Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella

Janice Formichella

Getting over a breakup? You’re in the right place! Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On is a weekly podcast about healing broken hearts, building confidence, and moving forward in an empowered way. It is the perfect balance between science, spirituality, and sass. With a heavy dose of optimism, some laughs, and somber moments, Janice shares what she's learned from personal experience and as a breakup coach to help you through this time! Topics include dating, ghosting, no contact, toxic relationships, communication, attachment styles, and more.

  1. 6d ago

    5 reasons why no-contact is SO important

    I know that no-contact works. And I know how hard it can be.  Let me be your breakup buddy! Schedule a free 1:1 session here.   This episode is for all of those who may know that no-contact will help but aren’t quite there yet. My goal is to help you develop faith in the process. That is the first step to executing this radical form of self-care and preservation.  🍷🍷 Did you find this episode helpful? Buy me a glass of wine and join my Patron here. 🍷🍷 Quotes from this episode:  “Even if you don’t exchange harsh words, words can hurt. If you are suffering because of your breakup it is important to show up for yourself and go to great lengths to prevent more suffering. No contact is a sure-fire way to do that.” -Janice Formichella  “You cannot heal from pain if you are continuing to put yourself in contact with the source of it.” -Janice Formichella “You will continue to get burned if you keep putting your hand in the fire.” -Janice Formichella  “You cannot wean yourself from something harmful if you keep taking it.” -Janice Formichella ❓Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠  and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠ ⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠ 💙💜   ____________________________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    12 min
  2. Jun 3

    Obsessive, chaotic love: The Venus Flytrap

    🖤 Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who did things you didn’t think others would believe?  🖤 Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel trapped and intrigued at the same time?  ⁠Want to buy me a glass of wine? Head to my Patreon here. ⁠⁠ 🖤 Have you ever come out of a relationship that you now consider toxic?  You will definitely relate to my conversation with Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards. And as we say in the episode, there is SO my power in relating to each other.  The Venus Fly Trap is Stephen’s exploration and vulnerable book about his experience with obsessive chaotic love. But this episode is much more than a chat about his book, it is a chat about both our experiences with chaotic and sometimes abusive relationships and our journeys to find ourselves once again.  I highly recommend this video to anyone who has ever felt that they stayed in a relationship longer than they should have.  A bit about what we cover in this powerful conversation:  -How Stephen became a fly in his relationship with a Venus Flytrap -Love vs lust -My own story of being in a relationship with an alcoholic  -The feeling “what have I gotten myself into?” -Why we ignore red flags -Feeling scared that no one will believe your partner’s behaviors  -The judgement of others  -Rebuilding your self-identity after a chaotic relationship 🖤 Are you ready to dive into The Venus Fly Trap books? I encourage you to do so!  ⁠You can find them on Dr. Edward’s website here.⁠

    57 min
  3. May 20

    👋Bye-bye breakup 👋 (rewind!)

    Let me be your breakup buddy! Get direct access to my calendar here to schedule a FREE consultation. Is it time to say GOOD BYE to your breakup? This week’s episode is for you! In this episode I cover:  -Why goodbyes are so painful for us -Why saying goodbye to your breakup and putting it behind us is do damn hard -The power of goodbyes -A bunch of tips to say goodbye to your breakup Get a pen and paper - it’s time to be intentional about your healing.  Extra episodes to support your healing journey:  10-day no-contact series The no-contact rule: 5 tips for success A letter to your ex Quotes from this episode:  “Faith is hard to embrace when you don’t know what is on the other side.”  “It can be hard to leave something that isn’t good for you. Give yourself grace.” “You deserve a relationship that is fully functional.”  “I believe in the power of no contact.”  “Have you ever set your mind to something that is out of reach? Do the same for your breakup.”  Want to connect? Visit my website to learn about my work here. IG: @janiceformichella Love Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On? Let me know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.    _______________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    32 min
  4. May 14

    🛑 I don’t want to date anymore! 🛑

    Are we in a dating recession? Or a dating *correction*?  Three sassy ladies from ALL around the world are here to tell you what they think!  Eeeeeek! This week we have THREE J’s, Janice, Julie, and Jasmine, chatting about the TRUTH about the so-called dating recession and why so many women are opting out of dating.  Pour a glass of wine and settle in - this is a spunky conversation.   🍷🍷Ready to buy *me* a glass of wine? Treat me on my Patreon here. We cover: -Stats on dating and the so-called “dating recession” -Our own stories deciding to opt-out of dating -How draining it can be to carry the emotional load in relationships  -Why so many women aren’t motivated to date these days -The male reaction to this growing trend -The end of pick-me culture -Sex and opting-out -What we all love about being single Want Julie’s book? Found, Swiping Right On Me to Find Love is SUCH a fun read!! Buy it here. And connect with Julie on her website here. Remember, I want to be your breakup buddy. Schedule your free first session here.  ❓Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠  and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠ ⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠ 💙💜   ____________________________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    1 hr
  5. May 6

    👻 BOO! Ghosting 👻 Why it happens and what to do

    Let’s talk about ghosting!  BOO on your who do it - and for those who have it happen to them - you have come to the right place.  WOW - I am joined by an actual ghosting expert to help prevent it AND to help people navigate it. Welcome to the show Gretta Perlmutter!!  Been ghosted? We got you!  Ghosted before and feel bad? We got you!  Want to be a better communicator and join the anti-ghosting movement? You are SO in the right place.  🍷🍷Ready to buy me a glass of wine? Treat me on my Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/janiceformichella 👉👉PLEASE go show Gretta some podcast love!  Learn more about her work and the podcast, Coping With Ghosting on her website here. Today Gretta and I talk about: -Our personal experiences *being* ghosted -Cheating ghosts (extra BOO) -What ghosting is NOT -Our personal and vulnerable stories about ghosting someone -How not to BE a ghoster -How to breakup with someone -Navigating ghosting  ❓Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠  and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠ ⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠ 💙💜   _______________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    50 min
  6. Apr 8

    🆘 How to help a friend through a breakup part 2 🆘

    This show is about healing. And this episode is about how you can help someone *else* to do it.  Get a pen and paper - today I am going to tell you five MORE ways to help a friend through a breakup. These are tips based on my own experience and what I have seen as a breakup coach.  Be the friend that will add useful support to your friend’s healing journey.  Listen to part 1 here.  I share: -The power of asking someone what they need -Why you shouldn’t talk shit about your friend’s ex during this time -The power of patience -Setting boundaries and looking after yourself -Being a safe place while also putting your well-being first -And more 🍷 Want to support my work by buying me a glass of wine? Join my Patreon here. 🍷 ❓Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠  and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠ ⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠ 💙💜   _______________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    14 min
  7. Apr 2

    Navigating the Shock of a Breakup: Week one

    Regardless of how it went down, the initial shock of a breakup can be REALLY destabilizing. My early-stages philosophy is to combine ways to accept/allow your grief while also doing what you can to distract yourself in healthy ways. In this video I break it all down for you.  🍷Do you want to show me how much my tips helped by buying me a glass of wine? Head over to my Patreon and do it now: https://www.patreon.com/c/janiceformichella Ready to schedule a first free session to get support around your breakup? Get access to my calendar here: https://calendly.com/janiceformichella/free-first-session   Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠  and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠ ⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠ 💙💜   _______________________________________________________________ Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.

    18 min
4.9
out of 5
102 Ratings

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Getting over a breakup? You’re in the right place! Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On is a weekly podcast about healing broken hearts, building confidence, and moving forward in an empowered way. It is the perfect balance between science, spirituality, and sass. With a heavy dose of optimism, some laughs, and somber moments, Janice shares what she's learned from personal experience and as a breakup coach to help you through this time! Topics include dating, ghosting, no contact, toxic relationships, communication, attachment styles, and more.

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