In this episode, Sarah sits down with author, board chair, and entrepreneur Victoria Tomlinson to explore what it means to redesign life, purpose, and work beyond full-time employment. From navigating late-career identity loss to understanding why opportunities don't just "tap you on the shoulder," Victoria shares practical insights from her decades in leadership, PR, and her book, Expiry Date Never. About the Guest: Victoria Tomlinson Victoria Tomlinson has built an eclectic career spanning over 35 years. After starting as the first female graduate trainee at what is now GE Aviation, selling banknotes internationally for De La Rue, and serving on the leadership team at EY, she launched her own PR consultancy in the North of England. She is the Founder and CEO of Next-Up, helping experienced professionals and organisations redesign unretirement and pre-retirement transitions. An early adopter of LinkedIn and a seasoned board chair, Victoria realised that senior professionals stepping away from full-time careers often struggle deeply with identity, direction, and relevance. Today, at nearly 71, she is an active advocate for experienced generations and co-authored Expiry Date Never alongside AI expert Louise to guide individuals, employers, and organisations through this life stage. Get Victoria's book: Grab your copy of Expiry Date Never: Age is Your Superpower on Amazon. Connect with Next-Up: Learn more about Victoria's work and corporate workshops at next-up.com. About the Episode Sarah and Victoria discuss the realities of career transitions, the dangers of assuming work will simply come to you, and the critical shift required to build opportunities. Key highlights include: The Bereavement of Leaving Work: Leaving full-time executive life can feel like grief. Victoria shares how high achievers often drop to the bottom of the emotional change curve, experiencing depression and loss of purpose when the corporate title disappears overnight. The "Tapped on the Shoulder" Myth: Senior professionals often believe that after leaving corporate roles or qualifying as coaches, their old firms or contacts will automatically hand them work. In reality, corporate procurement and HR already have rosters filled, making proactive entrepreneurial initiative essential. Having 100+ Coffees: Victoria highlights the value of exploratory curiosity—having dozens of conversations with broad networks (former classmates, sports clubs, extended communities) to understand new markets and spark serendipitous opportunities. Network Activation vs. Intentional Niche: Sarah and Victoria contrast using an established "black book" with building a coaching practice from scratch. While former senior executives can reactivate old networks for exploratory conversations, sustainable coaching practices require a clear, memorable niche rather than hoping general conversations turn into paid engagements. Stop Talking About Yourself: Promoting yourself isn't about bragging; it’s about solving problems and being genuinely curious about the other person. True marketing means understanding your target audience's problems and serving them with generosity and insight. "Nobody cares about us. They care about what we can do for them. And if we can remember that, we can succeed." — Sarah Join the Next Free "Nail Your Niche" Challenge:Experience live, robust conversations about positioning and commercial viability. Upgrade to the VIP option for three 60-minute group mentoring sessions with Sarah Short. Register now: Visit thecoachingrevolution.com/nailyourniche Have you enjoyed this episode? Find out more and take the FREE quiz at: https://thecoachingrevolutionquiz.com/Join the FREE Circle group at: https://the-coaching-revolution.circle.so/