Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS

Betrayal Recovery Radio
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Betrayal is traumatic, and those who have been betrayed by partners living secret lives of sexual addiction deserve to be empowered and supported with knowledge and resources to allow them to move from shock through grief and into growth. On Betrayal Recovery Radio, our host, Dr. Jake Porter, lays out important topics for both sex addicts and their betrayed partners through conversations leading to hope and healing. Betrayal Recovery Radio is the official podcast of The Association of Partners of Sex Addict Trauma Specialists (apsats.org). Dr. Jake Porter can be reached at drjakeporter.com.

  1. JAN 27

    The Impact of Parental Betrayal on Adolescents with Ellia Marcum

    In this episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, Dr. Jake Porter and Elia Markham discuss the complexities of betrayal, particularly focusing on its impact on adolescents. Elia shares her personal experiences with betrayal and how it shaped her understanding as both a coach and a parent. The conversation delves into the emotional turmoil faced by teens in high-conflict family situations, the importance of maintaining normalcy, and the need for parents to create a safe and stable environment. They emphasize the significance of empathy, setting boundaries, and the resilience of children amidst chaos. Elia also introduces Turning to Peace Magazine, a resource aimed at supporting those affected by betrayal. Ellia Marcum works one on one with teens impacted by the rupture of betrayal trauma, helping them rebuild emotional safety, regulation, and trust after family and relational disruption. Through Mood Well Coaching, she offers trauma informed support that meets teens where they are developmentally while guiding them toward resilience, clarity, and healthy coping. Ellia is the editor of Turning To Peace, a digital magazine that centralizes resources and expert guidance for partners healing from betrayal trauma. The publication offers faith grounded education, practical tools, and compassionate support designed to help individuals move forward with greater stability and understanding. Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ ⁠http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers⁠ Find more on Ellia: moodwellcoaching.com https://ttpmagazine.gumroad.com/l/turningtopeace This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    48 min

  2. 11/22/2025

    Navigating The Complexity of Divorce with Kim Petroni

    In this episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, Dr. Jake Porter and Kim Hansen Petroni discuss the concept of 'Not a Casserole Widow,' exploring the unique challenges faced by women navigating divorce and betrayal. They delve into the emotional complexities of disenfranchised grief, the disorienting experience of the court system, and the importance of support systems. Kim shares insights from her own journey, emphasizing the need for women to advocate for themselves and find new ways to reframe their realities during this challenging time. The conversation also highlights the significance of understanding the difference between justice and fairness in legal proceedings, and the importance of emotional regulation throughout the divorce process. Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ https://helpafterbetrayal.com Find more on Kim: https://www.coachinghope4u.com https://www.coachinghope4u.com/notacasserolewidow https://www.instagram.com/coachinghope4u This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    41 min

  3. 10/03/2025

    Finding the Way Through Sex Addiction with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein

    In this episode, I talk with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein about their new book Finding the Way Through. We explore how recovery from sexual addiction must include partner sensitivity from the very beginning, not just to support the partner, but to build empathy and relational integrity in the addict. We also talk about their “fence” metaphor, how couples can heal while staying differentiated, and how real transformation goes far beyond sobriety. APSATS Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ ⁠http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers⁠ Tim and Jeanne: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Way-Through-Pornography-Sensitivity/dp/B0DTFM2VHK https://iitap.com/page/vattuone_stein This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    46 min

  4. 09/12/2025

    Infidelity, Empathy, and the Path to Post-Traumatic Growth with Carol The Coach

    In this episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, Dr. Jake Porter and Carol Sheets discuss the complexities of infidelity and its distinction from compulsive sexual behavior. They explore the emotional impact of betrayal on relationships, the importance of rebuilding trust and values, and the role of empathy in the healing process. The conversation also delves into post-traumatic growth, emphasizing how couples can emerge stronger from their experiences. Practical tools and strategies for couples navigating recovery are shared, highlighting the importance of gratitude and meaningful connections in the healing journey. Carol Juergensen Sheets, ACSW, LCSW, CSAT, CCPS-C, PCC is a highly regarded social worker, personal life coach and a renowned self-help author who brings a variety of experiences to her clients and readers including having worked in schools, hospitals and in mental health for over 40 years. She has worked for 4 decades facilitating thousands of groups for women and teens. Additionally, Carol has devoted the last 2 decades to helping men and women manage their sex addiction and helping betrayed partners work through the trauma of sexual and relational betrayal. She is a well respected sex and relationship therapist to individuals and couples across the country and beyond. Carol completed her master's degree at the honorable institution, Indiana University School of Social Work. She is currently facilitating popular workshops on relationships both statewide and nationally. Carol does annual workshops for the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals. She is also a revered trainer for the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists and is a consultant for clinicians and coaches for APSATS. Carol believes in teaching people how to live their best lives in romance and in life in general. Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ ⁠http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers⁠ Find more on Carol: https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com Carol's books! This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    43 min

  5. 08/22/2025

    Understanding the Body's Role in Healing with Tabitha Westbrook

    In this episode of the Betrayal Recovery Radio podcast, Dr. Jake Porter speaks with Tabitha Westbrook, a licensed marriage and family therapist, about her personal journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and domestic violence. They discuss the importance of understanding the body in the healing process, the impact of trauma, and how to listen to one's body. Tabitha shares insights on navigating betrayal and abuse, reconnecting with oneself and others, and defining healthy sexuality. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and the importance of addressing both emotional and physical aspects of healing. APSATS.org APSATS.org/podcast drjakeporter.com More of Tabitha: https://www.tabithawestbrook.com https://thejourneyandtheprocess.com https://www.amazon.com/Body-Soul-Healed-Whole-Invitational/dp/1496490665 This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    46 min

  6. 08/15/2025

    The Complexity of Betrayal Anger with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck

    In this conversation, Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck discusses her book 'Betrayal, Trauma, Anger' with Dr. Jake Porter, focusing on the complex emotions surrounding betrayal trauma, particularly anger. They explore the unique nature of anger in betrayal situations, the impact of betrayal blindness and gaslighting, and the seven phases of managing anger. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-care, awareness, and rebuilding trust in oneself, while also addressing the role of the betrayer in the healing process. The conversation concludes with words of hope for those navigating the aftermath of betrayal. Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ ⁠http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers⁠ Find more of Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck: Website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCrystalHollenbeck Book: Betrayal Trauma Anger Book More: SCIP Protocol Betrayal Trauma Article in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy   This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    57 min

  7. 08/02/2025

    Emotional Betrayal DNA: Moving from Confusion to Clarity with Jill Pool

    In this episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, Dr. Jake Porter interviews Jill Pool, a certified professional coach, about the complexities of emotional betrayal. They explore the definitions, dimensions, and impacts of emotional betrayal, including emotional neglect and the nuances of emotional affairs. Jill shares her insights on the importance of clear communication and understanding in relationships, as well as the significance of validation and hope in the healing process for both betrayed and betraying partners. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness of emotional triggers and the steps necessary for recovery and rebuilding trust. As a Certified Professional Coach and APSATS Candidate, Jill Pool offers a unique blend of personal insight and professional expertise. With extensive personal experience, she's an invaluable resource for partners navigating betrayal recovery amidst challenges like homeschooling, special needs parenting, and the loss of a child. Driven by a passion to clarify emotional betrayal, she creates resources that help betrayed partners express themselves more effectively. As a Christian, Jill offers clients the chance to integrate their faith into their healing journey. Together with her husband Alonso, Jill co-owns and coaches at Hope in the Havoc, guiding individuals toward healing and restoration. She is also a contracted coach with Hope Redefined. As a homeschooling mom of 12, Jill knows the demands of balancing family life with recovery. When not coaching, she enjoys hiking and admiring sunsets along the tranquil Tennessee River Links: ⁠http://apsats.org⁠ ⁠http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers⁠ Find more of Jill: Website: hopeinthehavoc.com  Facebook: Hope in the Havoc  Instagram: @hopeinthehavoc  Email:  jill@hopeinthehavoc.com This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    44 min

  8. 07/24/2025

    Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness with Andrea Rogers

    In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, Dr. Jake Porter is joined by returning guest Andrea Rogers for a conversation that is as historic as it is healing. Andrea makes a major announcement: the official launch of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, a day dedicated to honoring the voices and validating the experiences of those impacted by intimate partner betrayal. This episode is filled with emotion, advocacy, and the unwavering belief that healing begins when truth is honored and justice starts with being heard. Whether you are a survivor, a clinician, or a loved one walking alongside someone in pain, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. APSATS.org APSATS.org/podcast drjakeporter.com helpafterbetrayal.com https://www.daringventures.com/andrea-rogers https://www.fullyalivecoachingllc.com This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

    56 min
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Betrayal is traumatic, and those who have been betrayed by partners living secret lives of sexual addiction deserve to be empowered and supported with knowledge and resources to allow them to move from shock through grief and into growth. On Betrayal Recovery Radio, our host, Dr. Jake Porter, lays out important topics for both sex addicts and their betrayed partners through conversations leading to hope and healing. Betrayal Recovery Radio is the official podcast of The Association of Partners of Sex Addict Trauma Specialists (apsats.org). Dr. Jake Porter can be reached at drjakeporter.com.

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