Farm Family Harmony Podcast

Elaine Froese
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Get personal with Elaine Froese, Canada's Farm Whisperer, in Farm Family Harmony, where no farm topic is taboo! Whether it's about a Daughter-In-Law feeling left out of the farm family, which sibling gets the family farm, or when it's time to tell Mom and Dad to respectfully retire, Elaine covers the crucial conversations every farm family needs to have.

  1. Aug 11

    71: How to Help Farm Dad & Mom Find New Purpose

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Ken Keis, president of CRG Consulting Group, leadership expert, and longtime friend, for an honest conversation about helping farm parents find purpose beyond the farm and why understanding yourself is essential for a successful transition. Drawing from decades of experience working with families, leaders, and organizations, Ken shares how personality, values, and purpose shape the way we communicate, make decisions, and navigate change. Together, we explore why so many farm transitions stall, the importance of having difficult conversations before a crisis, and how changing roles doesn't mean losing your identity. We discuss discovering your purpose beyond the farm, understanding different personality styles and values, creating a healthier family culture, and why transition planning should happen while everyone is healthy and able to make decisions together. If you or someone you know is struggling with letting go, finding purpose after farming, or navigating the next chapter of your family's journey, this episode is for you. "The farm or your business is your identity. And I'm here to say that is not true. It is just an entity. The relationship and the people are the legacy." - Dr Ken Keis Resources Mentioned During This Episode CRG Consulting Group:  leadership development tools, personality assessments, and coaching resources Why Aren't You More Like Me? by Dr. Ken Keis explore personality styles, communication, and self-awareness Values Assessment Tool:  discover your core values and what drives your decisions Insight: The Surprising Truth About How Others See Us, How We See Ourselves, and Why the Answers Matter More Than We Think by Dr Tasha Eurich:  develop self-awareness, become more confident, and successful. Ken Keis' free eBook, The Quest for Purpose:  discover your purpose, have meaning & fulfillment, live with passion and presence Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts: Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Marshall Goldsmith:  overcome trigger points in our lives and enact meaningful and lasting change. About Our Guest Ken Keis, Ph.D., is a globally recognized expert in personality, leadership, purpose, and wellness. With more than 37 years of experience, he has delivered over 3,000 presentations and 10,000 hours of coaching and consulting, helping individuals and organizations realize their full potential. As President and CEO of Consulting Resource Group International (CRG), Ken has advanced professional and personal development through CRG's proprietary models, 10 online courses, and 14 assessments, including The Personal Style Indicator, consistently rated the #1 personality assessment by participants. He has also certified and licensed coaches, trainers, speakers, consultants, and HR professionals in more than 30 countries. Ken is the bestselling author of Why Aren't You More Like Me?, Deliberate Leadership, and The Quest for Purpose. His work has been endorsed by respected leadership experts, including Ken Blanchard, Jim Kouzes, and Marshall Goldsmith. Contact Ken Follow Ken on LinkedIn Connect with Ken on Twitter Follow Ken on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why farm family clarity and transition matter 00:30 - Dr. Ken Keis's background and farm experience 01:03 - The importance of measurement and clarity in life and farming 01:31 - The role of personal style indicators in understanding family dynamics 02:24 - Leadership development and realization of potential 03:00 - Procrastination's impact on agriculture and family decisions 04:21 - Personal family story: engagement, values, and clarity 05:44 - Family meeting: using personality tools for farm decision-making 06:28 - Navigating risks and uncertainties in farming 07:25 - Why family members are wired differently and personality differences 08:43 - Recognizing strengths and challenges of varied personal styles 09:50 - The importance of purpose and the risks of taking the farm for granted 10:14 - The legacy of the farm: family relationships vs. land 11:07 - Inherited roles and aligning talents with farm roles 11:36 - Moving on: the story of finding fulfillment outside traditional farm roles 12:14 - Clarity about the farm as an entity, not identity 12:52 - The significance of values in decision-making and alignment 13:48 - Challenges of growth and outgrowing capabilities 14:15 - Self-awareness and perception gaps 15:14 - The need for intentional planning and clarity 16:37 - The importance of environment and culture on motivation 17:22 - Transition stories: CEOs and medical professionals 18:03 - Planning ahead for farm succession and estate transfer 19:03 - The importance of legal and estate planning 20:22 - Managing aging farm owners and health considerations 21:24 - Tools available for assessing wellness, confidence, and values 22:26 - Family and business values alignment exercises 23:41 - The role of congruence and authentic values in happiness and engagement 26:45 - Practical steps for clarity, communication, and intentional transition 28:02 - The impact of wellness, mental health, and self-worth on decision-making 29:49 - Embracing personal choice and living authentically 31:01 - Creating flexible, enjoyable retirement and transition options 32:02 - The power of intentional planning over reacting to circumstances 33:19 - Closing thoughts: Your ability to choose your farm's future

    71: How to Help Farm Dad & Mom Find New Purpose

  2. Jul 28

    70: Financial Freedom for Farmers

    In this episode, I sit down with Michael Baker, CPA, Certified Financial Planner, and co-author of Financial Blind Spots, for a conversation about building financial confidence and creating more options for your farm family. Michael shares why so many farmers overlook important financial opportunities, the value of having the right advisory team, and how planning can help protect your family, your farm, and your future. We discuss common financial blind spots, creating a long-term vision, protecting your greatest assets, and why asking better questions leads to better decisions. If you're ready to take control of what you can and make proactive decisions for your family's future, this episode is for you. "Control what you can control. The only way to create possibility is to move forward. Reach out and ask questions. Just ask, ask, and ask. Eventually, you'll know." - Michael Baker, CPA Remember, successful financial planning is a journey — one step at a time. Share this episode with your farm family and community to build confidence and strengthen your financial future together. Resources Mentioned During This Episode Financial Blind Spots: A Deep Dive into Farm Finance A practical guide to building financial confidence. Values-Based Financial Planning by Bill Backrack Align your financial decisions with what matters most. Reid Wilkie, Farm Attorney in Medicine Hat Trusted legal guidance for farm families and transitions. About Our Guest Michael Baker, CPA, CA, CFP, TEP, is the founder of Baker Wealth in Medicine Hat, Alberta. With over 30 years as a professional accountant, Mike has become a leader in transforming financial landscapes, and his goal is clear: to be a visionary in financial planning and tax strategy using life insurance. At the core of his work is a single value: helping others create a life they love. He leads a balanced life and is located in Medicine Hat, AB. Mike has been happily married to Sabrina, the love of his life, for 23 years, and together they raise 16-year-old triplets — a son and two daughters.  An accomplished athlete, he played University football for the Golden Bears and has completed seven Ironman Triathlons, bringing that same discipline and devotion to everything he does. Contact Michael  Visit The Baker Wealth Website  Follow Michael on LinkedIn Follow Michael on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to Mike Baker and the topic of financial freedom for farmers 02:37 - Mike's journey from CPA to financial advisor and the book Financial Blind Spots 04:56 - The gap in financial advisory engagement among farm families 07:09 - Building a North Star: setting long-term goals amidst life's uncertainties 10:25 - Key concepts of the "Financial Pyramid" model for farm planning 13:12 - The crucial role of protection and insurance in farm succession 15:22 - How land and asset valuation affect farm transition strategies 18:02 - The longevity risks faced by farm families and the 100-year legacy plan 23:31 - Values-based planning: aligning financial decisions with family priorities 27:41 - Practical advice for an older farm family just starting to plan 32:28 - The importance of health, prevention, and early diagnosis in farm safety 35:01 - Different types of insurance: term, participating whole life, critical illness, and disability 37:46 - The complexity of disability insurance and the importance of definitions 40:30 - The use of key person insurance in farm business continuity 44:23 - Innovative insurance strategies involving land and leverage 48:26 - How to choose and vet a trustworthy financial advisor 50:27 - Next steps for farm families seeking financial clarity and freedom 52:48 - Upcoming farm finance, legal resources, and networking opportunities 54:17 - Closing thoughts: taking one step at a time toward better financial health

    70: Financial Freedom for Farmers

  3. Jul 14

    69: A New Way to Help Farm Divorce

    In this episode, I sit down with Andrew DeRuyck, farmer, mediator, and farm management specialist, for a conversation about navigating divorce, conflict, and financial uncertainty in farm families. Drawing on decades of experience in both mediation and farm business consulting, Andrew shares how communication breakdowns, financial complexity, and unmet expectations can put enormous strain on relationships.  Together, we explore the importance of finding common ground, improving financial literacy, and creating workable solutions that protect both people and the farm. We also discuss why listening matters, how trust impacts decision-making, and the role mediation can play in helping families move forward with greater clarity and less conflict. If you or someone you know is facing relationship challenges, separation, or difficult financial conversations on the farm, this episode is for you. "When a marriage is struggling, the first place I go is common ground. Why did you get married in the first place, and how did you end up here?" - Andrew DeRuyck Resources Mentioned During This Episode Farm Family Coach National Farmers Mental Health Alliance When Sorry Is Not Enough, by Dr. Gary Chapman About Our Guest Andrew is a mediator, financial consultant, and farmer in southern Manitoba. He has worked for Farm Debt Mediation Service for over 20 years. Andrew and his wife Tanis began farming full-time in 2001 and were named Manitoba's outstanding young farmer of the year in 2011. He has a degree in Agriculture from the University of Manitoba and has worked for FCC, CIBC, and various chemical companies. Andrew now specializes in farm finances, divorces, and agricultural mediations. Contact Andrew Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview 01:30 - Andrew's farm journey and transition from cattle to grain farming 03:21 - Introduction to farm divorce and Andrew's role in facilitating the process 04:55 - The challenge of legal costs and the importance of preparation 06:11 - The pitfalls of confrontation and advantages of active listening in mediation 07:50 - Mediation versus legal battles in farm divorce cases 09:39 - The importance of understanding intent, action, and effect in conflict resolution 11:11 - How neutrality and the role of the mediator help couples feel heard 12:21 - Common reasons why couples rush into legal action 14:21 - Organizing complex farm financial data for better decision-making 15:36 - The impact of increased land values and debt on farm finances 16:55 - Financial literacy gaps in farming and building confidence through data 18:19 - Addressing shame and embarrassment over financial unawareness 21:14 - Handling disagreements about farm assets and ways to find common ground 23:30 - Strategies for couples wanting to keep the farm intact during separation 26:34 - Creating solutions and opportunities through positive conflict behaviors 27:23 - Managing timelines and persistence in the mediation process 28:52 - The importance of trust and honesty in resolving conflicts 33:20 - Redemptive separation as a tool for addressing behavioral and relationship issues 34:53 - Age range and complexity of divorces in the farming community 36:17 - The significance of trust accounts and emotional bank accounts in relationships 37:31 - The role of admitting wrongdoing to move towards resolution 38:40 - Changes in behavior and the importance of genuine effort in reconciliation 39:37 - Protecting farm assets and the culture of transparency in families 41:05 - Building confidence in financial understanding for farm families 43:07 - The value of seeking common ground and shared goals in relationships 45:53 - Resources for mental health and relationship support 47:11 - Contact details for Andrew and available services 48:23 - Final thoughts on farm and family harmony, emphasizing relationship wealth over material assets

    69: A New Way to Help Farm Divorce

  4. May 12

    68: Helping Farmers Deal with Death

    In this episode, I sit down with Jeremy Allen, a funeral director and grief educator, for an honest conversation about grief, loss, and how we show up for one another. Jeremy shares a grounded perspective on supporting people through difficult moments, especially in farming communities where emotions are often left unspoken.  Together, we explore the difference between being prepared and being ready, and why grief isn't always about death. We discuss what to say (and what not to say), and how simply being present can make a lasting impact. If you've ever felt unsure how to support someone through loss — or how to face it yourself — this episode is for you. "People don't need you to have the perfect words, they just need to know you're willing to stay." - Jeremy Allen Resources Mentioned During This Episode Death Ed - Grief and Loss Education  Brene Brown - The Power of Vulnerability Dr. Alan Wolfelt - Mourning & Healing The Emotion Wheel Bright Track Consulting About Our Guest Jeremy Allen is a licensed funeral director, embalmer, and manager of Gregory's Funeral Home in Provost, Alberta, but his work reaches far beyond the walls of a funeral home. Jeremy is a passionate advocate for transforming the way we understand death, grief, and the healing power of mourning. Contact Jeremy  Visit the Dead Ed. Website Follow Jeremy on Instagram Follow Jeremy on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Introduction to Jeremy Allen and the focus on grief in farming communities 02:37 - Jeremy's background in funeral service and grief education 03:39 - The difference between being involved in funerals and speaking about grief 08:30 - Personal story of grief and the importance of having documents in order 11:09 - Generational perceptions of emotion and the evolution toward emotional intelligence 16:30 - The significance of meaningful funeral rituals and community celebrations 20:37 - How relationships shape grief and legacy in farm families 23:33 - Celebrating the life of Dorothy and the power of storytelling in funerals 28:46 - Embracing vulnerability for deeper connections and trust 31:32 - How to normalize emotions and foster honest dialogue in families 37:22 - The significance of kindness and acknowledgment in funeral and grief contexts 41:59 - Contrasting emotions in grief and how they coexist simultaneously 49:07 - The importance of showing up and being present in loss 51:04 - Practical tools for initiating honest conversations and deepening relationships 52:43 - Jeremy's resources and how to connect online

    68: Helping Farmers Deal with Death

  5. Apr 28

    67: Tools to Keep Farm Legacy & Get Financial Clarity

    In this episode, I sit down with Jace Young, founder of Legacy Farmer, for a practical conversation about safeguarding farm family legacies through strategic planning, financial transparency, and organized systems. Jace shares why many farm failures are rooted in silence, unclear data, and a lack of communication — not just financial shortfalls. From building a business owner mindset to strengthening family values, this discussion highlights actionable ways farm families can prepare for long-term success. Together, we explore how clear financial information, risk management, and thoughtful wealth transfer strategies can reduce conflict, prevent entitlement issues, and set up the next generation to thrive. "Farm failures don't happen because there's no money; they happen because families aren't talking, numbers aren't clear, and the next generation isn't prepared to step into a business owner mindset. Transparency and communication today are what protect the farm for decades to come." - Jace Young, founder of Legacy Farmer Resources Mentioned During This Episode Legacy Farmer the Podcast on YouTube Legacy Farmer the Podcast on Apple Podcasts Legacy Farmer the Podcast on Spotify Legacy Farmer Blog The Truth About Ag podcast with Evan Shout and Kristjan Hebert Building Your Farm Legacy About Our Guest   What happens when a farm kid watches his family lose their $10 million operation — then becomes an ag loan officer and realizes why it happened? Today's guest is Jace Young, Founder and CEO of Legacy Farmer. He's on a mission to bring financial clarity, leadership structure, and long-term security to family farms across the country. With blunt truth and practical tools, Jace is helping ag producers protect their operations — and legacies — from going under. If you're in ag, you need to hear this. Contact Jace Visit Legacy Farmer Follow Jace on Facebook Follow Jace on Instagram Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Welcome and episode overview: Tools to keep farm legacy and achieve financial clarity 01:49 - Jace Young's background and how Legacy Farmer was started 04:28 - Farm debt mediation experiences and lessons learned 07:17 - Impact on families and communities when farms collapse 09:49 - The evolution of farmers into business owners and CEO mindset 12:33 - The significance of financial transparency for spouses and family unity 16:21 - The role of family living and managing personal expenses in farm planning 18:32 - The power of relationship decision-making over relying solely on banks 21:59 - Using software like Farmer Metrics for better farm financial management 25:13 - Building trust through organization and structure in succession planning 30:58 - Approaches to fairness, sibling rivalry, and family values in transfer strategies 34:15 - Using insurance tools for wealth transfer and farm succession 37:54 - Overcoming procrastination and emotional barriers to planning 39:30 - The 'Pain Web' concept for addressing life balance and farm stress 41:45 - The significance of holistic health, faith, and relationships in farm family wellness 47:50 - Final thoughts: The lasting impact of farm decisions made today

    67: Tools to Keep Farm Legacy & Get Financial Clarity

  6. Apr 14

    66: Dealing with Overwhelm on the Farm

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Merle Massie, executive director of the Do More Ag Foundation, for an honest and timely conversation about mental health in agriculture and the power of community to make a difference. Merle shares why creating a culture of well-being in farming communities matters so deeply, and how regular people in regular rural places can help support one another through stress, struggle, and mental illness. From naming what's heavy in the spring season to recognizing the warning signs of overwhelm, this discussion highlights practical ways to care for both yourself and the people around you. Together, we talk about why listening matters, how stigma still affects help-seeking in agriculture, and why small actions — like checking in, creating space, and asking better questions — can have a life-changing impact. "The most important thing that you already have is your ability to listen — to create space for someone and be with them." — Dr. Merle Massie In this episode, we discuss: The importance of cultivating a culture of well-being rooted in community and shared values. How rural culture influences mental health and the need for ag-specific mental health resources. Recognizing and addressing signs of overwhelm, exhaustion, and mental health struggles in farmers. Key tools like self-check-in questionnaires and conversation starters (Talk, Ask, Listen) to promote open dialogue. The impact of farm transition challenges and intergenerational communication on mental wellness. Practical self-care activities and creating quiet, reflective spaces (e.g., labyrinths, journaling). The critical connection between physical health, substance use, and mental health, including the risks of self-medicating. How rural communities can step up for mental health, including retreats and men's sheds initiatives. Prioritizing one's own well-being with the power of saying "not right now" and managing energy levels. The significance of storytelling, journaling, and preserving farm history for mental resilience. Remember, fostering open conversations, prioritizing personal well-being, and building community are key to resilient farm families. Small daily acts—listening, sharing stories, and taking care of yourself—can make a significant difference. Resources Mentioned During This Episode Do More Ag Foundation "Hey, Are We Okay?" Podcast Crisis Contacts & Resources Kylie Stokes' Farm-specific Journals Navigate Journal by Alison Weaver Dr. Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication Book Lauren Van Ewyk- National Farmers Mental Health Alliance Newfoundland Farm Mental Health Program About Our Guest Merle Massie is a farmer, award-winning author, TEDx storyteller, and the Executive Director of The Do More Agriculture Foundation, which champions and cultivates a culture of mental wellbeing across Canadian agriculture.  Email Dr. Merle Massie Follow Merle on LinkedIn Follow Merle on Twitter Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Welcome and introduction to the episode  02:45 - The mission of Do More Ag and the importance of culture  05:40 - Addressing mental health stigma and community support initiatives  10:52 - Recognizing stress signals in farming seasons and farm safety concerns  13:46 - Navigating farm transition challenges and intergenerational communication  16:46 - The role of sleep, nutrition, and self-care in farmer well-being  19:15 - Tools for mental health check-ins: self-assessment and conversation starters  21:48 - The link between alcohol, self-medication, and mental health risks  22:46 - Building resilience through storytelling, journaling, and social connection  25:50 - Opportunities for fun and community bonding on farms  27:36 - Practical tips for mental wellness: quiet spaces, creative outlets, and boundaries  33:31 - Encouragement for young farmers and the power of saying "not right now"  37:57 - The importance of self-care as a foundation for effective leadership and farm success  41:04 - Honoring farm stories and the long-term benefits of journaling  43:19 - Reflecting on community impact, recognition, and collective resilience  44:28 - Key takeaway: Every individual's ability to make a difference starts with listening  45:37 - Closing remarks: how to share this message and foster caring farm communities

    66: Dealing with Overwhelm on the Farm

  7. Mar 31

    65: How Therapists Can Help Farmers

    In this episode, I sit down with Colleen Stegenga, an ag-informed therapist from South Dakota, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of farm succession. Colleen shares how her work with farm families has shown her that transition planning often stalls not because people don't care, but because grief, fear, guilt, and old family patterns are getting in the way. From identity loss in older generations to communication struggles between siblings, this discussion highlights why emotional healing is often a necessary first step. Together, we talk about how therapy can support the succession process, why families need a safe space to say what hasn't been spoken, and how healthier communication can make the road forward feel more possible. "It's never too late to get things on the right track, and it's never too early to start thinking about what that legacy means to you." — Colleen Stegenga In this episode, they discuss: The emotional challenges faced by farm families during succession. How grief, fear, and guilt impact decision-making. The importance of early conversations about legacy, identity, and expectations. Strategies for reducing stigma around mental health in rural communities. The role of family dinners and regular check-ins in strengthening relationships. Navigating sibling dynamics and fairness in inheritance. The benefits and accessibility of telehealth for farm families. Practical communication tips for difficult conversations. Creating safe spaces for emotional expression and conflict resolution. The significance of personal and cultural identity is tied to farming. Resources Mentioned During This Episode Embracing Change, CS Farm Family Coach Website Dr. Merle Massie - Do More Ag Foundation Josh Coleman's book Rules of Estrangement Lance Woodbury's Articles on Family Estrangement About Our Guest As a licensed social worker, Colleen Stegenga combines her knowledge of agricultural life, her lived experiences, and her occupation as a therapist to serve farmers, their families, and rural areas by advocating for the importance of mental health awareness and support in these communities. Having grown up on a dairy farm in small-town South Dakota, Colleen is familiar with the challenges and triumphs that accompany the farming profession. As a therapist, she helps equip clients with the tools to manage and overcome the symptoms of anxiety, depression, dysfunctional families, negative self-esteem, and more. By founding Embracing Change Counseling LLC, Colleen has strived to create a welcoming, compassionate space where individuals feel seen, supported, and empowered. Connect with Colleen: Email Colleen Follow Colleen on LinkedIn Follow Colleen on Link Tree Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Introduction to farm family transitions and emotional support 03:15 - Colleen's journey to becoming an ag-informed therapist 05:45 - The emotional impact of farm succession: grief, fear, guilt 08:35 - How farm identity influences transition challenges 11:30 - Addressing fears of failure and change among aging farmers 14:35 - Sibling relationships and fairness in farm inheritance 17:40 - Preparing families for tough conversations about legacy 19:55 - The importance of mental health awareness and de-stigmatization 22:20 - How telehealth helps farm families access therapy 26:30 - Ways to foster connection and celebrate family bonds 30:40 - Effective communication strategies and conflict management 33:30 - Building a supportive, respectful family environment 36:30 - Recognizing and addressing estrangement in farm families 39:30 - The power of early planning, hope, and ongoing support

    65: How Therapists Can Help Farmers

  8. Mar 17

    64: Smart Money Habits for Young Farm Families

    In this episode, Elaine sits down with Jenny Weg, a young farm mom from Iowa, for an honest conversation about money, family, and preparing the next generation well. Jenny shares how she and her husband are thinking intentionally about finances while raising three young daughters on the farm. From paying kids for the work they contribute, to saving early and planning for future opportunities, this discussion highlights practical ways farm families can build financial strength over time. Together, Elaine and Jenny talk about why money conversations matter, how expectations around the farm can create tension if they're never discussed, and why thoughtful planning today can make life easier for the next generation tomorrow. "We really tried to tackle all of our personal debt to get all of that out of the way. And now that farming has come into our lives, we realize there's going to be debt that we have to carry with that. But just doing it in a very smart and strategic way so that we don't overextend ourselves and so that we can be there to prepare not only ourselves, but the next generation, and set them up properly for when it's time for them to take over."  - Jenny Weg In this episode, they discuss: Why teaching kids about money early can build responsibility and confidence. Paying farm kids for their work and saving for their future. Long-term thinking when it comes to farm succession and family wealth. When it's wise to bring in a financial planner. Setting timelines and goals for transition conversations. Balancing motherhood, farm work, and family priorities. Navigating expectations and avoiding entitlement conflicts in farm families. Simple ways to manage household finances and stay focused on long-term goals. This episode is especially helpful for young farm families who want to be proactive about money, communication, and creating opportunities for the next generation. Resources Mentioned During This Episode The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton Jenny Weg on Instagram - Faithful Farming Family Jenny Weg on Facebook Farm Credit Services Iowa State University Beginning Farmers Conference About Our Guest Jenny Weg is a fourth-generation farmer and farm finance mom behind The Faithful Farming Family. She helps families build generational wealth by teaching them how to legally and strategically pay their kids through the family business. Through faith, farming, and practical financial strategy, she's on a mission to help parents secure their future — and their kids'. Connect with Jenny: Contact Jenny Follow Jenny on Instagram Follow Jenny on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Welcome and episode overview: addressing entitlement and financial planning in farm families 02:52 - Jenny's background and how faith influences her farm and family approach 03:57 - The importance of conservative financial practices in farm succession planning 04:45 - The benefits of paying children for farm help and building generational wealth 06:15 - Using tax-advantaged accounts like Roth IRAs for farm kids 07:08 - The significance of starting financial education early for the next generation 08:35 - Addressing entitlement and fairness issues within farm families 09:51 - Conversations with aging parents about farm transition and legacy planning 12:27 - The importance of planning ahead and consulting a financial advisor early 13:11 - The complexity of family relationships and managing expectations across relatives 14:38 - Legitimacy of paying children legally and ethically for farm work 16:21 - Practical household management: budgeting and living conservatively 17:23 - Building readiness for opportunities like share purchases or farm buyouts 18:38 - The importance of clear communication and family involvement in decisions 21:15 - Using simple, strategic investments to grow farm family wealth over time 24:08 - Balancing family roles and farm responsibilities—staying resilient and present 27:15 - Common challenges farm women face: feelings of undervaluation and the importance of communication 29:06 - The role of family relationships over business conflicts and setting shared priorities 29:47 - Next steps: planning, patience, and building cash reserves for future opportunities 30:50 - How to connect with Jenny on social media for more farm family finance tips

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Get personal with Elaine Froese, Canada's Farm Whisperer, in Farm Family Harmony, where no farm topic is taboo! Whether it's about a Daughter-In-Law feeling left out of the farm family, which sibling gets the family farm, or when it's time to tell Mom and Dad to respectfully retire, Elaine covers the crucial conversations every farm family needs to have.

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