AwakenYou in Your Marriage

Christine Bongiovanni
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Together we break down relationship barriers by Awakening Your True You because this process isn’t about changing your partner. It’s about discovering who you are so you can Awaken You in Your Marriage!

  1. 4d ago

    Most People Don’t Want Divorce—They Just Don’t Know What Else To Do

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself wondering, "What else can I do?" In this episode, Christine shares a powerful insight from a recent marriage roundtable that challenged the way she thinks about couples who are struggling. The speaker made a simple but profound statement: "Most people don't want to get divorced. They just don't know what else they can do." Together, we'll explore what happens when one spouse is leaning into the marriage while the other is leaning out, why traditional marriage counseling isn't always the right starting place, and how gaining clarity can sometimes be more important than finding immediate solutions. If you're feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure of what your next step should be, this conversation will offer hope, perspective, and a reminder that there may be more paths forward than you realize. In this episode you'll learn: • Why some couples struggle to engage in marriage counseling • The difference between fixing a marriage and finding clarity • The three paths explored in discernment counseling • How self-reflection can create movement when you feel stuck • Why many people considering divorce are actually searching for hope If you'd like support navigating your own marriage crossroads, schedule a Courageous Love Conversation using the link in the show notes. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    16 min

  2. 5d ago

    The Most Important Work I've Done in My Marriage

    Send us Fan Mail CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    21 min

  3. May 12

    Relearning How to Enjoy Each Other Again

    Send us Fan Mail CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    16 min

  4. May 5

    What No One Teaches You Before Marriage… That You Still Need to Learn

    Send us Fan Mail Most couples spend more time planning their wedding than they do their marriage. And it’s not because they don’t care… it’s because no one really shows them how. In this episode, I’m bringing you into a recent experience I had at a premarital conference—and the unexpected reflection it stirred in me about my own marriage. As I sat with couples just beginning their journey, I found myself thinking… what would have been different if Jeff and I had this kind of preparation? Not just conversations about love… but real, honest guidance around communication, conflict, needs, personality differences, finances, and intimacy. Because the truth is, many of the struggles couples face aren’t surprising… they’re just unexamined. If you’ve ever found yourself feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or questioning why things feel harder than you expected—this episode will help you see your marriage through a new lens. Not as something that’s gone wrong… but as something that’s asking to be built more intentionally. Before you listen, I want to invite you to do one simple thing: Choose one area of your relationship… and start a conversation. Just one. That’s where change begins. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    21 min

  5. Apr 28

    Why That Small Moment Hurt More Than It Should Have: What It Reveals About You

    Send us Fan Mail A simple anniversary gift… a quiet moment… and a reaction I didn’t expect. In this episode, I share how one small moment with Jeff uncovered a deeper belief I didn’t realize I was still carrying—and how emotional triggers in marriage often have less to do with what’s happening now… and more to do with what we’ve been carrying for a long time. If you’ve ever felt hurt, disappointed, or reactive in a way that didn’t quite make sense… this episode will help you slow it down, understand what’s underneath, and begin creating connection from a more grounded place. ✨ Inside this episode: Why small moments can feel so bigThe hidden beliefs shaping your reactionsHow to identify what you’re really longing forA simple way to share this with your spouse💛 Ready to take the next step? Download the Gentle Start Guide to Better Communication to help you begin these conversations in a way your spouse can actually receive. If this episode resonated, follow the show and share it with someone who might need it too. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    22 min

  6. Apr 21

    Faith and Intimacy: The Truth I Almost Didn’t Share

    Send us Fan Mail I’ve been holding something back. Not because I didn’t think it mattered… but because I wasn’t sure how it would land. In this episode, I’m sharing a personal wrestle around faith, intimacy, and a breakthrough I can’t explain through effort alone. This one is raw, honest, and unfolding in real time. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    18 min

  7. Apr 15

    Why You Keep Ending Up in the Same Place in Your Marriage (and How to Break the Pattern)

    Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel like no matter what you try… you and your spouse keep ending up in the same place? The same arguments. The same disconnect. The same frustration. Maybe you’ve had the conversations… tried new approaches… even gotten help… and still—nothing really changes. In this episode, we explore why that happens. Because it’s not just about what you’re doing… it’s about what’s driving the pattern underneath it. You’ll learn why “starting over” often doesn’t work, what’s really going on beneath the surface (especially in intimacy), and how to begin shifting the cycle in a way that actually creates change. In This Episode: Why you keep repeating the same patterns in your marriageWhat’s really happening underneath those patternsHow these dynamics show up in your intimacyWhat “starting fresh” actually meansA simple practice to interrupt the cycle in real timeWhat to do when your spouse isn’t meeting you thereNext Step: If you’re realizing communication might be part of what’s been missing… Download the Gentle Start Guide to Better Communication and begin opening conversations without conflict or shutdown. If this episode resonated with you, follow the show and share it with someone who might need this too. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    19 min

  8. Apr 7

    When You Don’t Know What’s Really Going On in Your Sex Life

    Send us Fan Mail Ever feel like you’re the only one carrying the intimacy in your relationship? Like you’re the one reaching, thinking about it, wondering why it’s not happening… while your spouse feels distant or hard to read? Or maybe you’re on the other side—feeling pressure, expectation, and not fully understanding why it feels so hard to respond. In this episode, we slow things down and look beneath the surface of what’s really going on. Because this isn’t just about sex. It’s about what’s happening underneath it. In This Episode: Why initiation isn’t the real issueWhat the “pursuer” may actually be longing forThe hidden weight the “withdrawer” may be carryingHow we create meaning based on our own insecuritiesWhy emotional safety must come before physical intimacyWhat it looks like to begin again—togetherTimestamps: 00:00 Feeling Alone in Intimacy 00:40 Why Initiation Isn’t It 03:03 The Pursuer’s Deeper Need 04:51 The Withdrawer’s Hidden Weight 06:30 Stories We Tell Ourselves 07:45 Build Safety Before Sex 09:24 Dig Up the Roots 10:10 Starting Over Together 11:14 Breaking Pursuer Roles 12:22 Next Steps and Coaching 12:53 Closing and Outro Next Step: If you’re realizing there’s more underneath your dynamic than you’ve been able to sort through on your own… You don’t have to navigate it alone. 👉 Book a Courageous Love Conversation and begin understanding what’s really happening in your relationship. CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship Does communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what’s true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving. Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/ Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. ...

    14 min
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Together we break down relationship barriers by Awakening Your True You because this process isn’t about changing your partner. It’s about discovering who you are so you can Awaken You in Your Marriage!

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  • Creator
    Christine Bongiovanni
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    269
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    © 2026 AwakenYou in Your Marriage
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