The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
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Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants? We know how this feels. Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again. Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.

  1. The One Thing Women REALLY Want in Marriage – This Will Surprise You

    4D AGO

    The One Thing Women REALLY Want in Marriage – This Will Surprise You

    As a husband, wouldn’t you love to know what your wife truly wants? As a wife, wouldn’t you love for your husband to get it? The key to a happy marriage doesn’t have to be complicated to find. In this episode we share the #1 thing that a woman truly wants from her man, and it will surprise you. You will learn the 2 secret ingredients to make all the difference as you apply 3 simple but effective ways to give your wife what she wants, steadily building a deeper level of connection and fulfilment in your relationship. Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together! If you enjoyed this episode subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship. If you enjoyed this episode listen to episode 3:The #1 thing that will have your partner love your feedback Chapters00:00 — Introduction to the Quest for Understanding Women04:32 — The One Thing Women Want: Being Seen16:53 — Two Key Ingredients to Seeing Your Wife22:56 — Three Practical Ways to Fully See Your Wife30:17 — The Impact of Seeing on Relationships

    32 min
  2. If your partner ignores your dreams use these 3 steps

    FEB 6

    If your partner ignores your dreams use these 3 steps

    When was the last time you and your partner lost track of time talking about exciting ideas you have? Do you feel your partner neglects your dreams and ideas? Do you feel unsupported by your spouse in going at your dreams? When dreams are suppressed and invalidated we create a marriage filled with resentment and regret. Partners in happy relationships fuel each other’s dreams. In this episode we share 3 steps you and your partner can start taking now to manifest anything you want in life and in your relationship. Happy marriages fuel big dreams with small steps. To learn more about the Three Agreements, listen to Episode 2 -  How to Navigate Relationship Challenges with Three Powerful Agreements

    57 min
  3. The #1 thing that will have your partner love your feedback

    JAN 28

    The #1 thing that will have your partner love your feedback

    Giving and receiving feedback is essential in a happy marriage, but how can we do it in a healthy way?Do you feel your partner takes your feedback as criticism? Do you find it challenging to express constructive feedback to your partner without creating conflict or shut-down?Or maybe you feel you get criticised and judged every time your partner gives you feedback, like they are constantly complaining about you and never seeing the good in you? In this episode we share one thing that will transform your experience of feedback in your relationship forever, creating safety in the process.  Chapters 00:00 The Challenge of Giving Feedback in Relationships03:53 Personal Experiences with Feedback10:03 The Fear of Feedback: A Shared Struggle16:06 The Importance of Recognition in Feedback21:55 Balancing Feedback and Recognition30:01 Practical Strategies for Giving Feedback46:10 Conclusion: The Power of Recognition

    49 min
  4. How to Navigate Relationship Challenges with Three Powerful Agreements

    JAN 23

    How to Navigate Relationship Challenges with Three Powerful Agreements

    Do you feel your marriage is filled with the constant pressure of navigating challenges without a map on how to do it? Have you been given advice before that only added to your to-do list with no results?What if there was a clear and easy to implement way to navigate challenges in relationships?  In this episode we share three simple yet powerful agreements that have changed it all for us.With these three agreements we moved from a marriage that felt constantly under pressure to a safe and secure relationship unlocking the happiness we were looking for. These three foundational agreements transform any partnership from merely surviving to thriving. Why settle for 'good enough' when you can have AMAZING?

    51 min
  5. Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Want in Marriage - from insecure attachment to devotional dependency

    JAN 16

    Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Want in Marriage - from insecure attachment to devotional dependency

    Do you ever feel your marriage could be so much more? Do you feel like your partner is not fully invested in your relationship? Join us in this episode as we speak to what was our break-up or break through moment in our relationship. In this episode we share what changed it all for us. Listen to the end to learn how we moved from insecure attachment to what we define as "devotional dependency" unlocking a deeper layer of connection and intimacy.

    1h 7m

  6. 12/31/2025

    How To Silence Your Inner Critic in 2026 and Create The Best Year of your Entire Married Life

    SummaryIn this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for their marriage. He highlights the need for commitment, courage, and ongoing conversations with your partner to achieve a fulfilling and joyful married life.The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll eliminate your inner critics capacity to self-sabotage your freedom and fulfilment in 2026 2. You’ll have a simple tool to help you discover what exactly you want to manifest beyond your deepest fears. 3. You create something infinitely more powerful long-term than setting a random new years resolution that’s statistically doomed for failure.Don't Miss Out on €15000 of Savings on your path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship: 4 days left and only 2 spaces available!!!Coaching - Heroic Husbands

    47 min

  7. 12/19/2025

    The FREE Christmas Present Proven To Melt Hard-Shelled Wives Into Love, Bliss and Joy When Receiving It From You

    The 3 benefits you'll gain from listening to the end of this episode are:1. You'll have a truly surprising gift she actually loves2. It's a free gift BUT STILL holds more value than even the most expensive gift you purchase her.3. It shows you inarguably love and passionately want ALL of her.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship (and SAVE €15000)?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message Now

    16 min

  8. 12/15/2025

    This One Idea Will Help You Make Over 600+ Majorly Positive Marriage Transforming Impressions on your Wife in 2026.

    The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll know the two highest leverage 30secs periods in each day to practice being a great husband for maximum effect.2. You’ll know how to tap into peak human memory research to make a great impression that lasts in your wife’s mind for hours.3. You will be able to set two daily 30-second habits that will transform your marriage.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message Now

    27 min
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Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants? We know how this feels. Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again. Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.

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