Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

Marcela Collier

-Cycle breaker podcast episode every Tuesday hosted by Marcela Collier -Community support from other cycle breakers in our private Facebook Group -Free Parenting Material -Access to exclusive sales and new releases

  1. Oct 26

    ⭐️Episode 14: How to Control Your Anger as a Parent (Even When You're Overwhelmed)

    💙 Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you try to stay calm with your kids, take deep breaths, count to ten... and STILL end up yelling? What if the problem isn't that you can't control your anger, but that you've been taught to fight it? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why emotional regulation isn't about suppressing your anger. It's about developing a healthy relationship with it. You'll discover: 💙 Why your child's behavior may trigger anger connected to your own childhood experiences. 💙 The three unhealthy ways parents respond to anger: fighting it, running from it, or shutting down. 💙 What your anger is actually trying to protect. 💙 How Mindsight helps you understand your emotions instead of reacting to them. 💙 How to break generational patterns of yelling and become the Secure Parent your child needs. You don't have to stop feeling angry to become a Secure Parent. You need to learn what to do with your anger. ✨ Ready to practice emotional regulation with direct guidance and support? Inside the Secure Parent Collective, we practice the skills of Emotional Regulation, Mindsight, and Positive Discipline every week so they become part of how you parent. 💙 Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ Subscribe to the Parenting With Understanding Podcast and join us LIVE every Monday at 9:30 AM Pacific!

    ⭐️Episode 14: How to Control Your Anger as a Parent (Even When You're Overwhelmed)

  2. Oct 20

    ⭐️Episode 13: How to Stop Taking Your Child's Behavior Personally

    ✨ **Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:** 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Does your child's defiance, meltdowns, or refusal to listen make you feel disrespected, frustrated, or like you're failing as a parent? What if the real problem isn't their behavior, but the meaning you're giving it? In this episode of the **Parenting With Understanding Podcast**, Marcela Collier teaches you how to stop taking your child's behavior personally by practicing **Mindsight**, one of the three essential skills of a Secure Parent. You'll discover: 💙 Why your interpretations trigger emotional reactions 💙 How to separate observations from judgments 💙 The three questions that help you understand the needs beneath your child's behavior 💙 How to respond with confidence instead of reacting **Ready to stop collecting parenting tips and start practicing Secure Parenting?** Inside the **Secure Parent Collective**, you'll practice these skills every week with Marcela's direct guidance, professional coaching, and a supportive community. ✨ **Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:** 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday at 9:30 AM Pacific. Subscribe and join us LIVE!

    ⭐️Episode 13: How to Stop Taking Your Child's Behavior Personally

  3. Oct 12

    ⭐️Episode 12: How to Repair With Your Child After You Yell

    💙 Ready to practice Secure Parenting with weekly coaching and support? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Have you ever yelled at your child... ...and then spent the rest of the day wondering if you've damaged your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why repair is not a sign of failure—it's part of Secure Parenting. But repair is more than saying, "I'm sorry." It begins with how you treat yourself first. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why repair is more than an apology✨ The 3 Secure Parent values that make repair meaningful:• Mercy• Empathy• Kindness✨ Why promising perfection keeps parents stuck✨ How to show your child progress instead of perfection If you've ever wondered... "Will my child still trust me after I yell?" This episode is for you. 💙 Ready to practice Secure Parenting with weekly coaching and support? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    ⭐️Episode 12: How to Repair With Your Child After You Yell

  4. Sep 30

    ⭐️ Episode 1: Why Do I Keep Yelling at My Child? The Truth Most Parenting Advice Misses

    💙 Become the Secure Parent your child needs. Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://secureparentcollective.com/ Why do loving parents keep yelling, even when they know better? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why reactivity isn't caused by your child's behavior—it's shaped by the interpretation your brain makes in the moment. You'll learn: ✨ Why information alone doesn't create lasting change ✨ How curiosity changes the way you parent ✨ The 3 skills every Secure Parent develops:• Emotional Regulation• Mindsight• Positive Discipline If you're ready to stop reacting and start responding with confidence, this episode is for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss one.

    ⭐️ Episode 1: Why Do I Keep Yelling at My Child? The Truth Most Parenting Advice Misses

  5. Sep 30

    ⭐️ Episode 2 : How to Stop Reacting to Your Child (Without Becoming Permissive)

    Do you ever feel like you have only two choices? 👉 Yell to get your child to listen.👉 Or stay calm... and let them get away with everything. What if there's a third option? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why secure parenting isn't permissive parenting—and how you can hold healthy boundaries without yelling, threatening, or giving in. In this episode you'll learn: ✨ Why permissive parenting is actually another form of reactive parenting.✨ The difference between control, giving in, and secure leadership.✨ How to guide your child with both connection and accountability.✨ A practical example of setting boundaries without reactivity. 💙 Ready to practice these skills with coaching and support? 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss one.

    ⭐️ Episode 2 : How to Stop Reacting to Your Child (Without Becoming Permissive)

  6. Sep 30

    ⭐️Episode 10: How to Raise Emotionally Secure Children. (Without Being a Perfect Parent)

    Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com You've read the parenting books.You've listened to the podcasts.You've saved the Instagram posts. So why is it still so hard to stay calm in the moment? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with HIC Parenting Coach Holly Storm to reveal why knowing what to do isn't the same as becoming the parent you want to be. Together, they explore the three core skills every Secure Parent develops: 🧠 Head – Mindsight: Understanding yourself and your child's needs. ❤️ Heart – Emotional Regulation: Learning to work with your nervous system instead of against it. 🙌 Hands – Positive Discipline: Guiding behavior through connection, not control. If you've ever felt like... "I know what to do... I just can't do it when it matters most." This episode is for you. 💙 Ready to stop collecting parenting tips and start practicing Secure Parenting? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective: 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    ⭐️Episode 10: How to Raise Emotionally Secure Children. (Without Being a Perfect Parent)

  7. Sep 30

    ⭐️Episode 3: Why Your Child Isn't the Real Trigger (And What Actually Is)

    Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you ever feel like your child just knows how to push your buttons? What if they're not actually creating your triggers... they're revealing them? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why reactivity doesn't begin with your child's behavior—it begins with the meaning your nervous system attaches to it. You'll discover: ✨ Why your child isn't the real trigger✨ How childhood wounds shape your reactions as a parent✨ The difference between reacting to behavior and understanding it✨ How Secure Parents move from blame to awareness If you're ready to stop reacting and start parenting from emotional safety, this episode is for you. 💙 Ready to practice these skills with coaching and support? 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    ⭐️Episode 3: Why Your Child Isn't the Real Trigger (And What Actually Is)

  8. Sep 30

    ⭐️Episode 4: She Became a Calm Parent... Even Though Her Husband Never Changed

    Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Can you become the Secure Parent your child needs... even if you had a difficult childhood, react every day, or don't have a supportive spouse? In this powerful episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with Immaculada, a member of the Secure Parent Collective, who shares her journey from daily reactivity, anxiety, and overwhelm to becoming a calmer, more confident, and emotionally secure parent. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ What finally helped her break the yelling cycle✨ Why information alone wasn't enough to create lasting change✨ How her relationship with her children completely transformed✨ Why she says, "It was night and day." If you've ever wondered... "Can I really change?" This conversation will give you hope. 💙 Ready to become the Secure Parent your child needs? New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    ⭐️Episode 4: She Became a Calm Parent... Even Though Her Husband Never Changed
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-Cycle breaker podcast episode every Tuesday hosted by Marcela Collier -Community support from other cycle breakers in our private Facebook Group -Free Parenting Material -Access to exclusive sales and new releases

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