Change My Relationship

Karla Downing

Change My Relationship offers practical solutions based on biblical truths for all difficult relationships from Karla Downing, Marriage & Family Therapist.

  1. Jun 18

    Does Forgiveness Mean Letting Go of Consequences?

    There are many myths and misunderstandings surrounding forgiveness.  One of those involves scriptural truths and the consequences of sin. God's forgiveness wipes away our trespasses and the judgment we deserve. The conclusion might be that when we forgive people, we also have to let go of any consequences of their actions. But would this be correct? It matters how you answer because it impacts the health of our relationships. When you understand what letting go of offenses entails, it will help you put questions about letting go of consequences into proper context.   Watch this Christian relationship advice video to answer the question: Does forgiveness mean letting go of consequences?   #forgiveness  #consequencesofsin #christianrelationshipadvice #scripturaltruths  Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her Christian relationship advice includes messages, books, and classes that provide practical solutions grounded in biblical truths, bringing balance and clarity to life and relationship issues. She also desires to equip ministry leaders and counselors to reach out more effectively to those struggling with difficult relationships, including abuse.    Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/823FvfJ2zp8

    13 min
  2. Jun 15

    My Life as a Quadriplegic Practical Lessons for Developing Resilience

    Zack Collie experienced a life-changing traumatic injury as a teen that presented him with the opportunity to either persevere or give up. Zack chose the first option, and as a result, he has a message that resonates with those who are facing difficult life challenges. Whether it is a traumatic injury, a debilitating illness, a painful and difficult relationship, the loss of a marriage, the loss of a job or career, or anything else, all of us have those times in our lives where we need to choose how we want to go forward.   Resilience is the secret to facing life's challenges with strength and courage. While some of us learn resilience as children, others have to learn it later in life; however, the good news is that it is never too late. In this interview, Zack uses his personal experiences as a quadriplegic to illustrate how to master the components of resilience, including perseverance, patience, gratitude, and acceptance. The interview is hopeful and helpful. You will be uplifted and inspired as you walk through Zack's injury, rehabilitation, and life's journey. You will find yourself cheering him and celebrating his journey.   Zack is a marriage and family therapist with Inspired Resolutions Counseling in Orange County, California. He loves working with teens and anyone with challenging life circumstances. He runs an online Zoom support group for those with spinal cord injuries. He is available to speak at your church, school, or organization.   Resources:   Inspired Resolutions Counseling: https://www.inspiredresolutionscounseling.com/   Daily Living as a Quadriplegic YouTube Channel: https://m.youtube.com/@zackcollie1994?ra=m   Psychology Today Therapist Information: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/zackery-collie-yorba-linda-ca/1102583Ins   Instagram: zackcollie7 Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her Christian relationship advice includes messages, books, and classes that provide practical solutions grounded in biblical truths, bringing balance and clarity to life and relationship issues. She also desires to equip ministry leaders and counselors to reach out more effectively to those struggling with difficult relationships, including abuse.  Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ft6D-cl-P34

    53 min
  3. Jun 8

    Toxic Relationships Vs. Healthy Relationships: Ruptures and Repairs

    When comparing toxic relationships vs. healthy relationships, there are many differences. Boundaries are handled differently. Reciprocity is one-way in one and two-way in the other. One has mutual understanding; the other doesn't. Only one has mutual goodwill and cooperation.  Another difference is how ruptures and repairs are handled. All relationships have conflict and disagreements. All relationships have ups and downs, but not all know how to fix those issues and heal the wounds. Knowing how to recognize the differences can help you identify dysfunctional, toxic relationships, adjust your expectations, and plan your response. All of these strategies will help you make decisions to protect yourself now and in the future. Toxic and healthy relationships have ruptures, but only healthy ones have repairs. Watch this video to get insight into how to identify toxic people and healthy people in the way they handle this difference.    Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her Christian relationship advice includes messages, books, and classes that provide practical solutions grounded in biblical truths, bringing balance and clarity to life and relationship issues. She also desires to equip ministry leaders and counselors to reach out more effectively to those struggling with difficult relationships, including abuse.  #toxicrelationships  #toxicpeople #christianrelationshipadvice #dysfunctionalrelationship #conflict #healthyrelationship    Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/whZtxafdOdY

    10 min

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Change My Relationship offers practical solutions based on biblical truths for all difficult relationships from Karla Downing, Marriage & Family Therapist.

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