The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

  1. 3d ago

    477. Why "Talking" About Your Sex Life With Your Spouse Doesn’t Automatically Make It Better - What To Do With Sex Therapist Austin

    In most marriages, one spouse has a higher desire for intimacy, while the other has a lower desire. And if you’re being honest… navigating that difference can feel exhausting, confusing, and lonely. You talk about it. You have the hard conversations. Things improve for a few days… maybe even a week. But then somehow, you find yourselves stuck in the exact same argument again and again, wondering why nothing is actually changing and why your spouse still doesn’t seem to hear or respond to what you need. So what do you do when communication alone isn’t working? The truth is, you are far from alone. This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy have sex therapist Austin on to discuss one of the most common. and emotionally charged struggles couples face: mismatched desire in marriage. They unpack why couples keep having the same frustrating conversations, what’s really happening underneath the conflict, and how to finally create lasting change and deeper connection together. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    50 min
  2. 6d ago

    476. What Does Love Really Look Like? - 12 Signs Of True Love In Marriage

    In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most important questions in marriage: What does true love actually look like in marriage? Real love is about so much more than attraction, romance, or grand gestures. It’s revealed in the everyday moments, through kindness, sacrifice, emotional connection, commitment, physical intimacy, and the way spouses continue choosing each other through every season of life. Whether your marriage feels strong right now or you’re working to reconnect, this episode will encourage you to nurture the habits that create deeper intimacy and lasting connection. The strongest marriages are not perfect marriages, they are marriages where two people keep learning how to love each other better every single day. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    30 min
  3. Jun 5

    475. Why Is It That The Smallest Things In Marriage Can Turn Into The Biggest Fights?

    Why is it that the smallest things in marriage can suddenly turn into the biggest fights? We recently asked YOU — our Ultimate Intimacy audience: “Do little things ever cause bigger issues in your marriage?” …and a shocking 95% of couples said YES! Honestly, it was comforting to know we aren’t the only ones who’ve watched something tiny spiral into tension, frustration, or a full-blown argument. 😅 In this incredibly relatable episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, therapist Austin joins us again to unpack why little things trigger bigger problems in marriage, and more importantly, HOW to stop them before they damage connection and intimacy. From communication habits and emotional triggers to resentment, assumptions, and everyday frustrations, this episode is packed with practical tools that can help couples break unhealthy cycles, strengthen communication, and create a more peaceful, connected marriage. If you’ve ever thought, “How did this tiny issue turn into such a huge fight?” this episode is for you. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    36 min
  4. Jun 2

    474. Marriage Advice That We Were Told Was Good, But Really Isn't... Do You Agree?

    What if some of the marriage advice you've always believed is actually hurting your relationship? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal the most common marriage advice they were given (or that they have heard) before and after getting married, advice that sounded wise, was widely accepted, and was often shared with the best intentions, but ultimately did more harm than good. From popular relationship clichés to long-held beliefs about what makes a marriage successful, they unpack the advice they discovered was actually creating frustration, misunderstanding, and disconnection instead of strengthening their relationship. You may be surprised by how many of these marriage "rules" you've heard, or even followed yourself. Tune in and see if you agree with their list! We would also love to hear anything you have heard and include them in a future episode. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    30 min
  5. May 29

    473. Unlocking Feminine Sexuality Both Emotionally And Sexually.... Interview With A Sex Therapist

    If you loved our most downloaded episode ever — Episode 30: It’s All About The Clitoris! with Cindy Scharkey — then you do NOT want to miss this conversation. Let’s be honest… most husbands genuinely want to know how to better please their wife sexually, and many women are still trying to fully understand their own bodies, desires, and what unlocks true pleasure and connection. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, sex therapist Austin joins us to dive deep into the keys to unlocking feminine sexuality — both emotionally and sexually. We talk about the emotional connection women crave, the barriers that hold couples back, and what creates deeper intimacy, passion, and fulfillment in marriage. This episode is insightful, eye-opening, and packed with relationship-changing truths every couple needs to hear. If you want more connection, better intimacy, and a stronger marriage, this is a MUST-listen episode. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    1h 3m
  6. May 26

    472. If You’re Confused By Your Wife’s Mood, Low Drive, Or Emotional Distance… This Episode Could Change Your Entire Marriage

    On this episode of the The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with menopause and perimenopause expert Jesse Robertson for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about what millions of women are experiencing... often silently. Perimenopause and menopause impact far more than hormones. They can affect energy, emotions, sleep, confidence, intimacy, mental clarity, and relationships. Yet many couples still don’t fully understand what’s happening during this stage of life, which can leave women feeling alone and misunderstood. In this episode, Jesse shares invaluable insights into the physical, emotional, and relational changes women experience during perimenopause and menopause, while also helping men better understand how they can support their spouse with empathy, patience, and connection. They dive into why education and communication are so important for couples navigating this season together. When couples understand what’s happening beneath the surface, it creates more compassion, deeper intimacy, and stronger emotional connection. This conversation is a must-listen for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, improve communication, and better navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with hormonal transitions. Whether you’re currently experiencing perimenopause or menopause, or simply want to prepare for the future, this episode offers hope, practical guidance, and reassurance that you are not alone. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    1 hr
  7. May 22

    471. For The Ladies - How To Be A Better Wife With Austin (LMFT)

    Wives — have you ever wondered what your husband truly needs from you in marriage, or what being a great wife really looks like from his perspective? This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Austin joins us for an honest and eye-opening conversation about what it means to be a better wife in marriage. From emotional connection and communication to support, intimacy, and strengthening your relationship, this episode is filled with insights that can transform your marriage. If you want a deeper connection, a happier relationship, and practical ways to strengthen your marriage, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    47 min
  8. May 19

    470. When You Have Unrealistic Expectations In Marriage... You Are Going To Be Disappointed

    Marriage comes with expectations — some healthy, some completely unrealistic. When those expectations go unspoken or unmet, disappointment, frustration, and resentment can quietly creep into the relationship, creating distance between couples who deeply love each other. In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the realistic vs. unrealistic expectations couples bring into marriage, from communication and intimacy to roles, romance, and emotional connection. They share practical ways to uncover hidden expectations, communicate openly, and get on the same page so you can build a stronger, happier, and more connected marriage. If you’ve ever felt let down in your relationship or wondered why your spouse “just doesn’t get it,” this episode will give you powerful insights to help transform your marriage. 🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it! And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE. 💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE to explore our amazing products! Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more. Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage. *This episode was originally released in January 2024. It is such an important topic that re reposted it. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

    35 min
4.4
out of 5
164 Ratings

About

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

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