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A space to settle in and listen, and see where the episode takes you. This inspiring, reflective podcast is an invitation to travel deeper, with compassionate self-enquiry. Henny shares insights from her own life, alongside practices that help us connect with our inner wisdom, explore our relationship with change and find a greater sense of flow. Henny believes we all hold our own answers, so there are no one-size-fits-all solutions here. This is a space to be with what’s true for you, and to grow from there. If you’re drawn to slowing down, listening in, and exploring what it means to live with greater authenticity, this podcast is for you. Guided by psychology, mindfulness, therapeutic coaching, flow journaling, and everyday compassion, we explore ideas that help us step further into our inner worlds, in order to shape the changes we seek in our outer worlds.

  1. 4D AGO

    The Power of Going with the Slow (S19E9)

    It's a sunny Saturday morning, and I've had a slow start. We're a little late recording this, but what's late? What's early? When there's no fixed time anyway. I've talked about going with the slow before (back in Season 5), and I'm returning to it again because it's such a fundamental part of how I understand change. This time I'm exploring it through different lenses — the butterfly chrysalis, titration from trauma work, the alphabet between A and B. In this episode, I explore... How we're conditioned to move faster through change when our internal mechanisms don't move at the same pace as external eventsThe danger of leaving the slower parts of ourselves behind, and what it means to 'collect ourselves'Why small steps create lasting change — James Clear's Atomic Habits applied to deeper inner work Beautiful disruption from my book The Heart of Change, and how subtle shifts in language can have profound impact The butterfly chrysalis — if we strip it away too quickly, the butterfly can't surviveTitration from trauma work — adding the solution drop by drop until reaction reaches completion, not rushing to resolutionWhy going with the slow isn't passive giving up, but attentive mindful recognition of what's changingThe alphabet between A and B — we're so focused on the fastest route that we forget there might be a healthier, kinder path...This approach builds our capacity, our resilience, and allows us to integrate changes sustainably. It's like taking one bite of an enormous meal at a time, stepping away from the table, coming back — making it deliciously nourishing rather than overwhelming. I also share details about two offerings:  Join the mailing list for compassionate self-enquiry & intentional changeAwakening Hopes and Dreams, a 5 week, small group coaching & Flow Journaling course beginning 26 March, 12.00-1.15pm (UK).Settle in, and see where the episode takes you. ★ Support this podcast ★

    25 min

  2. MAR 7

    Holding the Bitter and the Sweet (S19E8)

    I'm back in my kitchen - this really feels like the place to speak to you - and I've been thinking this week about the juxtaposition between joy and pain, between the bitter and the sweet. It's something that came up in a conversation I had recently, and something that's been arising in the Gratitude Quest. So I thought we could reflect on that together today. In this episode, I explore: • How we learn to make space for both joy and pain within us - not as a meme of 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger,' but as a genuine capacity• Why cacao is a beautiful representation of the balance of bitter and sweet • A blessing I received from a wonderful teacher: 'I see you in your pain and your magnificence'• My own journey of believing I could only hold joy or pain, never both — and how I chose joy as my raison d'être, which became unsustainable• The devastating period of grief when I told Anton 'I feel as though I'm never going to smile again'• Getting really ill ten years ago and beginning to understand what would truly serve me• The awakening - deep, deep, deep down in the bowels of my belly - that I have the capacity to hold joy and pain simultaneously• An invitation to feel into where you are on this journey, and to know this capacity exists simply because of our humanity I close with a poem from My darling girl that I don't often share, but that appeared when I opened the book today. It speaks to the expansiveness of a heart that has space for every part of us. I also share details about two offerings:  The Weekend of No Requirements 16-19 October (a luxurious retreat in Herefordshire with no requirements upon you to be anything other than how you feel) and Awakening Hopes and Dreams, a small group course beginning 26 March, 12.00-1.15pm (UK).Settle in, and see where the episode takes you. ★ Support this podcast ★

    23 min

  3. FEB 28

    Naming What We Notice (S19E7)

    I woke early this morning to check the technology for the Gratitude Quest, and found myself reading the gratitudes people have been sharing. The experience of reading them - particularly responses to today's prompt about sensation and touch - became the inspiration for what I want to share with you today. I'm in my kitchen, in the big comfy chair by the warm Aga, Ronnie at my feet (until he gets bored and wanders off). The air is a little chilly on my skin, and I can hear the birds outside. This feels like a warm, reflective place - which is always my preference for recording. In this episode, I explore: How noticing the sensations of our body - texture, temperature, weight - can reconnect our head with our body, especially when we've been conditioned to separate from bodily experienceWhy many of us learn to dull feelings, sensations, and emotions (because they feel scary, dangerous, or simply too complicated)The experience of hypersensitivity and what I call 'the veil' - when my skin feels porous and other people's emotions get throughThe ancient Celtic concept of 'thin places' - where the barriers thin and we become more alert to what's outside and inside usHow naming what we notice becomes a powerful grounding practice, used by everyone from therapists teaching RAIN to surgeons managing stressA memory of having a panic attack on a muddy Welsh hillside at Water Breaks Its Neck, and how I talked myself through it by naming what I was noticingWhy gratitude practice is fundamentally about naming, and how it trains us to scan for joy rather than threatNearly 300 people are now following the Gratitude Quest, and I'm witnessing something beautiful in the way people are naming their experiences and being heard. A quick note: you might notice the podcast is being recorded and released on Saturday mornings at the moment rather than early Saturday. It's very field-to-fork - or perhaps thought-to-ear, heart-to-heart. This feels immediate to me, and I'm allowing myself freedom with the podcast as I always do. Normal service might resume, or it might not. We'll see. Settle in, and see where this takes you. The Field Note on the Science of Gratitude: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/field-notes/gratitude-practice-science  ★ Support this podcast ★

    31 min

  4. FEB 21

    Small Gratitudes (S19E6)

    Finding Gratitude in Simple Sounds I'm back home after my travels, and you might be able to hear the tiny waterfall that pours into the brook along the edge of our land. Maybe you can hear the birds too. This is a short episode about beginning with what's around us - sounds, objects, small moments - and how these simple things can become doorways to gratitude. In this episode, I explore: Why starting with sounds can be a powerful way into gratitude, especially when life feels hardThe beautiful science of birdsong and why it activates our sense of safetyHow building the muscle of gratitude isn't about toxic positivity or fake-it-till-you-make-itA memory from when our son was seven, travelling through France and Spain in a camper van, and how the woman I was then believed she couldn't stop workingWhy trusting our body's need for rest is itself an act of gratitudeI also share details about the Quest for Gratitude - now over 200 people have joined for this free 21-day practice beginning February 26th. We'll gather on Zoom at 7pm UK time to explore the science and practice of gratitude, do a deep relaxation, and journal together. Then 21 days of simple prompts and shared practice. Before you finish listening, pause and notice: what can you hear right now? What can you see? What can you touch? What's something you're grateful for? Settle in, and see where it takes you.  JOIN THE QUEST: 21 Days of Gratitude -  a free 21-day practice beginning Thursday February 26th, 7pm (UK), with a gathering on Zoom.  And, if you're curious to receive weekly notes of compassion, take a look at everyday ♡ compassion ★ Support this podcast ★

    18 min

  5. FEB 14

    What Are You Calling In? (S19E5)

    I recorded this episode, wrapped in a duvet at a friend's house - you can hear my voice still finding its morning register. I'm away from home seeing friends and family. Understanding my intentions for being here resonates with the question I'd love to explore today: what is it I'm calling in by being here? It's a question with layers - geographical and existential, practical and profound. In this episode, I explore: How we might recognise what we've called into our lives, both consciously and unconsciously, and how to hold that awareness without falling into self-criticism or toxic positivityThe difference between feeling overwhelmed by fullness and recognising the value in what's arrivingRumi's wisdom from 'The Guest House' and what it means to welcome everything as a guideMy curious relationship with manifestation, and why I prefer thinking about clear intentions and trusting our capacity to care for ourselves through whatever arisesWhether creation begins with thoughts or feelings (spoiler: I think my body knows before my head catches up)The thread of gratitude running through it all, and why noticing what we're grateful for helps rewire our negativity biasI also share details about the Quest for Gratitude - a free 21-day practice beginning Thursday February 26th, 7pm (UK), with a gathering on Zoom. JOIN THE QUEST: 21 Days of GratitudeOver 100 people have already signed up, and I'd love to have you there too.Settle in, and see where this conversation takes you.With love, Henny To be part of the mailing list and enjoy thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profileYou can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★

    32 min

  6. FEB 7

    Self-Talk as Self-Care (S19E4)

    The Language We Use With Ourselves Just before heading out to meet friends, I caught myself in a small moment of self-judgement: 'I'm meant to be ready already.' It's such familiar territory, isn't it? That subtle criticism we layer onto ourselves throughout the day. Recognising that moment sparked some thoughts... that led to this episode, exploring: How our self-talk is a vital part of our self-care practice, shaping not only how we see ourselves but how we expect others to see usThe origins of our inner critic — recognising whose voice we're really hearing when we speak harshly to ourselvesThe difference between self-compassion and self-indulgence, and why compassion doesn't mean condoning all our behavioursA simple journaling prompt that can reveal what shifts when we speak to ourselves with kindnessHow the way we relate to ourselves ripples outward into how we show up in the worldThis is lived work, and I share my own recent experience with the 'vulnerability boomerang' after launching my new website — a reminder that even when we teach this work, we're always practicing it too. If you'd like to explore that journaling prompt, try writing these words at the top of your page, and see where they take you: When I Speak Kindly to Myself, I See... Currently… my work is centred around: Thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses, gently shared through my mailing list - join to hear more https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profile You can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★

    21 min

  7. JAN 24

    Love is not blind (S19E3)

    In this episode, I share something very personal. As part of a quiet spell of sorting and clearing, Anton unearthed our wedding book — filled with photographs and handwritten messages from many years ago. Inside it was a poem my mother wrote and read at our wedding. This episode isn’t about making changes or doing deep inner work.It’s about love — how we see it, how we live with it, and the stories we carry about what it is. I read the poem in full and let it speak for itself. You might choose to listen once. Or you might find yourself listening again. With love. Currently… my work is centred around: Thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses, softly shared through my mailing list - join to hear more https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profile You can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★

    8 min

  8. JAN 17

    Sliding Door Moments (S19E2)

    Sometimes we arrive at a decision we fully own - and still find ourselves unsure of whether to take the big step that makes the change happen. In this episode, I explore the tipping point from preparation into activation - and the kind of care these sliding door moments ask of us. We explore: What it means when the change is ours - not driven by external circumstancesThe inner scale of decisions - how something can feel enormous inside us, even if it looks “small” from the outsideHow to stay with uncertainty with compassion - without minimising what matters to usThe brain’s pull toward the status quo - and how stress, tiredness, and overload affect decision-makingA simple journaling practice for seeing the real impact of a decision - including our hopes, fears, and the unknownIf you’re standing on a threshold right now, settle in - and see what this takes you. With love. Currently… my work is centred around: Creating Change with Compassion — a small group, 4-week course using group discussion, insight and Flow Journaling - explore it here https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/creating-change-with-compassion-tickets-1374142018769?aff=oddtdtcreatorFor thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses, softly shared through my mailing list - join to hear more https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profile You can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★

    42 min
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A space to settle in and listen, and see where the episode takes you. This inspiring, reflective podcast is an invitation to travel deeper, with compassionate self-enquiry. Henny shares insights from her own life, alongside practices that help us connect with our inner wisdom, explore our relationship with change and find a greater sense of flow. Henny believes we all hold our own answers, so there are no one-size-fits-all solutions here. This is a space to be with what’s true for you, and to grow from there. If you’re drawn to slowing down, listening in, and exploring what it means to live with greater authenticity, this podcast is for you. Guided by psychology, mindfulness, therapeutic coaching, flow journaling, and everyday compassion, we explore ideas that help us step further into our inner worlds, in order to shape the changes we seek in our outer worlds.

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  • Creator
    Henny Flynn
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    212
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Henny Flynn
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    the Henny Flynn podcast

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