Leadership Chemistry

Danny Coleman
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This show is for managers and coaches to learn how leadership actually works — how people interact, influence, and transform. Learn to sharpen your communication, enhance your influence, and develop others. We make psychology practical, provide you tools you can use right away, and become someone worth following.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    9. Leadership Series: The 6 Rules of Leadership

    Let's all give a warm welcome to my sister-in-law Kaycee Coleman—licensed clinical social worker and brand new head coach at the Coleman Leadership Collective. This week we're kicking off the first installment of a brand new monthly leadership series. Since "leadership" is such a nebulous term and no one can seem to agree on what it actually entails, Kaycee and I wanted to unpack our personal rules of great leadership. We get into why the most powerful leadership moments often have nothing to do with strategy or metrics, what it really means to lead yourself before you can lead anyone else, and why the small things you think nobody notices are actually the things people remember most. If you've ever wondered what separates a run-of-the-mill manager from a leader people actually want to follow, you'll want to tune in.    Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    33 min

  2. May 29

    8. "It Starts at the Top" is a Lie

    Every time I speak at organizations, I watch the same thing happen: people nod along enthusiastically until someone says, "That's great, but it won't work here," and suddenly the room fills with a kind of collective helplessness. But that mindset has a name: an external locus of control, and research shows it's linked to higher stress, worse job performance, even a 50% greater risk of coronary heart disease. You already know we're gonna flip that script. First, stop arguing for your limitations—there's a critical difference between fault, which lives in the past, and responsibility, which is about what you can do right now. Second, shift your focus from your circle of concern to your circle of influence, because the more energy you pour into what you can actually control, the bigger that circle grows. Third, start small and start now, because lasting change doesn't come from overhauling everything at once, it comes from doing one small thing well. We all have the power to lead from wherever we sit.   Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    31 min

  3. May 22

    7. The Best Success Advice I've Ever Gotten

    Three years ago, I made a decision that changed everything—not a dramatic, lightning-bolt moment, but a quiet, deliberate shift in how I showed up. I'd spent years getting excited about ideas, telling people about them, and then... not doing them. Author Steven Pressfield calls that pattern living like an amateur. Amateurs wait until they feel ready, until inspiration strikes, until life slows down enough to make it convenient. Pros don't wait. They show up on Tuesday when they're tired, on the road with a full plate, when nobody's watching and nobody would even notice if they didn't. Two years ago, I committed to putting out a podcast episode every single Friday. A year ago, I made my "weekly" newsletter actually weekly. I just decided to be a pro. And what surprised me beyond the tangible results was that something shifted internally. I started to respect myself in a way I hadn't before. And it makes complete sense, because self-respect is built the same way any trust is built, by watching someone keep their promises over and over again. So the question isn't whether you have what it takes. The question is whether you're willing to treat your own commitments like they matter. Because pros do.    Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    18 min

  4. May 15

    6. 5 Levels of Leadership

    I used to think leadership was just about having a fancy title and telling people what to do. Turns out I was dead wrong, and my whole journey from a cocky 27-year-old director fumbling through high turnover to actually understanding what real leadership looks like was nothing short of humbling. The way I see it, there are five levels to leadership: you start with a Position, where your title is the only thing keeping people in line; you grind your way to Production, where your competence starts doing the talking; then you hit Personality, where genuine connection with people gives you real influence; Level 4 is where it gets serious—you're not just leading people, you're building other leaders and driving a culture of growth; and Level 5, the rarified air most of us never even sniff, is Legacy, where your impact outlives your presence. The whole point isn't to judge where you are but to understand that leadership isn't a destination, it's a daily practice, and if you can leave things even a little better than you found them, you're already on your way to building that legacy.     Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    35 min

  5. May 8

    5. The 3C's of Influence

    In this episode, I dig into something I call the Compliance Triangle. One of the biggest frustrations I hear from coaches and managers alike is, "How do I get people to actually follow through?" And the honest answer starts with a reminder: human beings are not algorithms. Change is slow, hard, and complex, and the best thing we can do as leaders is extend compassion to ourselves and our people before anything else. That said, there are three skills that meaningfully increase follow-through when practiced well. Together, these three elements form the foundation of influence-based leadership—the kind that actually works.   Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    38 min

  6. May 1

    4. The Four Motivational Dials

    In my work, I use a framework for motivating others, which I call the Four Dials. When most people talk motivation, they typically think of the Light Switch Model—the common belief that leaders can flip a switch and turn on someone's motivation—but that approach tends to breed frustration, burnout, and stalled progress. Instead, let me offer up the Michelangelo Model: the idea that motivation already exists within people, and our job as leaders is simply to chisel away what's blocking it. Drawing on Self-Determination Theory, I'll walk through each of the four psychological dials we can tune up or down to create an environment where motivation thrives naturally—the Information Dial (giving people what they need to succeed, without overwhelming them), the Safety Dial (helping people feel free from judgment and connected to the shared human experience), the Autonomy Dial (ensuring people feel like the authors of their own story, with meaningful agency inside a structure), and the Connection Dial (the foundation of everything, because when people truly feel known and cared for, they'll run through a wall for you and for themselves).   Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    39 min

  7. Apr 24

    3. The Key Habit of High Performance

    In my opinion, the single most important habit of high performance is creating rituals. Through my own oddly specific rituals, I've learned something that elite athletes and other high performers have long understood: our energy operates in natural cycles of stress and recovery, and rituals are the structures that allow us to tap into that rhythm. Rituals conserve willpower, calm your physiology, and create boundaries in a world that never stops demanding your attention. Your rituals should be personal and enjoyable (no cold plunges required!), they should be specific and anchored to a time and place, and they should have a consistent cadence, whether that's daily, weekly, monthly, or annual. Your homework this week is to build your own, and send them to me on Instagram at @itsdannycoleman.     Get Weekly Insights on Leadership: Sign up for weekly tools to communicate and behave in ways that actually change other's behavior Sign up free here: https://www.dannycoleman.co  Connect with Danny: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsdannycoleman/  Substack: https://substack.com/@dannycoleman  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/djcoley/

    36 min
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This show is for managers and coaches to learn how leadership actually works — how people interact, influence, and transform. Learn to sharpen your communication, enhance your influence, and develop others. We make psychology practical, provide you tools you can use right away, and become someone worth following.

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  • Creator
    Danny Coleman
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    7
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026
  • Show Website
    Leadership Chemistry

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