The Enneagram in a Movie

The Enneagram in a Movie Podcast is a fun and informative way to take a deep dive into understanding the Enneagram. You’ll never see movies—or the Enneagram—the same way!

  1. Sep 24 ·  Video

    Everyone is Conning Everyone | Six Degrees of Separation and the Enneagram

    In this episode of The Enneagram in a Movie podcast, Mario Sikora, TJ Dawe and TJ Ingrassia talk about the 1993 film, Six Degrees of Separation, starring Will Smith and Stockard Channing. Paul, played by Smith, cons his way into Manhattan's upper crust by absorbing elite codes of conduct. But Ouisa, played by Channing, and Flan Kittredge, played by Donald Sutherland, were born into money and are doing the same thing, just more smoothly. The three hosts examine how Navigating Threes constantly refine their map of how to fit in, why their sense of self depends on external validation and what it means to strive for belonging without losing standing. They also unpack the film's treatment of authenticity, class consciousness and duality. “Authenticity is a big theme in this – speaking of Type Three, and exactly what you’re talking about – of like who are we really and who’s the version of us that we present to the world.” - TJ Dawe [25:53] “Let’s keep in mind that the Navigating instinctual bias, again, I don’t call it social, because it’s not about being part of the group. It’s not about wanting to be with people, all this sort of stuff. It’s about understanding group dynamics and where I fit in.” - Mario [29:34] “Is the Three the ultimate navigator? Because even a Preserving or a Transmitting, in some ways, is still ‘Navigating.’” - TJ Ingrassia [46:26] TIMESTAMPS [00:03] Intro [00:38] Thoughts on this week’s movie [03:58] About Six Degrees of Separation [06:04] The movie as Navigating Three [12:52] Striving to Feel Outstanding in the film [20:28] Threes find ways to accomplish things [25:53] Who are we really? [29:34] Understanding group dynamics [34:33] Creating a sense of self [38:40] A series of stories [43:58] The Navigating Three [46:26] Is the Three the ultimate Navigator? [50:30] Awareness to social obligations [55:08] The children's anger [59:10] Other characters’ Enneagram types [1:02:07] Paul as other subtypes [1:04:43] Other Navigating Threes Connect with us: Awareness to Action Enneagram on Demand The Awareness to Action Enneagram Podcast Mario Sikora: IG: @mariosikora TikTok: @mariosikora Web: mariosikora.com Substack: mariosikora.substack.com Book: How to Think Well, and Why: The Awareness to Action Guide to Clear Thinking TJ Dawe: Web: tjdawe.ca TJ Ingrassia: Web: tjingrassia.com YouTube: @TypeCast Mentioned in this episode: Awareness to Action Podcast Network Podcast Network

  2. Jun 18 ·  Video

    The Rules Beneath the Rules | The Diplomat and the Navigating One

    In this episode of The Enneagram in a Movie podcast, Mario Sikora, TJ Dawe and TJ Ingrassia talk about The Diplomat's Kate Wyler (Keri Russell) as a Navigating One, focusing on the first season. They explore how Kate's relentless drive to identify problems and fix them operates within a highly navigating world of protocols, unspoken rules and relational chess moves. Kate appears controlled and confident, but underneath sits self-doubt rooted in her sky-high standards. The hosts also examine her complex marriage to Hal (played by Rufus Sewell) and why the entire diplomatic world is essentially a Navigating One ecosystem. “We tend to think that Ones are always squared away, and always polished and very presnicky about this or about that, but she’s not. And it’s because not all Ones are, particularly the Navigating Ones. They’re striving to feel perfect about very specific things, and it may not be the things you think they should think they’re perfect about.” - Mario [16:42] “I felt like the show was a great example of why Navigating is such the best word to describe this instinctual bias and not social.” - TJ Ingrassia [24:49] “So she can play the game as needed. It’s not her natural thing, but she can do it, and she does it well.” - TJ Dawe [29:44] TIMESTAMPS [00:02] Intro [03:41] About this week’s series [05:35] Hosts’ reactions [09:32] Kate as a Type One [18:06] Kate’s got a temper [22:37] The world of diplomacy is Navigating One [28:54] The Zone of Inner Conflict [32:53] Indirect communication and optics [37:42] Connections and alliances [42:20] Kate as a Navigating One [47:16] Wearing black is strategic [54:06] Hal’s Enneagram type [59:51] Hal has an agenda [01:08:49] Navigating One vs the other subtypes [1:12:09] Other characters’ Enneagram type [1:17:33] Other Navigating Ones Connect with us: Awareness to Action Enneagram on Demand The Awareness to Action Enneagram Podcast Mario Sikora: IG: @mariosikora TikTok: @mariosikora Web: mariosikora.com Substack: mariosikora.substack.com Book: How to Think Well, and Why: The Awareness to Action Guide to Clear Thinking TJ Dawe: Web: tjdawe.ca TJ Ingrassia: Web: tjingrassia.com YouTube: @TypeCast Mentioned in this episode: Awareness to Action Podcast Network Podcast Network

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The Enneagram in a Movie Podcast is a fun and informative way to take a deep dive into understanding the Enneagram. You’ll never see movies—or the Enneagram—the same way!

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