The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Get ready to reinvent your love life with the Sex Reimagined Podcast! This isn't your awkward middle school sex ed class - we're bringing the juicy details with plenty of humor and real talk. Your hosts, Leah Piper (Tantra Sexpert) and Dr. Willow Brown (Taoist Sexpert), have a combined 40 years of turning fumbles into touchdowns in the bedroom. Leah and Willow don't shy away from oversharing their most hilarious and cringe-worthy sex stories - all with valuable lessons so you can up your pleasure game. Each month they invite fellow sexperts to share their methods and research on everything from healing trauma to the science of orgasm. Get ready to feel empowered, laugh out loud, and maybe even blush as we redefine what fantastic sex can be. 

  1. 6d ago

    Leah & Dr.Willow: Why So Many Women Avoid Giving Oral Sex | #207

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Can Fellatio Actually Feel Good for You, Not Just Him? Willow and Leah Break Down 5+ Oral Sex Secrets. In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Dr. Willow and Leah  get honest about why so many women avoid giving oral sex and how to turn it into something you actually crave. They share the comfortable positions that save your neck and jaw, the eye contact and hair pulling dynamics that turn submission into a turn on, and the Taoist reflexology map that connects the head of the penis to the heart. Willow and Leah also walk through breath and sound techniques for deep throating, the ejaculatory control trick every woman should know, and the language shift that changed how Leah relates to oral sex altogether. This conversation blends real technique with real vulnerability, making it a must listen for anyone who wants to feel more pleasure, power, and connection while pleasuring their partner.  EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Ditch the "on top" position. The right angle protects your neck and completely changes how oral sex feels in your body.Eye contact and hair holding aren't about control, they're an invitation to feel seen and worshipped.Every part of the penis has a reflexology point, and knowing them lets you send pleasure straight to his heart.Coconut oil, breath timing, and slowing down at your edge are the real secrets to comfortable deep throating.One small hand technique can stop ejaculation in its tracks when you want the fun to last longer.Changing your language from "blow job" to "honoring" can transform oral sex from a chore into a devotion.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/deep-throating-tips  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure Rooted in Desire: Women's Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join us in Santa Barbara, Jan 30-31, 2027. Register Here  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  2. Aug 25

    Leah & Dr. Willow: The Wetness Question Every Woman Has Asked Herself | #206

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Ever been told you're "too wet" or worried you're "not wet enough?" In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown break down the real truth behind vaginal wetness, arousal signals, and why lubrication isn’t the only factor  with how turned on you actually are. They dig into why making noise during sex unlocks deeper arousal, the difference between Taoist and Tantric approaches to sounding, why lube should be a staple and never a source of shame, what happens once you experience female ejaculation, how to navigate period sex with confidence, and how to have a compassionate conversation with a partner about hygiene without triggering shame. This one is packed with practical, body-literate tools for anyone who has ever felt self-conscious about wetness, smell, sound, or fluids during sex. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Wetness and arousal don't always match. Cervical fluid, cycle timing, and hormones can make you wet or dry independent of how turned on you feel.Sounding isn't performance, it's a shortcut to pleasure. Making noise from the top of your inhale to the bottom of your exhale moves energy and gets you out of your head.Female ejaculation strips away viscous fluid. Ejaculators often need more lube afterward, not less.Lube is a tool, not a confession. Reaching for it has nothing to do with how attracted you are to your partner.Period sex has ancient roots as ritual and healing, not just something to tolerate or avoid.Hygiene conversations go better with curiosity and a "we can do better here" frame instead of blame.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/too-wet-not-wet-enough  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  3. Aug 18

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Rupture to Rapture - The Secret to Turning a Fight into Deeper Love | #205

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! From Rupture to Rapture: How Do You Actually Find Your Way Back to Your Partner After a Fight? In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown map out the full journey from relationship rupture to reconnection, walking through the exact sequence they use in their own partnerships and coaching work. They cover self regulation tools like havening, co-regulation practices like the Tantra Cuddle and chakra spooning, the "bubble practice" for clearing a conversation before it starts, and why slow, non-sexual touch is often the missing bridge between conflict and intimacy. They also get into samskaras, the old wounds that get triggered mid-argument, and why naming them out loud can turn a fight into one of the most bonding conversations a couple can have. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Why a rupture with your partner isn't the problem, and what actually determines whether it pulls you apart or brings you closerThe self soothing touch technique that calms your nervous system before you say another wordA spooning practice that syncs your breath and your energy faster than any conversation canThe "bubble" you need to build before a hard conversation even startsWhat your partner's words might really be touching from your past, and why naming it changes everythingThe non-sexual touch practice that has to happen before you get anywhere near raptureLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/rupture-to-repair-reconnect-after-a-fight  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  4. Aug 11

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Why Penetration Alone Won't Make You Orgasm | Ep. 204

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Why doesn't penetration make every woman orgasm, and what does the outer vulva have to do with the vaginal orgasm you're chasing? In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown break down the anatomy of arousal that most couples skip straight past, including the clitoral shaft and legs, the vestibular bulbs, and why what they call premature penetration sabotages deep, contractive vaginal orgasms. They walk through concrete touch techniques for vulva stimulation and G-spot stimulation, the palming method for combining external and internal pleasure during penetrative sex, and how word bath dirty talk can heal sexual shame stored in the body. Whether you've faked orgasms during penetrative sex for years or you're just curious about the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, this conversation gives you the anatomy, the technique, and the permission to slow down. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS There's a name for the thing almost every couple does wrong before penetration even starts, and it's the biggest reason vaginal orgasms feel out of reach.The clitoris is way bigger than the part you can see. Wait until you hear how far back the shaft and legs actually go, and what that has to do with why humping things felt so good as a kid.There's a simple hand technique you can use during penetration, with a partner or a toy, that Leah says increases your odds of orgasm by about 80 percent.Most people who dislike fingering were never fingered well. Leah explains exactly what goes wrong and what actually works instead.Willow shares the one shift in touch, tied to pressure and speed, that can make clitoral stimulation feel five to eight times better almost instantly.Word baths sound simple, but they can unlock a kind of somatic shame release that neither partner expected. Leah gives you the actual words to use.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/why-cant-i-orgasm-from-penetration Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here Rooted in Desire: Women's Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join us in Santa Barbara, Jan 30-31, 2027. Register Here  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  5. Aug 4

    Alison Armstrong 3.0: Sex, Shame, and What He Fears Most | #203

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Men Aren't Misbehaving in Bed. They're Terrified of Failing You. Alison Armstrong is back for round three, and if you have followed her work on understanding men since 1991, you already know she has a gift for making male behavior finally make sense. If this is your first time meeting her, buckle up, because she is about to change how you think about every man in your life. In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with Alison for a raw, funny, and genuinely eye opening conversation about why so many men quietly give up on sex as they get older, and it has almost nothing to do with wanting you less. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Men often quit sex due to shame after erectile dysfunction, not because their desire for their partner has faded.Shame is worse than emasculation because it disconnects a man from his own spirit, while emasculation only affects his sense of productivity.Sexual feedback lands best as gentle, judgment free clues rather than direct criticism, what Alison calls the warmer, colder, hot approach.Many men experience direct questions as interrogation, so framing feedback as an invitation, like asking permission to share favorite moments, respects their need for productivity and control.Alison's new concept, the ever presence of death, reveals how men's quiet awareness of mortality shapes their drive for purpose, protection, and honor in relationships.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: http://sexreimagined.com/alison-armstrong-why-men-stop-having-sex  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  6. Jul 28

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Do Women Want to Be Masterful Lovers? | #202

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Do Women Actually Want to Become Masterful Lovers, or Have We Only Ever Trained Men to Try? Leah and Willow dig into real conversations with men who are quietly craving more curiosity and skill from their partners, unpack why presence can be more powerful than technique, and get honest about the conditioning that's kept women playing it safe in bed. Funny, tender, and overdue.  IN THIS EPISODE: Why men are craving more reciprocity, not just more sexThe nine minute presence trick that stops a roomWhat a hand resting on his body really means to himThe conditioning behind why women hold backWhy it's finally safe to want sexual mastery tooLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/masterful-lover  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  7. Jul 22

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Cult, Religion, or Neither? The Red Flags Before You Start Learning Tantra | #201

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Is Tantra a Religion? The Truth About Teacher Red Flags, Spirituality, and Sacred Sex. Is tantra a religion, or is it something you can shape around your own beliefs? In this episode of the Sex Reimagined podcast, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown answer a listener's question about tantra and religious conditioning, breaking down the difference between white tantra (your solo, spiritual practice) and red tantra (bringing that presence into relationship with another person). Leah opens up about growing up in a Pentecostal household and then Catholic school, and how tantra became the path that let her hold both her faith and her rebellion at the same time. The conversation moves into a second listener question on red flags in tantra teachers, with Leah and Willow sharing the exact things to watch for when choosing a tantra teacher, from gaslighting and isolation tactics to teachers who overly sexualize the work or can't explain why a practice matters. If you've ever wondered whether tantra practices require you to believe in something specific, or you're nervous about finding a legitimate tantra teacher versus someone using tantra as a cover, this episode gives you a clear, grounded answer. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Tantra isn't a religion or dogma. It's a set of practices you can layer onto whatever you already believeWhite tantra is your solo practice (meditation, journaling, self-pleasure); red tantra brings that presence into relationship with another personLeah's own path from a religious upbringing to tantra shows how it can hold both faith and rebellion at onceA good teacher always explains "why" and welcomes questions; red flags include gaslighting, isolating you from your community, secrecy, and targeting the youngest or most attractive studentsDon't put teachers on a pedestal. Study with many, and trust your own body and experience as your best teacherLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/is-tantra-a-religion  Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure The Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register at sexreimagined.com/events Rooted in Desire: A Women's Weekend Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join Leah & Dr. Willow Brown in Santa Barbara, January 30-31, 2027. sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  8. Jul 14

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Chakras and Sex: The Real Map to Better Orgasms | #200

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! What if the secret to becoming a master lover isn't a new technique, but your own chakras? In this episode of the Sex Reimagined Podcast, Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper break down the seven chakras and reveal why understanding your body's energy centers is one of the most overlooked paths to becoming a more skilled, magnetic, and orgasmic lover. From the root chakra at the anus to the crown chakra at the top of the head, Willow and Leah map out where each energy center lives in the body, what emotional and psychological material it stores, and exactly how to touch, sound, and breathe your way into unlocking it. They dig into why the throat chakra (not just the g******s) may be the most underused key to bigger, longer orgasms, how the vagus nerve links your voice to your pleasure, and why root chakra and anal touch carry some of the deepest, most transformative erotic potential in the body. Whether you're new to chakra work or looking to deepen your tantric practice, this conversation offers a real, usable roadmap for building erotic energy circuitry between your chakras and your partner's. KEY TAKEAWAYS ⛤ Your chakras are a literal touch map. Each of the seven energy centers corresponds to a real location on the body and carries its own psychological theme, so knowing your chakras means knowing exactly where and how to touch for both comfort and arousal. ⛤ The throat chakra is the great magnifier. Sound and vocalization during sex amplify pleasure throughout the whole body and activate the vagus nerve, the only nerve pathway connecting the g******s to the brain through the heart and throat. ⛤ The root chakra holds some of the body's biggest pleasure and biggest shame. Anal touch is deeply avoided for many people, but it opens access to a distinct orgasm carried by the hypogastric nerve, separate from clitoral or ejaculatory orgasm. ⛤ The second chakra stores sexual shame and inadequacy. Genital touch can surface stored stories about being "too much" or "not enough," and learning to touch with presence rather than just technique helps release that stored shame. ⛤ Building chakra circuitry deepens intimacy. Connecting two chakras at once, like a hand on the g******s and a hand on the heart, literally bridges different parts of the erotic and emotional body, making pleasure and self-expression flow more freely. LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/chakras-and-sex Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Tantra Unlocked: A Map to Sacred Sexuality for Real People | Sep 16 and 17, 2026 > Most people spend their entire lives having the same experience on repeat. This September, twelve of the most trusted voices in conscious sexuality are gathering live to give you the real map. Free to Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here Rooted in Desire: Women's Retreat One woman told us she walked out having shed sixty years of shame in a single weekend. That's what happens in a room where women are finally given permission to feel what's true. Rooted in Desire is an intimate retreat blending pelvic floor release, tantric breathwork, and sisterhood. Join us in Santa Barbara, Jan 30-31, 2027. Register Here  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

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Get ready to reinvent your love life with the Sex Reimagined Podcast! This isn't your awkward middle school sex ed class - we're bringing the juicy details with plenty of humor and real talk. Your hosts, Leah Piper (Tantra Sexpert) and Dr. Willow Brown (Taoist Sexpert), have a combined 40 years of turning fumbles into touchdowns in the bedroom. Leah and Willow don't shy away from oversharing their most hilarious and cringe-worthy sex stories - all with valuable lessons so you can up your pleasure game. Each month they invite fellow sexperts to share their methods and research on everything from healing trauma to the science of orgasm. Get ready to feel empowered, laugh out loud, and maybe even blush as we redefine what fantastic sex can be. 

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