Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore

The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole. We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action. Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face. You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men. If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you. You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness. This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain. The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone. You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you. This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men. There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances. You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry. And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality. This is not a “stretch goal” for you. This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living. And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

  1. Sep 6

    What Do Women Mean When They Say They Want A Real Man?

    Confused about what women and society want from men? Want to know what women mean when they say they want a real man? You may not have heard this in your relationships but I can guarantee it's at play underneath the surface in some way or another. In this episode I talk about what the terms "Be a man" or "Man up" or "Real man" mean, when and how they show up in modern day relationships, why they show up there and what we coach men to think about when they do so that they can respond to this with confidence and clarity. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  2. Sep 6

    Wife Doesn't Trust You Because You Failed Her Tests

    Has your wife said she doesn't trust you? Are you confused because you're a good man who has never cheated on her? There are some common tests that you may be failing that affect the trust and connection in your marriage. In this episode I go into detail about two of the most common tests that we men face in a long-term committed relationship or marriage, why she does them, what they provide for her when you pass them and how to think about all this so that you no longer get triggered but handle the tests with confidence in the future. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  3. Sep 3

    What She Needs Before She Can Be Sexual With You Again

    Want to know what she needs before she can be sexual with you again? It's a confusing topic - emotional safety - as men we struggle with it because we're such problem solvers, but the good news is that you know how to do this already - you do it with your kids all the time!! In this episode I talk about how our natural state is one of relaxation and play and how that's the state we return to when we feel emotionally cared about and safe, I discuss what factors affect the level of safety, what it looks and sounds like to not feel safe emotionally and how to start changing this dynamic in your marriage. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  4. Aug 31

    What Can You Gain From Your Marriage Breakdown?

    Why would you gain from your marriage breakdown? What does that even mean? Surely a marriage breakdown is just a painful event that no-one gains anything from right? In this episode I tell a story about a man facing adversity of the worst possible kind and how he used that event as something to propel him forward towards a new phase of his life with more meaning and that also helped him heal and grow from the struggles and pain he was dealing with previously. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  5. Aug 28

    How To Know If There's Still A Chance Of Saving Your Marriage?

    Want to know if there's still a chance of saving your marriage? Maybe you've heard your wife say she's done! Or maybe she's threatening separation or divorce... In this episode I talk about the signs to look out for that we see all the time with our coaching clients that tell us whether there's still a chance, whether she's totally checked out or if there is still some connection and willingness that you can work with to create a new (better) version of your marriage with her. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  6. Aug 25

    How Horses Can Help You Create More Intimacy With Your Wife

    Want to know how to create more intimacy with your wife? In our coaching we use horses to teach you about the differences between men and women specifically in terms of what women need most from men in long term relationships to feel safe enough to be intimate. In this episode I explain a little more about why we use this "horses are a lot like women" analogy, what it means, what are the most important factors that we are trying to convey to you, why they're important and how to use this information going forward in your marriage or romantic relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  7. Aug 22

    Why Self Help Videos Can't Save Your Marriage

    If you're desperately searching the web looking to save your marriage you may be feeling totally confused and swamped and overwhelmed with information. Each self help "guru" has a different perspective and each one proudly states that their information is "the truth" or "the secret sauce" or "the only way" which of course is nonsense, they are all ONE perspective. In this episode I explain one of our coaching principles and how to apply it to the self imposed self help hell that we find ourselves in when we're so desperate to fix this painful situation we find ourselves in right now. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

  8. Aug 19

    How To Get Your Wife To Recommit To You

    Want to know how to get your wife to recommit to you and your marriage? It's not through ultimatums or "being more alpha" or no contact manipulation, there's a much deeper and harder factor that needs to be addressed here. In this episode I talk about the difficulties of dealing with a stagnant, disconnected marriage or relationship and how to lead the conversation with your wife about recommitting to a new version of your relationship as well as the necessary steps that men need to understand before they can lead this difficult interaction with her. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.   We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.   It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.   Most men don't.     They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.     They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.   But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.   You can only improve your inside game with other men.   We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.   Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.  https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

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The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole. We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action. Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face. You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men. If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you. You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness. This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain. The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone. You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you. This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men. There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances. You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry. And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality. This is not a “stretch goal” for you. This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living. And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.