Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

Jordan D'Nelle
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  • Sexuality
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Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators with Jordan D'Nelle is an unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Tune in every other week for topics that are relevant to learning how women's bodies work and how to improve your intimate life. Subscribe and share to continue to bring awareness to women health.

  1. 1d ago

    The Biggest Women’s Health News Right Now with The Cuntsultant

    Women's health is having a moment! The Cuntsultant, joins us for a rapid-fire tour through the biggest women’s health updates: PCOS gets a name change, birth control myths, why endometriosis takes 10 years to diagnose, and the push for pain management during in-office procedures, ex. UDIs. Plus vaginal estrogen's life-saving role and why women outlive their ovaries. Women weren't studied or treated seriously and that's changing. Bring this one straight to your next appointment. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 06:30 – PCOS gets a better name 07:35 – What's happening in your ovaries with PMOS 14:26 – The metformin story that got reported to the medical board 16:48 – The evolutionary theory that PMOS might be a genetic advantage 19:03 – What birth control does to your hormones 23:39 – Why endometriosis takes 10 years to diagnose 30:15 – New endometriosis diagnostic breakthroughs in Europe 34:29 – Why pain management for in-office procedures is being taken seriously 39:35 – Vaginal estrogen's as recommendation for recurrent UTIs 42:47 – The grandmother hypothesis - why we outlive our ovaries Pleasure Highlights: PCOS has a new name: PMOS Birth control doesn't "regulate" your hormones Pain management for in-office gyno procedures is not offered upfront Vaginal estrogen now recommended for recurrent UTIs Endometriosis takes an average of 10 years to diagnose Connect with The Cuntsultant: Instagram @cvntsultant Website: TheCuntsultant.com Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  2. Aug 20

    Reviving the Handie with Ashley Manta

    Handjobs get a bad rap, but today we're bringing them back! In this episode, certified sexologist Ashley Manta joins us to explore why hand jobs deserve more respect. We break down her go-to techniques: the Pepper Grinder, the Bottle Rocket, why a baby bottle warmer might be the most underrated tool in your nightstand, and how foreskin changes the game. We also get into what to do when your partner goes soft, why mindset matters, as well as cannabis and sex and what it's like inside Desire Cruises and Hedonism.  ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:35 – Ashley — sexologist, author, Betty Dodson mentee 07:02 – Why hand jobs get such bad PR 09:00 – The 3 non-negotiables: two hands, lube, time 10:35 – Setting the scene - the "giver's mindset" 12:20 – Best positions 18:45 – The baby bottle warmer lube hack 22:23 – Signature moves: the Pepper Grinder & Bottle Rocket 27:06 – Foreskin 101 30:55 – Inside Desire Cruises & Hedonism 49:31 – Cannabis, CBD myths, and the indica/sativa debate Pleasure Highlights: Two hands, lube, and time are the foundation. Confidence matters more than technique. Soft doesn't mean over. Most CBD-only products are underdosed marketing. Consent and intentionality around substances are non-negotiable. Connect with Ashley Manta: Instagram @cannasexual Website: ashleymanta.com Courses: elevatedintimacy.com Book:  Merry Jane's The CBD Solution: Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  3. Aug 6

    Rewire Your Desire with Dr. Rose

    Your desire isn't broken; your nervous system is just doing its job too well. In this episode, pelvic floor PT and sex counselor Dr. Rose joins us to break down why trauma, stress, and hypervigilance can quietly tank your libido and what to actually do about it. We cover the "smoke detector" model of nervous system regulation, why desire discrepancy is normal (80% of couples deal with it), the four desire styles, and quick neuroscience-backed exercises that can shift you from a 2/10 to a 6/10 "open to intimacy" in minutes. If you've ever felt guilty for not being in the mood, you can stop “fixing” yourself and start understanding your body. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 07:10 – From Dr. Goldstein's clinic to holistic sex coaching 16:45 – The "smoke detector" nervous system analogy 20:26 – Why sensitivity to threat isn't your fault 22:32 – The 3-step reset 34:30 – Presence as a biological need37:00 – Desire isn't a light switch — it's a car that needs gas 39:00 – The four desire styles 41:13 – Live demo: shift nervous system state in real time 45:36 – Stress vs. threat — not all stress kills desire Pleasure Highlights: Desire isn't a light switch, it's more like a car 80% of couples deal with desire discrepancy A hypersensitive nervous system isn't a personal failing You don't have to be symptom-free to feel safe Small, physical resets work fast Connect with Dr. Rose: Instagram @bewellwithrose Website Desire Quiz Provider trainings Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  4. Jul 23

    50 Shades of Kink with Alexxx Gay

    Almost everything you're already doing in bed is a kink. In this episode, Alex Gay, porn star, kink educator, and host of Kink Curious, joins us to break down what kink actually means (spoiler: it's way broader than you think), why almost everyone is "kinky" without realizing it, and how shame keeps so many of us stuck. We get into the difference between a kink and a fetish, consent and communication in kink spaces, why aftercare matters just as much as the main event, and how to start exploring safely if you're kink-curious but don't know where to begin.  ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 06:52 – What is a kink, really? 07:14 – Kink vs. fetish 14:27 – Why most people are "kinky" without knowing it 28:00 – Biggest misconception about kink community 31:55 – How to start exploring a kink 34:11 – Building confidence outside the bedroom 37:17 – Consent in kink scenes 41:00 – What kink taught Alex about communication and vulnerability 44:27– Aftercare 101 Pleasure Highlights: Kink is broader than most people think Confidence in kink starts outside the bedroom. Consent looks different and more intentional in kink. Aftercare isn't extra, it's part of the experience. Shame is the real barrier, not the kink itself. Connect with Alexxx: Instagram @HeyAlexGay TikTok @HeyAlexGay Facebook @HeyAlexGay YouTube @HeyAlexGay Podcast: Kink Curious Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  5. Jul 9

    Kimchi For Your Coochie with The Cuntsultant

    Your vagina has its own ecosystem, and no, that yeast on your test doesn't automatically mean infection. In this episode, The Cuntsultant breaks down the vaginal microbiome: why lactobacilli are your best friend, how your gut and hormones secretly run the show, and why "rebalance your pH" is basically meaningless advice. We get into recurrent BV, partner treatment, boric acid (plus the Poison Control call about oral sex timing), and why yogurt does NOT belong in your vagina. Honest, funny, shame-free. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:57 – Who is The Cuntsultant? 07:55 – What is the vaginal microbiome and why it matters 08:30 – The gut-hormone connection 10:06 – Their Daye test results - shockingly low lactobacilli 10:50 – Yeast/mycoplasma showing up on a test doesn't always mean infection 16:41 – New guidance: BV treatment includes the partner 20:27 – Tight clothes, diet, and other everyday microbiome disruptors 29:25 – Why your vaginal pH shifts throughout your cycle 32:52 – Boric acid 101 and the Poison Control call about oral sex timing 37:36 – "Energetically bad semen" - the ex-partner BV theory Pleasure Highlights: Yeast or "weird" bacteria on a test ≠ infection.  Oral probiotics can support vaginal health, but check strains.  Your vaginal pH is supposed to shift throughout your cycle. Boric acid needs a 24-hour buffer before oral sex. Connect with The Cuntsultant: Instagram @thecvntsultant Website: TheCuntsultant.com Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  6. Jun 25

    Slippery When Wet with the Lube Queen

    Not all lubes are created equal and your vagina deserves better than guesswork. Erica, regulatory affairs expert and cosmetic chemist, joins Jordan to break down everything you never knew about personal lubricant. Osmolarity, pH, hyaluronic acid, parabens, FDA clearance, fertility-safe formulas, silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid — all of it, no fluff. If you've ever grabbed a lube off the shelf without a second thought, this episode will change that. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:49 – Meet Erica: From regulatory nerd to Lube Queen 07:00 – What's actually IN your lube? 12:11 – Osmolarity explained - and why it matters more than you think 17:31 – Hyaluronic acid in lube: the glow-up your vagina didn't know it needed 23:57 – How to know if your lube has actually been FDA cleared 25:18 – Animal testing, the EU vs. FDA divide, and the cruelty-free lube dilemma 38:18 – Silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid: which one is actually for you? 41:34 – Lube for fertility: what kills sperm and what doesn't 48:58 – The truth about parabens 53:57 – How the Erica defines pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Check for the condom claim. Osmolarity matters — especially if you're TTC or STI-aware. Silicone lube + silicone toys = a hard no. Hyaluronic acid is worth the hype. There's no one-size-fits-all lube. Connect with the Erica: Instagram @the_shecanter - Find The Cuterus Mood Mug! and the Shecanter HERE! Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode?  Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  7. Jun 11

    More Than a Vibe with Cynthia Aziz

    What if your sex toy belonged on a doctor's shelf? Cynthia, founder of Luxxxe Toys, joins us for a conversation that's equal parts eye-opening and empowering. We dig into why pleasure and sexual wellness aren't just connected; they're inseparable. From the gaps in women's health research to why quality matters for what goes on and in your body, Cynthia keeps it refreshingly real. Plus: AVN, award-winning products, healing after trauma, and the conversation your doctor probably isn't having with you but should be. Use code JORDANDNELLE for a 30% listener discount. Expires July 31, 2026. ✨ *Special Offers:* ✨ *Splash Blanket!* Use code *Jordan15* to save 15% *ProDx Health* Use *JordanDnelle* to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:03 – From real estate to sexual wellness founder 07:12 – Why pleasure and wellness are inseparable 09:51 – The gaps in women's health research 19:50 – AVN recap - what surprised Cynthia most 25:15 – The award-winning Jaxon prostate massager 30:34 – Luxury vs. budget toys - does it matter? 34:10 – Surviving sexual abuse and healing through pleasure 37:48 – First-time toy advice for the bedroom 40:33 – What Cynthia wants to normalize next 43:25 – How do you define pleasure? Pleasure Highlights: Pleasure is a health necessity, not a luxury. Women's bodies are understudied and we deserve better. The right products can support sexual healing. Toys enhance. They don't replace. Your body deserves clean, medical-grade quality. Connect with Cynthia: Instagram @luxx_toys  https://www.instagram.com/luxx_toys/  https://www.luxxxe.com/ Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE.  Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle  Instagram @‌jordandnelle  Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle www.jordandnelle.com Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts: Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators — normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

  8. May 28

    Dating in the Wild with Tori Swanson

    Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why inconsistency is the number one relationship killer, and why dating yourself might be your best move yet. Plus, compliments, eye contact, and why your gym is the dating app you're not using. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:23 – Meet Tori, sexologist, sex therapist, & former exotic dancer 06:17 – What even IS modern dating? The dopamine swipe trap explained 07:32 – Why women are swearing off men 08:59 – The best places to meet people IRL; apps aren't it 17:27 – How to date yourself & be available while doing it 19:59 – The ChatGPT dating problem 24:04 – Red flags: what's real vs. what's noise 24:57 – Inconsistency as the #1 relationship dealbreaker 27:22 – Calling someone out without blowing it up 34:05 – How Tori defines pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Swipe culture kills depth, be intentional IRL presence beats any dating app ChatGPT can't fake real vulnerability Inconsistency is the #1 red flag Pleasure isn't always sexual, reclaim it Connect with Tori: Instagram @torirthesexcoach Website: Tori the Sex Coach Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE.  Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle  Instagram @‌jordandnelle  Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: jordandnelle.com Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join Patreon for bonus content: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com. Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch.   EVFM-PHX-000068

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Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators with Jordan D'Nelle is an unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Tune in every other week for topics that are relevant to learning how women's bodies work and how to improve your intimate life. Subscribe and share to continue to bring awareness to women health.

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