Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
  • 4.9 (9)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 10h ago

    Finding Love Feels Hopeless? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx PS And if you don't want to wait a whole week between steps, come join us inside Loved With Emily, where we get you back on track to find love (following the one rule love does, of course!). 💕 Loved With Emily: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    8 min

  2. 1d ago

    How To Actually Move On After Heartbreak

    Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks... While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later? You're wondering what happened. What you did "wrong". Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said. Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been 💔 Whether you're struggling to move on after a breakup, a situationship, being ghosted, rejected or you're simply heartbroken that you haven't found love yet... This episode is for you 😘 Because the reason it's so hard to move on, time doesn't seem to "heal your wounds" and you just can't stick to no contact... Actually has very little to do with the man you've lost or the relationship that's ended. And way more to do with what's happening under all the emotional pain you're feeling. In this episode you'll discover: ✔️ Why you're wasting your time if you're waiting for time to heal your wounds ✔️ Why most breakup advice is impossible to actually follow ✔️ Why the same heartbreak keeps happening time and time again ✔️ What's really keeping you stuck after rejection, disappointment and heartbreak ✔️ The deeper work that allows you to truly let go and find love If you've ever found yourself unable to fully move on after heartbreak or wondering why heartbreak seems to hit you harder than everyone else... Hit play now 🎧 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    19 min

  3. Jun 21

    This Week's Love Note: Love Wants You To Do This

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    5 min

  4. Jun 20

    Love Does't Feel Like This

    For sure, dating can royally suck 😫 It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak. You get your hopes up. Put yourself out there. Try to say positive. And then you always end up back at “square one”. It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is. That finding love is HARD. The struggle is just part of the process. …but what if that isn’t actually true? 🤔   In this episode, I challenge one of the biggest (and most detrimental) assumptions that single women over 30 make about dating and finding love.  It might sound a little insane!! But challenging this assumption is the ONLY way you find love from here. If dating feels like a never-ending struggle that only leads to more struggle. 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now.  👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    13 min

  5. Jun 17

    “I Have So Much Love To Give… So Why Am I Still Single?”

    You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single?? Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣 And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. Yet somehow, you’re still single?!?!? WTF?!?! 🥺 In this episode, I explain why. I share the realization (and most mortifying dating experiences) I had that got me back on track to actually find love. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not loving enough. It isn’t that all the genuine, decent, available men are taken. It’s just that you don’t realize you’re chasing something that makes it hard to find real, lasting love. Inside this episode you'll hear: Why some of the kindest, most loving women struggle the longest to find loveWhat you’re actually chasing when you want a man, the relationship and loveWhy emotionally unavailable men can feel so addictiveWhy you get pulled into breadcrumbs, situationships and casual relationships you KNOW are BSWhy having "so much love to give" isn't actually what creates loveHow to stop the chase that’s keeping you single And what gets you back on track to actually find love. If you've ever found yourself wondering: "Why am I still single when I’m a kind, loving woman with a whole lotta love to give?" This episode is for you 😘 🎧 Press play now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    17 min

  6. Jun 14

    This Week's Love Note: Stop Letting Dating Decide If You Find Love

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    7 min

  7. Jun 13

    The Sign You’re Not Doomed To Be Single

    When you want love but you’ve been single for years… You’ve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice… It can feel like you’re “doomed to be single”. For real 💔😔 All you want is to know if love it’s meant for you. If it’s still possible. So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going. Often the hardest part of being single, isn’t being single. It’s not knowing if love will actually happen for you. You don’t know if what you’re doing to find love will eventually pay off. Or if it’s just a waste of your time. You don’t know whether you’re on the right track at all. It feels like you’re riding blind, just hoping things somehow work out for you. You don’t know if you’re wasting your time. Or if you should’ve given up on love years ago.  This episode gives you the certainty in love you’ve been looking for. The sign that tells you really simple whether you’re moving towards love… or away from it. And why dating becomes so much easier when you have this kind of guidance. In this episode you’ll learn: The biggest sign you're moving closer to love (or further away from it)The real reason love gets harder to find the longer you’ve been datingThat you feel “doomed to be single” is because you’re looking at the wrong thingsWhy feeling hopeless about love isn’t proof you are “doomed to be single”How to create certainty around love yourself and get on track to find it. If love feels impossible to find because dating never goes the way you want it to, this episode will feel like a huge exhale. Utter relief 😮‍💨 🎧 Hit play to listen now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💖 Episodes to listen to next:  Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    20 min

  8. Jun 7

    This Week's Love Note: Your Dating Experiences Aren't Random

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get everything you need to follow the one rule love does and attract your man inside: LOVED WITH EMILY  The trusted tools, practices, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love. ✅ Attract YOUR Man ✅ The Loved Up Weeks ✅ The Loved With Emily Community Join Loved With Emily here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min
See All (50)

4.9
out of 5
9 Ratings

About

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

Information

  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

You Might Also Like