Modern Husbands Podcast

Modern Husbands
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Winning ideas from experts to manage money and the home as a team. #Money #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #Family This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. Podcast guests do not represent Modern Husbands, and the views expressed in this podcast may not be those of the host or the management.

  1. 2d ago

    The Modern Father: Communication, Co-Parenting, and What Kids Really Need

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the second of two with our guest Dr. Hart. If you missed the first, you can scroll back an episode before listening to this one. Dr. John Hart is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, researcher, speaker, and proud husband and father of fraternal twins. In our previous episode, Dr. Hart shared the realities of raising twins, including the financial surprises, emotional challenges, and parenting lessons that come with having multiples. As we continue the conversation in this episode, Dr. Hart explains how intentional communication, proactive partnership, and engaged fatherhood have strengthened his marriage and family, while offering insights from both his professional work as a therapist and his lived experience as a Black father. Enjoy the show. 00:00 Introduction 01:25 In counseling other parents with multiples, what have you noticed to be the primary challenges? 02:35 What strategies did you and your wife use to manage the parenting demands of multiples, from diapers and childcare to education and extracurricular activities?  12:24 As a Black father, did you encounter any unique cultural or community expectations while raising twins, and how did those experiences shape your parenting journey? 18:59 We end all our podcasts, with asking this question: What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with? 20:24 Where can our listeners learn more about you and the work you are doing? Learn more: https://rccmaryland.com/ #Fatherhood #Parenthood Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  2. Oct 13

    The Hidden Costs of Raising Twins and Why Involved Fathers Matter

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the first of two with our guest Dr. John Hart, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, researcher, speaker, proud husband, and father of fraternal twins. His favorite role is being “Dad” to his twins. Dr. Hart shares the realities of raising twins, including the financial surprises, emotional challenges, and parenting lessons that come with having multiples. Enjoy the show. 00:00 Introduction 01:08 When you first learned you were having twins, what went through your mind as a father, and how did it change the way you thought about parenting and finances? 05:18 What expenses truly double?  08:25 How does your professional background as a licensed marriage and family therapist and working with fathers provide a unique insight into understanding your own journey with fatherhood? 09:15 As someone who studies fathers professionally, what did becoming a father teach you that research alone never could? 19:38 What are some of the unique joys and challenges of raising multiples that you have noticed that parents of single children might not fully understand? Learn more: https://rccmaryland.com/ #fatherhood #parenting #twins Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  3. Oct 6

    What Is the Mental Load? Dr. Leah Ruppanner Explains the Invisible Work Behind Family Life

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the second part of a two part conversation with Dr. Leah Ruppanner. We discuss the eight types of mental load, how couples can share these responsibilities more equitably, and practical strategies to reduce stress and support each other's dreams. This is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve relationship dynamics and mental well-being. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 01:41 What are the eight types of mental load? 02:31 How can couples approach understanding how to share life management? 15:24 Let’s move onto sharing the emotional support needed to manage a family, that is, checking in on family, friends, and coworkers.  18:32 A conversation about magic making. 22:08 What is dream building, and how can men help women fulfill their passions and ambitions?  24:26 Individual upkeep is how we stay fit and healthy. What can men do to make sure their partners have enough time to do this? 28:47 The next type of mental load is safety. How can parents work together to share this load? 32:22 The final type of mental load I want to talk about is meta-care, which is raising children who will thrive in the future. Walk listeners through how parents can balance providing our kids with the opportunity to thrive in the future, but not at the expense of finding joy in the process. 36:03 Right now you’re battling Breast Cancer. How has the American health care system impacted the mental load for you in this fight 37:36: Please remind listeners where they can purchase your book, Drained. 39:05 What is one simple and actionable takeaway you want to leave our listeners with? Lighten Lab: https://www.lightenlab.com/  More About Dr. Ruppanner: https://www.leahruppanner.com/  Purchase Drained: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/762972/drained-by-leah-ruppanner-phd/  #mentalload #invisiblelabor #marriagetips  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  4. Sep 29

    Mental Load in Marriage: The Hidden Work Draining Women and Families

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the first of two with our guest Professor Leah Ruppanner. We explore the complex concept of mental load, its impact on women and families, and practical strategies to achieve greater equity and understanding in household responsibilities. Discover how to measure, manage, and support mental load to foster healthier relationships and personal well-being. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 2:30 Why did it feel as if you were approaching this as a therapist? 5:24 How do you define the mental load? 9:13 What are the eight types of mental loads? 22:45 Walk us through the pressures that are usually unique to women around household responsibilities and caregiving. 28:37 You ask couples to participate in a mental load audit. Can you explain what that is and how it can be done? 36:31 We know from research that most men want to do more at home, and are trying to figure out how. Let’s start with this. How can men convince their wives to take on less at home? 41:00 Where can listeners purchase Drained. Lighten Lab: https://www.lightenlab.com/  More About Dr. Ruppanner: https://www.leahruppanner.com/  Purchase Drained: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/762972/drained-by-leah-ruppanner-phd/  #mentalload #invisiblelabor #marriagetips  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  5. Sep 22

    How Men Can Support Their Partner's Career and Protect Both Partners' Ambitions

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the second of two with our guest Stefanie O'Connell. Stephanie is a personal finance expert, speaker, and author of The Ambition Penalty, a book that explores the hidden financial and career costs ambitious women face in the workplace and at home. Through her writing, media appearances, and advocacy, she helps women build wealth, navigate unequal systems, and pursue career success without sacrificing financial independence or personal fulfillment. In today's second of a two part series with Stefanie, we explore the gender disparities in ambition, pay, and leadership with data-driven insights and practical solutions to foster equity and support women's career growth inside our homes. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 01:19 How can couples better protect both partners’ ambitions over the long term? 12:23 What do you wish more men understood about ambitious women? 16:45 What conversations are you hoping couples have after reading this book? 18:55 Where can people purchase your book? 21:!4 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  6. Sep 15

    The Ambition Penalty: How Household Labor Holds Back Women's Careers

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as a Certified Financial Therapist, Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com. Today’s episode is the first of two with our guest Stefanie O'Connell. Stephanie is a personal finance expert, speaker, and author of The Ambition Penalty, a book that explores the hidden financial and career costs ambitious women face in the workplace and at home. Through her writing, media appearances, and advocacy, she helps women build wealth, navigate unequal systems, and pursue career success without sacrificing financial independence or personal fulfillment. In today's first of two episodes with Stefanie, we explore the gender disparities in ambition, pay, and leadership with data-driven insights and practical solutions to foster equity and support women's career growth inside our homes. Enjoy the show. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 03:45 What inspired you to write The Ambition Penalty? 06:13 How do you define “ambition” differently from traditional career culture? 12:04 You reported that only 31% of women said they were proud to call themselves ambitious, despite more than half personally identifying as ambitious. Why is this the case? 18:13 How does unequal household labor directly affect women’s career trajectories? 25:05 What are some subtle ways well-meaning men unintentionally undermine their partner’s ambitions? Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  7. Sep 8

    The Behavior Gap in Relationships: Carl Richards on Money Beliefs, Financial Planning, and Wealth

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team. Today we welcome Carl Richards for the second of a two part series. Carl is a Certified Financial Planner™ and bestselling author known for turning complex money ideas into simple, powerful insights. He created The Sketch Guy column for The New York Times, where for a decade he used nothing but cardstock and a Sharpie to help readers rethink their relationship with money.  Carl built and sold a successful investment firm and has spoken at financial events around the world. His books, including The Behavior Gap, The One-Page Financial Plan, and his latest, Your Money: Reimagining Wealth in 101 Simple Sketches, have reached a global audience and been translated into multiple languages. Through Behavior Gap Radio and his newest project 50 Fires, he continues to explore how money intersects with meaning, relationships, and a well-lived life. Enjoy the second of our two part series with Carl. We will pick up where we left off from our last episode. Enjoy the show! Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 06:24 Many couples struggle not just with money decisions, but with who thinks about the money. How do you see the mental load showing up in financial management?  5:50 What advice would you give couples where one partner is the “default financial manager” and the other is disengaged? 17:58 Why do we keep making the same money mistakes even when we “know better”? 23:55 You’ve said “getting ahead is a trap.” That’s countercultural. What should people aim for instead? 29:10 Rapid fire questions: For these questions, say the questions back and provide a succinct instinctual response: One money belief you’ve changed your mind about? A financial rule people should break? A financial rule people should never break? Best way to start a money conversation with your spouse? One word you want people to associate with money? 34:38 Where can listeners learn more about you and purchase your new book, Your Money? 35:39 If listeners take away just one idea from your work, what do you hope it is? Purchase Carl's book on Amazon, or folks can head to their favorite local bookstore: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Reimagining-Wealth-Sketches/dp/1804091715 Listeners can save an additional 5% by using the code YourMoney5 at checkout. https://bulkbooks.com/products/your-money-reimagining-wealth-in-simple-sketches Follow Carl on social media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thinkingcarl/ https://x.com/behaviorgap https://www.instagram.com/behaviorgap #money #personalfinance #masculinity  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

  8. Sep 1

    Carl Richards on Money Conversations, Financial Planning, and Why Couples Fight About Money

    Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas for managing money and the home as a team. Today we welcome Carl Richards for the first of a two-part series. Carl is a Certified Financial Planner™ and bestselling author known for turning complex money ideas into simple, powerful insights. He created The Sketch Guy column for The New York Times, where for a decade he used nothing but cardstock and a Sharpie to help readers rethink their relationship with money.  Carl built and sold a successful investment firm and has spoken at financial events around the world. His books, including The Behavior Gap, The One-Page Financial Plan, and his latest, Your Money: Reimagining Wealth in 101 Simple Sketches, have reached a global audience and been translated into multiple languages. Through Behavior Gap Radio and his newest project 50 Fires, he continues to explore how money intersects with meaning, relationships, and a well-lived life. Enjoy the show! Show Notes 00:00 Introduction 03:18 You’ve said this book is “not advice, it’s an invitation to conversation.” Why do you think conversations about money matter more than instructions? 07:14 What do most people still get wrong about financial planning today? 13:38 In your experience, what’s the most common emotional pattern that causes money fights in relationships, and how can couples shift from “you’re wrong” to “we just see money differently”? 25:39 Conclusion of Part 1 Purchase Carl's book on Amazon, or folks can head to their favorite local bookstore: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Reimagining-Wealth-Sketches/dp/1804091715 Listeners can save an additional 5% with code YourMoney5 at checkout. https://bulkbooks.com/products/your-money-reimagining-wealth-in-simple-sketches Follow Carl on social media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thinkingcarl/ https://x.com/behaviorgap https://www.instagram.com/behaviorgap #money #personalfinance #masculinity  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media! Newsletter Facebook YouTube LinkedIn Instagram Twitter TikTok Substack

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Winning ideas from experts to manage money and the home as a team. #Money #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #Family This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. Podcast guests do not represent Modern Husbands, and the views expressed in this podcast may not be those of the host or the management.

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  • Creator
    Modern Husbands
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    145
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    © 2026 Modern Husbands Podcast
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