Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
  • 4.9 (9)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 1d ago

    This Week's Love Note: Your Dating Experiences Aren't Random

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min

  2. 2d ago

    How To Feel Safe With The Men You’re Dating

    Dating can feel scary. Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions. But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 🫣 Let your guard down. Believe they're who they say they are. And hope you've got it right 🤞 What if you miss the red flags? What if you trust the wrong man? What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishing you'd listened to yourself sooner? It's a horrible position to be in. Because you want love. But you also want to feel safe. And it can feel like in order to have love, you have to leap at some point and just hope the man you’re on a date with, or dating seriously has the best intentions. Thankfully, that's not your only option. Because feeling safe with the man or men you’re dating isn’t actually about putting your trust in men. It’s about leaning more fully into something you already have access to and that prioritizes what’s right for YOU above all else. In this episode you’ll see: Why trusting men isn’t the goal you want if you’re dating to find loveWhat makes it easier to spot red flags and see through all the dating BSAnd actually walk away when you first see them 🚩How smart women accidentally hand their trust to the wrong menConditions that make it easier to spot the men who do have the best intentions. If you’re a woman who’s dating, this is an episode you NEEEED to take the time to listen to. Because your safety is what matters most 😘 and this is how you ensure it. 🎧 Episodes to listen next: How To Find Love Without Using The Dating Apps ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    20 min

  3. May 31

    This Week’s Love Note: Why Dating Feels Harder The Longer You’re Single

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    8 min

  4. May 30

    How To Find Love Without Using Dating Apps

    How do you find love when you absolutely hate or just don’t want to use dating apps? When they make you feel judged, exhausted, hopeless or like finding love has somehow turned into one giant meat market?? Maybe you deleted and redownloaded the apps 100 times. Maybe you force yourself back on them because you feel like you “should.” Or because you’re scared if you don’t, you’ll never meet your person. This episode is for the single woman over 30 who’s exhausted by dating apps. But also terrified that without them, love won’t happen. Here’s the thing no one’s made clear to you yet: 👉 Dating apps are NOT your ticket to love. They weren't designed to be. And if you’ve been treating them like they are… Then that explains why dating feels so endlessly disappointing, discouraging and confusing. In this episode, I break down: Situations where dating apps make it harder for you to find loveThe massive misunderstanding about dating apps that keeps women singleWhy dating more doesn’t make love happen faster The reason some women find love fast while others are stuck dating for years How to know what the right action is for you to take to meet your man and find love The unexpected place you’ll find this information If you’ve been too scared to stop using the apps because then “WTF do I even do?!?!?” How will love happen?! This episode will give you the answer you’ve been looking for. Maybe love was never about swiping harder… Maybe it’s always been about finally understand how love really happens. ✨ PLUS: I also share a personal BTS story about an unexpected turn of events in my work and life over the last 6 months that illustrates perfectly how a path to your biggest desires really unfolds. If dating has left you feeling hopeless, exhausted and unable to see how love will ever happen for you… 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode now… it’ll help! 💖 LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE NEXT: You’ve Been Set Up To Stay Single  ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    25 min

  5. May 24

    This Week’s Love Note: Sneaky Ways You’re Pushing Away Love

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 🎧 Episodes to listen to next: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") Love Is Simpler Than You Think (Here's What You've Been Missing ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    6 min

  6. May 23

    You've Been Set Up To Stay Single

    It’s not like you haven’t tried… You’ve followed all the dating advice. You’ve tried healing your “anxious attachment”. You’ve been more in your feminine energy. You’ve swiped on the apps. You’ve treated dating like a “numbers game”. You’ve done your best to stay position. You’ve even tried to stop caring. …so WHY THE F🤬 does love still feel so hard to find?!?! These are the BIG question this episode answers: 👉 Why does dating leave so many smart, self-aware, kind women feeling so exhausted, fearful, hopeless and disconnected from themselves and love? 👉 Why does it seem like the women who try the hardest to find love, are often the women who are single the longest?! In this episode, we go DEEP into a conversation every single, single woman over 30 who wants love needs to hear. What if the very advice you’ve been told will help you find love… Is actually the thing keeping you stuck, single, doubting yourself, obsessing over what you’re going “wrong”, and feeling like love’s not meant for someone like you? If you’ve ever: Felt completely burned out by datingWondered why love seems easy for other women but not youFelt like dating has slowly chipped away at your confidenceSpent years trying to “fix” yourself so someone finally chooses youFelt scared that love just isn’t going to happen for you… 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode NOW!! Because this episode explains ALLLLL of this super clearly and what actually needs to happen from here if you want to get off the merry-go-round of dating and into real, lasting love.  ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    16 min

  7. May 17

    This Week’s Love Note: Let Love Catch Up

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    5 min

  8. May 16

    “No One Looks At You When You’re 41 And Still Single”

    If you’re a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you… This episode is for you. There’s a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place... Your friends are married. Having babies. Established lives with their partners. Meanwhile you’re trying your best to hold onto the hope of love, while dating feels flatter, harder and more discouraging than ever… It feels like men don’t really see you anymore. That younger women are what men your age want. That as time ticks on you only become less desirable, less valuable, less important. Inside this episode I break down the story so many single women over 35 have unknowingly absorbed about themselves, love, aging and their worth. And why this story changes the way you date, the men you attract, your relationships and life generally, without you even realizing. Because what if the problem was never you or your age? 👉 What if you’ve simple been seeing yourself through a lens that disconnects you from love entirely?! Inside this episode you’ll see: The real reason finding love feels harder the older you getThe story so many single women over 30 accept that changes the way you see yourselfAnd how this affects the way you feel, your confidence and all your dating experiencesWhat needs to change for women 40 to find loveAnd the immediate flow on effect this has on datingWhy women become more magnetic with age (and how to amplify this to attract the right man)The power you have to change how men respond to you And there’s also a simple exercise for you to do this week that challenges you to see yourself and love in a way you never have before. 🎧 Hit play and listen now!    💖 Episodes to listen to next: “There’s Nothing Embarrassing About Wanting Love” "Is Getting Harder To Hold Onto Hope I'll Ever Find Love" 38, Single And Feeling Forgotten? Listen To This ✨ Join our first LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE: A 5-day emotional reset for women who've wanted love for years, but it stillllll hasn't happened 😔 Feel that weight lift, calmer, more hopeful and certain about love again... Because that's the ONLY way love can happen for you from here. June 22-26 2026 CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 💞 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN: To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   💌 CONNECT WITH ME: Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

    15 min
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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