Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 9H AGO

    Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2

    We’re answering the BIG question you have when you’re a woman dating in her 30s, 40s or 50s:   “Why am I still single… even thought I’ve done everything right?”   This episode gives you that answer. Clearly. Finally!!!   In Part 1 of this series (you can catch up on that here) you saw how the way you feel (or your energy) has been shaping your dating experiences and the quality of men you attractive.   Inside this episode we go deeper.   To the root of why you haven’t got any closer to meeting the right man or love, no matter how much you want it, how hard you try or what you do…   The beliefs you hold in your subconscious mind. And how aligned (or not) they are with love.   This is where EVERYTHING finally clicks.   And you’ll see exactly what dating more, swiping on apps, trying to be less “anxiously attached”, thinking more positively were never going to work if real, lasting love is what you want.   Inside this episode, I walk you through a short, practical exercise that shows you:   The exact “unloving” subconscious beliefs currently shaping your love lifeHow you brain is always working to prove your beliefs to be trueWhy the same patterns play out for you in dating and in the type of men you attractThe simple steps to rewire your beliefs for love so you break out of these patterns and into love.  👉 Click HERE to download the exercise.   This is the piece most single women over 30 are missing.   It is the reason it’s felt like you’ve been doing everything “right” and still getting nowhere.   By the end of this episode, you’ll see exactly why love’s been so hard for you to find. And more importantly, you’ll have the clear, simple steps that change this so that you finally find love.   Be sure you follow/subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss the EFT session I have planned for you!   💖 To learn more about the one rule love follows, click below to listen to: 🎧 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1   🎧 Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") 🎧 Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here’s What You’ve Been Missing READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    21 min

  2. 3D AGO

    This Week’s Love Note: For When Dating Makes You Feel Like You’re Not Enough

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    6 min

  3. 4D AGO

    Why You Attract The "Boring" Men You’re Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern)

    You keep attracting boring men you’re just not attracted too… There’s no chemistry. No spark. No real attraction. Definitely nothing exciting. While the men you actually want, don’t want you back. You might feel the chemistry, the spark, the attraction. But they’re no interested, don’t choose you or aren’t interest in the kind of relationship you want. This isn’t back luck. It’s not because “all the good men are taken.” Or your only option is to settle for okay. This isn’t random. There’s a reason that this keeps happening in your dating life, especially if you’re dating in your 30s or 40s. The 3 steps you’ll find inside this episode that will break this pattern for good… So, you can finally attract the whole package man (kind, genuine, consistent AND attractive AF!!!) Inside this episode, you’ll learn: Why you attract men you’re not attracted toWhy you the spark feels so hard to find in dating (and what it really means)Why you’re drawn to men who don’t choose youThe subconscious beliefs that shape who you attractHow dating culture in 2026 has it ALLLLLL wrong (if you want love)The counter-intuitive approach to dating that speeds love up3 steps to break this pattern so you can finally find love 🎧 Press play now to finally understand why attracting the right man has felt so hard for so long. And get the steps that make attracting the right ones so much easier! 💖 Episodes to listen to next: 🎧 Why Love Feels So Hard to Find (Even When You’ve Done Everything Right) 🎧 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love (Part 1) 🧲 Other episodes in the "Why You Attract..." series: Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    24 min

  4. MAR 22

    This Week's Love Note: For When You're Exhausted By Dating

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    7 min

  5. MAR 21

    Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern)

    If you’re single woman in your 30s or 40s and feel invisible to men, there’s nothing happening in your dating life, then this episode is for you. It might be months (or even years) of: No matches. No real conversations. Definitely no dates. Just a quiet, empty feeling like love is happening for everyone else, but not for you. Where you’re wondering: Is something wrong with me? Have I missed my chance? Is love just “not meant” for me?   Inside this episode, you’ll see the real reason why you feel invisible to men, and why the usual dating advice (swiping on apps, putting yourself out there, trying harder) won’t fix this. The truth is, you’re not doing anything wrong. You’ve just been stuck in a pattern no one has show you how to break, until now.  Inside this episode, you’ll learn: Why you don’t meet or match with menWhat happens when you’re unknowingly in the “waiting room for love”The real reason dating feels quiet, stagnant and nothing ever changesThe subconscious beliefs that shape your dating experience (without you realising it)Why it’s often the thoughtful, kind, caring women who end up in this exact patternWhat “love follows love” actually means in real lifeThe exact 3 steps to attract men who see you, choose you, and want the loving, committed relationship you do. So that you finally understand why you’ve felt invisible to men and give you clear steps to finally break out of this pattern so you can find love too. 💖 Episodes in this “Why You Attract…” series: Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men (And How To Break The Pattern) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    23 min

  6. MAR 18

    “It’s Getting Harder To Hold Onto Hope I’ll Ever Find Love”

    If you’ve been dating for years and still haven’t find love, it naturally becomes harder to hold onto the hope that love will happen for you. It can feel like life and all your dating experiences so far are telling you that your chance of finding love is rapidly diminishing. And as much as you want to hold onto hope, it feels like it just keeps slipping through your fingers. If this how you feel, then what you’ll hear in this episode will help. Because here’s the truth about hope: Hope isn’t actually what will get you into the loving, lasting relationship you want. And the reason it feels so hard to hold onto, isn’t because you’re doing anything wrong or love’s not meant for you. It’s because you’ve simply been taught to look for love in a way that was never going to work in the first place. Inside this episode, we go deeper than the usual conversations about hope that say “just stay positive” or “don’t give up”. You’ll see: Why your dating experiences have slowly destroyed your belief in loveThe real reason it feels harder to stay hopeful the longer you’re singleWhat’s actually happening beneath the surface (that most dating advice ignores)Why trying more dating strategies, tips or tricks, swiping on apps never changes anythingAnd the shift that changes everything from “I hope love happens” → “I’m certain it will”  Because when you understand how love really works, you don’t need hope anymore. You'll finally have something much more powerful. This episode will help you move out of: Feeling like love is slipping further away each yearConstant dating disappointments because it never goes anywhereQuestioning if it’s “too late” for you to find love or if love’s not meant for you And into: An entirely new way of seeing your past dating experiencesClarity on why dating hasn’t worked for you yetA grounded, steady sense that love is still fully possible for you 💖 Episodes to listen to next: 🎧 Why Love Feels So Hard to Find (Even When You’ve Done Everything Right) 🎧 Maybe Love’s Not Meant For Me 🎧 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love (Part 1) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    21 min

  7. MAR 15

    This Week’s Love Note: For When You’re Scared You’ll Never Find Love

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. 💖 Listen to next: Episode: What’s Actually Keeping You Single Over 30 (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) Love always, Em xx READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    8 min

  8. MAR 14

    Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern)

    There’s nothing more frustrating that continually attracting men who seem interested… and then they slowly pull away, ghost you or tell you they’re not looking for anything serious. The men who will text constantly but never ask you on an actual date. The ones who say you’re great but they aren’t looking for “anything serious”. The 3-month situationships that leave you heartbroken and confused. It can feel like every man you meet is emotionally unavailable or avoidant. It’s hard not to wonder: Why do I only attract emotionally unavailable men?Are there any decent men left?Why does this keep happening to me? But here’s the truth most dating advice never explains… Attracting these men? It isn’t random. There are very specific reasons some single women in their 30s and 40s continually these attract emotionally unavailable or avoidant men. Once you understand these reasons, this pattern becomes surprisingly easy to break. In this episode, I walk you through: The 3 unexpected (and unfortunately common) reasons you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant menThe root cause that dating advice won’t tell youWhy dating strategies, or trying harder to find better men doesn’t workThe 3 steps that will stop you attracting emotionally unavailable men for goodAnd that make meeting consistent, loyal, genuine men a given. None this will change by itself. So if you’re sick of attracting emotionally unavailable avoidant men and the confusion, disappointment and frustration that goes along with them. Hit play on this episode now. And in just 25 minutes you finally understand why it keeps happening and how to finally attract the men you DO want to date.  💖 Listen to next: Episode: What’s Actually Keeping You Single Over 30 (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) 💖 Other episodes in the "Why You Attract..." series: Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    27 min
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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