Save My Marriage Podcast

Aston and Adam Simmonds
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

  1. 2D AGO

    How to Achieve Success at work and Fulfillment in Your Marriage in 2026

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “If you’re winning at work but losing at home… this is for you.”  In this episode, we break down a powerful exercise that will show you exactly where your life is out of alignment.  Because here’s the truth:  There are two types of success.  External success.  Internal fulfillment.  And if you only have one… eventually it catches up with you.  We walk you through the Wheel of Life — a simple but confronting tool that exposes where you’re thriving… and where you’re quietly avoiding.  “The area you keep neglecting is probably the one that would change everything.”  If you’re a high achiever who:  • Crushes it in business  • Shows up for everyone else  • But feels disconnected in your marriage  This episode will hit.  Do this exercise with your partner. Separately first. Then come together and compare.  That conversation alone could shift your entire 2026.  Save this for your next date night.  Share it with your partner.  Full episode: “How to Achieve Success at Work and Fulfillment in Your Marriage in 2026” is live now. Link in bio.  #marriagepodcast #highachievers #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #worklifebalance #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #couplesgrowth #successandlove #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    16 min

  2. FEB 9

    The Real Reason Valentine’s Day Feels So Pressured

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ 👉 Upcoming Retreats: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ “Why does Valentine’s Day feel so heavy every year?” In this episode, we talk about the real reason Valentine’s Day feels so pressured… And it’s probably not what you think. “It’s not that Valentine’s Day is the problem.  It’s that one day is being asked to carry the weight of the other 364.” The flowers.  The dinner.  The card. They don’t fix months of disconnection, missed conversations, or feeling like an afterthought. If Valentine’s Day has ever left you feeling disappointed, resentful, or quietly sad instead of connected… This episode is your wake up call and your permission to do things differently. Save this for when the pressure creeps in.  Share it with someone who feels the weight of “expectations.” Full episode: “The Real Reason Valentine’s Day Feels So Pressured” is live now. Link in bio. #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #valentinesdaypressure #emotionalconnection #marriagerealities #relationshipgrowth #highachievingcouples #workingonus #realtalk #relationshiprepair #connectionovergestures Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    19 min

  3. FEB 2

    What Does a Healthy Relationship Actually Look Like?

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ The Relationship Health Check Quiz: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/quiz “What does a healthy relationship actually look like?” So many couples ask this. And most are chasing the wrong thing. No conflict. No tension. Just peace and ease all the time. In this episode, we break one of the biggest myths in relationships and explain why “comfortable” is not the same as healthy. We talk about: The beliefs that quietly keep couples stuck Why avoiding conflict creates distance not safety The 8 foundations every healthy relationship actually needs “If your relationship feels calm but disconnected, that’s not peace. That’s a silent divorce.” If you’ve ever wondered whether what you have is normal or felt confused about why love alone hasn’t been enough This episode will bring clarity. Save this for your next moment of doubt. Share it with your partner or a couple who needs a reset. Full episode: “What Does a Healthy Relationship Actually Look Like?” Live now. Link in bio. #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #marriagegrowth #healthyrelationships #emotionalconnection #relationshipclarity #couplesgrowth #marriagerepair #realrelationships #workingonus #relationshipeducation #podcastepisode  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    26 min

  4. JAN 26

    Is Your Unhealed Trauma Quietly Killing Your Relationship?

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Is your unhealed trauma quietly killing your relationship?” In Episode 23 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we talk about the truth most couples never see: The overreactions. The shutdowns. The fights that feel bigger than the moment. “It is not that you are bad at communication. It is that younger parts of you are being activated when you feel unsafe.” Unprocessed experiences do not disappear with time. They live in the body. And they show up when you are triggered. If you have ever thought, Why do we keep having the same fight? Why does this feel so intense? Why does connection disappear so fast? This episode will help you understand what is really happening beneath the surface. Save this for the next time you feel triggered. Share it with your partner or someone who needs to hear this. Full episode: “Is Your Unhealed Trauma Quietly Killing Your Relationship?” is live now. Link in bio. #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshiphealing #marriagegrowth #emotionalconnection #traumahealing #innerchildwork #relationshippatterns #healingtogether #couplesgrowth Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    28 min

  5. JAN 19

    Marriage 2.0: How We Recreate Our Relationship

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “We didn't fall out of love. We outgrew our relationship.” No one prepares you for this part of marriage. The person you married is not the same person standing in front of you today. And neither are you. Kids. Careers. Identity shifts. Midlife questions. Life keeps moving but most couples never update the relationship. We nearly lost our marriage not because we didn't love each other but because we didn't know how to grow together. In this episode we share Why marriage is not the finish line its the beginning The reinvention cycles every long term relationship moves through Why couples slowly drift apart without realising what is happening And the exact process we now use every year to recreate our relationship If your relationship feels flat disconnected or like you're on different pages you are not broken you are just overdue for an update Save this for when it feels hard Share it with someone you love Marriage 2.0 How We Recreate Our Relationship is live now Link in bio #marriage20 #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #longtermmarriage #emotionalconnection #workingonus #relationshipvision #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #couplesgrowth #realtalk #loveiscreated #relationshiptruth Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    23 min

  6. JAN 12

    January Is Divorce Month: Here’s How to Save Your Marriage Before It’s Too Late

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “January is the month most couples give up” Not because they do not love each other But because everything they avoided all year finally comes to the surface The pretending The tension The quiet question of Can we really do another year like this In this episode we share the truth most couples never hear “Divorce is not easier You do not need a new partner You need new skills” We open up about Why January is divorce month The lie that leaving will fix everything How we nearly went down that path ourselves And how couples can recreate their relationship before it is too late If January feels heavy in your marriage If you are questioning everything right now You are not broken And you are not alone Save this for when it feels hard Share it with someone who needs hope right now Full episode January Is Divorce Month Here Is How to Save Your Marriage Before It Is Too Late Link in bio #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagetips #relationshippodcast #marriagehelp #relationshiphealing #emotionalconnection #realtalk #marriagegrowth #relationshiptruth #workingonus #loveafterpain #podcastclip #viralreel #truthbomb  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    19 min

  7. JAN 5

    The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?” In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making. The talking that turns into defending. The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown. The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells. “It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.” If you have ever thought: • We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved • I do not feel heard • I shut down because it feels safer • Every conversation feels heavy or tense This episode is for you. We break down: • The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make • Why good intentions still lead to disconnection • How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness • The simple framework that helped save our marriage Save this for the next hard conversation. Share it with your partner or someone who needs it. Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio. #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipcommunication #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #marriagepodcast #realtalk #workingonus #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    36 min

  8. 12/29/2025

    How to Find the Right Relationship Coach (and Why I Needed One to Save My Marriage & Myself

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “I didn’t get a relationship coach because things were ‘bad enough’…” I got one because I finally realised doing it alone wasn’t working. In Episode 19 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we share the truth about: Why asking for help was the hardest part How choosing the wrong support can keep you stuck What actually matters when finding a relationship coach And why the real work starts when you take responsibility for your own growth “It’s not about putting faith in a coach. It’s about trusting yourself enough to show up, get uncomfortable, and do the work.” If you’ve ever thought: “I should be able to figure this out on my own” Or… “I don’t want to be the only one trying anymore” This episode is for you. Save this for when pride gets in the way. Share it with someone who’s ready to grow. Full episode: “How to Find the Right Relationship Coach (and Why I Needed One to Save My Marriage & Myself)” Now live. Link in bio. #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #growthmindset #workingonus #realmarriage #consciousrelationships #relationshippodcast #truthbomb #realtalk #healingjourney #choosinggrowth  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    16 min
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

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  • Creator
    Aston and Adam Simmonds
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    154
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Save My Marriage Podcast
  • Show Website
    Save My Marriage Podcast

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