Modern Husbands Podcast

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Winning ideas from experts to manage money and the home as a team. #Money #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #Family This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. Podcast guests do not represent Modern Husbands, and the views expressed in this podcast may not be those of the host or the management.

  1. 1D AGO

    How Men Can Support Their Partner’s Career

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. We have three incredible leaders joining us for today’s special edition. Dr. David Smith of the Johns Hopkins Carey Business School and author of Good Guys: How Men Can Be Better Allies for Women in the Workplace, Dr. Corinne Low who teaches at Penn’s Wharton School and author of Having It All, and Paul Sullivan – Founder of The Company of Dads and former NYT columnist. This conversation explores the concept of allyship, particularly in the context of the workplace and home. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing gender roles, the division of labor in dual-career families, and the impact of parenting on career trajectories.  Enjoy the show. Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    57 min

  2. APR 21

    Sex, Money, Marriage (and Pickleball): A Conversation with Jonathan Kolmetz, MBA, MS Licensed Professional Counselor

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. For today’s podcast we welcome Jonathan Kolmetz, one of just 50 professionals in the U.S. licensed in both finance and mental health. We’ll explore how money, sex, and attachment patterns intersect in marriage—and how couples can build deeper connections, break negative cycles, and manage their home and money as a true team. Jonathan also shares practical ways to navigate financial stress, keep intimacy alive, and even bring more fun and play into your relationship. But we must get started today by talking about the world’s greatest sport for middle-aged men: pickleball. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 03:40 Before we get to the practical takeaways from the episode, let’s talk about why Pickleball is the world’s greatest sport for middle-aged folks like us. 12:42 You are one of only 50 professionals licensed in both finance and mental health. How does this unique combination shape the way you help couples with their relationships and money? 18:52 What does a typical non-trauma related sex therapy session look like? Money and sex are often cited as two of the top stressors in marriage. Why do these topics feel so emotionally charged, and how do they connect at a deeper level? 21:26 You specialize in attachment-based therapy. How do attachment styles influence how couples manage money, conflict, and intimacy? 26:04 Many couples feel stuck in recurring arguments about money or domestic responsibilities. What steps can they take to break those cycles and respond differently? 32:38 Our views about money often form in childhood. How do those early experiences shape couples’ dynamics at home, and how can they rewrite unhelpful money scripts? 35:36 If a couple is struggling with both money stress and intimacy challenges, what are one or two first steps you recommend they take today to get on the same page? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    37 min

  3. APR 7

    Work Family Balance: A Conversation Jennifer Sabatini Fraone, MSW, MBA

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. For today’s episode, we welcome Jennifer Sabatini Fraone, MSW, MBA, former Executive Director for the Boston College Center for Work & Family.  Jennifer received her BS in Clinical Psychology from Tufts University and her Master of Social Work and Master of Business Administration from Boston College. For today’s episode we discuss how organizations, couples, and families can find work life harmony. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 01:15 Over your years leading the Boston College Center for Work & Family, what major shifts have you seen in how couples balance work and family life? 04:21 What do you think has been the most impactful research the Center has published in its 35 year tenure? (Fatherhood/parental leave/flex) 11:27 What are the biggest stressors you’ve found that high-achieving dual-career couples face today—and how can they navigate them without burning out? 18:40 Your research has explored changing gender norms. How are men’s roles in caregiving and domestic life evolving, and what still needs to change? 22:16 Remote and hybrid work promises flexibility, but often leads to blurred boundaries. What have you learned about how couples can protect personal time while working flexibly? 25:48 If you could redesign the “ideal” workplace for modern families, what would it look like—and how would it reshape the home lives of dual-career couples? 31:08 The Center closed at the end of 2025. How did you prepare for this upcoming transition after this work being an integral part of your life for 20 years?  33:59 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to share with our listeners? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    37 min

  4. MAR 24

    Navigating Parenthood: Insights from Alex Trippier

    For today’s episode we welcome Alex Trippier, a dad of three who has been married for 18 years and is the host of the popular podcast, “Be a Happier Parent.” His mission is to help parents connect and grow. Alex shares insights on parenting, the mental load carried by women, and the dynamics of relationships. He humorously discusses the concept of a 'brain rental fee' charged by his wife for asking where things are, highlighting the often unrecognized mental labor women perform in households. The discussion delves into the importance of humor in communication, the challenges men face with shame and vulnerability, and the insights gained from motherhood literature. The conversation concludes with actionable advice on appreciation and conflict resolution in relationships, emphasizing the need for curiosity and recognition of each other's efforts. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 01:38 Let’s start with you sharing a bit about yourself and your family? 04:35 Your wife charges you a “brain rental fee?” You’ve gotta tell us about that! 22:01 Why did you start reading motherhood books? 35:25 What are three things you’ve learned from doing the podcast that you wish you’d known earlier in marriage? 42:25 What’s the biggest problem you see caused by inequity in the home? 46:02 What’s the biggest win in your relationship compared to today? 48:03 Where can listeners learn more about you and your podcast? 48:53 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can leave with our listeners? Click here to listen to Alex’s podcast: “Be a Happier Parent”Click here to follow Alex on InstagramBelow you can click and order the books mentioned on the podcastMotherhood ComplexWhat’s On Her MindHaving It AllEqual PartnersFair Play Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    50 min

  5. MAR 10

    From Sports Gambling to Financial Harm: Where Gambling Crosses the Line

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today we welcome Dr. Shandra Parks. Dr Parks serves as Board President with the Maryland Council on Problem Grambling and is a Family Involvement Facilitator, Resource Home Worker and is a Field Instructor for MSW students with the University of Maryland, School of Social Work. Dr. Parks provides wellness counseling, financial education as well financial counseling to individuals and families impacted by Disordered gambling.   In this conversation, Dr. Shandra Parks discusses the complexities of gambling addiction, its evolution in the digital age, and the psychological factors that contribute to it. She describes early warning signs, understanding the emotional impact of gambling, and finding a balance between entertainment and addiction. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 02:03 You work with people and families affected by problem gambling every day. When you hear the phrase “gambling addiction,” what do most people get wrong? 03:08 Many people picture casinos or slot machines. How has gambling changed in the last decade, especially with apps, sports betting, and online platforms? 06:01 What are loot boxes? 12:07 Does gambling feel different from other money struggles like overspending or credit card debt? If so, why? 13:19 What are some early warning signs that gambling is becoming unhealthy, even if bills are still getting paid? 20:59 Many people tell themselves “I’m just doing small bets” or “this is entertainment.” Where is the line between entertainment and risk? 25:37 If someone is listening right now and feeling uneasy about their behavior, what is the first step that doesn’t feel overwhelming or shame-filled? 31:03 How should a spouse bring up concerns without triggering defensiveness or shutdown? 34:07 How do you balance compassion for the person struggling with gambling while still protecting yourself financially and emotionally? 37:00 How long does recovery typically take, and what does progress realistically look like? 39:01 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share with our listeners? Learn more: https://www.marylandproblemgambling.org/dr-shandra-parks  #gambling Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    40 min

  6. FEB 24

    The Mental Load: A Conversation with Dr. Julie Wayne and Paige Connell

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the second of a three part series: Empowering Men to Partner or Lead at Home: The Mental Load Today’s guests are Dr. Julie Wayne and Paige Connell. Dr. Julie Wayne is professor at Wake Forest University. She is a leading scholar on work-family integration and gender equity. Her research uncovers the structural and psychological barriers to balanced partnerships—and how men can take intentional steps to reduce the mental load on their partners. Paige Connell is a mental load strategist who equips families with clear tools to divide responsibilities fairly and prevent burnout. Her work, which she shares with hundreds of thousands of her followers on social media, translates the “invisible” into systems couples can use to feel more connected, supported, and balanced. The mental load isn’t just about who does the chores—it’s about who thinks about them. Today we will talk about making invisible labor visible. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 01:31 Can you briefly define mental load, cognitive labor, and the consequences of imbalance? 04:42 Your research has uncovered key psychological barriers to sharing the mental load, can you walk us through them? 10:53 Can you share an example where a couple went from burnout to balance? 24:15: How can men step in and shoulder more at home? 32:04 What do your findings suggest are effective ways to invite men into this space meaningfully? 39:23 What tools or frameworks have been most effective for dividing the “invisible work”? 45:50 What are a few simple tricks couples can use to better work together? 49:24 Can you explain the difference between emotional labor and mental labor, and share which is more taxing and why? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    54 min

  7. FEB 10

    When She Earns More: A Conversation with Dr. Gary Barker, Ed Coambs, and Melissa Hogenboom

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s podcast is the first of a three part series: Empowering Men to Partner or Lead at Home: When She Earns More. Today’s guests are Dr. Gary Barker, Ed Coambs, and Melissa Hogenboom. Dr. Barker is the President and CEO of Equimundo. He is an internationally recognized expert on engaging men and boys in gender equality work. Ed Coambs is a licensed marriage and family therapist, financial planner, and founder of Healthy Love and Money. He helps couples uncover the emotional roots of money stress, especially in relationships where earning dynamics are unequal. Melissa Hogenboom is a BBC journalist and author of the book Breadwinners: The Next Chapter of the Fight for Equality, which examines the social and relational impact of female breadwinning. Our conversation will focus on overcoming the unique challenges and dynamics in female breadwinning relationships. Enjoy the show. Questions 00:00 Introduction 01:25 You've worked with families across 40+ countries. What are some universal patterns you see when women become the primary earners? 06:09 In researching your book Breadwinners, what surprised you most about how female earners experience their relationships? 09:00 What are the emotional undercurrents behind money tension when she earns more? 16:22 What advice would you give couples trying to “rewrite the script” when roles flip? 21:15 How can couples begin uncovering and addressing money shame or resentment? 29:26 What cultural shifts do you think are needed—and possible? 32:01 Are the algorithms of social media adding to the belief that it’s “men vs. women” facing today’s challenges? 36:33 What types of men generally embrace relationships that include a female breadwinner, and what can we learn from them? 39:27 What does financial intimacy really look like in these relationships? 41:58 How can female breadwinners make their partners feel valued and loved for who they are? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    45 min

  8. JAN 27

    Blended & Blessed: Navigating Estate Planning for Modern Families

    A conversation with Emily Bouchard, coauthor of Estate Planning for the Blended Family Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at brian@modernhusbands.com.  For today’s podcast we welcome Emily Bouchard. Emily is a Leadership and Legacy Consultant at a US Bank own firm who specializes in supporting blended families. She also co-authored Estate Planning for the Blended Family and Beginners Guide to Purposeful Prenups. Today’s discussion centers around estate planning and considerations in blended families. Enjoy the show. 00:00 Introduction 01:05 Can you explain what a blended family is and the different forms of blended families? 02:33 Where does your passion to support blended families come from? 06:00 Why is estate planning particularly important for blended families? 8:46 What are some of the most common financial challenges that blended families face when it comes to estate planning? 13:38 Can you discuss any specific tax considerations that blended families should be aware of when setting up their estate plans? 16:45 How should blended families approach the issue of guardianship to ensure that there are no conflicts among family members? 19:13 Could you explain the benefits of using trusts in estate planning for blended families? 22:53 Could you share any real-life examples that highlight unique solutions or common pitfalls in estate planning for blended families? 24:20: About Emily’s book 26:32 What is the single most important piece of advice you would give to couples in a blended family to ensure their estate planning is successful? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

    29 min
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Winning ideas from experts to manage money and the home as a team. #Money #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #Family This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. Podcast guests do not represent Modern Husbands, and the views expressed in this podcast may not be those of the host or the management.

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  • Creator
    Modern Husbands
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    123
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Modern Husbands Podcast
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