real, relatable stories hit hardest. Unrequited desire, yearning, and messy human connections often feel hotter than perfect fairy-tale romance. Supportive partners exist. Men who celebrate your sexual openness and even draw inspiration from your work are out there. Connect with Carly Pifer: Instagram @readaurore Substack @readaurore Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @jordandnelle Instagram @jordandnelle Instagram @TheVVVPodcast TikTok @jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Website Links: jordandnelle.com readaurore.com Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.
