Love Yourself Thin Podcast

Dara Tomasson
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Love Yourself Thin Podcast is where quilters come to create the life they truly want—on and off the sewing machine. Hosted by life coach Dara Thomason, this show helps you ditch the overwhelm, understand your habits, and build a healthier relationship with yourself and with food. Whether you want more confidence, more energy, or more joy in your quilting and everyday life, you'll learn practical tools, mindset shifts, and empowering strategies that help you feel better in your body and in your mind. It's the same heart and mission you loved from The Quilter's Coach Podcast—now with a name that reflects Dara's lifetime program and her belief that transformation begins with loving yourself first. If you're a quilter ready to live intentionally, feel lighter emotionally and physically, and design a life you love, this podcast is for you. For more visit daratomasson.com

  1. 5h ago

    255. 3 Ways You Are Self-Sabotaging and How to Overcome Them

    Why do things seem to fall apart right when they were finally going well? In this episode of the Love Yourself Thin Podcast, Dara Thomason dives deep into the real roots of self-sabotage — not as laziness or lack of discipline, but as old survival patterns that once helped you feel safe, accepted, and connected. Dara explores how many women unknowingly carry childhood coping mechanisms into adulthood, especially around food, productivity, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. What once protected you may now be quietly exhausting you. In this episode, Dara discusses: The surprising origin of the word self-sabotage Why perfectionism, people-pleasing, and procrastination are actually protective strategies How childhood conditioning shapes adult behaviors The "triple P" framework that reveals hidden coping patterns Why your nervous system resists change, even when you want it How your internal "thermostat" keeps pulling you back to familiar patterns Why self-awareness is the first step toward real freedom Dara also walks listeners through a powerful self-sabotage assessment inspired by Dr. Judy Ho's work and explains how fear, control, and shaky self-worth quietly influence daily decisions. This episode is not about trying harder. It's about finally understanding yourself with compassion.   Masterclass: Stop Sabotaging Your Weight Loss 📅 June 23–26 This live 4-day masterclass will help women uncover the emotional and psychological patterns underneath self-sabotage so they can stop fighting themselves and finally create lasting change. You'll learn: Why you keep repeating the same cycles How to stop using food as emotional relief The nervous system's role in sabotage patterns How to build self-trust instead of self-punishment Register here: https://dara-tomasson-coaching.mykajabi.com/masterclass-self-sabotage Take the quiz mentioned in this episode -  https://drjudyho.com/wp-content/uploads/stop-self-sabotage_Self-Sabotage_Assessment_Online_Quiz.pdf   Connect with Dara: Instagram: @dara_tomasson If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review and share it with another woman who needs this message.

    21 min

  2. May 28

    254. Self Governance Makes Permanent Weight Loss Possible

    For the last three episodes, we looked at the wreckage. We uncovered how shame became embedded into our beliefs about food and body image. We exposed the control trap that taught us to distrust ourselves. We examined the comparison trap that convinced us we were never enough. But awareness is not freedom. Today, we stop studying the map of the trap… and start walking the pathway out. In this episode of Love Yourself Thin, Dara introduces the concept of self-governance — learning to trust yourself again instead of outsourcing your worth, your food choices, and your body to rules, trends, and external authority. You'll learn: • The difference between control and self-governance • Why control feels loud, rigid, and fear-based • How self-governance creates confidence, peace, and freedom • Why permanent weight loss is simpler than you've been taught • How emotional buffering keeps women stuck (food, scrolling, shopping, overworking) • The question that changes everything: What feeling am I avoiding? • Why responsibility creates freedom (not blame) • The 5 steps Dara teaches for permanent weight loss: Weight loss science is simple Learn how to create and trust your own eating plan Feel your feelings instead of eating them Take full responsibility for your life Build self-confidence through action and practice • Why your body is not a project to fix—but a home to live inside Dara also shares personal stories about overcoming diet culture, learning self-trust, raising five children, building confidence, and discovering that freedom was never found in another plan—it was found in becoming her own authority. This episode is your invitation to stop asking: "What should I do?" …and start asking: "What do I already know about myself?" You are not broken. You are not behind. You are capable of learning to trust yourself again. Ready to uncover what's really keeping you stuck? Book a free 30-minute coaching call with Dara where you'll explore: • Your relationship with food • Your relationship with your body • The patterns keeping you stuck • Whether coaching support is the right next step for you You are no longer a project. You are a person.   For next steps, book a call with Dara! To learn more about permanent weight loss, check out Dara's program Love Yourself Thin.

    21 min

  3. May 21

    253. The Comparison Trap — Why Weight Loss Feels Like You're Never Good Enough

    "Comparison is the thief of joy… but in the weight loss world, it becomes the thief of identity." In this episode of Love Yourself Thin, Dara Tomasson dives into the comparison trap — that exhausting cycle of constantly feeling like you're not enough, not thin enough, not disciplined enough, or not successful enough. But what if those feelings didn't happen by accident? What if comparison was carefully manufactured by diet culture, media, and beauty standards designed to keep women chasing an impossible finish line? In this episode, Dara explores: • Why "I'll be happy when…" keeps women stuck • How comparison steals joy, confidence, and authenticity • The history of shifting beauty standards from Marilyn Monroe to heroin chic • Why social media intensifies feelings of inadequacy • The psychological cost of constantly seeing yourself as a "project" • How the beauty and weight loss industry profits from dissatisfaction • The difference between a "project body" and an "inhabited body" • How to stop postponing joy until you lose weight • Dara's personal story about body image, surgery, and self-acceptance • A powerful "Joy Audit" exercise to help you reconnect with your life now This episode is an invitation to stop asking: "Am I good enough?" …and start asking: "Is this standard good enough for me?" If you've spent years hiding in photos, avoiding swimsuits, comparing yourself to everyone around you, and waiting to finally feel worthy once you lose weight — this episode is for you. Ready to uncover what's really keeping you stuck? Book a free coaching call with Dara to explore the root of your struggles with food, body image, and self-worth. Book HERE. Check out Dara's lifetime program where weight loss is just the first step to uncovering a life that is full of joy, confidence and love! More about it HERE. Next week: Episode 254 — The Pathway to Freedom

    17 min

  4. May 14

    252. Exposing the Control Trap in Weight Loss - How History Has Shaped Our Food Rules

    In this episode of The Love Yourself Thin Podcast, Dara continues her powerful series on the hidden history of diet culture and weight loss. Last week, we explored the blueprint of shame. This week, we uncover the control trap. Why have so many women stopped trusting themselves around food? Why do we believe an app, a diet book, or a set of food rules knows our body better than we do? Dara walks through the history of weight loss culture—from the first diet book in 1863 to calorie counting, slimming clubs, diet pills, Weight Watchers, processed food marketing, and today's GLP-1 era—to reveal how the diet industry slowly trained women to distrust their own hunger, body, and intuition. If you've spent decades starting over every Monday, following someone else's rules, and feeling like you "fail" when you can't keep up, this episode will help you understand why. This conversation is especially for women over 50 who are tired of dieting, tired of obsessing over food, and ready to create permanent weight loss by healing the deeper patterns underneath emotional eating, perfectionism, procrastination, and people-pleasing. In this episode, Dara discusses: ✨ The first diet book and how weight loss became rule-based ✨ Why diet culture teaches women to distrust themselves ✨ The connection between control, shame, and food ✨ How calorie counting changed women's relationship with eating ✨ The rise of slimming clubs, diet pills, and public weigh-ins ✨ Why food rules often become emotional "buffers" ✨ The difference between external control and self-governance ✨ How emotional eating is often about safety, not food ✨ Why lasting weight loss starts with trust, not restriction Dara also shares personal insights about growing up as a people-pleaser, how food became emotional protection, and why learning to feel emotions instead of controlling them changed everything. If you're ready to stop fighting yourself and finally understand the real reason weight loss has felt so hard, this episode is for you. Connect with Dara: Subscribe to the podcast for weekly conversations about emotional eating, mindset, and permanent weight loss for women 50+. Follow Dara on Instagram: @dara_tomasson If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps more women find freedom from the dieting cycle. If you're ready to dig deeper into what is holding you back from achieving your weight loss goals, book a call with Dara to explore the options - Book a Call Explore more about Dara's program HERE

    17 min

  5. May 7

    251. A Historical Look at Why Weight Loss Feels So Hard

    What if your struggle with weight isn't about discipline—but about centuries of conditioning? In this thought-provoking episode, Dara Tomasson begins a powerful 4-part series exploring the historical roots of diet culture and why so many women feel stuck in cycles of food obsession, guilt, and frustration. By tracing patterns from early human survival to religious influence and societal expectations, Dara reveals how control and shame became deeply intertwined with food. If you're a woman over 50 who has achieved success in many areas of life—but still feels stuck when it comes to your weight—this episode will help you finally start connecting the dots. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why your brain is wired for survival, not restriction How early humans viewed body fat as protection—not a problem The original meaning of "diet" and how it's been distorted over time How religion introduced morality and shame into eating habits The role of control and power in shaping body expectations Why emotional eating, perfectionism, and people-pleasing are not random How understanding your patterns is the key to lasting weight loss Key Insight Your relationship with food didn't start with you. The guilt, the rules, the "starting over on Monday"—they're part of a much larger story. When you understand that, you can begin to change it in a sustainable, compassionate way. Questions to Reflect On What is my unique story with food? What beliefs have I been carrying about my body and eating? Where might control be showing up in my habits? What if nothing has gone wrong—and this is something I can understand and change? Free Coaching Invitation If you're ready to uncover what's really driving your eating patterns and finally feel in control around food, Dara is offering a limited number of free 30-minute coaching sessions. These calls are designed to help you gain clarity, identify what's been keeping you stuck, and explore your next steps toward lasting change. Book you call here About Dara's Love Yourself Thin Program Dara's group coaching program is designed specifically for women 50+ who are ready to create permanent weight loss from the inside out. Inside, you'll experience: Weekly live coaching calls for ongoing support and guidance A clear path to weight loss freedom in 90 days A supportive community of women committed to lasting change Tools to overcome emotional eating, perfectionism, and self-sabotage This is not another diet—it's a new way of thinking, living, and relating to yourself. Learn more HERE What's Coming Next In the next episode, Dara continues the historical deep dive—exploring the first diet trends, extreme weight loss methods, and how diet culture evolved into what we experience today. Connect & Continue the Journey If this episode resonated with you: Subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss the rest of this powerful series Follow Dara on Instagram: @dara_tomasson Share this episode with a friend who's ready to stop dieting and start understanding.

    15 min

  6. Apr 30

    250. What You Need to Quit to Finally Feel Free

    Episode 250 is more than a milestone—it's a reflection of what becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and start coming home to who you already are. In this deeply personal episode, Dara shares a powerful shift: success doesn't come from doing more—it comes from quitting what's draining you. Through a moving poem and real client story, you'll discover why willpower, self-criticism, and "proving yourself" have never worked… and what actually creates lasting change instead. This episode will help you: Understand why self-criticism keeps you stuck (and what to replace it with) Learn what it really means to "quit" in a way that creates growth See how your thoughts directly impact your energy, habits, and results Shift from chasing worth to living from it Create goals from desire—not pressure, punishment, or proof Dara also walks you through a simple but powerful 3-step process: Your Quit List – releasing beliefs that drain your energy Your Desire List – reconnecting with what you actually want Your Plan Without Proving – taking action from wholeness, not lack If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of starting over, this episode will show you a completely different way forward. ✨ You are not behind. ✨ You are not broken. ✨ You don't need to prove anything to be worthy of what you want. If you're ready to go deeper, Dara invites you to explore this work inside her membership, where real transformation happens through changing your relationship with yourself. Book a call to learn more!

    15 min

  7. Apr 23

    249. Be Kind and Rewind – How Your Past is Driving Your Eating Habits

    Have you ever wondered why you keep doing the same things with food—even when you know what to do? In this episode, Dara Tomasson takes you inside the real work that leads to lasting change. You'll hear what actually happens inside her program and why weight loss isn't about willpower, discipline, or another plan—it's about understanding the patterns you've been practicing for decades. Dara shares real client examples to show how childhood experiences, family dynamics, and old beliefs are still influencing your eating habits today. From late-night overeating to guilt around food, these patterns aren't random—they're learned. In this episode, you'll discover: Why your struggle with food isn't a lack of discipline How childhood experiences shape your current habits What "be kind and rewind" really means—and how it helps you change The "domino buffering" pattern that keeps you stuck in cycles Why awareness is the first step—but not the full solution This episode will help you see yourself with more compassion and clarity—and understand why nothing has worked long-term. But awareness alone isn't what creates transformation. Inside Dara's Lifetime Membership, this is the work you actually do. You don't just learn concepts—you get coached through your specific patterns, in real time, so you can finally break the cycle with food. If you're ready to stop fighting yourself and start creating lasting results, this is where that change happens. Book a call with Dara to find out how she can help you!   Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review and share this episode!

    18 min

  8. Apr 9

    247. Sleep Support for Weight Loss, Health, and Productivity

    If you've tried all the sleep tips and still struggle to get a good night's rest, this episode will help you understand what's really going on. Dara shares why sleep isn't just about routines or habits—it's about your thinking patterns, unprocessed worries, and how your brain is trying to keep you safe. Through a powerful client example, you'll learn how to calm a busy mind, reduce nighttime overthinking, and create the conditions your body needs for real rest. In this episode, you'll learn: Why sleep struggles are often a thinking problem, not a habit problem How to separate what you can control vs. what you can't A simple "worry list" tool to quiet your mind How to stop fighting sleeplessness and reduce resistance Why better sleep supports weight loss, health, and productivity If your brain won't "turn off" at night, this episode will give you a new way to approach sleep—with more calm, clarity, and control. Want to continue this conversation? Book a call with Dara to find out how she can help you dive deeper into what's really going on so you can create the life you want! Book a call HERE. Catch Dara at the Quilter's Life Summit April 21-23, 2026 where she will dive deeper into perfectionism, people pleasing and procrastination. Plus you can hear from 20+ other quilting experts as they share quilting tips and tricks. Sign up for free HERE.

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Love Yourself Thin Podcast is where quilters come to create the life they truly want—on and off the sewing machine. Hosted by life coach Dara Thomason, this show helps you ditch the overwhelm, understand your habits, and build a healthier relationship with yourself and with food. Whether you want more confidence, more energy, or more joy in your quilting and everyday life, you'll learn practical tools, mindset shifts, and empowering strategies that help you feel better in your body and in your mind. It's the same heart and mission you loved from The Quilter's Coach Podcast—now with a name that reflects Dara's lifetime program and her belief that transformation begins with loving yourself first. If you're a quilter ready to live intentionally, feel lighter emotionally and physically, and design a life you love, this podcast is for you. For more visit daratomasson.com

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  • Creator
    Dara Tomasson
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    255
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    Copyright © 2022 Dara Tomasson

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