The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

  1. 13H AGO

    472. If You’re Confused By Your Wife’s Mood, Low Drive, Or Emotional Distance… This Episode Could Change Your Entire Marriage

    On this episode of the The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with menopause and perimenopause expert Jesse Robertson for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about what millions of women are experiencing... often silently. Perimenopause and menopause impact far more than hormones. They can affect energy, emotions, sleep, confidence, intimacy, mental clarity, and relationships. Yet many couples still don’t fully understand what’s happening during this stage of life, which can leave women feeling alone and misunderstood. In this episode, Jesse shares invaluable insights into the physical, emotional, and relational changes women experience during perimenopause and menopause, while also helping men better understand how they can support their spouse with empathy, patience, and connection. They dive into why education and communication are so important for couples navigating this season together. When couples understand what’s happening beneath the surface, it creates more compassion, deeper intimacy, and stronger emotional connection. This conversation is a must-listen for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, improve communication, and better navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with hormonal transitions. Whether you’re currently experiencing perimenopause or menopause, or simply want to prepare for the future, this episode offers hope, practical guidance, and reassurance that you are not alone. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    1 hr
  2. 4D AGO

    471. For The Ladies - How To Be A Better Wife With Austin (LMFT)

    Wives — have you ever wondered what your husband truly needs from you in marriage, or what being a great wife really looks like from his perspective? This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Austin joins us for an honest and eye-opening conversation about what it means to be a better wife in marriage. From emotional connection and communication to support, intimacy, and strengthening your relationship, this episode is filled with insights that can transform your marriage. If you want a deeper connection, a happier relationship, and practical ways to strengthen your marriage, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    47 min
  3. MAY 19

    470. When You Have Unrealistic Expectations In Marriage... You Are Going To Be Disappointed

    Marriage comes with expectations — some healthy, some completely unrealistic. When those expectations go unspoken or unmet, disappointment, frustration, and resentment can quietly creep into the relationship, creating distance between couples who deeply love each other. In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the realistic vs. unrealistic expectations couples bring into marriage, from communication and intimacy to roles, romance, and emotional connection. They share practical ways to uncover hidden expectations, communicate openly, and get on the same page so you can build a stronger, happier, and more connected marriage. If you’ve ever felt let down in your relationship or wondered why your spouse “just doesn’t get it,” this episode will give you powerful insights to help transform your marriage. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. *This episode was originally released in January 2024. It is such an important topic that re reposted it. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    35 min
  4. MAY 15

    469. For The Guys - How To Be A Better Husband With Expert Austin (LMFT)

    Husbands — ever feel like you’re trying your best, but still wondering what your wife actually needs from you? What does being a truly great husband even look like from her perspective? In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Austin dive into the real conversations men need to hear about marriage, connection, leadership, and intimacy. They break down practical ways to become the husband your wife deeply desires, respects, and feels emotionally connected to. If you want a stronger marriage, deeper intimacy, and a better understanding of your wife, this episode is a game-changer you don’t want to miss. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    33 min
  5. MAY 12

    468. Effective Communication Skills You NEED For Your Marriage - Nick's Recent Experience

    Early in our marriage, communication was one of our biggest struggles, and honestly, it nearly led to divorce. We misunderstood each other, handled conflict poorly, and spent too much time reacting instead of truly listening. Everything began to change when we learned how to communicate in a healthier way… but even more importantly, when we started genuinely hearing each other’s feelings, needs, and perspectives. That transformation didn’t just improve our communication, it completely changed our marriage, intimacy, connection, and friendship. In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re sharing the communication tools that made the biggest difference in our relationship and the skills we believe EVERY marriage needs.  Plus, Nick shares a very recent personal experience that brought these lessons into real life in a powerful way. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, disconnected, frustrated, or stuck in the same arguments over and over, this episode is for you. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    48 min
  6. MAY 8

    467. A Marriage Therapists 3 Top Tips For A Thriving And Passionate Relationship

    For many couples, marriage can sometimes feel overwhelming, like climbing Mount Everest with no clear path. For many couples, it seems like there are way too many things to think about and to do and it can feel like too much to handle!  In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, hosts Nick and Amy welcome back Austin Ellis, a renowned marriage therapist, to share three practical things couples can use to build a stronger, more connected, and fulfilling marriage. If you want actionable tips to make your relationship thrive without feeling overwhelmed, this episode is a must-listen.  🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    21 min
  7. MAY 5

    466. The Content You Consume Will Distort Your Reality Of Marriage And Life

    In life, we become what we consistently consume. The content we take in whether from social media, movies, music, or TV gradually shapes the way we think, feel, and interpret the world around us. For example, if someone regularly scrolls through social media filled with posts promoting distrust in relationships or extreme views about the opposite sex, it can slowly influence how we perceive our own spouse even our their real-life relationship is healthy and strong. In the same way, if a person repeatedly consumes content that objectifies others, it can distort how they view relationships and intimacy, potentially impacting how they treat their spouse. The bottom line is simple: what we consume influences who we become or how we view our spouse and marriage. That’s why it’s important to be intentional about the media we allow into our minds. This idea is also supported by research. A study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology found that individuals who spend more than 30 minutes a day on social media report higher levels of depression and anxiety. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the importance of being mindful about what we consume, and how choosing healthier, more positive influences can lead to a more fulfilling life and stronger relationships, whether in marriage or in preparation for one. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    39 min
  8. MAY 1

    465. 7 Reasons Why Your Wife Is Not Interested In Making Love - With Sex Therapist Austin LMFT

    One of the biggest perks of having a large audience is that we hear everything—and we mean everything. Every day, we get flooded with messages from couples sharing what’s really going on behind closed doors. And one theme shows up again and again: Wives expressing why they’re not interested in sex… and husbands feeling confused, rejected, and frustrated by the lack of intimacy in their marriage. So in this powerful episode, Nick and Amy sit down with special guest Austin, a certified sex therapist, to unpack one of the most requested topics we’ve ever received: The 7 real reasons wives often lose interest in sex within marriage. This conversation is honest, eye-opening, and packed with insight that could change the way you see intimacy in your relationship. If you’re in a marriage where sexual connection feels strained, distant, or just not where you want it to be—or if you’re a wife wondering why your desire has faded—this episode is for you. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    37 min
4.4
out of 5
164 Ratings

About

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

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