The Examined Life

Kenneth Primrose
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The Examined Life podcast explores the questions we should be asking ourselves with a range of leading thinkers. Each episode features a different interview, and appeals to those interested in wisdom, personal development, and what it might mean to live a good life. Topics vary from discussing the role of dopamine mining and status anxiety, to exploring the science of awe and attention.

  1. Dr Lucy Hone - What has loss taught you?

    6D AGO

    Dr Lucy Hone - What has loss taught you?

    Send us Fan Mail Learning from Loss with Dr. Lucy Hone How do you survive the unthinkable? When resilience researcher Dr. Lucy Hone lost her 12-year-old daughter in a tragic accident, she didn't just study the science of grief—she had to live it. In this episode, Lucy joins Kenny Primrose to share the practical, evidence-based tools that help us oscillate between mourning and living, and what we can learn about life in the wake of loss. In This Episode: In this new series on grief and mortality, we explore why the "stages of grief" model often fails us and what actually works instead. Dr. Lucy Hone discusses her journey from the University of Pennsylvania’s resilience program to the frontlines of her own personal tragedy. Key Topics Discussed: The Myth of "Bouncing Back": Why we need a more pragmatic definition of resilience.The 3 Habits of Resilient Grievers: Simple, actionable shifts in attention that can change your trajectory.The "Helping or Harming" Test: A vital tool for psychological flexibility.The Jigsaw Metaphor: How to rebuild your life when the old pieces no longer fit.Hidden Grief: Understanding "non-death" losses and how to process them.About Lucy: Dr. Lucy Hone is a best-selling author, TED speaker, and co-director of the New Zealand Institute of Wellbeing & Resilience. Her work has been published in The Journal of Positive Psychology and featured in The Washington Post, BBC, and The Guardian. Resources Mentioned: Book: Resilient Grieving: How to Find Your Way Through a Devastating LossNew Book: How Will I Ever Get Through This? (On hidden and non-death grief)TED Talk: The Three Secrets of Resilient PeopleConnect with The Examined Life: Host: Kenny PrimroseWebsite: www.examined-life.comYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@ExaminedLifePodcastFollow & Subscribe on substack: https://thisexaminedlife.substack.com/ Support the series - buymeacoffee.com/kennyprimrose If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps others find these conversations. Support the show

    51 min
  2. Season Trailer - Mortality & Meaning

    MAR 23

    Season Trailer - Mortality & Meaning

    Send us Fan Mail A short trailer for the forthcoming season where we explore mortality, immortality, loss, grief and finding meaning in the wake of them.  In the above clip you'll hear snippets from Lucy Hone, BJ Miller, Kathryn Mannix and Victor Strecher - with other episodes to follow. Subscribe and stay tuned for the forthcoming episodes, and sign up to This Examined Life on Substack to receiving updates and related essays to your inbox - This Examined Life | kenneth primrose | Substack Support the show

    2 min

  3. FEB 10

    Flourishing in a Digital Age

    Send us Fan Mail We explore what human flourishing means beyond quick hits of happiness and how attention, character, and community shape a life with depth. We offer practical ways to set tech boundaries, recover presence, and build habits that support meaning and stronger relationships. • defining flourishing as purpose, virtue, health, relationships, and stability • attention as a moral act that shapes identity • flow states, boredom, and the role of friction in mastery • how persuasive tech erodes agency and presence • resilience, emotion regulation, and numbing versus feeling • presence and awe as markers of a meaningful life • community ties, shared rituals, and mutual flourishing • practical boundaries for phones and persuasive design • replacing screen time with calls, walks, craft, and rest If you enjoyed this, please send it to someone who might benefit; subscribe, leave a review. - For More information about the Digital Detox Club, click here - Home | The Digital Detox Club - To sign up for This Examined Life on Substack, click here - This Examined Life | kenneth primrose | Substack Music made by Moby (mobygratis - Free Moby music to empower your creative projects) Support the show

    43 min

  4. JAN 26

    Surviving Hard Times: The Stockdale Paradox And Everyday Resilience - ft. Terry Waite and Lucy Hone

    Send us Fan Mail We trace how realistic hope sustains people through captivity and crisis, from the Stockdale Paradox to Sir Terry Waite’s agency in confinement, and preview Dr. Lucy Hone's reframe of resilience as steering through rather than bouncing back. A brief, grounded message closes for anyone in a hard season, with a request to share and stay connected. • what the Stockdale paradox really means • why deadline‑based optimism breaks people • agency as daily practice under pressure • sir Terry Waite’s memory and interior freedom • resilience as steering through, not bouncing back • pragmatism, optimism, and agency as core tools • a preview of the conversation with dr Lucy Hone See if you can think of one person who you think might find this helpful, who might need to hear about optimism and pragmatism and finding agency in dark times Sign up to the Substack This Examined Life if you haven't done so already, where you can receive the newsletter and upcoming episodes and events, and leave a review on the podcast channel if you get the chance. Wherever you get your podcast, it really helps others to find it. Support the show

    8 min
  5. Victor Strecher - Who am I?

    JAN 2

    Victor Strecher - Who am I?

    Send us Fan Mail Living With Purpose: Insights from Victor Strecher In this episode of The Examined Life Podcast, host Kenny Primrose explores the profound questions of life's purpose and values with Professor Victor Strecher, a leading expert in the field from the University of Michigan. Strecher shares his deeply personal journey following the tragic death of his daughter, which led him to a renewed focus on what matters most in life. The conversation delves into how reflecting on death and one's core values can lead to a more purposeful and fulfilling life. Strecher also discusses the scientific and physiological benefits of having a strong sense of purpose, the distinction between self-transcending and self-aggrandizing purposes, and practical steps for individuals seeking to discover their own purpose. The episode touches on themes of identity, motivation, and the human condition, offering listeners profound insights and practical advice for living a more examined life. 00:00 Introduction: What Matters Most 00:34 Welcome to The Examined Life Podcast 00:44 Exploring Victor Strecher's 'Life On Purpose' 01:40 A Conversation with Professor Victor Strecher 03:35 The Big Question: Who Am I? 05:09 The Root System of Our Lives 08:09 A Personal Story of Loss and Purpose 14:15 The Mystical Experience and Its Impact 21:32 The Role of Death in Understanding Life 24:59 Exploring the Neuroscience of Purpose 25:26 The Role of Core Values in Purpose 26:16 Purpose and the Brain's Fear Center 26:53 Building the Brain's Purpose Muscle 28:08 Types of Purpose: Self-Transcending vs. Self-Aggrandizing 28:57 Historical Perspectives on Purpose 31:52 The Metaphor of the Camel, Lion, and Child 35:05 The Crisis of Meaning and Purpose 41:51 Practical Steps to Discovering Your Purpose 47:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections Links: Substack - https://thisexaminedlife.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips Examined Life Website - www.examined-life.com Victor Strecher - https://sph.umich.edu/faculty-profiles/strecher-victor.html Support the show

    49 min
  6. Sir Anthony Seldon - What is the purpose of education?

    12/15/2025

    Sir Anthony Seldon - What is the purpose of education?

    Send us Fan Mail Sir Anthony Seldon is one of the most influential voices in the UK on education. He has led three prominent independent school, and written or edited more than 40 books. In this episode we explore how education can honour what truly matters in a time when AI can outscore us on the tests we designed. Sir Anthony Seldon lays out a shift from human capital to human flourishing, urging schools to cultivate agency, character, and love of learning. • redefining the purpose of education toward human flourishing • harms of exam-driven systems and narrow metrics • every child’s unique gifts and “song” • AI exposing the limits of cognitive-only assessment • OECD’s human flourishing model and core competences • coaching pedagogy to build agency and judgment • practices for inner life, mindfulness, and body care • virtues and pro-social habits for a resilient future • choosing subjects you love to sustain motivation • balancing measurable outcomes with the immeasurable As ever, do please share this episode with others you think might like it or on social media Sign up for This Examined Life on Substack, where you can receive updates, bits of writing, and you can support the show Any feedback or ideas can be emailed to me at kp@examined-life.com Support the show

    44 min

  7. 12/08/2025

    LM Sacasas on why life should not be delegated

    Send us Fan Mail In this brief episode we explore a short soundbite from a previous episode with philosopher of technology LM Sacasas. In it we explore the way that efficiency and ease might give with one hand, while taking with the other.  - check out the previous episode in full here -  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/michael-sacasas-what-should-we-be-doing-for-ourselves/id1680728280?i=1000705506079 - LM Sacasas substack here - https://substack.com/@theconvivialsociety - This Examined Life substack here - https://thisexaminedlife.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips Support the show

    6 min

  8. 12/01/2025

    Leaning into Pain with Anna Lembke

    Send us Fan Mail Comfort is easy; appetite is sacred. We trace a surprising path to steadier happiness by leaning, gently but deliberately, into friction. Drawing on psychiatrist Anna Lembke’s insight that our modern environment is addictogenic, we look at how endless convenience and constant dopamine nudges can flatten mood, fog attention, and leave us restless. Then we put the theory to the test with a cold North Sea dip—short, sharp, and strangely joyful on the other side. Across the conversation, we unpack why the human nervous system needs stress in measured doses. Think hormesis: brief, voluntary challenges like hard exercise, short fasts from alcohol or sugar, or cold exposure that nudge the brain into balance and rebuild resilience. A greenhouse tree grows fast but topples without wind; without resistance, we also lose inner structure. By choosing small hardships, we earn the afterglow—a calmer baseline, cleaner focus, and a renewed appetite for simple pleasures. We also explore practical ways to invite healthy stress without going extreme. Start with one constraint you can keep this week, and notice the shift: food tastes better, sleep deepens, and mornings feel less rushed. The aim isn’t suffering for its own sake; it’s recalibrating reward so that life’s ordinary moments become vivid again. If abundance has dulled your edge, a little voluntary discomfort can turn the volume back down on noise and up on meaning. If this resonates, follow along for more short reflections, share the episode with a friend who needs a reset, and join our Substack community for deeper dives. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what small hardship will you choose this week? Support the show

    8 min
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The Examined Life podcast explores the questions we should be asking ourselves with a range of leading thinkers. Each episode features a different interview, and appeals to those interested in wisdom, personal development, and what it might mean to live a good life. Topics vary from discussing the role of dopamine mining and status anxiety, to exploring the science of awe and attention.

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  • Creator
    Kenneth Primrose
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Examined Life
  • Show Website
    The Examined Life

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